haywire07: U shld have told me u needed a beautiful girlfriend instead of stylishly trying to scout. Don't worry, u can go ahead nd date miss gwags. She's ur match
im not lesbian, why are u still hiding your worwor sisters?
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GentleToks: @All and to those who said that the guy in question should have picked one of Nigerian ladies in US. You don't want to try Nigerian ladies abroad bruv....... Lol!!!! You will opt for a man to a man marriage(Gay marriage) after Nigerian ladies here must have turned your destiny to a default settings. 89% of these ladies are nothing but pure evil.
The first thing on their list are these below: 1) The size of your dick? 2) How skilful are u with the dick? 3) How many rounds you are able to cover in a day? 4) Can you become a white guy to them over night (Mumu)? 5) Material things or money
Nigerian ladies here in western world are the most wicked species on earth. If i begin to narrate their stories one after another, you would realise that the lady in question is an angel.
This(Bastard pregnancy) is a norm among Nigerian ladies abroad; such act is trending among Nigerian ladies. White babes are worst when it comes to this; their useless tradition doesn't frown at this sort of thing.
You know what, they sometimes bring themselves to Live TV show over the same issue we are talking about here. These ladies ll bring their estranged husband to Live family show to complain about him not supporting a Bastard financially.....
If you hear some stories here in western world, you might choose to stay away from marriage for life.
in short you are broke and you have a small dick. Well it does explain why you are just another angry black man.
sonofananimal: I'm or was that kind of emotional person, And that almost destroyed me. Maybe because I was too FOOLISH to love a woman to the extent of ignoring simple trace of infidelity which I kind of understand the pain of the op. And he even WANT TO take her back, but thanks with the help of people and others, I was back with my senses and realize that our WOMEN don't appreciate good things but love the wicked things.
I really learnt a lesson, and that's why I don't even valued them as human beings.
and that is why God keeps punishing you with ashawo after ashawo!
LordReed: If this is how you view marriage no wonder you think it is miserable. Marriage is not about someone controlling your life if I may disabuse your mind a bit. Having a wife or husband does require you to take the other into consideration for sure but if someone is trying to control your life then you have a problem that does not mean that is what marriage is about. You can still make sure all the important relationships in your life are still well "oiled and greased", in fact one of the ways to know you've married a good spouse is how they enable your familial relationships to keep going smooth and cordial. Sometimes people over look the important facts while dating all in the hopes that the person will change after marriage, know this no change is automatic, the act of marriage does not guarantee positive change. Anyone going to marry must be ready to work towards making the marriage a success, you don't sit down cross your legs and wish for the best.
if you weren't already taken i was going to pay your groom price for my little sister o
charix: Lazy Nigerian gold digger; marry into a rich man's family and do nothing but get fat. May our daughters, cousins and nieces never tow their path in life. Amen.
chai even that your Lazy Nigerian gold digger of a mother how come she don turn into hippopotamus she don turn lose her path as well?
People say they do not need feminism because they believe that equality already exists outside feminism. So tell me why are they complaining about the issues that affect men is they believe equality exists and there is no need to advocate for equality rights for women?
Was there ever a man who was stopped, killed or jailed for establishing safe houses for men that are abused? Was there ever a court that dismissed a rape case simply because there was a male victim? Was there ever a time men were prevented from advocating for equality over issues that affect them? I highly doubt that.
With regards to child custody women have always had the primary responsibility of a child, but if a man can prove before the caught that he has had the primary duty to take care and raise the child, he will always win the custody case. Why do people want to turn child custody to be a battle between genders instead of who can actually provide for the most important and basic needs of a child?
Both men and women have raised concern on rape of prisoners and despite the efforts those in power have simply failed to take action or attempt to redress the issue, so should the failure to act of the State be blamed on feminism? Feminists address issues that affect them and pushing for something to be done about it, so why aren't "non-feminists" doing the same instead of complaining what feminists aren't doing?
Rather than have demonstrations and creating more awareness (like feminists do) you would rather sit in your own house and criticize feminists. Please tell me when sitting in your house doing absolutely nothing about the issues that bother you yields you any results.
So AY after his insensitive jokes about dark skinned women, God don give him a dark skinned female child make i here him say anything about dark women again
alexistaiwo: Had a heated argument with my girlfriend today. In the course of exchanging words she said that she is always approached by guys better than me, guys I can never compare to. she made it sound as though she is doing me a favour by dating me.
Though I love her and she loves me too, some words are relationship deal breakers. I just can't get that statement out of my head even after much apologies and crying on her part.
girls usually just say hurtful things to get back at you. Just try to forgive and move on
christinie: Nice body. Wicked face. She has a bad biatch looks. Am not jealous! Just observing! If she's not a Nigerian I will skin him alive. If she's a SAN I will fry him in hot oil!!! Ok I sound wicked now. I guess am inspired by her wicked looks. I wish them the best anyway!!! Ciao! Ciao!!
she's from Ghana Joselyn Dumas and they are not dating.
EfemenaXY: As was already pointed out to you by another poster, what you listed in your opening post isn't the perverse of the black man but applies (if not more) to other races.
i edited the previous post. i just decided to focus on the black community, even if applies to other races does it make it any better or acceptable?
EfemenaXY: Your examples have no bearing on the thread title / topic. Suffice to say, marriage is what you make of it. If both partners are committed and have common goals, then their marriage has a very high chance of working out. If only one or neither of the partners are committed to it, then its' unlikely not succeed.
this is true but what i posted above is true as well. with the number of child marriages little girls are forced into, one cant help but think that marriage is between a man and a sexual object not 2 human beings. if its not about having different sexual partners why will someone need more than one wife?
MRBrownJ: stop mentioning Africa richest man here, you are showing even more your "make money or die" miserable way of thinking. Dangote comes from a wealthy family and has ALWAYS BEEN passionate about business since a very young age, while here you are foolishly believing that everyone can make sound investments. it is an insult towards Dangote to believe that any dumbass in Nigeria CAN/SHOULD invest their money wisely.
BTW here is something that is certain: Dangote has always done what HE believes is right, and he has never been forced by "strangers" (who probably know nothing about sound investments) to do what he was not comfortable doing.
what we should all learn from Dangote's story is that he did something he was PASSIONATE about, thats what important here.
by the way buying a land and building your house is a necessity there is no need to be passionate about it, its something one must have.
if you die you will need a permanent place for your family to live comfortably in after you are gone. A secondhand car is a liabilities that can drain your pocket when it starts giving you problems.
So it is people like you who encourage porverty. Years down the lane when you are still staying in someone else's house and living under their rules, battling with child maintenance and other bills you will start going around the neighbour hood calling your landlord a witch for demanding the rent you are owing and dodging utility bills. sounds familiar? i thought as much
Uncle toks2008 you agemates are already sending their children to university and you are here creating nonsensical threads. Leave nairaland and go marry. If they are running away from you like veld fire, you may have to change your attitude towards them.
Im glad the father made the right decision. its really disappointing that this lady at 28 doesnt know what responsiblity is. No one ever said that growing up was a walk in the park, make the most of what life throws at you.
MRBrownJ: of course not, he should listen to you because you are the land/money expert who is like all the clueless Nigerians who know all the schemes to invest money yet never have anything to show for. the OP should become like all the miserable Nigerians whose sole existence is to "make money" at all cost, and certainly NOT enjoy life and/or the fruit of his labor... so yes, the OP should certainly listen to Vague and NOT be happy and purchase the car that he desires, but should instead invest in land because "Vague" the life expert has decided that this is what the OP (better yet, the whole Nigerian population) need right now. NONSENSE!!!!
if a man doesnt know anything about land and how everything works with deed/C of O/land surveys/omoniles, price appreciation etc then they have absolutely NO business buying land as an investment, PERIOD!
you think Dangote got rich from buying car to enjoy life or he made wise investments in his youth so he can afford whichever car he likes years later? Not everyone may become as rich as he is now but at least learn from the wise.
PunkyVeer: I was wondering why I couldn't fit through the door, must be the swollen head caused by this thread Jokes aside, this is nothing because to be honest, most foreign ladies are threatened by South African ladies. I'm talking the ones that live in South Africa, btw. Not only Nigerians but Pakistanis, Indians, Ethiopians etc. Their ladies fear that South African females will take their men & in most cases, unfortunately, they do. Too many broken relationships I've seen & personally I blame the men.
I knew this beautiful Ethiopian lady that came with her husband here about 3 years ago. BEAUTIFUL girl. One day she told me about this affair her husband was refusing to end with this South African he was dating. In my mind I thought she must be breathtaking or something, but I was shocked to see that she was, imo, ugly, it's just that she had an amazing body. The Ethiopian lady has since moved to be with her brother in America. She gave up. I was really sad to hear about their breakup because she was a really nice person.
My point being, this is nothing to get big headed about, especially when it is hurtful to someone else. Only a psycho would find joy in the misery of others.
One of the Nigerian guys I know is crazy about the girl below. Men! Smh
but There are more single mothers than married mothers amongst South African women. Does that mean you are only good for f*cking? do you believe you are worth anything else beyond that?
Don't think im insulting you but i know about 5guys that married SA women and they only did it so they can get easier access to USA, Australia and Canada, after that they lose contact with their "wives". I even met a guy in Chennai who has an estranged SA wife. Why are you bedwarmers and not keepers? No offence
MRBrownJ: @Apexquest think outside the box and do what matters to YOU, because you are the only one who is going to live with the consequences. if you are fully happy with your purchase then dont let any fool out there tell you (or make you feel) otherwise. live your life, be merry, enjoy what you got and have a big smile while cruising pass the haters waiting at the bus stop!
Listen to uncle here afterall a car loses value over the years and land actually increases value over the years. But who needs to make wise investments when you can brag about having haters? Maybe one day you will be like Mr Brown, an elderly guy who rents another person's house when his agemates are building flats to rent out to other people.