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@ztyle

By the way, i do not like that title "Mrs." because I am not married at all!

Fine with me that you think my method is outdated despite of NEW VERSION 8.1. By the way I use Windows XP pro, not WINDOWS VISTA!

Good luck! Most Nigerians use outdated Yahoo Messenger version 5 even I sent them updated Yahoo Messenger download newer version link while we chat IM, Nigerians ignore my request.

If you develop multiple websites from hosting server, all you need is to add a virtual host to httpd.conf and let windows HOSTS file know about it. It is found at Apache httpd.conf somewhere. The code like this:

<VirtualHost *> 
ServerName yourdomain 
DocumentRoot /home/yourdomain/public_html/ 
ScriptAlias /cgi-bin/ /home/yourdomain/public_html/cgi-bin/ 
</VirtualHost>

Google to find more info about Virtual host configuration on Apache server.

So I believe that your WAMP control manager has its own built-in Virtual Host configuration the day you were first time installed them on your computer or laptop. I did that which it prompted asking me what my virtual host is, nice manager configuration. Be sure that your WAMP version updated.

For PHP code for Search Bar (engine):
I assume that you are familiar with PHP and MySQL in order to write PHP script to parse your search bar MySQL code on the website.

Which means you have to create your own MySQL database, search form, and search code in order to make your search bar functionally.

Here is tutorial of PHP search script the following link at below:

http://php.about.com/od/phpwithmysql/ss/php_search.htm

For e-Commerce website: (online shopping site with MasterCard/VISA/other payment transactions)

You must be register one of any eCommerce merchant account site such as PayPal, Interswitch, osCommerce, other in order to get their own payment script installed on your domain/URL such as PRODUCT WEB PAGE section (product.html).

Those eCommerce merchant account site, you will need to access obtaining free HTML SCRIPT of READY-TO-USE "add to cart" and "view cart" buttons individually to be added to your PRODUCT WEB PAGE where you want to insert. Of course, you still need to fill out every field questions inside "add to cart"/"view button" button script that will automatically convert to HTML for you to be copied and pasted into your PRODUCT WEB PAGE section.

PLEASE DO NOT TEST your PRODUCT WEB PAGE after buttons installed, because THIS IS REAL LIVE eCommerce site.

Or you can use eCommerce merchant account developer script (entire package, sometime called API or IPN), you join its developer site to install API or IPN adding to your website.

The reason why should you register for eCommerce account, is because it is your account with your own bank or credit card account receiving payment transactions by customers who order your product which merchant account take care for you---check credit background to ensure IT IS NOT A FRAUD for you. It is included MasterCard, VISA, Discover, eCheck to deduct sending directly to your bank account or your credit card account. It notify you by email or text message that payment made in full so you can send PRODUCT directly to customer 24-48 hours. It also notify you if payment is failed or FRAUD, that way you won't send PRODUCT directly to customer.

The payment transactions from eCommerce to be transfered fund directly to your bank/credit card account is NOT A FREE!, normally you will get eCommerce monthly bill statement from them you must pay for it.

I hope this is not complex for you. If it is not your bag, then HIRE EXPERIENCED WEB DEVELOPER to do the job for you.

You can upload your PHP script to your cPanel account with your cPanel username/password to click the icon of "FILE MANAGER" to upload your PHP file there, it is the same function the way you use for FTP account.(non-cPanel)

It must be the same HTML directory folder where you already upload your template-based website you mentioned your previously posting of cPanel access.

MS WORD and MS FRONTPAGE are not free! Go computer village if they sell software package, buy MS WORD and MS FRONTPAGE separated individually or entire student or business MS OFFICE professional (not sure which one but be sure MS FRONTPAGE is included on that package of MS OFFICE suite)

I prefer using 7zip, free zip compression software that is googled. Just type on the google's empty search field box: "7zip download" without a quote.

If you cannot afford buying MS WORD and MS FRONTPAGE, then google to find free HTML authoring and alternative of MS OFFICE is OPENOFFICE, a MS Office cloned software that is produced by the SUN (JAVA founder). Link below:
http://www.openoffice.org/

It is more likely your hard disk drive (HDD) or motherboard is going to be crashed anytime sooner. Please take your Dell system to computer technician to look at your DELL SYSTEM before HDD/motherboard crash ASAP!!!

DON'T WAIT TOO LONG!!!

blacklion:
please how can i copy text from a pdf document to use in word? thanks my pipul!!!

Go buy commerical (not free) Adobe Acrobat professional that allows opening any EXISTED PDF document you want to copy only text from a pdf document. Some has protected PDF document that prompts opening dialog message to ask for password access, it means you cannot open that protected PDF document file that is belonged to the original PDF developer/author who assigned the password locked for his/her security reason.

Or PDF document with free downloaded Adobe Reader has the capability of copy and paste the text from a pdf document- - - just drag the highlight of the text to be copied then pasting them to your word document. I say some works, some don't work!

I assume that you are the authorized owner/administration of your domain name: modospot.com and the authorized website administration of your cPanel with your own cPanel username and cPanel password, sometimes called FTP account (FTP username/password the same as cPanel account). Also you are either beginner or experienced webmaster to modify your own template-based website using HTML scripting (coding).

If you are familiar with scripting HTML to be modified your template-based website at modospot.com, then you can access using "FILE MANAGER". The file manager enables you to upload, modify, move, copy, create and delete files and folders through a web browser much the same as you can via FTP software.

If you want to add subdomain to your website: modospot.com, this subdomain enables you to create sub domains on your account. For example http://subdomain.yourdomain.com This can be useful if your company has different departments which you want to brand individually.

Creating a New Sub Domain

Simply enter the name of the sub domain you wish to create, check the correct domain is selected in the drop-down menu and click the Add button.

Setting Up Re-Direction

You can have a sub domain automatically re-direct the visitor to any other domain you specify using this option.

Simply select the sub domain you wish to add re-direction too and click the Setup Redirection button. Enter the URL of the site you wish to re-direct to and click the Save button.

For example http://yourbusinessowner_company.yourdomain.com., This subdomain is also useful if your potential business owner cannot afford buying domain name and hosting server which you can add your business owner's company to your account to be branded individually. Great for your family and friend who want their own website individually, for example http://yourbrother.yourdomain.com, http://yoursister.yourdomain.com, or http://yourfriend.yourdomain.com, goes on.

====== My Comment from my experience =======
That is where you come in making money to market your target audience who need web designer creating their website but not able to afford buying domain names/hosting service. Your target audience hires you and pay your subdomain account accessing their own FTP account under your cPanel account.
====== End of My Comment ================

Source Site of cPanel tutorial guide: http://www.cpanelguide.net/. This is unoffical guide site.  Just click on a menu item to see the associated article. When you finish read the article, return to cPanel main menu, just click the button of "house" icon.

@curlyS

Check out the existing threads you would like to learn at below:

Nigerian Slangs
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-1167.0.html

Teach Me Naija Slang Please
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-104810.0.html

Also my favorite Yoruba-English dictionary sites at below:

http://www.nigeriandictionary.com/index.php

http://www.ngex.com/personalities/babawilly/dictionary/default.htm

No, I don't miss my exs who broke my heart or gave me miserable.

Only i miss my platonic male friends, who leave me behind, on fond memories!!! Suddenly surprise to reach me alternative communication to catch the lost we had.

LOL, "Olive Juice" i like that.

Back in old good school days, i joked lip-reading to my deaf friend WITHOUT USING SIGN LANGUAGE, "I LOVE FOOD". My deaf friend responded me back in sign language, "I LOVE YOU, TOO!".

That means my deaf friend is not GOOD LIP-READING to understand what i say. LOL!!

For example, you would create new HTML directory folder named "engine" and upload abc.html (should be index.html or default.html) on that "engine" folder by accessing on your web hosting control panel or FTP software. (SEE PICTURE BELOW)

You would type the following URL that appears ALONE like this "www.yourdomainname.com/engine"

https://www.webscribble.com/products/webdate/doc.shtml_files/image002.jpg

You also can rename the HTML directory folder "engine" to "advice" the same folder.

What if your man has knee medical condition not allowing to get down on his knee giving you marriage proposal? Are you still disrespect him?

What if your man has cast on both knee assigned to his wheelchair not able to get down on his knee, will you still disrespect him?

What if your man is elderly with fragile bone not able to get down on his knee, will you still disrespect him?

Think about it!

@TOPIC
Not necessary! Video or Phone or SMS or Email marriage proposal all not required to kneel down!

I suggest you research more info about Solar Energy on the following existing threads in order to prepare yourself drafting your own business proposal submission to the international microfinance investment firm at below:

Solar For Africa: Nanosolar ships First batch of Inexpensive Solar Panels
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-115123.0.html

Genverter: Generator And Inverter In One Piece
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-7457.0.html

Why Is Solar Power Not Commonly Used In Nigeria?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-48165.0.html

Energy Policy: Non-existent In Nigeria?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-93724.32.html

Solar Panel/inverters/ Charge Controller
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-118420.0.html

GOOD LUCK!

I do not know which web browser you are use: Windows XP or Vista. I assume it should work FINE either way at below.

FIRST REGISTER YOUR NEW YAHOO MESSENGER SCREENNAME before DOWNLOAD:

FREE DOWNLOAD: Yahoo! Messenger (newer version 8.1) link below:

http://messenger.yahoo.com/

MOBILE YAHOO! MESSENGER: If your cellphone or PDA has built-in web browser, you can type URL on your phone's browser at below:

m.yahoo.com

If you do not want DOWNLOAD Yahoo Messenger, you can access Yahoo! Messenger on the web at below:

http://webmessenger.yahoo.com/

After complete download, there are THREEE WAYS how to launch your Yahoo! Messenger:

1) Your Yahoo! Messenger icon on your desktop screen looks like this:

https://cws.internet.com/img/screenshots/icon-yahoo.gif


2) Your Favorite Web Browser toolbar with Yahoo! Messenger looks like this:

https://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/tb/download/ss_get_it_now_2.png

**If you do not have Yahoo toolbar shown above, FREE DOWNLOAD Yahoo! Toolbar below:
http://toolbar.yahoo.com/

3) Click your "START BUTTON", you will see the pop-up menu showing "YAHOO! MESSENGER" to be selected that will launch YAHOO! Messenger automatically.

For me there is nothing wrong with a guy having lot of girlfriends as platonic friendship, no sex involved.

For me, it is nothing wrong for a girl having lot of boyfriends as platonic friendships, no sex involved!

Needlelady:
Girl, your help comes from above, thank God you are a woman for we can stay cormfortably without men, it's only men that cannot stay cormfortably without women.

Amen! My favorite bible scripture: Proverbs 3:5-6 says at below:

⁵ Trust the Lord completely! Don't depend on your own knowledge.

⁶ Think about God in all that you do. Then he will help you.

I don't listen junk western media as well as Winfrey Oprah is never be my fan for a long time!

Tomorrow at USA time zone, THANK GOD IT WILL BE FRIDAY! Hurry up! hurry up! hurry up!!

I was born hearing until age 18 months became deaf caused by wrong ear infection medicine that was designated for adult. I was just toddler!

At that time, my parent were poverty not able to afford sending me to special education school in the city far away from my farming rural area that was one hour driving trip. The major hospital sponsored paying fully education and transportation tuition from age 3 (preschool at city church property) until age 22 (college graduation).

ONE THING I LEFT OUT, i also was deaf bible study teacher teaching 6 deaf members learning more about bible and christianity lifestyle at deaf members' home taking turning every Wednesday until I LEFT MY CHURCH last year.

My deafness doe not hinder me to do everything God already assigned me his God-given gifts: teaching, exhortating/administrative (tied score), and serving. I am just human being like everyone else except cannot hear at all!!! I wear a pair of behind-the-ear hearing aids picking up alert sounds like dog barks, car horn blow, emergency sirens, phone high-volumed ring, door knocked.

I have special devices around my house that alert me when doorbell or phone ring, the lamp flashing.

I can talk well, but not perfect. I had been speech therapy since age 3. I am talented and gifted child with avid reader early at age 4 which school librarian and kindergarten teacher hardly believed me. I never forgot that experienced I grew up enriched educational in the city my parent took me gratefully.

Needlelady:
How well are they teaching you when they can't even practice what they preach? Common, this is a woman that had a $1M  celebrity wedding, what happened to humility that should be seen among christians? christians  in America are more interested in achieving the celebrity status than worshipping God and it's a pity. Can't you see the difference? Most Nigerian pastors have imbibed that lifestyle and praytell, you'll soon see the murky waters they'll run into.

I can see the difference among adulterated church that I LEFT MY CHURCH FOR GOOD last year 2007! I lost interested in celebrity pastors (T D Jakes, Eddie Long, and other who came to my major city conference I went THREE TIMES a year under FREE VIP deaf reserved seats in the front of its pulipt) too long before Evangelist Juanita Brynum and Paula White filed for divorce.

I was also invloved in deaf choir ministry and deaf outreach ministry at that church that had been travelled to the MOVIE STAR/SINGER'S hometown in NEW JERSEY to perform our deaf gospel songs in SIGN LANGUGAGE as well as Kennedy Center in Washington DC, we did met several celebrities by wearing VIP backstages.

THE REASON I LEFT CHURCH is because hearing pastor SHUT US DOWN not allowing what we deaf members want running our deaf ministry to establish our own deaf ministry leadership workshop outside our church in the quality of educating all other hearing churche congregations that does not have deaf ministry service for deaf congregations. We have our own deaf licensed pastor who is female. Our pastor worried about THUNDER STRIKE AMONG US deaf members outside our church. . extremely overprotective us!!!

All of us 8 deaf members are certified Evangelists that was taught by our hearing church's Church Bible institute! But 6 of them are low-English level just like Nigerian illiterates. Only two of us are me and deaf licensed female pastor.

You all should make aware the fact that there are 95% unsaved deaf populuation in the USA. Sad!!! Many deaf people DO NOT KNOW ABOUT JESUS!!!

Needlelady:
Sorry, i didnt know you have a medical condition but I'd advice you NEVER to show a man any sign of desperation because he'll be out to take advantage of you. Try and live happily above these things and pray without ceasing because God has someone out there for you.

I asked you about the sex because you said you'll have to wait till your ex husband dies before remarrying and it kind of contradicts the latter statement because if you can't stay off sex outside marriage but keep the law of not remarrying, it doesnt make any difference. I left college without dating courtesy of my parents an since then, I've been dating only one man. I admit that we sometimes need a companion but no companion in this world is comparable to Jesus.

I am not the type of desperation. . . i WAS TOLD BY most men find me attractive, humility, open-minded, no drama, no materistic, nice characteristics and entrepreneurship that is NUMBER ONE KEYS to them, but ONE FLAW is my DEAFNESS!!!

Only one thing they took advantage of me is MY INTELLIGENCE, i helped them so generous spiritually without giving them FINANCIAL. (free resources out there by google!!!)

Finally, i agree with you that we do need companion sometime.

crain:
@uspry1

I am a graduate, working and am resident in the UK.

Thanks for the pointers, but I wanted to know what you think.

@crain

You're welcome! If i was in your shoe, I rather someone in the same location better than distance outside your residence is more safe and committed relationship stability. Because both of you can see each other geographically better than spending money over distance expenses!!! That is my opinion!

More important following your heart based on my pointers I provided. I know from my experience!

@Needlelady and Busta

I agreed with you both about lost interesting on both Evangelist Juanita and Pastor Paula White disgraced their religion. But remember the bible passages they both taught us well!

Needlelady:
So, you havent kissed or slept with any man since your divorce?

Silly, Needlelady, I do had dated the last 3 hearing guys in a committed monogamous relationship - - -all dissed me (except last one) no reason even i have nothing wrong with me as all guys told me.

The first two guys whom I date lasted 3 years, and the last one lasted 5 years, kept asking me to postpone our wedding date THREE TIMES during 5 yr relationship, suspected COLD FEET and COWARD i broke him up! All of them are across state border from my homestate 3 hours apart!

10 years ago, I had registered on many FREE TRIAL 2-weeks online dating services with only local mileage radius around my homestate---77 guys TURNED ME DOWN on that 2 weeks trial. Their answer: CANNOT HANDLE DATING DEAF WOMAN LIKE ME. That was lame excuse! I terminated online dating service NO MORE!!!

Now i am tired of dating rejections and i don't have a decent guy lately. I believe that most guys cannot HANDLE  deaf independent divorced single mother of 2 children! (one grown adult does not live with me, the other still teenager 3 more years left for graduation). THERE IS NO BABY DADDY DRAMA to infere my life because of distance away from my homestate!!!

I myself raised in the Christianity family surrounding but me, i am not HOLY-ART-THOU fanatics to practice everything in the bible.

I am not perfect like everyone else! COMMON SENSE when it comes to relationship, marriage, and family! I believe in what i believe, not from what people tell me what to do, or think of me!

I am just exactly like Evangelist Juanita Byrnum- - -who preaches BLACK AMERICAN MARRIED WOMEN who feel ashamed of not shown their bodies to their own husbands, hidden their bodies to keep light off while husbands want see wife's body! Preach Juanita! I support her!

Do you know that ROUGHLY 80% OF BLACK AMERICAN MARRIED WOMEN woe in marriage caused black American married men cheating on them? You just missed Evangelist Juanita's powerful sermon on cable TV show!!!

Needlelady:
Are you suggesting that all these American pastors that divorce and marry as many times as possible are hell bound?

I assume you, @Needlelady, do not know the difference whether American pastors are TRUE MAN OF GOD or FALSE TEACHERS. If American pastor follows the bible passages, then HE IS TRUE MAN OF GOD who rather be happy to stay single forever or filed for divorce, will not marry again until his wife dies.

I thought your church sunday school taught you about FALSE TEACHING refer to the bible. THERE ARE TOO MANY FALSE TEACHERS OUT THERE in the USA and everywhere other countries. BE CAREFUL YOURSELF!

My pastor at my church in the USA STILL FORBIDS me to get married other man, because I am divorced myself! So I stay single until my ex-husband dies. Ex-husband has lengthy illness, no problem!

@poster

What kind of occupation you are in now? student? employee? jobless? Where you reside at?

If you are in UK or 9ja while jobless student, then forget both guys, focus on study FIRST until graduation. Then get start serious committed relationship once you land a job after graduation. That is my opinion! Education COMES FIRST!!!

If you are employee in either UK or 9ja, then you follow your heart which guy is the best for you at below:

For strong relationship between two people connect that is based on:

[list]
[li]Trust[/li]
[li]Spirituality[/li]
[li]4 Characters[/li]
[list]
[li]Humility[/li]
[li]Kindness[/li]
[li]Responsibility[/li]
[li]Happiness[/li]
[/list]

[li]Personal Hygiene[/li]
[li]Communication Skill[/li]
[li]Personal Habits[/li]
[li]Strong Connections[/li]
[list]
[li]Good Chemistry and Compatibility[/li]
[li]Shared Common Interest[/li]
[li]Shared Common Life Goal[/li]
[li]Deeper Emotional[/li]
[li]Sexual Compatibility[/li] (refer the knowledge of sexuality)
[li]Agreed Financial Obligations/Compromise Equally[/li]
[/list]
[/list]

OMO IBO:
a point of correction, the bible supports divorce but not marrying someone else while your first husband is still alive.

This quote above I recalled my argument with my other Christian married friend about the same thing refer to divorced woman cannot get married while first husband is still alive.

Only on the ground of adultery committed in order to file divorce under the bible said so. Look at bible scripture [English Contemporary version] my Christian married friend pointed at below:

1 Corinthians 7:10-16 About divorce
¹⁰ God instructs married couples to stay together, and this is exactly what the Lord himself taught. A wife who leaves her husband.

¹¹ should either stay single or go back to her husband. And a husband should not leave his wife.

¹² God does not know of anything else the Lord said about marriage. All God can do is to give you his own advice. If your wife is *NOT a FOLLOWER of the Lord, but is willing to stay with you, DON'T DIVORCE HER.

¹³ If your husband is  *NOT a FOLLOWER of the Lord, but is willing to stay with you, DON'T DIVORCE HIM.

¹⁴ Your husband or wife who is *NOT a FOLLOWER is made holy by having you as a mate. This also makes your children holy and keeps them from being unclean in God's sight.

¹⁵ If your husband or wife is *NOT a FOLLOWER of the Lord and decides to divorce you, then you should agree to it. You are NO LONGER BOUND TO THAT PERSON. After all, God chose you and wants you to live at peace.

¹⁶ And besides, how do you know if you will be able to save your husband or wife who is *NOT a FOLLOWER?

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1 Corinthians 7:39-40: About female widower
³⁹ A wife should stay married to her husband until he dies. Then she is free to marry again, but only to a man who is a **FOLLOWER of the Lord.

⁴⁰ However, I obey God's Spirit when she would be happier to stay single.

---

*NOT a FOLLOWER of the Lord means (not Christian/unbeliever).
**FOLLOWER of the Lord means as   (Christian/believer).

@TOPIC
In my opinion, the wife has her right to file divorce on the ground of adultery/sexual infidelity for GOD'S SAKE OF PEACE, a woman IS NO LONGER BOUND TO THAT PERSON. Unless her husband is willing to stay with wife, DON'T DIVORCE HIM for God's SAKE!

@IThinkNot

If you are skeptical of black person whether is Nigerian or Americized in your area in Maryland where you see lot of crowded black audiences public places such as shopping, state fairs, africian festivals, then why not you try to pretend SHOUTING NAME CALLING in your native pidgin language in that area?

Someone will approach you speaking your native language trying to help you out---thinking you are lost someone new coming to USA for the first time, you will know this person is NIGERIAN.

Like this "Ni bo lo wa, <person name>?" in SHOUTING in the air. (Yoruba speaking) That's simple!!