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PoliticsRe: Nigerian NGOs Are Thieves! by uspry1(f): 7:49pm On Mar 28, 2007
@OlowoTee

I hope you are seriously devoted helping less priviledged and disabled Nigeria citizens. From google I found for you to contact those NGO as you mentioned above on the following links:

Provide helping 425 disabled Nigerian going school and getting jobs.

United Way International - popular non-profit organization for less priviledged and disabled citizen at the poor nations

There are more non-profit organizations for less priviledged and disabled victims using google search engine.

May God bless you and your goal making your dream become reality!
BusinessRe: Build New Solar/wind Generated Houses In Nigeria. by uspry1(op): 6:56pm On Mar 28, 2007
Here is my current status: being created a rough draft of new frontpage cover of my proposal you can see at below. I am pretty busy writing on my rough draft proposal submission.

Give me any feedback, reply here this thread. Thanks!!!

RomanceRe: Have You Been Heartbroken Before ? by uspry1(f): 3:33pm On Mar 28, 2007
Yes, I have been heartbroken before, many times! I always feel sad when it comes to guy diss me for someone else in a long-term relationship more than 3 years. I feel that i don't think men finding me attractive anymore, because of marital status and hidden physical-challenge.

It does not affect my self-esteem and confidence, because I always get involved in church ministry: choir, women's fellowship, single adult ministry; accessing my virtual chatroom/discussion forum or go find new hobby I like to study writing new proposal submission to investors obtaining secured cash starting business in order to keep myself busy not to think about men!!!. Even re-polish my website development skill to learn new programming that i never heard before to take big challenge. That way i will never feel alone.

I also do received from NL giving me nice compliments that inspire me to roll up my sleeves working on new project. Busy, Busy, Busy---hope my dream become reality that I love to help out unfortunate people or socio-economic resolution in the poor nations.
RomanceRe: Interracial Dating by uspry1(f): 3:11pm On Mar 28, 2007
Yes I had been interracial dating in the past. My family has no object! I have several relatives who is currently in interracial long-term steady relationship (with cohabitation and raising children just like married couples) but I never seen them (my family/relative) are interracial marriages.

Doesn't matter to me, as long as this person respects my culture accepting who I am.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Do You Believe In Astrology Signs by uspry1(f): 2:37pm On Mar 28, 2007
I don't believe in astrology, even though personal zodiac signs are some true! Because it is conflict with the Christianity life. Astrology is part of witchcraft category that is sinfully under God's eyes, that is my opinion!
BusinessRe: I Need A Loan Deal. by uspry1(f): 1:50pm On Mar 28, 2007
Marshalxp:
Thanks for the reply, well I need about 400,000 to 300,000 naria to enable me start up. hope to pay back within the next 4 months as I said before. Thanks a million in advance.
If you are really need to obtain the start-up capital of N300,000-400,00 business loan, you are required to write a good business plan with financial plan, marketing plan, 5-years profit/loss plan and bank loan application (or create your own 2-pages bank loan proposal request) to be submitted to any bank loan or any private investors such as venture capitalists, rich business owners, or someone (can be your uncle, your male cousin, your best friend) who you know is rich.

The banker of the bank or investor will read your business plan along with their bank loan application attachment and let you know whether you are granted approval for secured business loan of the start-up capital in order to start your cyber cafe business or NOT.

If you do not know how to write a business plan for your cyber cafe business, use google to find sample business plan with cyber cafe business. There are lot of sample cyber cafe business plan, this is not free, usually to order to receive details step-by-step written business plan on specific business. (over 500 different business title categories)

Wish you the best luck finding someone who will lend you the start-up capital for your cyber cafe business.
PoliticsRe: Wind-generated Electricity Energy by uspry1(op): 9:45pm On Mar 26, 2007
@ibkn

Depend on the building size, how many computer systems, copiers, lightings, and electric socket in your cyber cafe is to be fit for your needed wind generator. You have to change regular light bulb to saving energy light bulb. Air Conditioning eat up all the power if using wind generator system. (u maybe have to buy two or three wind generator)

I suggest you to have integrated high voltage/low voltage (HVLV) hybrid renewable energy package that contains:

[list]
[li]240volts AC  3kW wind-generator [/li]
[li]1.2kW solar PV panel with solar PV controller[/li]
[li]DC/AC transformer or inverter[/li]
[li]battery back up[/li]
[/list]
HVLV bundle package will hook up with your existed electric utility box to generate whole electric powered running your cyber cafe business. Cost would be estimate between $2million to $6million Nigerian Naira  ($18,000.00 to $45,000.00 US dollars) with possible obtaining Nigeria micro-finance program for small business owners. I use a bundle package that is manufactured in the US.

A stand-alone small-scaled wind-generator and battery backup/inverter without solar PV system would be between $80,000.00 to $1m Nigerian Naira ($600.00 to $8,000.00 US dollar)

You can contact local Nigeria wind-generator distributor to request for price quote exactly fitting to your cyber cafe building with existed electric utility box that is found at below:

http://energy.sourceguides.com/businesses/byGeo/byC/Nigeria/byP/wRP/wRP.shtml

Also check other topic/thread i work on build solar/wind-generated house project that is found at below:

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-40917.0.html
BusinessRe: Filling Station For Purchase? by uspry1(f): 9:01pm On Mar 26, 2007
Do your homework using google to find filling gas station franchise?

Estimated purchase investment requirements:

  • Business Type: Franchise

  • Liquid Capital Required:  $40,119,000 - $133,730,000 Nigerian Naira  ($300,000 - $1,100,000 USD)

  • Net Worth Required:  $401,190,000 Nigerian Naira  ($3,000,000 USD)
HealthRe: After Using His Finger In Her He Developed A Witlow by uspry1(f): 8:43pm On Mar 26, 2007
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: . by uspry1(f): 6:11pm On Mar 26, 2007
@Omo Eko

Look, CV is not real thing, just sample CV! I google "homemaker CV" i found. I modified myself to fill in all missing contact info, skill and personal data

Give gals to modify their own CV with their own words to be submitted to cjlooks. Cjlooks want text msg on his cellfone receiving application (CV).
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: . by uspry1(f): 5:55pm On Mar 26, 2007
Here is my friend's CV that is found below. @cjlooks, what do you think of Jane Doe? Let me know!!! grin  grin  grin  grin


Jane M. Doe
123 ABC Street
Nigeria Africa 12345-4321
Phone: (000) 321-1234
Email: janedoe@fakeemail.net

Professional Profile:
A highly talented and enthusiastic unmarried Husband Seeker with great deal of housewife experience in family-compatible environment relationships such as husband, wife, baby, toddler, dog, mother, father, environmental attitudes/beliefs/activities, and quality of marriage and relationship life related to the environment, Nigeria growth, Nigeria environmental policy and other special problems in family relationship. Demostrated experience in sexuality, baby-birthing, conducting matchmaker survey data, parenting alternative methods and family modeling.

Objective:
A challenging position that will both utilize and strengthen the organizational and motivational skills acquired in over 10 years of diverse and demanding responsibilities.

Education:
2-year Associate Degree was completed at Women's Homemaker College, with membership of the Dean's list 5 out of 6 semesters. 

Working Experience:
Recently completed over 10 years as a suburban homemaker and mother of three children with skills in the following areas:

[list]
[li]Budgeting - Accountable for the control and disbursement of an annual budget of $59,200. [/li]

[li]Prioritizing - Established schedules, meet deadlines, and simultaneously co-ordinate several diverse task. [/li]

[li]Training and Supervision - Trained, instructed, and directed three junior associates, whose development was under my jurisdiction, in a wide variety of skills (from bicycle riding to writing term papers to managing a paper route.) [/li]

[li]Recruitment, Interviewing, and Selection of Personnel - Hired a variety of professionals, including electrician, physician, decorators, and babysitters. [/li]

[li]Purchasing - Analyzed and initiated purchase of low budget to high ticket items, including 2 automobiles, 950 square yards of carpeting, a 24-cubic-foot freezer, medical services and 6 rooms of furniture. [/li]
[/list]

Skills:
housechore, all housechore appliances, sewing, and computer proficient.

Personal Data:
DATE OF BIRTH: 31th January 1987
LANGUAGES: fluent English & Yoruba
NATIONALITY:  Nigerian
SEX:   Female
STATE OF ORIGIN:  Ogun State
DRIVING LICENSE: full, clean
DEPENDENTS: 3 children at age 1, 3, 5

References:
1. Seun, Nairaland Administrator, webmaster@fakenairaland.com, (000) 321-1234
2. Uspry1, Nairaland Member, uspry1@fakeemail.com,
3. Just4Fun, Women's HomeMaker College President, just4fun@wmnhmmkr_fakeemail.net (111) 222-3333
BusinessRe: Commercial CD And DVD Duplication And Printing by uspry1(f): 5:14pm On Mar 26, 2007
If you are plan to purchase your own personalized CD/DVD duplicator machine, here is picture and the link is found at:
www.discmakers.com

Catalog request: www.discmakers.com/catalog

Discmaker price quote as follow below:

Packages include:
[list]
[li]Highest quality DVD replication, including glass mastering and plating[/li]
[li]Disc Makers' award-winning, three-color on-disc printing.[/li]
[li]Full-color printed jackets with high-gloss UV coating.[/li]
[li]Insertion into jackets[/li]
[/list]

DVD-5s IN JACKETS:

[table][tr][td]QTY[/td][td]EACH  [/td][td]TOTAL  [/td][/tr][tr][td]300[/td][td]$2.99[/td][td]$897.00 USD[/td][/tr][tr][td]500[/td][td]$2.18[/td][td]$1090.00 USD[/td][/tr][tr][td]1,000[/td][td]$1.19[/td][td]$1,190.00 USD[/td][/tr][tr][td]2,500[/td][td]$.97[/td][td]$2,425.00 USD[/td][/tr][tr][td]5,000[/td][td]$.85[/td][td]$4,250.00 USD[/td][/tr][tr][td]10,000[/td][td]$.64[/td][td]$6,400.00 USD[/td][/tr][tr][td]25,000[/td][td]$.62[/td][td]$15,500.00 USD[/td][/tr][/table]

FamilyRe: Living With Your Parents by uspry1(f): 3:35pm On Mar 26, 2007
In the US there are many guys over 30s-50s still live with parent. Those guy over 30s-50s are undateable toward women, because they could not live without their moms!!!! I saw many TV court shows---TOO MANY MOTHERS of older sons took care speaking out for their sons when the Judge ask him questions, lost the case!!!

That is unfortunately can happen in reality!!! Those mama's boys are not ready for facing real world to take responsible living his own place and messed up wrong things that mother did not teach him right!!!

I have my living witness. My one of eight deaf members at my church, he is 42 years old, still live with mom!!!! He said that himself to scare of living alone in the apartment! He did tried to get job himself, quit next 2 days! Oh plzzzz!!! He clings to his mom!!!! (his father passed away when he was little boy)   sad
FamilyRe: I Need To Leave My Matrimonial Home by uspry1(f): 3:15pm On Mar 26, 2007
@ihujumbo,
Seun:
ihujumbo, if your husband keeps you locked up at home, that's serious. I'm sorry you were misjudged. sad
It sounds the similar experience I had with my ex-husband that mentioned previous posting here and I agreed with Seun has said! My ex-husband does not allow me running work-at-home business making money and going back school to re-polish my web development skills---only want FULL-TIME job working for someone's else. He forbidded me doing so---my dream shattered until my divorce finalized!!!

@agboifo, I agreed with his advice!!! Go for it!!!
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Capricorn Meet Up Zone! by uspry1(f): 2:11pm On Mar 26, 2007
ugodaniel:
I want to ask you cappy's which zodiac star are you most compartible with?
Reprinted from Astrology Personals - Zodiac Love Matches site where I googled it. I personally do not believe in horoscopic due to its list as witchcraft category that is conflict with Christianity life, that is my opinions to share with. I rely on opposite gender's personality, brain, beauty, heart, motivation/ambitious, affectionate and humorous to be compatiblity as it is a MUST SAME PAGE as mine!!!

A Good Love Match With: Taurus, Virgo and another Capicorn
A Capicorn and Taurus zodiac love match is so grounded, so based in the practical, it is almost impossible to pull this romantic couple apart. Virgo and Capicorn, not an obvious love match, yet a quiet, honest love can run very deep. A Capicorn/Capicorn romance takes time to blossom, but when it does it all seems so obvious ,  just make sure to throw in the occasional suprise.

Somewhat Romanticlly Compatible With : Aquarius, Pisces, Scorpio and Sagittarius
Sometimes there is more romantic attraction between Capicorn and Aquarius than there should be ,  if either can build a fire under the relationship part, then maybe ,  maybe. Pisces and Capicorn is like mixing earth and water ,  either you get bricks to build with, or just mud. Lot's of sexual passion can be ignited between Capicorn and Scorpio ,  if real feelings can be shared, there's a future. A Sagittarius and Capicorn Zodiac love match holds all the promise in the world ,  and as may challenges.

Least Romantically Compatible With: Aries, Cancer and Libra
A strong chance that there is too much passion between a Capicorn and an Aries to ever see a clear path to the future. Star crossed lovers can be a Cancer and a Capicorn for while one is toasting life with a drink, the other is likely crying over a beer. Sad as it may be a Capicorn feels little for the romantic drama a Libra finds real.

Maybe Love, Maybe Not: Gemini and Leo
Opposites attract in passion and love between a Capicorn and a Gemini ,  but can there be an agreement about which is more important, the present or the future. Can a Zodiac love match work with a Leo and a Capicorn? Only if they figure out if it's a dream or a reality.
CrimeTerrible News: Lecturers Prey On Nigeria Women/girls by uspry1(op): 1:47pm On Mar 26, 2007
Check out the following existed NL link at below:

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-46101.0.html
RomanceRe: Age And Marriage by uspry1(f): 9:19pm On Mar 24, 2007
check out the existed topic on the following clickable link at below:

The Ideal Age Gap Between You and Your Spouse
ProgrammingRe: Php Form Not On Host by uspry1(f): 1:05pm On Mar 24, 2007
I checked out Tripod site to see whether it is PHP-support or not. Nope, Tripod does not support PHP!

Almost all of free hosting DO NOT SUPPORT PHP/MySQL database. Only the ones are paid hosting to support PHP/MySQL.

You need to look for PHP-support paid hosting on Linux/Apache server as @Oleku has said.
HealthRe: After Using His Finger In Her He Developed A Witlow by uspry1(f): 2:56am On Mar 24, 2007
Ugwumba:
I hail oh! Dr. uspry1 (BMed, D. Whitlow). grin grin grin grin grin
That's funny! I ain't DR! I just am humble person!!
ProgrammingRe: What Programming Languages Have You Used? by uspry1(f): 2:35am On Mar 24, 2007
In 1980-1982 I took BASIC programming in high school.

In 1982-1987 I took COBOL programming with combined aspect courses: Accounting, Business Administration and data processing earning my Bachelor of Science (B.S.) degree in Computer Information System.

In 1999 I took Web-Internet Development class earning my certificate to learn HTML, Javascripting, Paint Pro Shop, MS FrontPage. Self-taught learning on PHP and MySQL database.

In 2000, I started my own small-one woman web-graphic designing business working at home as freelance web designer. Later I was hired as subcontracted web designer to work with dying traditionally graphic artist incorporating all his artwork to slice into dynamic website using Flash movie that where I was lack of using Flash Actionscripting. He recommended me go back school.

In 2003-2004 I took online distance 18 months accelerated course in Visual Communication (advanced web development) learning up-to-date web authoring software with photograph and programming: Macromedia Flash MX, Dreamweaver MX, Adobe InDesign, Adobe Photoshop, Adobe Illustrator, Color theory, Typography, Computer Animation, HTML, Flash Actionscripting, CSS, Javascript. Self-taught learning in XML. I earned my Bachelor of Fine Arts (BFA) with 3.90 GPA Summa Cum Laude.

Later I learned to administer in Xandros (Debian-based) Linux installation on PC system at my own, much easier than Windows 98/XP installation---fastest and reliable dual bootable operating system.

I now am fluent in Flash Actionscripting to parse all PHP, XML files loading into dynamic Flash website but I am stuck with outdated Macromedia Flash MX authoring that needs to be upgraded to Flash 8 professional for incorporating Flash video file and Video chat file into Flash movie on the website---requires Flash 8 and Media Communication server.
FamilyRe: I Need To Leave My Matrimonial Home by uspry1(f): 1:27am On Mar 24, 2007
@radiant

I don't know what is the difference between clinically deaf and cultural deaf. I still struggle with both world Deaf world and Hearing world where I belong to. As of today, i never been fit in ASL socializing that insult me because they are jealous of my education and intelligent skill. Normally all deaf people's reading level are 3rd-5th graders. (ASL stands for American Sign Language)

I born hearing until age 18 months old (toddler) became deaf caused by wrong ear infection medicine that is designated for adult---my both coehlear nerve damaged. At age 3 starting preschool with deaf education including free audiology exam (hearing aids), speech therapy, and transportation that provided and sponsored by a major hospital at that time my parent were poverty (now hard-working class income). I used to be oralist cued speech until changed to sign lanuage at age 11. At age 13-22, went to deaf school residential (deaf boarding school) in Washington DC.

I am profoundly deaf with wearing  a pair of hearing aids behind the ears. Yes, I do qualified for coehlear implant by audiology---but I TURN DOWN because I am proud to be deaf that GOD CREATES ME uniquely. I do date both deaf and hearing guys, no difference.
FamilyRe: I Need To Leave My Matrimonial Home by uspry1(f): 1:00am On Mar 24, 2007
ThiefOfHearts:
urspry, why were you ever in a relationship with such a horrid person?
re-read why i was such in a horrible relationship again? My mother forced me getting married him because of my deafness my mother do not believe deaf child can raise a baby ALONE. My mother was such worrywart, overprotective, and paranoid---not understand in deaf culture. No matter how many time I told my mother that i can raise my own child despite of my deafness.  She do not believe me. I have no choice!

It is very common to deaf people whom hearing parent had their rights to force deaf child to marry baby's father.

@Radiant

Yes, actually ex-hubby stole me from my first fiancee (4-yr high school sweetheart), ironically, my ex-fiancee dumped me for 15 yr old virgin girl upon his graduation while we already had marriage arrangement right after his graduation. I was deep heartbroken that i had not over with it. That's how then he grabbed the opportunity dating me for 3-years while i was college.

Finally at the end of my college senior year, I told bf that i want to end our relationship because I do not like his clingy, jealousy, and stingy type. I found someone else I loved very much. He was heartbroken and took revenge to get me pregnant on purpose. He thought getting married would make me to grow to love him more. That was opposite. I grew hate him because he destroyed everything I dream of having full-time job, settling down new home, etc. Reason he does not want end relationship with me, because I have my own car, place to live, and materials he saw everything that he do not have. (remember he was raised poverty in large family 4 sisters and 5 brothers)

That's how it happened!!! Even after my divorce was finalized, he still threaten me if i date new guy, he would report to the social service telling them that i was unfit mother of 2 children---he haunted me scared and low self-esteem for 8 years. Finally i have great courage myself not afraid of him anymore, JUST EXACTLY YOU SEE the movie "Woman Thou Art Loosed" made by Bishop T. D. Jakes!
FamilyRe: I Need To Leave My Matrimonial Home by uspry1(f): 12:24am On Mar 24, 2007
I feel you, @ihujumbo, but I do not know what kind of husband you have.

Let me share my past marriage I was in your shoe---feel lost, unwanted love, low self-esteem, confused and scared. That was 19 years ago from this year. Getting married him was not my fault, that was forced by my mother to stay out of wedlock but i did not love him.

Seeking marriage counselor under my husband's sake in order to save the marriage does not work out well, therefore; I decided to file for divorce on the ground of cruel harsh verbal abusive loveless incompatible 5-years marriage (irreconcilable difference).

My ex-husband was jealousy, controllable, stingy, Mr. Know-it-all type, reckless hot-temper, workaholic, egostic, sex manic and compulsive gambling addict. He never come home to sleep with me---only 4 hours sleep and get up ready to work---lack of communication, leaving me cold in bed. I was the one struggling to raise my children at that time i had job, going to pick up children from daycare, come home to do housechore, and at bedtime i was extremely tired.

Ex-hubby commanded telling me what to do, refused to help me out when my children were baby for changing diapers, feeding them, etc to take turn that i need some sleep ready for work the next day. (remember he was not home after work at 3pm until 3am in the morning grabbing only 4 hours sleep to get up ready to work next day---hang out with coworkers in the bar).

Everyday he yelled at my face (my children were not present) calling me bad names even call me "SLUT". I was loyally faithful married wife for 5 YEARS---make no sense in marriage. We always argued about money issues that he refused to compromise on financial obligations for 5 years.  He spent whole his paycheck in cash before giving me money for financial obligations. He always FLATLY BROKE asking me for my money. We had been evicted twice! Electric and water were cut off. No food/clothes to buy for family. I CANNOT TOLERATE this marriage.

Finally 5 years later, my mother saw what kind of man my husband was and regret that she NEVER FORCED me to marry wrong guy---BECAUSE OF MY DEAFNESS. Not fair to my sister who is hearing, does not get married when she was in wedlock. She paid for my divorce paperwork. I now am 14 years divorced mother of children at age 14 and 19---very much happy independent celibacy myself. My ex-husband currently has long-term illness (cancer---3 organs medically surgery removal) He is only 40 years old even though he does not smoke or drink.

Yes, he is still scary after finding out about his cancer 2 years ago. He already sat down talking to me face to face asking me for his forgiveness letting me know that i have nothing wrong in marriage!!! Because he thought that I was like those women (gold-digger, and materialist) and I would grow to love him more after marriage, but I am very opposite---humble, conserved, quiet, humorous and open-minded person. He grew up in a city welfare family being poor all his life. I grew up in a small rural farming being hard-working class humble Christianity life. He is mixed catholic/baptist--not go church regularly and I am baptist---i do go church regularly. We are different people!!!

@ihujumbo, I ask you please find your courage to talk to your husband to work out the marriage---do not make the same mistake I had suffered in the past!  Too many divorced single women out there that most men do not want to date with. I was one of them---unwanted dating. Go back seeking your church marriage counselor to overcome your fear and feeling---don't let DEMONS attack you in the name of JESUS CHRIST!!!

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