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Tell her to list out all the good qualities of the husband and compare it to this vice of him womanising, tell her she doesn't have any guarantee that the next man will be better, and the fact that she is the woman at home and the first gives her a lot of advantage and bargaining power, if he is a good provider who gives her peace at home among other good things I think she should just bear his philandering, she should take it as her own cross and focus on him training her children and setting her up. Tell her to grow up already, life is all about compromise, leaving her home for a side chick will only hurt her and her childrens future, she will now start peeping in from outside into a home that should rightfully belong to her, tell her to sit with a " Iron" seat in her husband house and not allow side chick to unseat her, if she leave, the next man may be a wife beater or a nag or worst, celebrities and very wealthy women are the one that has the privilege of leaving their marriage without much regret because their fame and wealth keeps them company while they go through several men to find love.

It's always the ignorant and trolls that normally respond at the start of any Nairaland thread, the experienced and wise ones at the end, this incident is common, corpses refusing to be buried, it happened during my mother in-law burial and I've heard some other instances and for those shouting white man and developed world, they definitely experience the supernatural there but they just don't dwell on it or worship it, it rains everywhere. Search for Kendall Rae on facebook and follow her to hear serious oyinbo supernatural real life stories.

See the foolish face of a thief, I hope he will learn his lesson after this, omo ale

eburuu:
to god who made me i convert to islam 2yrs ago...it is the most lovely and butieful religon i have seen

Assalamualaikum comrade, I converted 5years ago, infact islam is the best kept secret in the world, so sweet, but one needs guidance to make the best of it, my story of conversion is under my profile here, you can ask me anything if you need guidance, Masha Allah

Sauveyouth:
Really horrific!

Please can anyone answer this question? I really need answers. Please what's the difference between the United arab emirates & Afghanistan?

Why is the aforementioned peaceful and industrious while the latter is eating up itself?

Please for successful answering, see my signature below for a free Jumia voucher.

That proves to you that stereotyping all muslims is wrong and writing off islam as a bad religion is very wrong, 99% of Muslims hate terrorist and many islamic nation are peaceful and progressive, imagine Nigerians are running to many arab Nation for the job of house helps on contract, it's so rampant now and they are building a future for themselves, they are all over Egypt, Libya, Oman , Saudi Arabia, UAE etc,

YungMillionaire:
If Islamism is such a wonderful and peaceful ideology then someone should tell me why these people are running for their lives?

Ask yourself if those ones that succeeded in boarding a plane will stop practicing islam when they get to their destination, running from terrorist disguised as Muslims doesn't make islam bad, there was a time people run from christian missionaries because of forced slavery and execution, it doesn't make christianity bad, even as they run, they know what they carry and believe me none of them will jettison islam because of misguided terrorist.

Rebuke:
Lols. These people think yhu can live a holy life by enforcing some silly laws on humans. This is why Islamic remains a very dangerous religion to ever exist.

It's a thing of the mind not all this hypocrisy. How can a sane mind be aroused by mannequins? This is very shameful and unheard of

The kind of dirty life these people live in the secret will blow yhur mind.

Yhur heart needs to first be sanctified to please God and this is what is lacking in Islam.

Y'all need Christ.

You all shouting all over this thread about being aroused by mannequin as if you can't read and comprehend or you are just expressing your dirty mind, every practicing Muslim know that anything image is a no-no for Muslims according to God's law, even many Muslim don't take pictures and you can never see any picture displayed in the house of a true Muslim not to talk of a human like 3D image, the ten commandments clearly states that our God is a jealous God, thou shall not make for yourself any graven image, islam may not be attractive because it's a narrow way, but that's why it's the right way

SmartPolician:
It seems the members of the Hisbah go to a hidden place and cum after seeing those naked mannequins

It's about not making any graven image for yourself and iis clearly written in the bible and not about sex but you christians have trampled upon every law of God because of grace only Muslims now seems to pay heed to the laws of Almighty God, infact God has become a 4 letter word to christians and His laws thrown away, one thing is clear no matter how advanced the world gets God will not change His law or lower His standard for humans and grace has a price and that price is corruption and without holiness nobody will see God

perdollar:
i know u r one of those hijabis trying to make Igbo land Pakistan. We will get rid of all hijabis in igbo land

Yinmu

perdollar:
Igbo Muslims should be forcefully converted to Christianity or our ATR, if they refuse, they should be killed or deported to afaghanistan. There is no place for Islam in Igbo land as it goes against our culture our identity. For our generations to enjoy peace and not be another middle east or another Muslim country at war wt it's citizen, we must make Igbo 100% free from Islam and it's satanic influence

Terrorist slighted, calling for killing of igbo Muslim, anti terrorist Police coming for you

BePrepared:
Open Letter to my Muslim Friends

The truth is that most times I don't blame you guys, being fully conscious of the fact that most of you were born into the Islamic faith and as a result have become too attached to the faith that an attempt at detachment seem impossible.
Nevertheless in matters that concerns eternity one has to be rational, being rational entails analyzing and coming to a reasonable conclusion. Take this points for example

1. The hard fact today is that Islam is responsible directly or indirectly for about 70% of today's problem in the world. Billions of dollars are spent by the World's government fighting problems created directly or indirectly by Islam, a religion like this CANNEVER BE THE WAY TO GOD.

2. Muhammed claimed to be a prophet yet no one confirmed his claims, when God gave Moses his laws the whole Israel stood before Sinai and saw the thunderings and earthquake etc, when Jesus was baptized it was before the people that the heavens opened Matt 3v 16, Luke 3 v 21, when he was also transfigured it was before his select disciples, on many occasions he had witnesses, the purpose of this is that we can't just throw our life based on the visions of a single man because any man can be deceived yet all Muhammed's encounters was alone, how sure are we that the Gabriel that encountered him wasn't a transformed Satan.

3. It is reasonable to understand that when a religion claims something in theory but becomes the exact opposite in reality that there's a fundamental problem, Islam claims to be a religion of peace but you and I know better in reality.

4. Muhammed slept with a 9 year old and took Zainab the wife of his son, Plz for Gods sake can this man be Gods prophet, remember this is about ur eternal soul not sentiments.
Apart from the thousands he beheaded and enslaved.
Lastly I once came upon a story confirmed by various hadith's how Muhammed sent an assassin to kill a woman by name Ansr bin Marwan who had 5 children, he killed her and her blood sprayed on her children, the man had remorse and his conscience wasn't at rest yet the 'prophet' shook him out of the guilt, pl I implore us to make researches and once again be asking questions, MUHAMMAD RASUL ALLAH

All the points you raised up are just your human submissions and assumption without any spiritual backing. I was a christian minister for 20 years before being led into Islam, I have seen the two sides and I can tell you islam is not what you think it is, I will reply to each of your points below:
1. Whatever you mean by this point I don't know, are you referring to terrorism, if yes I will have you know that terrorism is partly the devil's way to distance as many people as possible from islam so they will never ever see the God they desperately need, if islam does not lead directly to God, the devil does not need to discourage people from joining islam, I also know that some of the terrorist activities could be from God because God is too holy to behold iniquity and like He heard the outcry against sodom and gomorrah and destroyed them, also like he used the israelites several times to destroyed his enemies, it could happen if evil is much and islam is practiced around there whereby you are calling God down in prayers, hmm, His anger can cause such destruction, refer to the old testament and see how God react to evil,

2. We true Muslim have confirmed that Mohammed (saw) is a true prophet of God because we see and experience the power of God as we practice islam, read the quran and you will receive instant deliverance from any demonic possession and afflictions, the bible says the word of God is sharper than two edged sword this applies directly to the quran because it's the pure word of God, no human idea or human instructions neither has it been tampered with, you accord the same respect you give to God to the Quran, that is why a woman on her period cannot handle it, I made this mistake twice, I thought I could treat it the same way I treat the bible, I was zapped with hammering headache, once I was very angry with someone and I went for salat Muslim prayer with that burning anger what I saw after, I was in shock for days and had to pray for forgiveness severally before I received a respite, then I understood when jesus said you should go and reconcile with your neighbor before coming to the alter but grace in christianity has allowed many sins.

3. Islam is actually a religion of peace if you follow it's tenets your life will be devoid of drama even if you are not a billionaire you will have a progressive normal life without having to run from pillar to post looking for deliverance or resorting to crime because it's as if God doesn't exist and you put your hands in iniquity, in Islam you actually have most of your prayers answered and your fervency is rewarded.

4. About sleeping with a minor or not, first, adultery is not allowed in Islam so I'm sure even if you are right, he did it after marrying her, secondly, the 9year old in their culture is not the same with our own 9year old in stature, also there was no formal schooling then so parents would even betrothed their baby girls to husbands and as soon as she can do some housework she will be married off, it doesn't mean she will start sleeping with her husband immediately. Anyway apart from all that, the Bible says God uses the foolish things of this world to confound the wise, go and research the background of Adeboye of redeemed church and you will realise that God doesn't look at your good character before using you, a womanizer and an alcoholic. Islam is the best thing that has happened to me yet, alhamdulilahi minal muslumin

yahmohy27:
Thank you, and the Queen gave him options: imagine, do they think that anything good comes from evil queen things?
And that's why they didn't give options that involved ISLAM

The queen of heaven gave him option to go back to serve his family idol or become a christian, this just confirmed what I already know from my experience as a new Muslim convert. The devil knows he has no problem if you are still in christianity because he can still operate easily, with grace he is covered while you are tested in the wilderness for years until you attain that post of being free from the devil if you are able to pass all those tests, that is if you really want to be on God's side, many christians are living their lives on their own terms while claiming born again doing their own thing and attributing their "success" to God. With islam you are immediately free from the devil and it's agents, those his ancestral powers know that and that's why they can not allow him to remain a Muslim.
Even as I write now he would have started experiencing serious evil encounters that he didn't experience while a Muslim and he will start warfare prayers thus wilderness has started, he will likely run back to islam, maybe he has started doing Muslim prayers secretly self, many of his type has run back to islam when they see how their lives that was peaceful suddenly become full of drama.

NGpatriot:
Was your state's or village IGR or allocation used to fund her education?

Is MC a public official anywhere in Nigeria?

Is MC not a private citizen or is he not allowed to earn money or raise his children with his earnings?

Did her father or you even travel to America to read her books for her? Did you help her to write her exams? Did you spend countless hours doing clinical training with her?

Her personal hardwork paid off so she's entitled to whatever relaxation and enjoyment anywhere, go and better your own life.

Your own public officials are collecting your money and sending their children to foreign schools with your money and you don't care, but all you care about is MC who is a private citizine.

You see how silly and pointless some of you sound?

Fact is, MC from whatever low beginnings he came from rose to become the chairman of the largest trade union in Lagos and on top of all that, he managed to raise his children better than the parents of many of you jealous, bigoted, tribal, hateful and bitter people.

Your hatred and bitterness can not alter his God's given blessing. Instead of hatred and bitterness, pray to God for your own blessing.

You hateful people need to get your priorities straight.

Don't mind them, there is no part of Nigeria without NURTW, they talk as if there is no agbero in their states or maybe their own agbero doesn't train their children with the money they collect daily, it's just painment

FarahAideed:
Is it not racketeering money that was used to send her to the US in the first place and also pay for her expensive nursing degree without her owing student loan like most nurses in the US do .....

But chidinma is a saint

It's really disgusting the way Nairaland Igbos will trash anything Yoruba no matter how glorious but will defend chidinma, Tonto Dike, kidnappers, yahoo guys so far they are Igbos, it's really shameful, the energy they expend on operation pull them down is amazing, I wonder if they will ever get over their pain and envy of the Yoruba race

Women suffering since 1200 BC most women cannot escape being fingered by a stranger either male or female during pregnancy or childbirth,

[quote author=Baawaa post=104646448]Point of correction,he wishes his muslim brothers and sisters happy fake new year.We all knows original new year,even [b]Saudi Arabia uses world wide calendar.[quote]No, it doesn't,. Insensitive slowpoke

Cockroach I'm I the only one that is terrified of this critter, no matter how much I boast I always freeze anytime I sight one, I wish it doesn't exist

NwaAmaikpe:




She's smart.

That's a tactics based on partner acceptance to trap you into rationalizing any potential changes in her because that vaginarian is keeping her options open.
She'd go cold on you when there's a healthier preek and be back like a stray dog when she's been dumped.

And SIMPle you will be like, 'oh... that's just her being fickle-minded'.

I blame you for making her fickle-minded, a lady visited you THRICE and you think she just came to watch Telemundo and gist?
The poor girl may have borrowed money to buy a shaving razor to mow her lawn yet you chose to kiss.

For making her shave in vain, she's concluded you are a limp horse and wouldn't want you clinging on since you still won't give her the good dicking she's needing.

Since you wanna be with her then there's only one solution, but it will only work if you are very good in bed.
Let her be fickle-minded, you be fvck-minded.

Do everything in your power to win her back,
Fvck her first then watch her fickleness fizzle away and once she starts yearning for you, become fickle-fvck-minded and treat her like a sorry sex option.

If she complains, tell her it's her fault. She sexually transmitted that stupidity to you.

But the above won't work so well if she's a ho.
In that case, alaye just forget kpekus and go make money.

Your heart really does not need such emotional parasite.
She's best a bed friend.

You are advising him to impregnate her if you don't know, then he will be in trouble

The mother took him, selfish love

lexy2014:
U leave person wey dress de pursue people wey de share picture of person wey dress

You people can never be satisfied, you all shouting hypocrite in the other thread that hisbah did not react to the picture, now they have reacted you still complain, if they decided to punish her in one way or the other you will still talk, wasting your time where it's of no consequence.

It's very amusing to see nigerian christian always using nigerian northerners as yardstick for islam, not minding that islam was brought to the hausa and they have their way of life before islam which they still hold on to. Nigeria christian always profess to hate islam but will jump at the opportunity to travel to Malaysia, Dubai, Qatar etc. The law of God cannot change because one girl decided to expose her body in the name of elite. Covering up for us Muslim women is joy, it has been proven that women gain more confidence as soon as they start wearing hijabs . And there are many ways to wear it and look beautiful, it's like you are always a bride and you get respect from men everywhere you go. This is apart from the spiritual benefits which are numerous, christians may not need so many deliverances if only they will cover up and many men will prosper easily if their wives cover up more to mention a few. And before you talk about poverty in the north think of the tremendous riches of other islamic nation, we all know that many northerners are dirty, they live with filth and believe it's the duty of government to clean their environment, there is no amount of prayer that will bring the presence of Holy God to a dirty smelly body and environment, islam made that clear but like I said they have their way of life. Although many of them are changing from that due to education and exposure. Enough said. Alhamdulilahi minnalmuslumi

Is it possible that a woman will carry a pregnancy for seven months before informing the man responsible? Were you unreachable at that time or what, if not the pregnancy is not yours, as for her delay tactics, she doesn't want you to know the truth unless you don't mind taking care of the child and making her yours after all many people buy children illegally or adopt children, you will just assume you adopted her but get yours o, in case the real father surface

AutoChick4U:
There's nothing to understand there. If she did her job properly as a mother, they won't go spending nights outside.

Teenage years can be tasking to parents at times because your children can become strangers to you as they rebel against you and your rules, this is the time that fervent prayers of a parent is highly needed, meanwhile those girls probably attended one of those parties that are rampant around salah period it's unlikely that the two of them went to boyfriends house together and the fear of the mother is them getting corrupted by meeting the wrong people at those parties, all those shouting olosho up and down should pick their mind from the gutters.

Karma is a she dog �, end sars blood speaking

RadioMOUTH:



How many times have a yahoo boy crossed a street and get mobed for being one in the place you come from if I may ask you... accept it or not... even you are in support because you have them as relatives and friends but you didn't do nothing

It will seem so to you because of the society you come from where you were raised to believe that crime is normal but where I come from we grew up hearing our parents telling us they prefer us dead rather than having criminals for children, it is not normal and the ones that still chooses that path do it in secret and definitely without the approval or blessings of their parents as you have in your tribe, that is why we collectively speak against any criminal found among us not minding he or she is from our tribe unlike your people who support any criminal so far he or she is your tribe person. Hope you understand

RadioMOUTH:





Kindly change the title to ritualist and not YAHOO BOY..


what most of you fail to understand is alot of crimes now hide under the names of cybercrime...


That's because this is the only crime accepted by %87 of our mother's and father's...




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On the bolded, point of correction, 87% of mothers and father's from your tribe, not from where I come from. Imagine!!?

Ellasure:
What is bad in the act spiritually? Let one critic tell us ooooh?

For one that his attire has been used for idol worship and satanism in the past, secondly, that attire is normally kept in a sacred house preferably in the forest or in a shrine, it's not like a regular cloth you keep at home and for secrecy because the man under the mask should not be easily identified he cannot dress up from home but go to that shrine where he has to do some fetish stuff to wear that garb or attire. Also God really hate idols and effigies, anything carved with a face either stone or wood and that is what that masquerade is. It really sucks to say the truth, very bad and blasphemous

Kobojunkie:
If you even half believe Jesus Christ, you will not believe anything this man tells you and this because Jesus Christ warned you using the parable of Lazarus and the Richman that no one will be sent back from the dead to warn you against what awaits those who refuse to obey God. - Luke 16 vs 19 - 31

So you have decision to make. Is Jesus Christ a liar or are Bill and others like him the liars in this?

Repeating your self like a parrot will not make your half baked argument acceptable, though no one has been able to reply you up till now but I will and I know you will never agree with me but you will get educated and many sensible people here will learn

FYI, REVELATION IS PROGRESSIVE, I put that in caps so you don't miss it, that is why I have told you time without number that just quoting Bible everytime does not make you a christian, we all know even the devil knows the bible back to back. My point, until you can hear from God personally you can't really claim to be matured in the things of God. Bible word is Logos while your own personal word received from the spirit of God is Rhema.
It is because revelation is progressive that the new testament came about. A lot of jews are still standing on the old testament covenant till today because like you said it's the word of God and God does not lie. In as much as we all know God will not lie but He act according to what the situation or the people require at a point in time. If you go through the old testament you will come across God's commands many of which is not practicable now or has been changed due to situations and circumstances or due to christianity, does it make God a liar? No, that Jesus said no one will be sent from the dead then to warn people of the world doesn't mean it can never happen. Seeing the way this world is going deeper into sin God in His mercy can decide to start sending people back from the dead or reveal heavenly visions to them in order to win some elect back . Even in this country nigeria several people have died and came back to tell us about heaven and hell. I remember one pastor lazarus or is it Ezekiel that died years ago and came back just before being buried, also, Gbenga Adeboye, a Yoruba comedian and pastor Abiara, they were all confirmed dead medically and came back after several hours . God is in control of His word and not the other way round or else there wouldn't have been Jesus and an eye for an eye would have still be the norm and many other laws . Also as a Muslim convert I know this nature of God to give man new covenant according to man's need per time is the reason why islam still came.
I have also seen hell in the dream, I saw something like a lift come up from the earth in front of the house of a certain wicked man I know, the lift was all round glass but fire was billowing out of it, heavy fire. People are in hell even right now

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright......

Okafor is a real niggarr

Well planned.......and every thing went well...scripted...Okafor is a real niggarr

They never mentioned the amount in that wallet...

And for all those praising him..
There is no need for that...he didn't take the wallet and keep it to himself doesn't mean he is a saint
He is aware that the money is inconsequential or rather not important in his quest to conquer and become a successful person

I bet my balls Okafor will not return that same wallet if there are up to ten million in it

Not necessarily, he may have a story to tell if you ask him why. If you had a spiritual encounters warning you about keeping the money even before seeing it and the consequences of keeping it has been revealed to you, you will return 100 million in a jiffy. Only the living spend money.

Kobojunkie:
This is why I keep insisting you stop trying to play one-foot-in-brazil-another-foot-in-north-korea with the things of God.

1. Jesus Christ is God's Law to those who belong in the Kingdom of God and what that means is that God already judged and condemned all sins in Jesus Christ even as Jesus Christ spoke this Law into being 2000 years ago. That is why Jesus Christ so boldly declared 2000 years ago that those who are His friends are those who do exactly what He tells them to do.

So, when you 2000 years later, preach lies in His name, He already judged and condemned your actions, 2000 years ago, as that of an enemy. And since you obvious do not have any real idea of the this of the "Christian" God but you somehow think you should care, it may be better for you to pull your foot completely out of this country so you can more properly focus on the one that your heart really belongs to instead.

2. About Elijah, i am aware of the popular narrative fed many of you of that story of Elijah, but that has no bearing of the truth of the story as recorded in the Bible. Take off the goggles that have been given you by those who told you the story and read it using basic language communication skills we are all gifted with. Elijah, the man was paranoid that he too was being hunted, like the other prophets in the land and this in retaliation of His defeat of the prophets of Baap in 1 King 18 . He was afraid that he was the only one left , nothing more -1 King 19 vs 1 - 18.

3. You think your challenges are the worst and this is probably because life, for you, still revolves around you and your own perception of living. NEWSFLASH! There are many out there who have seen it worse than you have so stop throwing your so-called challenges on the table. It does not paint a good picture of your beliefs or stance in any way. It just screams desperate a lot.

FYI I didn't read your gibberish and I will never read anything from you again, you are too slow and unintelligent, it's a waste of time conversing with dulards like you

Kobojunkie:
The bulk of what you say of the "Christian" God contradicts the very Word and Truth of God, Jesus Christ and it is a sin to teach the doctrines and traditions of men, lies, in the name of the "Christian" God - Mattthew 15 vs 1 - 14 & Mark 7 vs 1 - 23.

Why don't you leave me to the God that created me to judge, FYI God has not appointed any human being as judge over other humans and the fact that you expect everyone to be at your very level of spiritual development shows how narrow minded you are, you are just like Elijah who thought he was the only one serving God until God reminded him there are 7000 prophets who are still faithful to Him. Nobody has monopoly on God, I pray life throws at you the type of challenges I had gone through so you will mature by force or perish. Bread and butter christian, "the Bible said" parrots without personal experience of God. Wait for your own wilderness experience because it must locate you