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delishpot:
Na wa o. Now I understand why some men cheat. Some women nor dey try at all.

maybe im lost but please explain to me how cooking for someone may justify a sexual relationship with another person?When his mother cooked for him everyday i highly doubt he had sexual fantasies of her because of that.
If a person simply wants to cheat they will do so, i don't understand why people always think its logical to use non-related issues to justify it.

vfactor:
Please tell me in what way has the woman tried to please the husband and in what way is he hard to please? In my opinion, the op is married to two women, an official and a complement. It's only a matter of time before one completely takes over!

can you also say the wife is half married because she has to live with konji for the 2weeks he is away?

Lets not be inconsiderate. Marriage is all about sacrificing ans compromising. There are so many solutions to this problem.

1. The wife could get a less demanding job so she can always get enough time to get home and cook.

2. She can prepare the stews for the week over the weekend. That way when she gets home she wont have much to do, she will be able to prepare meals for her husband just the way he likes it.

3. They can hire a male chef/cook which his wife will be responsible for paying since he already handles all the other bills and her money doesn't do much. That way he will not have anyone give him imaginary sexy looks.

Odidire:
Anyway, I have started making my meals myself. I have refused to eat anything prepared by her or the nanny. Its been over a week and I am healthy. Let her continue with her fightor women rights and feminism.

Have you ever considered alternatives as opposed to just going straight to blame everything on feminism?

Have you ever suggested that since she works and she might come back home tired, she could cook different stews over the weekend? Freeze the food, heat it up and season it just before dinner.

Im not trying to create a man vs woman argument, but sometimes i think some people are inconsiderate. She might be earning half your salary but it doesn't mean she is not working hard to the extent that she will get home tired too. Instead of playing the blame game don't you think its wiser to look for a solution instead?

You can always tell the nanny straight up not to prepare any meals for you because you are not comfortable with it. Tell your wife firmly that you expect your wishes to be respected.

Let's be honest if a guy really wants to cheat not even a submissive superwoman can stop him from it. You should be looking for solutions to your problems not loopholes to use to your advantage.

How would you feel if you found out that your wife has been having thoughts of sleeping with other men because you are not always there to sleep next to her every night? Do you think it would be fair for her to justifying cheating because of that?

You nature of work doesn't necessarily make you the ideal husband because you are away half of the time. You should be working on solutions not emphasizing on the problem if you have intentions of keeping a happy marriage.

MisterLongman:
Funny enough, an american lady once criticized them online for their simple mode of dressing......
The backlash she got forced her to tender her resignation at her workplace

it wasnt the simple mode of dressing she commented on, it was the short skirts and dresses they wore when they made public appearances.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]I hate commenting on threads like this.

The women folk are just too sensitive that they fail to reason logically but rather with their emotions.

Timaya has not admitted that he raped her. It's the girl who is shouting up and down.

It doesn't make her right.

For whatever it is,,if she's aggrieved then she should file a suit against him and not rant on social media.

It's not worth pulling him and his whole career that he has worked so hard for down to the ground.

Just sue him with reasonable evidence and let's hear word abeg.[/color]

if keeping a his career was at all important to him as a married men he wouldnt be having extra-marital affairs. Im sorry your post just sounds _retarded.

Vicjustice:
Just mind your own business

haba let me have my say please.

kevoh:
Brushing racists sentiments aside once again, how many people(Nigerian Parents) would readily accept, if their daughter came home with a man who has no job and no skill at all? If given the chance between Dangote's son and a Carpenter, how many parents will choose the carpenter? It's easy to throw Hulk Hogan under the bus for such comments because he is famous but would it have mattered if an unknown white who probably is a janitor had made such statement?

NB: I'm not taking sides with Hulk Hogan, just being objective.

in case you didnt read his comment he added the words "f****** n****" and thats what made it more racist.
Even if the same statement was made by a non-white person it would still have the same discriminatory effect, whether it was said by a Nigerian parent or a space monkey.

M

xp17:
you can downsize the eating of those ,or better eat their close substitutes instead.

-vegetable oil can be replaced with olive oil or butter.

-preserved potato chips can with replaced by personal fried ones or plantain chips made with olive oil.

-soda can be replaced with water or 100% fruits juice.

- alcohol is best taken at minima, could reduce heart diseases if not in excess.

-red meat can be replaced with sea food

-sugar and other sweetening can be substituted with honey

-canned foods can be substituted with fresh ones.

-fat free substituted with workouts

-cigarette is number one by not on my list. na only that one no get replacement


to me , those can be reduced or totally avoided

Igbo is good for the cancer

kevoh:
Ok Let's take a minute and re-read Hulk Hogan's comment again brushing aside our Racists sentiments. You'll get the true message.

In other words, Hulk Hogan is telling his daughter that if she must sleep with/date an African-American, why not the likes of those who are stupendously RICH. Just the way Kim Kardashian is doing! Have you guys seen or heard Kim Kardashian or any Kardashian member dating a broke African-American?

unfortunately if you gonna be dark you should at least compensate your darkeness with money. White people ehn?!

Its sad that when people like vicjustice mrcork originalsly have seen white women they are start saying all sorts of things Nigerian women, at the end of the day this is how shallow white people will still see and treat you

6packdude:
And another self hating nigga.
Can you guys use your brain for once and make reasonable arguments?

How can you make a blanket statement about the physical appearance of a woman being the determinant of how employabe she is without being specific on the field?

its funny how many of them don't realise it only make them look silly at the end of the day, because they will have a black mother, sisters and aunts.

No matter how many times they dip their chocolate into that vanilla, white people will always focus "on the mistake" and still call their children black

Tay16:
These are rather flimsy excuses, because in the everyday world i see African, obese, average looking and not so good looking women in different levels and catergories of occupation. Don't know where you got this idea from though.

Or could you be just like any other black man who praises anything non-black forgetting that some of the white people you praise still look down on you just like they do with any other black person?

thats the most amusing thing of black men who marry or only date white women. They start feeling like their are above any black woman. Sad thing is white people still see him a black man with self hate. Even white men who date non-white women never use that as an opportunity to insult those of their own race because it will only reveal their insecurities.

Durent:
Thanks for reply bt is regima a soap or cream or serum..i actually haven't heard dat name bfre

its a range of different products just google it.

donholy28:
Wetin do d current username

i get 100 mentions a day because people use the word a lot.

Seun seun seun seun how many times must i call you.i get too many mentions a day na

Durent:
Pls i hav ugly blackheads all over my face especially on forehead..i hav tried everytin i know of frm apricot scrub to clean&clear blackhead cleanser and toner, neutrogena astrigent,oil cleansing method ,maxi peel etc pls wat shud i do nw

try regima

Demmocrats:
Bro one thing I know if you see me in real life you start by addressing me with Sir, I don't blame you and the rate of anger in you shows you or your relation experienced such type of rape.
I reasoning person would have asked why I made such statement than using abusive which only makes you look so so small to me.
I keep on telling small dudes like you that using abusive words only makes you look small which you are to me.

When you are ready to think and behave like a mature person then I will give you reasons just like I gave others that quoted me in a mature way.
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mature people dont make immature comments like yours. May your entire generation be raped!

Seun can you please edit my username to vague5 please.

Demmocrats:
She caused it still outside by 12 am have you ever seen a decent girl outside by that time.
www.

may all your sisters and daughters be gang raped by HIV positive rapists and caught on camera and may you blame the act on the victims as well. Stupiid bastard!

bigerboy200:
So cos of my choice, u decided to abuse my father??who even told u my mum is a Nigerian? well,u can go on and on..Home training is key to building good people..i'm glad I was trained well....

you know damn well your mother is a full blown Nigerian and whatever stupid thing you say about Nigerian applies to her as well

bigerboy200:
why should I find myself in Europe and end up marrying a Nigerian girl why why...mtscheeeeww

you father must have been a mad cow for marrying a Nigerian woman and ending up with a Nigerian child like you.

Dragonking:
Why marry a nigerian girl and regret it for the rest of your life.

#team foreign girls all the way#

the children you will have will be Nigerian girls so be wise before making foolish comments

jerryunit48:
I even saw one who said she is not ready to work only to be a house wife

she wants to sit at home and control your life, thats already a full-time job only you pay her for it

ibkgab001:
NIGERIA girls are so classy , picky and so fake They started the war they can't end


Driving faster to my Zimbabwe baby

10 hours behind the wheel

lucky babe.

Okorocha can be my sugar sugar anytime. He may be chubby and old but there is still something inciting and inviting about him and its not the money before some of you rats start saying nonsense.

hahaweron:
she is getting old o

i doubt you are getting young either

Adaahjacob:
Trust me, if say d wife ugly, he won't take her on such trip. #Moral lesson# Make sure u marry a beautiful wife guys.

and when she starts fucking guys her age on the side, continue to count your blessings

shachris02:
who paid for her visa?

Edo state money

TwentySeven:
Madam, just make sure you're using protection with your husband. AIDS is real!

Nigerians arw funny people, so you are still encouraging sexual intercourse with such a man when we all know right from primary school that condoms are not 100%, you can still get STIs even when you use condoms.

Gurgle:
Lol

if they like make them marry from planet Mars

there are still plenty of guys who would prefer to marry from home

and I only need one such fellow

Carry go my brothers

Looking forward to seeing your mixed-race children at my kids' school

I hope you give them proper native names o

native gini? The mother usually has the final say in such matters, its her looks they took after not his

Cutehector:
We just wana hav mixd breed children which is so so cool...

does it mean you are disgusted by your own dark skin that you wouldnt want your kids to look like you?

adamilen:
OP....That tolotolo na human being. Check yourself, your background and your past deeds.

I am sure you will know who that tolotolo is.

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