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legendary4luv: guy is admission for this year still on? how much for the form and tuition fees for civil engineering, my email is preciousbenjamin92@gmail.com...... Pls reply asap

yep its still on and will end soonest...for civil engineering,you ve to ve atleast 6 credits,english and mathematics inclusive.but call me on 233246607939.hurry up!

marieolae: Looolz. Girls will be girlz. Dis tin is never gonna change..so its abt time u guys get over it. U just need to figure out the bad seeds from the good.

90 percent of university girls re guilty of dis.

edozie04: I stl wonder hw sum guyz fall mugu 2 such girls,sumhw all this girls ar chewing gum girls as d real ones will nvr depend on a guy 2 do all tat

you will hardly see a real girl dis days..at first they will be as holy as christ.wen thingz graduates,you will see d real self behind d face you ve been smiling with.

One girl said she has 8 boyfriends,another explained*3 would be responsible*.
And each boyfriend has his own role:

i have boyfriends am in love with,i have boyfriends cos of money,i have boyfriends cos they are fine,*explained one igbo babe*.
But how do you manage so many boyfriends?

The funny thing is that those guys might not be staying together.one will be staying very far from your house,some close to your school,some close to your old school,some in your very area.so you manage them when you go home,when you re in class or even on phone.

Another woman explained...to me its a secret....
When all the parties know about each other,there is no guarantee of you marrying any of them cos they will think that you will also do that when you moved into their house.....they must think you as holy as jesus christ.

Perhaps it is most simply explained by one ghana babe's simple explanation:
*Even system has backup*.

Recently one girl showed me her phone and took me through list of her variouss boyfriends:
....this one is for recharging my phone,this one is for paying my bills,this one is for taking me out to dinner,this one is for changing my wardrobe.....the list goes on.

So ladies what do you think??

Everything on this earth has a reason and evry question has an answer.similarly women infidelity has not one but a number of reasons.situations,husbands,boyfriends,pleasures,revenge,dissatification,insecurity and many other such reasons can get women to cheat.

1)loneliness is one big reason.
Most of the women are taken for granted.if a woman leaves her job and sits her home for husbands and her kids,its her responsibility,which is not apreciated by any1.no word of love or apreciation makes the woman feel she is taken for granted and this taken for granted feelings created differences between couples and gives birth to loneliness.this loneliness can create an attraction and feelings for another man leading to infidelity.

2)physically and emotionally not satisfied.
Studies ve proven that comparatively to men,women fall into an extramarital affair,wen not physically satisfied by their partners.
The above statement means that women more tendencies of falling into an extramarital relationship,if not physically satisfied with their married life.like men even women made loveual desires that need to be fulfilled.And hence,wen a few women are not happy with the physical part of their married life,they do fall into extra marital affairs.

3)feel of excitement.
Some women like thrill and excitement.if you might ve notices,a new relationship brings the teenage excitement back.not just a few women,but evry woman wants to live in a failytale world of love.failytale love is not possible wen it comes to reality.most of the women accepts the truth and live with it.whereas some keep hunting for the fairytale love of their life to keep the excitement on.

4)Need of love and romance.
With passing years in a relationship,there are a number of responsibilities that erupt,and as a couple or as a family members we end up fulfilling these responsibilities.this is wen the love and romance between couples die or fade away.As years pass,love has to grow stronger and not fade away.

5)Crumpling of self respect.
In a male dominating world,everything has to work according to the man.At such places a woman is nothing but a puppet.day in and day out,her self respect is thrashed.In such a society,the man forgets that a woman living in his house is his wife,mother of his kids and an individual.
The designation of an individual human being is forgotten by her husbands and her kids.In such cases,if she comes acroos a man who respects her individuality,it is natural for her to develop feelings for him.

If given the right love and respect,a few women will never ever think about cheating on dia husbands or boyfriends.however if cheating is for only excitement and thrill,it is difficult to stop cheating.you can still look at the above tips and correct the flaws in your relationship.A few rectifications can enhance love and understanding between couples.


Goodluck!!!

Medunah: The main thing is you eat nd u arnt married. In other words, when ur married nd ur wife cnt cook, dere re still other means to eat till u eventually teach her how to cook. So i see no reason why a man will say he cnt eat any food dat wasnt prepared by his wife (wat appens when his wife is away or ill) when he wasnt married, didnt he eat?

not unless she is willing to learn,come to think of it,why wud i wana teach a girl how to cook indomiesmh!!...the alternative of eating out all the time of microwave junk @ home is not how i want to live a life.its part of life and any1 who choses not to learn that skill is far too much of a *princess* for me to marry or even have a conversation with.

Medunah: And now that u arnt married, who is doin d cooking?

you dont wana knw!!...believe you me!!!

Adaeze003: That's my point, why would you not want to eat any other persons meal? That's what I'm tryna get.


@daretyyyy what if there is?

i dnt get you...why wud i wana eat some1 else food whislt i ve a woman who claimd to be my wife non vehemently? Lets nt get it twisted...i love to eat,ask any1 who knows anytin abt me and they will emphatically confirm that.so it should come as no surprise d@ i,along with most men in the world love a woman who know how to cook.there is sontin so attractive and wonderful about women who can create all the things your stomach craves(and look good doing it)

Adaeze003: Lol! Trivia ke? I guess my question is, what is with a woman cooking 4 the home? Instead. Of maybe a chef that can do it better. No1 is saying erry1 should go hungry.

Why place one's happiness and base of marriage on cooking? When you think of things you'll realise that its just crazy... Food is food, doesn't matter who cooks it as long as it enters people's belle.

#myopinion.

you are just blowing everytin out of proportion based on biased mindset...very far from your personal discretions!!!....w@ of a scenario whereby d husband dont wana eat any food aside frm d one prepared by his wife??

HAkorehdeh: I'm planning to buy either Nivea or dove............. Still confused, those creams are for skin. I need someone to recommend a good facial cream for me. My face is too dark

palmer's cocoa butter pluz funbact A.

cutiepie01: i use shea butter.It doesnt bleach,i love it because of its softness,and d way it feels on my skin.

lemme see your picz!!!

Emrey: Mine is caro white but am tinking of changing it,,,

i do recommend palmer's cocoa butter cum olive oil for ya.

ebullientV: You never really know what love can do to a man, until it hits him hard.

If she meets every requirement i desire in my dream woman, and it happens that being unable to cook is her only flaw, personally i'd get someone to assist in teaching her how to cook.. Allied with my little knowledge of kitchen duties, i'm sure she'd learn in no time.

In my opinion, you can't just let a wife material go because of a loophole that could easily be fixed!

wife material who dosent know how to cook..smh!!!....phd nor degree wont turn an empty plate into full of egusi soup.beside how will d love i ve for he still grows wen she cant satisfy my stomach.am tired of cooking for both of uz abeg.

vizkiz: Op, just one question





Can you cook?

believe you me!!...you dont wana know!

Every man deserves a woman who can convert all these raw materials they *** from the market into a finished healthy food.fresh,vibrant recipe ideas packed with the good stuffs to have you feeling and looking better than ever.

In the interim,prior to marriage,how can you condone a wife-to-be that cannot even toast bread.you give her a million naira to prepare even if its two cup of rices,it still wont work out.

She prepares egusi food and you definitely going to need spoon to eat that soup.

She makes her own idea of fresh fish pepper soup and you will see coagulated blood inside the fish floating on top****what i should call your grandmother's urine.

You returned home extra famished to get a salty,pepperish soup that will send you straight to the toilet.

You decide to go lowkey on beans and you will end up shuttling between your room and the rest room.that night,dont even think of wearing boxers cos you will mess it up.just tie her wrapper.

Now this is a girl you love so much and you dont wana lose.

Whether you impress a lady or not...if she dosnt like you...she will never do..it dosnt matter if you break d banks for her.so why nt be ur real self and attract ladies instead of impressing them.

temigracie: ...if u dont impress me...how on earth am i gonna fall inlove with u??.....i still like it wen guys dont pretend n show me who dey truly are....

nobody is saying d@ ladies shudnt be impressd...but most guys try too hard to do d@ thereby being some1 they re not.most men sabotage themselves with their overwhelming impulses to impress hot girls...d@s very gross!

They hem and haw..they try to say cool things,they act nervous during the conversation.worst all,they act like a *wussy*they dont dare to tease,let alone do anytin to upset a woman.all of this makes them act unnatural and that kills attraction.

The above screenshot was shared by a friend on facebook and it could be that it is not from a real life event-probably created for a laugh bt it carries a certain message worth a discussion.

The emotional state of jealousy does nt only rise out of negative thoughts bt also strong feelings of insecurity,fear and anxiety as to the propensity to loss something valuabel...in this case personal relationship or connection.

Both men and women ve the propensity to be jealous because no sex is jealous-proof but since jealous rise on emotional state and effectively operates wen the emotion is fragile.i believe women are more jealous compared to men wen it comes to relationships.

But mostly,the art of jealousy of a woman is justifiable or certain factors trigger that-even if these factors are far from the assumptions upon which the jealousy is formed.

Based on my life experience and smh my personal discretions,the women i ve come across ve been more jealous compared to the men,but i do not attribute this to insecurity or anxiety,rather tha general state of the woman's emotion.

Therefore, i will say, women wear jealousy crown and more often than not,their art of jealousy rest on unfounded grounds.

Out of your own relationship dealings or that of others,who do you think wears the jealousy crown and why

Plexus: Fu@ck off and stop ruining relationships with your incessant 750 paragraph rant essays on how to and how not to treat a woman...embarrassing tw@

Bleep off and stop typing gibberish comments!....if you dnt like my post....yu can go and get ebola disease and die!!!

Perhaps you ve found out the hard way that trying to impress women we consider hot and sexy does nt help.
Perhaps you re still on ur journey to discovery.

Many men try tooo hard to impress women in the hope of getting them to like and later,perhaps get into bed with them.what they do not know is that being too nice to a woman,agreeing with everytin that she sayz and being too accomodating pushes you further from her.

So called hot girls usually knows what you will do before you do it.many a time,it will take being different or offsetting her usual expectation to catch her eye.

Being spineless,predictable and obedient to her evry whims only tells her how weak,needy,nerdy,boring and inferior you are to her.

Once you expose her *superiority* over you through your actions,she will take that position and actually live it.you will then be perpetually out of her leaque.

So how do you avoid making the mistakes many men do?

Treat her like you would any oda person.No preferential treatment!the need to be yourself cannot be over emphasized in this case.disagree with her wen you need to and make suggestions of your own.

Avoid complimenting her on her physical beauty and suckling up to her.

That is not to say you should become a complete jerk.disagree with her in a reasonable way and make your position clear without becoming a bully.
You may even tease and poke fun at her sometimes.

So treat her like any other person and be you.that way,she dosnt gain the advantage of the higher grounds where she gets to predicts your evry move and control affairs.she also gets to see the real you.and how different you are from the pack of men she comes across.


Goodluck!!!

These rules are dedicated to each and evry classy lady out there that still have morals.it is Not so easy being a Lady with class nowadayz.with all the present economic hardships it is just difficult to stay On Top of your Game,but there is always hope.i sincerely hope that these words inspire you.

Love the one you are with or save them the heartache.

A girl dosnt need anyone who dosent need her.

Make your story is a good one.

It's the imperfect people that can make you perfectly happy.

Imperfection is beauty.

If you were happy before you met some1 you can be happy after they re gone.

Never apologize for saying how you feel.

Pretending feelings arent there,dosent make dem go away.

In other to be irreplaceable,one must always be different.

Laughter is the most attractive thing you can ever wear.

Posing with your alcohol is never cute.

Strength comes from your struggles.

If you dont believe in yourself,who will??

Life can get messy,but the good part is you decide how you are going to mess it up.

Start living before you are too old,regret is stupid.

If they care enough to be bothered with w@ you do,you re already better than dem.

It's better to be completely ridiculous,than completely boring.

Dont run from new beginnings,embrace them.

People are in your past for a reason.

Never regret.if it's good,it's wonderful.if it's bad,it's experience.

Keep your skirt down and your chin up.

His hands can also make a sandwich.

Always keep smiling.

Goodluck!!!!

Emmyfem97: OP, your grammer is embarrassing. You need to go back to primary 4.

and you need to grow up for posting d@ gribberish.

[quote author=tolugar]Some girls use it as a
f*****g
D**k[/quote

lol

D@ you re fortunate enough to go to college dosnt make you more important than odas...you guys shud stop telling people d@ they shud go bak to college cos of der grammatical errors...its quite unethical and its a high time some1 shud addrez dis cos its becoming an eye sore.afterall nairaland isnt a place to competite who goes to schl pass!!!...it isnt a place to show off how educated we are!!......and its certainly nt a must d@ evryone must attend college.so if you re fortunate enaf to attend college...use it to encourage odas nt to discourage dem,thereby demoralizing der self esteem.its very gross!

[quote author=Oliseloke][/quote]believe you me,you dont need to criticise d op...just criticize his write upz...its soo lame wen people criticize odas just cos of mistakes or grammatical errors in der typingz...it dosnt soound like encouragment...we need to encourage him nt to discourage him...atleast he is bold enough to come out and post sontin d@ is disturbing him and he is seeking ur advice,nt ur criticismz.its a high time most people on dis nairaland shud grow up and apreciate people's efforts here.

It dosnt matter if yu play hard to get or nt...who ever d@ will cheat in you will surely do...if yu like play hard for 3 years..yu can still get dumped on d very day yu ve sex with him..a guy can meet yu on d first day,ve sex with yu and go on marrying you..d same guy can play by ur rules and dump yu d moment he slept with you...d@s life!!

What do you know about cucumber?

Keeps you hydrated:if yu re too busy to drink enough water,much on the cool cucuber,which is 96 percent water.it will cheerfully compensate,fights heat both inside and outside.eat cucumber and ur body gets relief frm heartburn.

Apply cucumber on ur skin,and you get relief from sunburn.flushes out toxins.all d@ water in cucumber acts as a virtual broom,sweeping waste productz out of ur system.with regular use,cucumber is known to dissolve kidney stones.supplies skin friendly minerals:magnesium,potassium,silicon.

Revives the eyes.placing chilled slices of cucumber on the eye is a cliched beauty visual,but it really helps reduce under eye bags and puffiness.

Janetozi: so far, i have been able to manipulate 3, u are No 4 on my list.


Next!!!

congratulations!

Smh!!!...i will only luk handsome infront of my future galfriend...hope she is reading diz??

Janetozi: Hmmmmm!!! Let me see how many i can manipulate so i can play on their emotions.

No 4 is just the truth, just that some men a stingy to the bone "aka supper glue"

plsssss how many of u want to enter my manipulative list?

with d@ ur bokoharam head n ebola face...start with ur broz first abeg no offence!...just a recommendation.

All these people saying d@ you cant possibly cheat on some1 if you love dem re naive.

Does it make sense for guys to go along with d idea d@ they will neva ve sex with any1 else ever again,wen d biological imperative for male is to mate with as wide a variety of partners as possible.

At the same time,d biological imperative of female is to find a man who will stay with her and provide for her children and a man who is mating with oda women may be tempted to instead provide for the children he has with one of dose oda women.

So w@ is love?...love is the insane state of the male to agree to violate his biological imperative to meet her biological imperative.so by dis definition,if you re willing to ve sex with anoda woman,you cant be in love,but smh!!!...if you re willing to give up the opportunity to ve sex with oda women....you re insane......Goodluck!!!

Missjargo: It depends on d kinds of guys. If they r agberos, I will simply put on my earpiece. I will just walk past like there is no one in d world as I listen to my fav song. If they r cute guys, I will adjust properly and slowly catwalk my thing jare

cat walk keh!!...if i hear...with d@ ur elephant leg!...lol