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Oh dear,




if I know you had akpobi like this, I would have sent my ceevee since


happy birthday sweedy. Keep up the good work.
Bear hugs.






his also a twin

All shades of good one can get...
chai!

TV01:
Trouble ke? Me You know I make sense die - even trolling .


And thank you very much for proving my point;


All the best in your search. May you land a better spouse. And do let us know; I love a good love story.


TV^MIC

am not searching. Am waiting while living my life.

Your own is better. What about bad boss and eye service colleagues? Lie to your bad boss so they can be in her good books, and because you cant bend to their willy ways, you become a problem.



But you know what? Good will never be conquered by evil.

winner01:
yeah you are right, but its not in the place of the wife to stand up to her mother-in-law. Except you wanna make your husband rilly mad..we love our wives but nothing can compare to motherly love.

Okay, noted for future purposes

Sophyrocks:
The bolded is very true and funny because i dnt understand how a man would be dragging his feet at first but then insist on staying over afterwards. I think he knew his wife wouldnt approve but he just wanted to cause chaos out of nothing to prove a point. So you see, the man is just a troublemaker. Some men dnt like peace. They thrive on chaos and blame the chaos on women.

His wife should just ignore him when he gets back. And pretend like nothing happened. I know he will still want to make case when he meets her at home. She should just act like it didn't hurt her feelings.

zaimeg:
Area! I hail!
You be waffi shenkes?

Me nor be waffi oh. Na pass me jos dey pass


Hafa na, wish levels na.

Sophyrocks:
The bolded is my point. He refused to see reasons with her even when he knows the reasons are genuine and worthy to be noted. Strikes me as someone who always wants his way to be done at all times and sucha person is likely to be abusive. For him to have decided on his own for them to sleep over without having her agree is another flaw.

The man is not a good person in the first place. First he always brought up flimsy excuses whenever his wife wants to visit her family. She practically begged to be taken to his own mothers house. When he got there, he became too comfortable and happy with his people and wanted stay extra. If not that he deliberately wanted to pick a quarrel with his wife, why didn't he allow her go home and stay back to enjoy the company of his people?


And shouting at her in tue presence of his mum, is she a house help? Did he see her on the street begging for husband to come and marry her? Some men should be very careful oh...

Unu ga ana akpachakwa anya ooo

No two marriages are the same. Some have a wide gap. Some have small gap. Some, no gap at all. Some, the wives are older. What matters most is the happiness of couples after all wedding bruhaha...

bukatyne:
This is a wrong approach

They must iron out issues before saying I do

True you said. But he is a boyfriend and he's already assuming she is not submissive because she aired her own view. Didnt you see he doesnt want to leave any rooms for negotiation? So because he might want to marry her in future she should just nod her head like agama lizard to anything he says?



He is not yet a suitor abeg.

Make e marry am first. All these ones na speculations dey still dey.

winner01:
no only dat, I thnk women jus compete with each other for everything.

Hahahaha... it revolves around the man. mama thinks its her son and her right, she was there first. Wife thinks its her husband and solely her right, mama should give way.

TV01 stop looking for trouble. Go and play elsewere. Allow me to learn well, i dey class and u dey distract...


I feel you woged2005. Not 30yet but wouldn't want to get there single...

Wish level ona dey nah. Na me be d area mama for dis we thread. Anibodi wey do anyhow go collet am...
Area!!! Eh!

Man ownership.

donpeey22:
As a matter of fact, the man is irresponsible.
A wise man will try to find out what grudge(s) his
mother in-law has against him and resolve them instead of engaging in unnecessary quarrels with her. In fact, it is the height of disrespect for him to have sent the woman packing in that manner. Would he have done same if she were his mother?

I don't support any form of disrespect to in-laws from either a man or his wife. Treat them with both love and diplomacy and prove to the world that you are younger and supposedly still
possess more active brain cells.

Do men like you still exist?

lamdec:
Well, I dont understand the kind of silver you saw, maybe it was metal painted silver. My wedding ring and my husband's band is pure sterling silver(the highest form of silver) and we have been wearing it for a year and it has never tarnished and by the way i use it to wash, cook, bath, eat and do whatever.
So OP if you want to buy a wedding ring and you are thinking of using silver, please get a seller you can trust that can give you warranty on what you are buying, our ring has 2years warranty. All the best

Two years warranty? Thats short. I guess you have in mind of changing regularly as time goes on...

You can mix all and wear a ring on each finger of yours. That way, you will be thoroughly and truly married.

Men will come and cry foul. Just trying being on your period for just an hour. You will never insult a woman again in your life.


P.s. A woman is at her worst during the monthly flow... husband should have tried to reason. She didn't do right by walking out tho.

Its not a small issue oh.

Something that has caused fight already should not be seen as a small thing

yuzedo:
The pain of not being fully relieved of grief.... Of an inability to let it all out.

Of thinking everyday of the faithful departed, but more, of those left behind, without "adequate" comfort...

Some crosses are heavy.

..... Peace to all those mourning, amen.

Enu uwa bu olili, onye nosia o naba.

Diyeee nya nwannem. Ndidi ka mma

Make e marry you first. This one na small tori

Abeg find something for my smallie oh...
Make i no meet u and her for that mood if i come dia ooo

baby cockroach- nte


oh, I used to cry well well when my granny refers to me as nte those days.
I was a colicky baby while growing up and was always uncomfortable...

Ariyke:
yes I was it has stopped though thanks

okay. next time try snacking on something light while your meal gets ready. ok?

Ariyke:
Started purging after eating this dunno why

sorry dear, were you too hungry before you ate? was your stomach totally empty?

Hmmmmn.

And she's a brand ambassador? Someone's contact needs restructuring

Evina:
He will bring you your perfect gift in the perfect time.
#hugs.

thanks, bear hugs...

If she's underage, the 3 of us will beat ourselves that day until we are tired. If she's not, I'll pick the shoes, we'll continue at home.

Evina:
Wow!
Well, you better start fasting n praying oh!!!

You will not understand. Well, my faith is unwaivering. Some have it smooth, some have it tough but we all get there in appropriate time.

amokeme:
nobody is talking abt the sch fees part. an average secondary sch pay 250k (that's like almost all the money sef) not to talk of other sch stuff the kids wil be needing. imagine if they are now in the university?? hmmm I don't think so o. 3kids for that matter. it can be possible if the wife is also working and earning above or at least not less than the 300k

My dear, nursery and primary stages they can attend unique schools, as for secondary, they can attend a govt school + private lesson teacher.
Its achievable.


My mum used to buy first grade bk cloths for us then, we even looked better than some 'richer' people then. Sebi na if i tell u say i wear okrika before you go know?

If his wife agrees, yes. Else? Even with 10million naira as your hourly income, you might live in a rented apartment untill you retire.






It all boils than to the kind of woman you marry. Brazillian hair:80k, body cream and powder:20k, dubai lace:50k, 1 swiss native gown:40k, eatery and owambe chop chop: 30k, pedicure and manicure:7k etc. These are just for madam alone oh... now subtract the sum total from your salary and use half of the rest for general feeding. Lets see how much is remaining