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When i was in high school,i often obsessed about what i look like,perhaps this happens to everyone,more or less.it is common to be a bit dissatisfied with parts of our body,our appearance and our level of attractiveness.
This dissatification and concerns especially comes out when we think about dating and becoming pasionate with a partner.

Later,i came to understand that physical appearance was not the only aspect of our body that was attractive.our personalities can influence how others see us.in addition,our confidence and social skills can spark attraction,passion and intrigue in potential lovers.

Moreover,those unchangeable parts of our looks are not driving attraction anyway!..contrary to popular belief,a symmetrical nose,the perfectly proportionate figure or a classic face are not nearly as important as aspect of yourself that are easy to change.the little things under your control are the most attractive charateristics of all.

1)Glooming..by far the most important feature.
Take some time to care for urself,shower,take some gel and hair cream.shave and trim where you need to.be neat,look and smell good too.Grooming alone can make(or break) ur attractiveness.

2)Clothing....also important and relatively easy fix is ur style.your clothes needs to be clean,ironed n well maintained.they also need to fit you well and flatter your shape.finally,they shud be little classy.

3)Posture....practice standing up straight,hold your head up,put ur shoulders back. Buy some sensible shoes,a gud desk chair or a corset if you need to. gud posture is sexy.it also contributes to the right body language for dating.

4)Attitude...remember to put on a happy face.smile,be pleasant,positive and friendly.heck,a gud personality can even over shadow other physical issues you may have.so be happy and get a date or keep a lover.

5)Fitness...granted,this isnt as easily changeable as the others(atleast for me).essentially,we are shooting for relatively healthy.no need to obsess n go over board.but do your best to eat well and move around a bit and care for your health.Good grooming,the right clothes and standing up straight can go a long way towards minimizing what diet and exercise dont too.

6)Gender....generally,try to look masculine or feminine(depending on who you want to attract)to be more masculine,muscle up ur shoulders and chest(or wear a nice padded sport coat)...to be more feminine...learn to properly apply make up,accentuating your eyes and lips.also grow ur hair longer(or just get an extensions).

In conclusion.....Groom well,buy some clothes that fit,stand up straight,smile ,and be healthy.thats all it takes to be attractive,sexy and get a date or mate.you can take the plastic surgeon off ur speed dial nw....stop obsession and stop trying be some1 else and go have some fun!!



GOODLUCK

It is natural for men to want a beautiful wife.but in a long run,is physical beauty really important in a marriage?

Can the married,experienced and wiser men on dis site provide advice?
How would you advice your friend who is looking for a wife?
Where would you put beauty on the list of desirable traits?on top or below,somewhere in the middle,or not all.....

prettyjo:
opinion of an ugly guy.my friend park go one side joor.


don't quote me again if you don't have anything meaningful to say.thanks

i dont blame you,just cos ur mum tells you that ur pretty dosent mean that you are attractive to real guys,you are just delusional...you re only attractive to cheap n fake guys who will only pour cheap champaiqne in between ur cheap thighs..it depends on your character,charisma and personality.gals of 1996

prettyjo:
as for me,its still a criteria to getting me.
No matter how rich you are,once you are not handsome,I won't date or marry you.
#say no to ugly guys#
my opinion.

opinion dat only exist on paper ...smh!!!...maybe obasanjo even fine pass ur boyfriend...

My opinion!!!

We can all think of a few things we wish our other half would do more often..whether its sex or cooking etc afterall nobody is perfect.

Here are the few things we guys wish our partner wud do more often:

* sex

*managing money

*cooking

*being tidy

*socializing

*listening

*being romantic

*cleaning

*sense of direction

*driving

Large gap can increase the risks of divorce in a relationship/marriage.the larger the age gap between you and your partner,the more likely the marriage will end in divorce.

There are number of reasons why a large age gap could increase the chances of a split,but i will just emphasize on one cos i have witnessd it severally.

If the older partner has already achieved a lot of life goals,such as having children,buying a car or travelling,their goals may not be in sync with those of the younger partner.many arguments can occur as a result,as the expectations of the younger partner may not be met.

However,if their is an age gap in a relationship and both partners share similar hopes and dreams for the future,or have been able to come to a happy compromise.this may help to strenghten the relationship.

My opinion though!!!!....lets see yours

Are Age gaps in a relationships a good thing or a recipe for a disaster

Except only on nollywood movies cos since d days of adam,sampson,david etc..ladies are always unpredictable and only the predictable guys shall taketh dem by force.FEAR WOMEN!!!

kethoja:
You be poor fool, na everybody when get money nia him name dey enter Forbes list ? People like una nia go get 20k dey halla like rick ross.....when u see good thing appreciate am before poverty cloud ur brian.....mtcheeew

gbam....you have said it all!!!....enemies of progress shud keep hating!!

The point is that neither GEJ nor 8UHARI is qualified to lead us into promised land.may the will of God happen cum feb 14th.

Rev mbaka's new year resolution is sure sign that God has rejected this government owing to its unpardonable transgressions and anti people undertakings.i believe that Mr president and his cronies ve read mbaka's treaties and soon his goons and attack lions will launch a blizkreig campaiqne to discredit him.bt love mbaka or hate him,he has spoken the truth and the truth will prevail.

Ad4:
The rev has always been on his own. The Holy Spirit can not be confused and nobody,I mean nobody has the right to portray the Holy Spirit as being confused.
Men of God should mind what they say on the alter. If they want to take bride or turn politicians they must drop the microphone and leave the pulpit alone. They should not drag or confuse the congregation.
I know who I will vote for because I know he truth. 100 Rev. Mbakas, 1000 Pastor Tunde Bakares and 1000000 prophesies will not change my mind.So they should stop wasting their time.

you are sooo clueless and confused...no1 is askiing you to vote for GEJ nor BUHARI..rev mbaka made an opinion and a reasonable one for that matter which shud be taken into consideration.last time i checked,his opinion dnt say dat you and I shud vote for buhari nor GEJ.dont just bring ur own abeg

cocoduck:
The Bible says that if you sin against God or Jesus you may be forgiven but if anyone blasphemes against the Holy Spirit, there is no forgiveness.

hmmmm...now you are being judgemental...who told yu dat he has sinned against the holy spirit??...people and their inherent judgemental attitude...so very gross!!

jayoakland:
Rev. Fr. Mbakas statements wea based on his conviction. He just said his mind/opinion wich every body is entitled to. Tot dey said Gej sign freedom of information bill, how come every body is shouting out just because a Nigeria citizen just expressed his opinion. Is it new to us that people influence people hea on who to vote, must his influence favour Jonathan?? Plz let's stop dis do or die perspective we have on politics plz. Mbaka said his mind in line with freedom of information. Dats all

you have said it all..am impressed with the caligraphy of ur write up..excellent penmanship.dont mind those cowards hiding behind nairaland forum full of biased minds calling him names.

softnipples:
So why are you qouting me and saying trash if you believe everyone is entitled to his own opinion? Its really pathetic that In your bid to defend the indefensible, you just decided to think through your anus! Its a pity!

its very gross that most people find it difficult to take correction...they said ignorance is a bliss..ur typos isnt far from the quote..i think you are nt civilised,cos you lack the etiquette to be..believe you me!!!...pls go bak to my quote and read it well..you are entitled to criticize someone's statement bt its sooo lame..i repeat so lame to criticise the person instead.you can continue ur glibberish typings or you can stop and think through before you continue.cant even imagine you are using the word madness on some1,let alone a man of God.shame unto you and ur pointless arguments.

softnipples:
4gerrit dear! Just imagine why he did what he did! Mbaka claimed that he asked the first lady for her number and she refused. That could be the reason why he made those silly comments againt the president. Nonsense!!!

hmmmm, you are just blowing evrything out of proportion...you dnt criticize people like dat,let alone an ordained man of God..no matter his utterances,its sooo lame to criticize him..you shud rather criticize his write upz and words afterall evryone is entitled to his own decisions.most people still lacks civilization...no offence though.

Lol lets just assume dat you are standing infront of the man that fits ur perfect description....will you propose to him??...will you ask for his hand in marriage??.....ladies ade3n??

Wendy80:
I won't say u should break up with her cos I don't know her but No DECENT girl(married or single) will say such to her Man no matter the level of anger. That's absurd.

you have said it all ..love the caligraphy of ur write up..excellent penmanship..one orijin for you.

kristina1:
The worst thing abt being a gal is dat you dnt always get the one you want,d one you dislike always come around but d one you cherish seems far-away.

eiiiiii...sorrry

am ugly but i have a good heart.

katy perry ft juicy j.....dark horse

rihanna...diamonds

taio cruz...dynamite

david guetta ft sia....titanium

miley cirus.....adore you

nicki minaj.....pound the alarm

demi lovato....heart attack

fly project.....back in my life

eminem ft rihanna.....the monster

chris brown....dont judge me

cold play ft alesso and swedish house mafia....fix you

bruno mars...talking to the moon

beyounce ft jay z..drunken love

beyouce...pretty hurts

avril lavigne....i am with you.

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ALWAYS AVAILABLE ON THE PHONE

SAYING THE PERFECT THINGS TO HER

BEING UNWILLING TO WALK AWAY

WHEN A GIRL FLAKES ON A DATE,YOU ASKED TO RESCHEDULE

BEING TOO ROMANTIC

REVEALING TOO MUCH INFORMATION ABOUT YOURSELF

WAITING TOO LONG TO ASK HER OUT

CONFESSING YOUR FEELINGS

FAILURE TO INITIATE TOUCHING

PURSUING HER WHEN SHE IS LOSING INTEREST

ALWAYS GIVING YOUR FULLEST ATTENTION WHEN SHE WALKS BY

YOU DO NOT BELIEVE IN YOURSELF

inexperienced guys think you need to aggressively sweep a girl ova her feet with roses,love letters and gifts.isnt this wat girls swoon ova in chick flicks,romance novels and love songs?
two reasons why over pampering a girl is a big turn off.first,in other to get her intrested,you must keep her guessing.when you are being too romantic,you are confirming your affection.not good.if she is unsure,she will go nuts and spend hours on the phone seeking adivice frm friends.the more unsure she is,the more obsessed she becums.the more obsessed she becoms,the more she will like you.

Never will you see Guys
going NUDE on facebook,instagram and nairaland
all in d name of Attention..
But Ladies? Most of them
are just so Disappointing
&Disgusting..
Must ya'll ladies make sure
your Boobs &A$$ is shown
on pictures before you can
upload them?.. Tell us,
What does d "LIKES
&COMMENTS" adds to your
Personality? What
Positivity does it bring on
you? When i see guys
competiting themselves in
using sweet words to
tease such LOSE girls, i'd
laff &leave in disgust..For
SEX is just what these guys
see on you; & you'd still
have d guys to say "ALL
GUYS ARE DOGS!"?
You claim to be Married/In
a Relationship, but you
expose your CLEAVAGES for
all eyes, isnt that like
saying to d world
"I'm an Available B*tch!" ?
Well, for your
INFORMATION, This is
FACEBOOK goddamn it!..
not B00BSBOOK! A$$BOOk!
or PU$$YBOOK!..
Respect yourselves, &
Respect your brainless
selves. This is d Public! If
you have to expose your
body to be Complimented/
Attractive& Lusted for,
then YOU ARE NOT
BEAUTIFUL!

How much money is
enough? How many cars
can you drive and how
many pairs of shoes can
you wear? And why isn't
one man or woman
enough to Satisfy You?
The truth is people are
never satisfied. When
they're struggling
financially they cry, "If I
could just find a decent job
and get back on my feet!"
But the minute they get
that decent job they
immediately go deeper
into debt charging
up credit cards trying to
have MORE!
When people find
themselves in bad
relationships they pray to
God to send them a good
man or woman. But not
long after we receive that
person into our lives we
often begin to take them
for granted. Instead of
being thankful we want
MORE!
Such is life....

cutiepie01:
pls wats special abt this palmer's cocoa butter,been seeing it on ppl's comments.

hmmmmm yo dont wana knw

izaray:
Sweety dnt worry urself dear, no mature minds, we classify spending a weekend or a night with either ur guy or a fiancee as a prostitution, except if oxford dictionary has finally change d definition of prostitution over d night! That ops might be a deeper life member who do their tins only in secret, no offense!

hmmmmm.....aint a deeper life member..am a christian,i dnt do my tins in secret cos am nt perfect..am a sinner tooo...the point here is dat you are running away frm the obvious..dnt try and justify the acts......spending nights and weekends at ur boyfriends.Sometimes we think that "everyone is doing it," and there are a lot that are, but there are also a lot of Christians who are waiting for marriage before they have sex. They want to do things God’s way, knowing He knows best, since He is the one who invented love, romance, and marriage. He also knows the temptations, but He has said if we are willing to let Him help us He will provide a way of escape. "No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man [woman]; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it." (1 Corinthians 10:13)

DesChyko:
I'm a proof that your assertion above is wrong. Since it worked for me, it worked and can work for others as well.
I support you giving morals to ladies, but backing it up with unverified facts is a gross error of overgeneralization.
I chose to ignore the remaining part because it is an insult to the women I and some men have given our last names.
I don't expect remorse from you. I just want to set you aright.

you are a proof...hmmmmm..if i shud recall my quote,i dnt generalize,i meant most guys and ladies..so if you think urs is a success,wat abt the odds...infact you need bit of more information globally and internationally.
wtf the majority is 90percent..dont say that my facts are unverified just cos urs worked,of which we aint sure abt.that urs worked dosnt mean that others did.many ladies are victim of such deceit.many guys too re fond of that.just thank ur star that you are one of the good guys.

kayciano:
OP the same LADIES u claim that have been USED and DUMPED , ain't they getting MARRIED..?
DID THEY ever complain to u that MEN are not doing so
..?
OR do u think GOD will MOULD new LADIES for the men..?
MOST men still take home FINISHT PRODUCT of another man..
U just have to ADVISE the MEN ok...!!!!
ADVISE MEN to insist strictly on VIRGINS when settling down..DAT will make our LADIES secure their VIRGINITY and further curtail mpuu..!!!

i think you are blowing evrytin out of proportion based on biased mindset..no1 is toking abt marrying virgin here,we are toking abt how cheaply most ladies are being misled in the name of marriage promises,thereby dumping the girl at some point for anoda.its very unfair.lets nt get it twisted,its tru most ladies are desperate,but smh i think most guys do contribute to their desperation.ladies fall for wat they hear,wat guys told dem.so we shud stop taking advantage of the fact that we are d one to propose for marriage thereby ruining most girls their life.

Lordlexyy:
Stop the twist and turn. Nobody hand a knife on your neck to submit your womaniless, is a choice and be ready to face the aftermath consequences. What is bad is bad, stop sugar coating it to sound reasonable. God and tradition abhour it.

smh even though most ladies are desperate,many of dem does dat to please their boyfriends which is why aint judging any1.still they ve to understand dat guys dosnt value easy and desperate girls dis days.you ve got to ve some pride somehw.

Lordlexyy:
Yeah, its aint crime i know but the act doesn't make it appropriate either. Except perhaps, your self worth means nothing to u, that i understand.

i think you are being bit of harsh and judgemental here cos its nt really abt self worth,i wouldnt judge any1 here cos you wouldnt know wat the lady is facing..most ladies does dat to please their so called boyfriends.well one tin is certain,most guys dnt value girls that agrees to evrytin they says,atimes you ve got to be difficult.but dnt be over difficult.

LADIES, for a man told you
' i will marry you ' doesn't
mean that he WILL or HAS
married you, whenever i
view my inbox, i see
laughable messages like '
he said he will marry me
and this is the 3rd year
since the day he said it ' he
promised to marry me and
now am pregenant for
him and am afraid to tell
my parent ' since the day
he told me he will marry
me, i have being satisfying
him sexually and he is not
making it realistic, bla bla
bla..

C'mon LADIES, believe me,
most females this day
who got prego and
dumped, were as a result
of ' promised marriage
and not fulfilled '.. When
will you girls learn and
grow up, i believe a lady
who is waiting on GOD
ain't waiting on man..

" man propose, God
dispose " doesn't mean
you sleep in man's house
every weekend and satisfy
him sexually, making
yourself a slave to the
word ' i will marry you '.

Let me tell you
something,. My elder sister
never for once introduced
her boyfriend or any man
to the family until a man
came to the house himself
and made his intention
known to my family,.. You
don't have to introduce
every man who says ' i go
marry you ' to your family,
show some respect and
save yourself some
humliation, if a man
wanna show some proof,
give him your folks
address..

Stop falling cheap to sex
starved kids., no man who
wanna marry you for real
and loves you, will agree
to you coming to spend a
night or weekends in his
house, thats a direct word
for PROSTITUTE.

A real Man keeps to his
word of a life together
with a woman and see it
fruitful NOT to take
advantage of her because
he drops the word '
marriage ' on her.. Alot of
our ladies have being used
and dumped, but a
woman who knows her
self worth can't fall for
such nonsense..

‪#‎BE_WISE‬ °
‪#‎smiles‬ °