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Op, are you married or met someone yet?

Give us feedback. Thanks

charix:
May God punish you where you stand. Idiot!

The sad part about social media is people who telecom companies gift 10MB which'd expire by 00:00 would come here dragging opinions with people living comfortable lives. When last did you see electricity? Ewu!

Since May 29 2015 sir



And for God punishing or blessing anyone. Its upto him. Not for you oga. Take heart. *cleans his eyes and nose*

charix:
Is this not the _shit eater?! Abeg carry this dirty girl news comot here. I'm not interested.

Is it your sheeeet eating?


Even person wey no see garri drink go open mouth dey talk anyhow.
We all know that story was cooked up by jealous friends. She's beautiful and successful. I'm happy for her.

She's soo beautiful.

This mpa is 22yrs


I see

Awwwwn. Congrats. This brought tears to my eyes

Do enjoy your new beginning

ndo

General2COAS:
What if she focuses her mindset on sorting all in a bid to impress her bro academically?

Someone who thinks about using her money to sort in order to pass well is still thinking well. Compared to someone using her money to entertain her boyfriends excesses.

Thank you.

Biriful

Teespice:
lmao.

you are not the only person who is into this line of business.

how come you are being called out almost all the time.

go figure that out instead of using the line of my GOD pass them.

Don't mind her. Before going for service. I worked somewhere for a theif like her. We agreed on 35k. I said no problems because i needed to be busy before my call up comes out. First month he paid me 30k. Saying no money. Meanwhile all good suggestions to expand the business i gave him fell on deaf ears as his fiancée was always coming to change schedule and oder us around. I no send them because as an employee, my business was to do as i am told. Second month he paid me 25k saying no money. The rest didn't even get paid that month. 3rd month i worked ttill the last day of the month and even 5th of th next Month, call up came out. I told him i needed my pay as i needed it for tp to school and stuff. He said i should borrow when i collect the call up and come back I'll get paid. I said no problem. My dear this is more than 5yrs. No show. When i came, the other guys had resigned (without pay) i saw a brand new tear rubber car he just acquired. Asked for my cash 5k+ 10k+35k amounting to 50k. The theif said and i quote "I'm sorry, i would not be able to pay you now. As you can see i just bought a new car. Plus the business did not make enough money, when you come back from camp". I was dumbfounded. Why tell me to borrow when you knew you had no intention of paying? I really needed money.






Madam, @Stella42 i don't care what you think. Just pay her her money.

Acidosis:
If the term of service is not met, I have the full right to deny payment. Everyone should abide with terms of employment/service, and all would be well.

I recently paid a particular Nairalander N20,000 upfront for a service. On the agreed date for delivery, I didn't get any feedback. I extended the timeline with additional 2 weeks still he failed with the excuse that one imaginary laptop exploded or so.

I asked for a refund, and to my surprise, I got "I don't have money now", and if I'm paying back, " I would pay N15,000 for the efforts". Really? For a job I did not get anything in return? Meaning I will lose N5000 + 10 weeks for a job some are ready to do and complete in 5 days.

I laughed so hard that day, while writing a mail already to his new employer. My aim for that mail was to terminate his recently found job by constructing a very disastrous mail with all documents attached, to his employer. Yes, I was ready to ruin his career for just N20,000, and probably forward his home address to appropriate authorities.

As you can see, it goes both ways. My take is this, what you cannot do or give, do not promise or accept. Employers may be bad, but employees sometimes can be disastrous.

In this case (OP), what will should look at is the term of employment. From the viewpoint of Stella, I do not think she has deviated from the term in anyway. OP, in my own understanding, failed to read the terms before applying for the job.

If she sets N10,000 as application fee, it is the discretion of applicants to apply or reject. This case is not enough to breed insults.

Lastly, Stella has been considerate with her choice of words. It is one thing to disappoint, it is another thing to accept your mistake and ask for a way forward. She's been calm to an extent so she deserves a fair hearing. For a rude person like one I encountered lately, I was fully ready to get him behind bars.

I do not agree with you.

Stella42:
Now let me explain things here, since she had the opportunity to work with me through this platform. I placed an advert for a personal assistant needed, several people called and I did the interview, I chose Mrs Peace because I believe she's matured and can handle the position well. I have alot of businesses I do mostly online. That's why I needed a personal assistant, to work for me in areas where I'll be to busy to attend to. I told her that there's no physical office to work, and that this job is very flexible, She can as well as do other jobs. We agreed on 30k per month.
Fast forward to a week later when I had to do recruitment for my ushers, I told her to come for the recruitment so she'll meet the new girls joining in. After the recruitment was over, I told Mrs Peace that she should come the next day so she'll sign the necessary documents, she didn't come, God knows I can't remember the excuse she gave, I called some days later to remind her, but she didn't. Why will I keep bothering myself over someone that isn't even interested in Signing any papers? I was too busy preparing for an event coming up so I let that slide. Pls note that she started working on May 20. The only job she did was the event I told her of which took place on June 14. After the event my so called PA never called to make enquiries on other jobs, she didn't even bulge. Obviously she was waiting for her salary. During the interview, I told her I need someone that knows the in and out of events management and planning, she said of course she does, but trust me she has no idea. If I don't call, she won't call. How can a worker be this bad? A graduate for that matter? And you expect me to gladly pay you 30k? When I didn't see anything you did? I attend my meetings all by myself and I have a PA?
I travelled for business and I told her that when I'm back I'll like to see her face to face and not just transfer the money. She agreed, just two days ago she said she can't take it anymore, this is someone that insulted me last two months Even when her salary isn't due. Mrs Peace, you better learn to be polite. Am in Lagos now. I have promised not to call you, so when you're ready, call Me and let's meet at a place. I won't pay you 30k because you didn't live up to expectation. I'll rather use the remaining half to buy provisions for the less privileged than to pay you that 30k. Mark my words

Please pay her her 30k. What do you mean you did not see anything she did?
Why is it that people do not have the fear of God? You just stated she did some things up there and yet you are saying she didn't work enough for her 30k? What exactly do you want her to do in oder to earn the 30k? Please Dont be a theif. Pay them their money....

He should stay where he is.

Are you aware he's broke?
You should know him coming back would put extra burden on you.
Are you ready to cater for an extra person. He probably heard things are going well for you and decided to come back so you can take care of him just as the othr woman was doing. I personally do not like men that prefer to take the easy way out. I'm sorry but your oga sounds like a selfish person who would do anything so long as he's the comfortable one. Is he trying to say that all thoe while he was broke. He coud not afford money for calls?


After all said and done. He's your husband. If you want him to com fine, but just so you know. You would be the one catering for you all. Something tells me his family would contribute for his flight once you say yes just to cover his shame.

EfemenaXY:

Why you dey

Abi i lie?

maverickfemi:
Hey guys! !!.If you reside in Abuja and u want to land a well paying job, kindly reply this post. Thanks

I'm just seeing this now. I'm ready for that job

Please guys... I need a job in abuja. Have a B.Tech and Msc in Computer Science. Have, HR, Sales and Customer care experience.
Please I'm not interested in any sales job.


Thank you.

chachanga:
As much as I loathe domestic violence, detesting men who do so as well as adulterers, these kinds of cases take the cake really and reading stuffs like this makes me wonder how practicable telling such a man not to flip and yet seek no other paradise outside is, really?

It's led me to believe in how unreliable suggestions and counsels here can be. I take posts on Reddit, 4chan, Yahoo more serious sef.

People butt into issues typing rubbish readily with the similitude of verbal diarrhea without any serious empathy or depth of thought on what levels of pain such scenarios must have held for the posters.

It's when people labor on unrealistically under the weight of stupid stuffs like many people posted here that make folks go at each other with hammers and cutlasses later.

You kept it real, though!

I say it most times as i see it. We have a balanced proportion of good and bad men and women. No gender has one side more than the other. If you are lucky to end up with the good one. You keep thanking God. If you managed to get the bad one, you keep patching. All in all, life goes on

I lost a colleague in this same accident. Heard they all got burnt beyond recognition. May God help us all. This are trying times

So one person go born for another to carry snp picture

Chepy1:
Thanks dear, I've collected the car from her and split are allowance to two. She's angry but I think its best for her...Thanks for your advice

Does she know the reasons why?

She has to know the reasons why. Plus she should also know she gets everything and more back when you start seeing improvements. Both academics, attitude and all. You can even tell her you hve someone watching her incase she wants to start misbehaving.

They are jealous. Some people can't swallow the big fufu that someone young can actually do better and achieve more. Hope you both have moved out?



But come, is he your husband or boyfriend. You are confusing me

mineANDurs:
He married her when she was quite young abi?
What does he expect from som1 he robbed of her childhood?

She is living her childhood at an adult age so he should leave her alone!

This always happens to peadophiles who thinks that marrying a kid will make her obey his order's and commands.

Mtchew!

Ahu odikwa gi?

Someone has hurt your sister. Sharpen your matchet and perfect your kungfu skills. Probably someone everyone knows. Whn you find out. Dont forget, three hot slaps from you to the person first on my behalf

You make me remember one of our neighbours then. The man adds weight only when madam goes for official assignment. All her money is for expensive lace and party. She can go to eatery and burn 5k on a meal while her kids drink garri. They where always hungry and tattered. Give her money for food, voicemail. Buy it yourself, fight. They where always owing rent and school fees because her husband had no savings. You need to see fight if he refuses to bring money for frivolous activities. You can imagine a man walking on the road and mumbling to himself. We where always praying he doesn't walk into an oncoming car then.

Close your eyes like you did not see it.


You do not need to verbally say you do not want another child anytime soon. Your actions and inactions with the current available child/ren is enough to say everything.




Sebi na you dey
1. Carry belle?
2. Divide leg born pikin?
3. Stay awake all through the night when pikin refuse to sleep
4. Wake up very early in the morning to bath pikin, cook oga food, look oga face, pamper oga to eat, do cretche runs etc?


If no be you? Face front. When the person wey dey do all this things ready, na im go use hand throwey contraceptive. Thank you

Hmmmn.

This is tough. Please and please, what ever you do, do not go and shoot yourself like the other banker

Sorry.


You should not be afraid of hardwork then. I knew a lady then. She never went home on holidays. Stays back in hostel to work for people in town. Wash, babysit, factory work, receptionist, typing, projects, assignment, braid hair etc. By begining of semester she always had her school and hostel fees complete. Shes married now to a very good man looking at her now one would never believe she suffered that much. So humble she could wash her roommates plates for as small as hundred naira. Or you don big pass those ones?

You love your sister too much and you don't want to hurt her feelings.




But sometimes, you have to so that things can go right. Let her boyfriend drive his own car.
Remove the car for about 3months like poster up there suggested. Trust me the so called boyfr would not even last that long.

The main point is not even the car but keeping good company, making good decicions and being a proper adult

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