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Every guy wants to show they are pros when it comes to trying to make a lady fall for them.
The truth is, these pro wannabes do stuff that are just … well let’s say will not look that hardcore when their boys boys get to hear about it. So they hide them.

No guy will go into a conversation with his boys and be like: “Kw33! Yestee I go wash the girl ihn things all. Her friend thinks she believes I’m the right guy. Ego work out soon”. No way! They’ll do it but will never talk about it.

Here are all the things guys chasing a lady do but never tell their homies.

1. Sending Mobile Money Low Key
No matter how guys deny this, if the telcos were to release a sent and received report of mobile money transactions like you go see say boys abr3! But none tells their homies they sent some cash via mobile money to that lady who hasn’t said yes yet.

2. Following The Lady To Church
We see them in church every day, don’t we?


3. Paying For Her Hair
She wants to look good and you’re willing to show you got her covered. Fair deal, just that the boys must not hear this.

4. Buying Lunch For Her And Her Friends
The lunch people buy for this country inside, only God knows. The sad part is she takes it in double double because of her friends and my guy can’t say no. How he go do am?


5. Buying Provisions If She’s In School
This is for the ones chasing kyekyes [secondary school girls]. And oh! word just came through that it happens at the tertiary level too. So basically once she’s in school, man has got to buy her provisions. Girl’s gotta eat right?

6. Buying Plenty Recharge Cards
And they don’t even call them with the credit after recharging. Practically in tears lmao


7. Constantly Checking Her DP And Social Media Statuses For Hints
To see if the efforts are helping them progress or retrogress. But boys go laugh them so they keep mute over this.


8. Blowing Nonfa During Phone Conversations
Guys will brag that they stayed on phone for an hour blowing these ladies’ minds away. But basically, their best lines in the whole conversation was: “Was the fufu you ate pounded in the mortar? Eii you’re watching Adom TV. Does your Adom TV show Kumkum Bhagya too? Mine does.”

9. Finding Creative Ways To Find Out If She Has A Boyfriend
“Nice dp. Did your boyfriend take that?”, “You’re so beautiful, he is a really lucky guy”.
Just so she would say ‘I don’t have a boyfriend’. But she won’t.

10. Being At Her Service All The Time
From lifting stuff, hammering things, these guys do everything. Not the hammering you’re thinking. We cleared this from the beginning, she’s not said ‘Yes’ yet.

We know the list is not full. You can add yours in the comment section.

The traits in a man that will uniquely make him physically and morally enticing to ladies ranges from his height, voice, mode of dressing and down to other physical attributes


Below are these qualities;

1. Strong Financial Status
When a guy is wealthy, even if he's crippled, he will get immense desperation from numerous ladies. In fact, most of them will even overlook his bad manners and disability. Times without number, I have seen ladies staring lust fully at guys riding big cars and without shame, they approach to woo these guys.

2. Body Physique
Ladies may not be able to hide their feelings when they spot tall, dark/fair and handsome guys. To make matters more interesting, when the so called guy has six packs, they grill their teeth endlessly. It's even funny that everyday, the same guy becomes their focal point of discussion as if something financially valuable will come out of it.

3. Sexy Voice and Good Grammatical Expression
A guy with cool voice and flawless grammatical expression is often admired by ladies. When such guys call a lady, she rushes with speed of light to pick his calls. Ladies will agree with me that a guy with captivating voice often turn them on and may even self service. Most radio presenters can relate to this.

4. Good Sense of Humour
Having a good sense of humour doesn't mean one should crack stupid jokes or become a notorious clown. Guys who know how to make irate or moody people laugh, top the list of guys being admired by ladies. To be candid, ladies do raise their eye brow when they spot a comedian and it doesn't necessarily means they are glean to his rich pocket alone but also his hilarious nature.

5. Good Dress Sense
A guy whose outfit is simple, neat and classic makes ladies go nuts when they spot him. A grown up man with ragged and tattered wears is such a big turn off for most ladies. Ladies can attest to this fact

6. Diligence and Intelligence
Ladies cherish hard working, focused and clever guys that don't womanize but focus in their careers.

7. Maturity and Respect
It's a pity that guys mistake maturity for over bloated ego. A man is supposed to know how to handle complex situation especially when a lady provokes him. Slapping or beating a lady is totally disrespectful and shameful. Being able to apply tactful acts to calm difficult situation will make him earn the respect and submission from a lady. There is no way these categories of guys will not be adore by ladies.

8. Good Cook
I have a friend who knows how to prepare all sort of meals deliciously. This guy's delicacies are so tantalising that even make a married man can abandon his wife meals for that of my friend. Ladies who have tasted his meals quickly fall in love and can't take their eyes away from him.

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You’re leaning in, climbing corporate ladders. demanding equal pay and respect from catcallers.
you re asking to be judged by the quality of your character, not by the length of your skirt or the number of guys you’ve slept with.
you’re progressing in wonderful ways, ways your foremothers would be so deeply proud of, ways your foremothers wouldn’t have even known needed changing.
But you still won’t ask your crushes out on dates.
Since when are you the type of women who sit and wait for what you want to come to you? Since when are you the type of women who linger passively on the sidelines and watch as life happens without you?
Since when are you the type of woman to let men do things for you?
Too many women are hesitant to ask guys on dates, to give guys an inkling of their interest in them. And it’s upsetting and limiting to some of dudes who want to date you.
you’re afraid of coming off as too assertive, too dominant or (the worst crime a woman can commit) not “mysterious” or “chase-able” enough.
But if women start asking guys out on dates, it’ll become a more normal way of doing things, and all of these fears will become eradicated.
In other words, if you start asking men out, it’ll pave the way for future generations of women to do so, too – and, even more so, to feel good about it.

1. You have the power to change what’s normal.

Think of it like this: Just a few decades ago, it wasn’t “the norm” to have relationships exclusively meant for hooking up. It wasn’t “the norm” for a woman to live with a guy before she married him.
It wasn’t “the norm” for a woman to be able to sleep with whomever she wanted and not feel shame for still wearing a white dress on her wedding day.
However, slowly but surely, women before you started doing all of these things with increasing frequency, and they became more normal.
If yall work together once again by changing the norm so that it’s OK for women to ask men out, you can give women even more choices when it comes to sex, love and relationships.

2. What’s the worst that could happen?

The worst that could happen if you ask a guy out is he’ll say no. If he says no, know that dudes have been told “no” since the beginning of the establishment of dating social norms and that, like those dudes, you’ll be fine! I promise.
Most importantly, know that a rejection is not about you. There is nothing wrong with you.
If you get rejected, that guy just wants something different, which means you don’t want to date him anyway because you’ll spend your whole relationship convincing him to want your brand of you. And that’s just exhausting.

3[b]. We Guys want you to[/b].

Five out of five of the guys I just asked say they would love if a girl asked them on a date.
If that doesn’t convince you, Cosmo cites a survey that determined that 95 percent of guys think it’s hot if a girl asks them out. And I agree.
The pressure of asking a girl out is a burden that dudes would be happy to get rid of.
Plus, if you ask him out, it’ll stroke his ego in a way that’ll be flattering for him, which will probably lead to a “yes” for you.

4. What if he’s too shy to make a move?

Guys need a little confidence, too – and if he’s a shy dude, he might never make a move.
So, if you feel like you’re the more outgoing one between the two of you, take the burden off him and ask him out.
He’ll probably feel relieved someone else did the work for him.

5. Knowing what you want and acting on it will make you feel sexy.

It sounds clichéd, but taking control of what you want is one of the most powerful things a woman can do.
you’ve been doing it in your careers, in your homes and your everyday lives, so why not do it for your relationships?
This kind of confidence is sexy in an I-know-what-I-want-and-it’s-you kind of way, and it’ll make you feel more attractive for having felt this way toward somebody and acting on it.

6. You’ll stop overanalyzing and finally get answers.

If you keep overanalyzing his mixed signals, the best way to solidify an answer either way is to simply ask for one.
If you ask him out, you’ll get a yes or a no, and then you’ll be freed from driving yourself crazy interpreting the amount of question marks he put in his “What’s up??” text.
You’ll be able to get things started in a productive way or put your fantasies of your life with this guy to rest and move on to the next one.

7. This is about you, too.

Dating is a two-way street. When a guy asks you out, he makes a decision to size you up, to see if you’re a good fit for him.
But wouldn’t it be awesome if you got to be the one to decide to size him up, to see if he’s a good fit for you?
Of course, that kind of mutual sizing-up would happen once you go on the date, but this would be a nice dynamic change that would make you feel powerful right from the start.

8. If nothing else, it’s practice.

If you spend your entire life waiting patiently for people to give you what you want, you’ll be pretty unsatisfied. And having guts takes practice.So, if all else fails, let this whole experience teach you a lesson in going for it. The next time you ask another guy out, it’ll be that much easier.

Ever wondered why bad girls get good guys? Take a look at this. Bad girls as seen by most people in the society are girls who are excessively social. They are brave, outgoing and daring. They seem to enjoy life to the fullest while partying hard. These are some of the girls whose lives revolve round being in clubs and never missing a happening event in the society. They know the most talked about people and are able to identify the rich and wealthy guys. Below are some insights as to why the bad girls get hooked to the good guys.


(1) Bad girls are smart

These girls are outgoing ladies who know how to mingle. They are ‘not dulling’ in the real sense of the word. They are most times beautiful ladies who are fashion as and pull attraction everywhere they step into. They understand that most of the good men out there have careers and could be wealthy. And to ease off the built up tension of work and other life issues, they pass out time in the clubs and bars. The good girls are hardly found in this kind of setting.

(2)Force of attraction


Basic knowledge of Physics could be likened to real life situation here. Just like when objects that are electrically neutral with equal amounts of neutrons (negative charge) and protons (positive charge) connect when in close proximity, two individuals with different life styles bond too. Just as the protons could become negatively charged and the neutrons positively charged, the bad girl and the good guy would influence each other until they reach equilibrium. They become perfect for each other

(3)More experienced

The bad girls are often ‘long legged’. They seem to have been everywhere and have heard things that could guide them in their sojourn in life. They know things the good girls don’t and have firsthand experience of places. They have the ability to place the men who approach them and identify the exceptionally good ones among them. They know the players and understand the ‘no-time-to-waste-men’. They recognise potentials in the men once they see them and go extra miles to keep the men attracted to them.

(4)Sexual satisfaction

Like most good girls who keep their legs closed, some bad girls keep theirs even closer. They taunt the men until they have built up a se xual tension in them. However, most of the bad girls are wild. They seem to explore always and know how to please the men. They could take men to different pleasurable heights before pushing them over the edge. They leave the guys in cloud nine at the end of the whole thing. Every guy wants a woman that would drive him wild in bed and give him an unforgettable time. So the bad girl is picked over the good ones here.

(5)Relativity

One man’s meat is another man’s poison, they say. This explains why some men would deliberately choose a bad girl over a good girl even when they know about their escapades. Some bad girls after settling down with good men become submissive and trade their old habits for good ones. Men’s choice can’t be fully ascertained as one could never be sure of the magnetic force between them and the bad girls.


(6) Compulsory retirement

There’s time for everything. The bad girls can’t remain bad forever. They get tired of their old ways at certain points in time. They calm down and mellow when they have seen it all. This doesn’t make them less desirable, they remain piping hot because they maintain their dress sense and good looks. In fact, they become better people with improved mannerism and are able to live responsibly after.



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They line the streets at night with their seductive dresses and solicit sex for a fee. Most of us have at one point or another seen

They line the streets at night with their seductive dresses and solicit sex for a fee. Most of us have at one point or another seen prostitutes on the street.

They aren’t difficult to pick out, after all, they’d have a difficult time finding customers if they were. Prostitution is one of the oldest professions, and not much has changed about how it’s done in all those years. But today, things are being done a little differently.

Not every prostitute can be found on the streets anymore. And not every prostitute takes money for sex. There are young girls these days who are willing to sleep with any guy who can afford to buy them something as little as a plate of Indomie (a popular noodle in Ghana) for supper.

It is their own way of surviving the difficulties of life. They are jobless, spend the day sitting under trees gossiping or watching television and spend the night pursuing their male friends for favours. Can that also be termed prostitution? I believe so.

Today, prostitution, just like many other professions, is evolving with the introduction of technology and social media.

Some ladies, either too shy or too proud to expose their faces on the streets at night, hide behind social media to sleep their way to riches.

I call it Facebook prostitution, and it works in different ways. Some ladies post seductive pictures of themselves to entice Hot guys. These guys hit their inboxes to pursue them. Through inbox chat, they demand a negotiable fee to sleep with them.

Others do theirs behind the closed doors of secret groups on Facebook and WhatsApp. While some people use Facebook groups to socialize, and to catch up with old friends and meet new ones, others are using the popular social network to find clients for sex.

You’re probably asking how one can identify a prostitute on Facebook, right? Let me feed your curious minds.

Half the people in your friend list are probably people you have never met before. And some of these friends may actually be prostitutes.

So how do you know who is offering you what? First, their names may give you an idea of what they do or are capable of doing. Friends with seductive and flirty names like naughty girl, flirty girl, Hot diva etc. should give you a clue.

You can also go beyond their names to know more about them in the “About” option on their wall. There, you can get their interests, what pages they have liked, the movies they love to watch and so on. If these things are mostly pornographic, there’s a pretty good chance she’s willing to exchange sex for money.

They can also easily pop up in your Google search by typing your location and something related to sex. For example, type Facebook hook ups, Facebook Sugar Mummy, Facebook private talks etc.

Finally, keep an eye on what they post on their walls. They send clear messages through their posts, and that is how I found my source for this article.

In my investigation, I came across Abena, who boldly uses her Facebook page to love-vendor out girls for cash.

She requests any guy above 30 years interested in a hook up to inbox her for details about the hook up, which I did as an undercover writer. “Guys below 30 years do not have enough money to pay my clients and therefore we prefer older guys,” Abena told me.

Abena has a number of girls she pimps out. To get a contact of an ordinary girl who hides behind the cover of Facebook to prostitute, Abena demands an initial deposit of 10 cedis in the form of recharge card before she gives out a number.

I managed to convince her to give me a number, which she did after I promised her more clients when the rendezvous goes well.

Yvette, the prostitute, readily agreed to meet me for a “short time” 2 hours of steamy sex for a fee of 200 cedis(around20k) or an all-night round of romance for 400 cedis.

Yvette speaks impeccable English, which indicates she is educated. Abena pimps out educated girls, with some pursuing higher education in the universities.

For those prostitutes on the streets, they are bold enough to declare to the whole world what they do for a living, but for these up and comers, why hide behind social media to prostitute?

Could it be that they come from privileged homes? More than likely with some of them being university students. Do they then think that they’re too good to be on the streets with the poor girls?

What then is their motivation? If it’s money, surely it isn’t to buy Indomie noodles. Are they not in school to make something better out of their lives? Is prostituting themselves somehow helping further that goal?

On the other side of the coin, discussions on prostitution are always limited to the women, but the profession never ceases to be attractive thanks to the patronage of men. Right or wrong?

The men are equally as guilty as the women. If guys stop paying for sex, the business will no longer be lucrative enough to entice more girls, will it?

200 cedis(around 20k) for two hours and 400 cedis(around 40k) for a night is a gold mine. Come on, that is someone’s monthly salary for Christ’s sake. To earn it in two hours or a day is a jackpot. And for some, that kind of money is just too much temptation.

Your daughter, sister, friend, or even girlfriend may be involved. You may assume she is decent, but hidden behind her Facebook wall she’s having sex for money. And you may also think he is decent, but meanwhile he’s trolling Facebook for girls he can pay for sex.

With the spread of HIV/AIDS, Hepatitis B and now Ebola, all transferable by the exchange of bodily fluids, who is safe if abstinence is not your thing? Your next friend request could be a deadly disease!

5. They want to sleep with MUCH hotter women.

For the average nigerian man, getting to sleep with a hot girl in mini skirt, high heels and weave-on is a plus. However, marrying such a girl is a non-starter. So nigerian men tend to keep their women at home and hire prostitues

4. They want to be in control.

Half the time, women use the power of sex as a tool in relationships. Chances are that your woman is controlling or steering the relationship. the hooker, however, does not know you so you are more than likely to control her to the fullest.

3. They want to indulge in a fantasy.

If you are paying a prostitute, trust me, she would do everything you like in the bedroom. Try same with the woman you have been married with for 5 years and you will see the slaps you are going to get. So people with partners try prostitutes just to indulge in their 3somes, anal sex MouthAction fantasies

2. They want to find the quickest route to having sex.

This is crazily annoying. It might interest you to know that on the average, a nigerian who is not in relationship gets to have sex than the one who is in a relationship. It is therefor easier for some men to just go in for a prostitute if they want sex the easiest way.

1. They want to avoid complications.

Yes, if you have a partner and decide to get extra girl, it might be disastrous. For some men, hiring a prostitute who is in for just business is the best thing if you love your partner and want to do away with complications.

FIrstly, Cucumbers are ideal if you want to add some vegetables to your meal, they make your diet healthier. Almost all parts of the world, Cucumbers are used in traditional diets as well as spas for the fact that they are good for health.
Many ladies are now patronising Cucumber for another reason, mostly to satisfy their sexual life, but we are not going to talk about that, we are looking at the health benefit aspect of it, it uses and the value it can bring to your health.

You might be missing alot of health benefits of Cucumber, in this article we are going to show you some of its benefits.
FIrstly, Cucumbers are ideal if you want to add some vegetables to your meal, they make your diet healthier. Almost all parts of the world, Cucumbers are used in traditional diets as well as spas for the fact that they are good for health.
Many ladies are now patronising Cucumber for another reason, mostly to satisfy their sexual life, but we are not going to talk about that, we are looking at the health benefit aspect of it, it uses and the value it can bring to your health.
Here are some of the benefits of Cucumbers: potential anti diabetic, antioxidant activity, cleansing action of toxins and waste, soothing effect against skin irritation, and prevention of constipation.
Below are the detail benefits of Cucumber in a list of 10, enjoy it:
1. Help you stay hydrated
Cucumbers are 95.2 percent water, which means that a 5-ounce serving contains 4.8 ounces or 150 ml water. That’s already about 26 percent of your daily water intake through food.
2. Support heart health
Cucumbers contain potassium (152mg per cup), which can help lower blood pressure. A review of the best studies conducted on potassium intake showed that a higher intake “is associated with lower rates of stroke and might also reduce the risk of total cardiovascular disease.”
As less than 2 percent of U.S. adults consume the recommended 4,700 mg potassium per day, eating cucumbers is an easy way to start increasing your potassium consumption.
3. Protect your brain from neurological diseases
An anti-inflammatory substance called fisetin is present in cucumbers, as well as strawberries and grapes.
It has recently been suggested that fisetin plays an important role in brain health: It would have “the ability to reduce the impact of age-related neurological diseases on brain function,” and it would also help maintain cognitive function in people with Alzheimer’s disease.
4. Protect your skin against the effects of aging
There is a reason why cucumbers are used in skin care: They have been shown to be effective as a potential anti-wrinkle agent in cosmetic products, protecting our skin form the effects of aging.
5. Fight inflammation in the body and reduce the risk of cancer
Cucumbers can help lower the inflammatory response in the body. They contain polyphenols called lignans, which can potentially reduce the risk of certain cancers and cardiovascular diseases.
They also contain plant nutrients called cucurbitacins, which have anti-cancer properties: “Scientists have already determined that several different signaling pathways required for cancer cell development and survival can be blocked by activity of cucurbitacins.”
6. Relieve pain
Flavonoids, which are anti-inflammatory substances, and tannins in cucumbers have both been shown to limit the release of free radicals in the body and to reduce pain.
As explained in the Journal of Young Pharmacists, “traditionally, this plant is used for headaches; the seeds are cooling and diuretic, the fruit juice is used as a nutritive and as a demulcent in anti-acne lotions.”
7. Reduce bad breath
Bad breath is usually caused by bacteria in the mouth. Fiber and water-rich vegetables like cucumbers can boost your mouth’s saliva production, which in turn helps wash away the bacteria that cause the odor in the mouth.
8. Protect your bones
Cucumber are a good source of vitamin K: One cup contains 22 percent of the recommended daily intake of vitamin K. This vitamin is essential for bone health, as low vitamin K intakes have been associated with a higher risk for bone fracture. Vitamin K is also important for improving calcium absorption in the bones.
9. Prevent constipation
Cucumbers are rich in water, and their skin contains insoluble fiber. Both water and fiber help food to move through the digestive tract quicker and more easily, helping prevent constipation.
10. Maintain a healthy weight
Cucumbers are very low in calories (16 calories per cup) and they also contain fiber in the skin. And foods that contain fiber can help maintain a healthy weight.

WOMEN ARE ACTUALLY BETTER CHEATS THAN MEN IN BOTH CHEATING AND HIDING...

Women are better at cheating and hiding it then men.
Women tend to be more aroused by sexuality that includes or implies some form of emotional connection as with romance-oriented erotica such as Fifty Shades of Grey and Twilight, both of which have primarily female audiences.
women who cheat are much more likely to want and/or need an intimate emotional bond with their affair partner — even simply to believe they have such a bond, though the man may feel differently.

Women who step out on a husband or significant other — male or female — do so for any number of reasons, the five most common of which are listed below:
Why Women Cheat?In truth, some women cheat because they receive little sex or physical intimacy from their spouse. After all, healthy adult women enjoy the physical act of sex as much as men do.

1; She feels underappreciated, neglected, or ignored. A woman who feels more like a housekeeper, financial provider, or nanny than a wife or girlfriend is more vulnerable to finding an external situation that brings attention and appreciation for who she is rather than the functions she performs.

2; She craves intimacy. More so than men, women feel valued and connected to their relationship partner through non-sexual emotional interaction such as touching, kissing, cuddling, gift-giving, being remembered, and most of all meaningful communication.
Women who aren’t getting their intimacy needs met by a primary partner may look elsewhere, trying to meet those needs through sexual/romantic relationships.

3; She is bored and/or lonely. Women who find themselves alone at home for long periods of time, perhaps when caring for young children or even after children are grown and gone, can feel that their lives lack meaning, and they may use casual sex or deeper romantic affairs to fill the void.
Women who have spouses or partners who are absent for long periods of time related to work (military service, for example) may also turn to sex and affairs to fill what feels like an untenable emptiness.
Those who are more narcissistic and emotionally immature may expect a significant other to meet their every single need, and also to be a mind-reader in terms of knowing what those needs are. When their human and imperfect partner inevitably fails them, they feel justified in seeking attention elsewhere.

4 She has an intimacy disorder.
Early childhood trauma and/or sexual abuse often lead women (and men) in adult life to problems with addictive sex and/or serial cheating. Such women repeatedly seek emotional intensity rather than relational intimacy. Women with unresolved childhood trauma as well as those with emotional instability — women who carry an uneven and disjointed sense of self — can seek consistency and feelings of importance through intensity-based romantic and/or sexual activity.

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Money is a big issue in the relationship. Ladies are looking for wealthy suitors to provide for them and pay for all they fan they have. Is she dating you for money or is she truly in love with you? Find out now.

1. She keeps asking for it

We all have urgent situations from time to time. She may need some medicine or to pay her rent urgently, and you can help her, but is she asking for money all the time? That’s a bad sign.

2. When she is the happiest

Watch for her reactions and emotions. Some men are not attentive enough, and they deserve to be dated for money! If you do, you can uncover her real reasons. Is she happy, when you are around just talking to her? Or is she happy, when you take her shopping or to a restaurant?

3. Tell her you are broke

It’s a risky test. Do it only if you really want to know the truth. After all, she never promised yet to be with you in good and bad times!

4. Her lifestyle

Compare her income with how much she spends. Does she have expensive outfits, makeup, and other things? A real question to ask is: where does she get all the money from? Does she have a sugar daddy? Are you not the first one to pay her bills?

5. You just feel it

You have a strong sense she is with you for money. It might be right, only first make sure you have enough to seduce a woman!

6. Does she care to keep you well financially?

If a girl is seriously in love with you, she would worry over you spending too much on her. She would be unhappy about such habits of wasting money and would want you to get better management of your finances. If she is after your money, she won’t care a dime.

7. Tantrums

The next time she asks you to take her out or shopping, just says “no” and see how she reacts. If she throws a fit over it, the answer is clear.

8. No pain, no gain?

Is she willing to have sex with you only after you give her and expensive gift or a shopping tour? That’s a sure sign.

9. Give her your credit card and see how it goes

It could be a costly test, but it works. If she spends recklessly, she is after your money!

10. Listen to her carefully

When she talks, she unwillingly gives away her true motives. You only need to know how to listen. What does she share the most? Does she have a plan for her life and high ambitions or does she talk only of her troubles?

Once you learn the signs, you can surely tell if the girl is into you or your wallet!

Marriage can make you either happy or miserable. Since these days most women work and build careers, you have to be wise in your choice. Some professions make ladies less fit for marriage than others. If you wish to be happy with your wife, never marry nurses, lawyers, police women or TV news presenters or models. And here is why.

Things rapidly change in our community and a new culture of relationship is being introduced. In the past women cooked, took care of children and homes and that was about it. Presently, they get education, make money and become bosses. It changes the old course of life in the family. Some professions do not add up to the family happiness.

Do not marry women of these professions, if you wish to be happy:

1. Lawyers

These ladies know their rights and the law. In most cases, they know the law much better than their husbands do. So, if you wish to be the head of the house or divorce a woman like that, you get yourself into some serious trouble.

She can sue you and get all the property, kids, money, etc. She can take a firm stand for her rights and leave you with nothing! Do not mess around with a lawyer wife.

2. Police women


They are tough. Their work demands them to be tough. And that thing does not pass when they return home. So, often instead of being disciplined by their husbands, they discipline the men. And they can be called back to work at any hour of the day or night. So, they do not really have much time for the family life, cooking or the household.

3. Models or news presenters

One thing these ladies have in common is their beauty. They are hot; that’s why you are after them. But unless you are a tycoon or a politician, you have few chances of keeping her love and faithfulness. These women are seen by many; rich and famous get attracted to them. They have much more to offer than you do and… well, you know that story. Only a few women can resist the temptation of money and power.

4. Nurses

These girls are constantly on duty. They help the sick and suffering people. That’s good, but it drains them emotionally. They see so much suffering that it can make them uninterested in sex or emotional relations with you. Plus, many of them tend to fall in love with doctors or even patients and have sex with them.

So, men, if you are after the traditional pattern of marriage, do not hook up with the ladies from these professions. They will frustrate your expectations.

The Old Testament law commanded the Israelites, “Do not cut your bodies for the dead or put tattoo marks on yourselves. I am the LORD” (Leviticus 19:28). So, even though believers today are not under the Old Testament law (Romans 10:4; Galatians 3:23–25; Ephesians 2:15), the fact that there was a command against tattoos should raise some questions. The New Testament does not say anything about whether or not a believer should get a tattoo.

We do have this command in 1 Peter 3:3–4: “Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.” Granted, this passage is directed at Christian women, but there is a principle here that may be apropos: namely, a person’s external appearance should not be the focus of our attention. Much effort goes into “elaborate hairstyles” and “fine clothes” and jewelry, but that’s not where a woman’s true beauty lies. In the same way, tattoos and body piercings are “outward adornment,” and we should be careful to give more effort to the development of the “inner self,” regardless of our gender.

In relation to tattoos and body piercings, a good test is to determine whether we can honestly, in good conscience, ask God to bless and use that particular activity for His own good purposes. “So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God” (1 Corinthians 10:31). The New Testament does not specifically command against tattoos or body piercings, but it also does not give us any reason to believe God would have us get tattoos or body piercings.

An important scriptural principle on issues the Bible does not specifically address is if there is room for doubt whether it pleases God, then it is best not to engage in that activity. Romans 14:23 reminds us that anything that does not come from faith is sin. We need to remember that our bodies, as well as our souls, have been redeemed and belong to God. Although 1 Corinthians 6:19–20 does not directly apply to tattoos or body piercings, it does give us a principle: “Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body.” This great truth should have a real bearing on what we do and where we go with our bodies. If our bodies belong to God, we should make sure we have His clear “permission” before we “mark them up” with tattoos or body piercings.

There are two issues involved in this question, the things that the Bible specifically mentions and declares to be sin and those the Bible does not directly address. Scriptural lists of various sins include Proverbs 6:16-19, Galatians 5:19-21, and 1 Corinthians 6:9-10. There can be no doubt that these passages present the activities as sinful, things God does not approve of. Murder, adultery, lying, stealing, etc.—there is no doubt the Bible presents such things as sin. The more difficult issue is in determining what is sinful in areas that the Bible does not directly address. When the Bible does not cover a certain subject, we have some general principles in His Word to guide us.

First, when there is no specific scriptural reference, it is good to ask not whether a certain thing is wrong, but, rather, if it is definitely good. The Bible says, for example, that we are to “make the most of every opportunity” (Colossians 4:5). Our few days here on earth are so short and precious in relation to eternity that we ought never to waste time on selfish things, but to use it only on “what is helpful for building others up according to their needs” (Ephesians 4:29).

A good test is to determine whether we can honestly, in good conscience, ask God to bless and use the particular activity for His own good purposes. “So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God” (1 Corinthians 10:31). If there is room for doubt as to whether it pleases God, then it is best to give it up. “Everything that does not come from faith is sin” (Romans 14:23). We need to remember that our bodies, as well as our souls, have been redeemed and belong to God. “Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body” (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). This great truth should have a real bearing on what we do and where we go.

In addition, we must evaluate our actions not only in relation to God, but also in relation to their effect on our family, our friends, and other people in general. Even if a particular thing may not hurt us personally, if it harmfully influences or affects someone else, it is a sin. “It is better not to eat meat or drink wine or to do anything else that will cause your brother to fall....We who are strong ought to bear with the failings of the weak and not to please ourselves” (Romans 14:21; 15:1).

Finally, remember that Jesus Christ is our Lord and Savior, and nothing else can be allowed to take priority over our conformity to His will. No habit or recreation or ambition can be allowed to have undue control over our lives; only Christ has that authority. “Everything is permissible for me—but not everything is beneficial. Everything is permissible for me—but I will not be mastered by anything” (1 Corinthians 6:12). “And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him” (Colossians 3:17).

To put it bluntly, nightclubs are part of the world which is controlled by Satan. They are designed for the purpose of giving oneself over to sinful desires. Nightclubs exist primarily for two purposes: drinking alcohol and meeting members of the opposite sex, most often with sexual activity in mind. Yes, there are music and dancing, but primarily singles in particular go clubbing to drink and meet someone. Nightclubs are of the world, and, while Christians are to be in the world, we are not to be of it. Being of the world means to be interested in and desiring those things that appeal to the sinful nature.

Paul, speaking to Christians, addresses the issue of worldly practices in Ephesians 4:17-24, "So I tell you this, and insist on it in the Lord, that you must no longer live as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their thinking. They are darkened in their understanding and separated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them due to the hardening of their hearts. Having lost all sensitivity, they have given themselves over to sensuality so as to indulge in every kind of impurity, with a continual lust for more. You, however, did not come to know Christ that way. Surely you heard of him and were taught in him in accordance with the truth that is in Jesus. You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness." Here Paul describes those who exclude God and give themselves over to sensuality for the practice of every kind of impurity with greediness.

Obviously, God does not desire us to give ourselves over to sin so easily and willfully. Notice what God says here, "put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires." It's interesting to note that God says when we give ourselves over to our sin nature, we are being deceived by our desires. Satan is a master counterfeiter. In other words, Satan presents something that appears on the surface to be attractive. The lure of clubbing is that it is very enjoyable, fun, and exciting. What we don't see are the consequences because Satan keeps the sensual attraction at the forefront of our minds. Sex, alcohol, and drugs—all found in most nightclubs—are very destructive, both physically and spiritually. God has a place for sex where it is the most enjoyable—in monogamous marriage, where there are no STD's, HIV, guilt, aloneness—and those who don't believe God in this are short-changing themselves.

God desires for us to be righteous and holy because He created us to be that way. The benefits of living the life that God intended far exceed the petty, short-lived thrills that this world offers. Many who are or used to be in the nightclub lifestyle say the same thing—there is no joy, there is no fulfillment; there is only emptiness. Only God can fulfill our needs and give us the joy and happiness we all seek. Clubbing offers nothing more than a very cheap imitation. There is no lasting joy to be found in nightclubs, only temptation to sin.

Such places are most especially not for Christians. Aside from the obvious temptations, there is the issue of our Christian witness in the world. When unbelievers see a professing Christian engaging in a sinful lifestyle, Christ is maligned and demeaned. We are to let our lights shine before men so they see our good works and glorify our Father who is in heaven (Matthew 5:16). It’s hard to see how the light of our new life in Christ can shine in a nightclub. Even if the Christian is not indulging in the sinful activities, the witness he or she presents to the watching world by just being there is destructive and must be avoided.

Chrisrare:
She's obese and she's still breaking up with a guy dat manage to date her... Hmmm. Her case is terrible.

why would her case be terrible?..are you her creator?..stop commenting just cos you have hands and you are using phone or computer,use your encephalon biko.what makes you think she is not happy?..thats silly comment.

The dastardly behavior of the dude is stupidest.its so lame and unequivocally detestable addressing such private issues in that manner.believe you me,he doesn't have respect and love for her,what he practically feel for her is pity.why would you ask her out in the primus place when you know you loathe fatness? apparently thats what happens when most ladies go for kids or blokes with infantile behaviors.|
#quite disheartening#

As for the lady in question,she made a good decision,i do probably do the same if i were her.Life continues,accept that and find someone who is going to love and respect you for who you are.Everyone has something they can do to improve themselves. If you forgive yourself for not being perfect, and focus on what you have, on what makes you attractive. . . it will draw people to you.

#1 They're Smart

Cheaters are usually pretty smart. It's not that they don't get caught, it's that they're so good at being manipulative that they can fool a girl into thinking they're sorry when they're not. Even when she knows she's being manipulative, she secretly sees him as a stronger set of genetics.

#2 They're Confident

Cheaters have a certain type of confidence. They know they can have whoever they want and it shows. A confident man seems like a more evolved man.

#3 They Seem Valuable

If a man is wanted by a lot of women he seems like he has better genetics than other men. This makes them look like good dad material.

#4 They're Cheaters Too

Women who cheat are more likely to fall for men who cheat. They are both trying to spread their seed––improving their chances of producing healthy offspring that will live on. Even if they are faithful at the time, they understand why their man wouldn't be. Deep down inside, it doesn't bother them that much.

#5 They're Sexy

Cheaters are sexy. They're good lovers and women know it.

#1 Being Controlling

Showing signs of being overbearing, jealous, or in need of control will make any woman hate you very quickly

#2 Being Picky About Food

It's a shrimp, bro. Just eat it, or she'll know you are a complete and utter puss

#3 Straying Eyes

Don't take her for granted by acting like you are on the prowl, or you won't have her at

#4 Arrogance

To quote Borat: "Is it not true that woman have brain the size of squirrel?". Yeah, that kind of stuff.

#5 Not "Listening"

Whatever that old trope means

#6 Doing "Your Own Thing"

Whether it's with the boys or with the Xbox, doing things without her is a no-no.

you can freely add yours..........

There are some things you have to have in order in the mist of you wanting and praying for something.

Don't Pray for a HUSBAND if you have a problem keeping your house clean, your body clean or your mouth clean(Language). It will also help if you know how to cook and wash clothes meaning knowing how to take care of yourself.

MEN, please don't pray or look for a wife if you have a problem taking care of Business and handling money or if you are not gentleman enough to respect a Woman or even open the car doors for her or if you are not finished being a BOY with your Boys. A Man needs to know how to be responsible and take care his wife. If you can't take care of yourself don't try to take care a Woman and children.We have to work on having the qualities to be a HUSBAND or a WIFE before the time comes. The more Qualities you have in place before you get MARRIED the Better things will be!

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It's plausible And normal for guys to discuss their sexual activity amongst each Other but it's insanely irresponsible,freakish and anomalous when They tend to discuss with with opposite sex and when it becomes toomuch. Such dialogue should be limited to certain length.

There is nothing incoherently wrong with a girl inviting he friends on her first date.. It's up to the dude to accept or reject cos you are still the man as long as she asked for a permission before doing so. I can only chastise her for saying just 3k, rather than that she did absolutely nothing wrong.. The dude is just not man enough to know what he wants period. Let's halt using predetermined mindset in judging matters..its quite lame.

[quote author=OlujobaSamuel post=46622675]seems some people don't read before commenting.
I see the guy as an irresponsible dude, he was informed before the lady even decide coming along with her friends, yet the ediot accepted the offer, and we have girls here insulting the lady and some guys like the dude praising him.
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I literally concur to your remarks. The guy in question is totally lame and irresponsible.. He should have objected to his date coming along with her friends in the Primus place. You accepted the third party and you couldn't even afford the ticket for the so-called third party and the pillocks in here are even supporting him. It's high time most hombres on this platform halt using predetermined mindset in judging matters.

I wonder what this platform is turning into ...when gibberish and underwhelming post like this continue to make FP. Its high time their so called administrators do something.one Hombre posting for ostentatious purposes.

I think peeps who vehemently uses churlish words on social media is either lame, ungracious,jejune or Prolly being ostentatious and that's very pathetic.. You don't criticise people but their write-ups it doesn't matter how chastising their posts might be. Always pay obeisance when you are in public.

samted:
Before you start throwing grammar around you shud realize two things. I never said it was wrong and it is my opinion on the matter. I don't have a 'penchant' for hanging out with guys. And believe me...it's not an African thing. That's your inferiority complex speaking.

Lol, my inferiority complex,dude halt your circumlocution attitude, when you iterated that you don't think it's normal for a guy to hang out with fellow guys than ladies, what are you implying then?..

When something is not normal, it becums abnormal and tantamount to the word wrong I used in my context,i think you are circuitously saying that's it's wrong. It doesn't matter how you ingeminated it.

emusmithy:
Create one or Shut up!

I cant shut up cos it's becoming stupendous.moreover ain't talking, am typing and apparently ain't chastising anyone,just the write-ups. So you berra use your encephalon to iterate awe-inspiring post or rest your thumbs and observe.