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MRCAMPBELL:
Help!!! My younger brother is gay.
Pls I need your helpful advise. I am the eldest son of a family of four boys..my immediate younger brother is 22 and he is a handsome boy , for years I have been battling with thoughts that my younger brother might be gay ,Because of some very obvious but yet arguable signs, this 22 years old guy as fine as he is not get babe wen me nor fit count my ex ,whenever I confront him on issues like that his answer is either the relationship is not working out or he hasn't gotten the right partner...but e nor finish there...My brothers phone is hard to access but the few times I luckily got hold of the phone and saw his conversations...behold some of his conversations smacked of homosexuality....I have cornered him and spoken to him cautiously about it ,although he tried to deny I didn't give him the chance to .. I made it clear to him how disgusting and annoying it is and he promised to change with claims that its not as serious as I am taking it....but I have just gotten confirmations from my real dude cousin that my younger brother is still so involve in gayism and he saw conversations with pictures revealing homosexualism again ... I just feel very bad abouth , this is so saddening , and as a concerned brother it hurts real bad to discover that has much as I loathe gayism with full hatred my younger brother Is one..pls anyone with a tactful and helpful advise on how to stop my brother abeg..

As hard as this pill might be hard to swallow you simply just have to accept him for who he really is.

If you like you can force 1million girls on him, but one thing remains if he ever hets involved with them sexually he will mostly be fantasizing of being with another man while he is with them or he might still keep a secret gay lover on the side. No matter what you do you cant change him.

You may also have to accept the fact that what you hate or love does not affect his life in anyway. Jusy like you he has things he loves and hates too. And remember that because he sins differently from you it doesn't make him less of a human being than you are.

You cannot change a person's sexual orientation just like a light bulb. As much as it may be hard for you to accept, your brother will remain the way he is.

I am a very straight woman but after exposure to different societies were gay people have equal rights with straight people, i have learnt to tolerate and accept their preferences. They have never imposed their lifestyle on straight people and i feel no need for straight people to impose theirs on them.

Akeelahtunez:
Omotola if ur seeing dis posted I quoted den I advice u 2start hiding ur sons 4rm stalkers like mhiz deedy she no dey use eyes see fine boy

abeg free the girl. Will you marry her?

falconey:
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but you are ugly too. Why will you run away from your own match?

unveil:
I didn't expect you to act above your nature, not even for a second.

Dont men speak ill of each other when one of them succeeds while the other stays in the same position? Dont know why you decided to restrict it to women because i have seen this in both genders.

Lalasticala
Ishilove


This looks amazing.

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All his D will be good for is peeing from now on. I hope Naija women are learning from this

Sijo01:
The life in prisonment can still be reviewed to few years jail terms. With God all things are possible.
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Hang on, son of the East, you will scale through.

so you now want plenty of them to go around foolishly committing a crime because they can get a less harsh sentence abi

deadZONE:
u catch a thief tie him up and call the cops.
this country is so embarrassing,
its shameful when i travel out and am asked
where i come from must times i say am from SA.

God forgive you

Brianflair:
Dude, i never took the guy serious. Just read through our chats again.

No body is immune, you can be a victim. These guys are devising new means everyday. Just wish you don't meet powerful scammers.

i always meet scammers but i always stay away from seems too good to be true.

This your love for free things ehn?

She should just stop being stupid and go see a doctor

proxillin:
Dear Vague,

Did you read this part?



[size=15pt]Please read over again.[/size]

This just sounds like a flimsy excuse a cheating guy would want to use over his wife in the future. All of this is based on what he thinks his wife might be doing not what she os actually doing. If you ask me she is better off unmarried.

No sensible guy would continue with a marriage when he know very well his wife is not loyal. The whole point of him continuing with the marriage is so that he can use this incident as a reason for him to cheat for the rest of his married life.

he asked her to meet him outside right? Now show me where he asked her for a relationship or where he asked her to sleep with him. Because i did not see that anywhere in the post.

If his wife goes out with a client or colleague from work to discuss business he will get jealous divorce her right?

He wants to believe the voices inside his head over what his fiance is telling him. No woman should marry a man who doesn't trust her or what she says.

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hollowpot15684:
Another negative thinker in the building, think positive bro.

Moreover Wetin I type nah joke, nd u re not my wife. I wonder y u dey mention me.

you are the negative thinker you cant be loyal to a woman if she changes but you cant bear the thought of your wife being disloyal when you change

proxillin:
My friend’s wedding is coming up by next month. I am to be one of his men in suit.

I noticed they are quarreling recently. He opened up to me yesterday.

They are looking for a DJ to play at their reception, so his wifeToBe got a number of one DJ, added him on whatsap and they started chatting. My guy trusted the lady that she is just doing business chat with the DJ.

One day, my friend was going through her whatsapp chat with the DJ. The WifeTB told the DJ that she needs the service of the DJ for her friend’s wedding. She didn’t tell the DJ she is actually the one wedding.

The DJ started asking her out for date. She agreed to meet the DJ for a date somewhere.

My guy saw all that, yet he kept quiet and didn’t want to raise the issue with the lady as their wedding is close, before people start saying he is jealous, he is spying on his girl blahblah.

But my friend could not endure the whole thing again when the DJ started calling her repeatedly. They engage in confidential phone calls. She will be laughing…all Yes No Yes No Ok.. Ok hmmmm conversation, so that someone nearby will not understand what they are saying. At times she excuses my guy to go and pick the DJ’s call.
My guy finally confronted her, why all conversations with the DJ are not business and formal. Why is she hiding things from him?

The wifetobe went mad she alleged my guy is jealous, wrongly suspecting her.

My friend told her, he actually read their chats where they agreed to go out on a date.
That’s when she admitted that he actually asked her to meet him somewhere for a hangout.
She said she had nothing in mind for him. She is only going to meet him as friend at a restaurant. Nothing is going to happen. It’s just a harmless date.

My friend opened up to me that he regretted making decision to marry her. He told me a lot of things that he can’t cancel the wedding again. He will be part of the wedding, but after the wedding, he will start f***cking girls. He will make life difficult for her.

I told him, it’s better to remain single than to go into a hateful marriage.
Deep down in me, I can’t advise him to cancel the wedding.
I have summoned them for a meeting to discuss it and settle it. But that lady can be arrogant at times. My peace meeting may or may not be successful.

Is it normal for a lady to go out on a date with another guy just a month to her wedding?

This just sounds like a flimsy excuse a cheating guy would want to use over his wife in the future. All of this is based on what he thinks his wife might be doing not what she os actually doing. If you ask me she is better off unmarried.

No sensible guy would continue with a marriage when he know very well his wife is not loyal. The whole point of him continuing with the marriage is so that he can use this incident as a reason for him to cheat for the rest of his married life.

raphrinco:
were you raped or did you miss ur period?

you entire generation missed its periods

Timaya Timaya Timaya


How many times did i call you?


You better face your music and stop raping women all over the place

kevinberry:
yimu,your father,why don't you start by educating your father's and grand father's about how animalistic their mentality is..cus am very sure they are going to tell their sons and daughters about bla bla bla when they want to get married....

Copy copy go kill una

Moronic person

and the narrow-minded ones will come out of darkness to reveal their foolishness in broad daylight.smh

mellow:
I sorry for men whose wives sniff at their Boxers to find out if

they had done something outside. Really pathetic. As for me, the

day I start noticing my wife becoming suspicious of me that will be

the day I will be let loose. Personally, I don't, never suspected any one

especially women cos I don't trust any.

most _retarded comment in the history of nairaland. So a woman should have every reason for trusting you but you cannot trust her in return?
I don't blame the increase in number of naija women that marry foreign men. No one wants a goat for a husband.

hollowpot15684:
if i get married and my wife go change later, omo wahala go happen ooo..
so make she give her self sense....

i hope if you change (even if na sickness or disability) i hope you will be okay with her changing negatively towards you as well.

nzeobi:
Pathectic maybe the man should marry another women to reduce the work load on her

may your daughter be beat mercilessly by her husband for denying him marathon sex and after that may he bring 20more into his home and neglect her like a worthless piece of trash. Idiiiiot!

Kastonkastroll:
The babe set sha and she is also beautiful. I will choose this lady as a wife over our gold-diggers of girls we have in Nigeria.... At least I won't have to spend my money on shoes and wristwatches.

this is not funny at all

idu1:
my mama is not fat

she is the size of a buffalo and beautiful we all know

Cutehector:
Well it all varies on ranges of women and their typ of bodies... Some women could gv birth to four kids and still hav a very flat tommy... Some just one, if u see d way dem go fat eh, ... Lol...


D key thing I think is dat, excercise is key tho...

like your mama?

idu1:
They are always fat...

just like your mama

crisycent:
I know, in your dreams.

just when you thought going to SA is the biggest thing anyone can achieve abi?

RoyalPearl:
I thought the same thing. Whoever that lady is on his/her profile is a black woman and not a mixed woman.

some people have no shame and this poor beautiful girl fell victim of the person behind that moniker

crisycent:
I was in South Africa for holidays bïtch. I was in Cape Town and no xenophobic attacks happened there. If you have a TV or followed the news you won't say the rubbish you said here. Have you even left your village border?

i have left Africa

Naomithato1:
I was born with curled hair I just straighten them so that I can be able to put hair extensions.

lol i know the difference between curly hair and kinky hair when its straightened and thats proper african kinky hair on your profile pic. Who are you trying to fool?

espn:
and what's ur point..like u r better than them.

Mr photoshopper man why are you pained?

I have seen your hand. Is that other guy your colleague?