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GodnGold:
As always,I don't like one sided stories.

But oga Adam, you lost my respect when you started getting worked up about her calls and issues...then you went down yonder to call names...oga...e dalu ya (you fail am ).

To remedy your case,those phone calls and etc were done to swing you to action.

You know like get you scared of loosing her and then you do her bidding.



But that lady is brilliant sha.

She is not cheating...she is only working on your mind.

I repeat...she is not cheating...mind games.

Now,play the fool card,bro,the olodo card.

Beg her,tell her how sorry you are, be more olodotic about it by shedding so many shoulder vibrating tears with phlegm oozing out of your nostrils...yes...those tears.

Now,buy something for her and promise to help her with the money ...SOON!

Peace restored at SOON!

Then few days later ...you got her at cloud 99,tell her a touchy tale as to why you can't raise the money.

Be sorry man,Show pain,loose your sleep about it, you feel me?

Let her see the worry on your face but bro,don't you ever agree to do the loan thingy with her bro.

We women can drag one yonder if they let us...I warn you...do not agree...And remember...Show thy pain...let it be written all over you!

You owe me you know.

You might be right about her playing games and all.. .but should marriages be like this, wife playing husband, husband playing wife for the rest of ur lives.. .not sure that's a very good advice,thats how twisted Kids are born. Imagine a child growing up in said environment.

ifyalways:
Chai, is this what marriage has been reduced to?

She give BJ
She's a hoe
Send text to explain
kilode

OP, seat down with your wife and handle all this as a man. You cannot finance her new project for now because of bla bla bla, she can go ahead and take the loan with her name after all she's an adult but you won't be part of it, get it done and OVER with. I frankly don't understand all the back and forth, nor the need for it.

I don't think it is fair for you to ask him to sit down and handle anything like a man after his wife went out to sleep with or is even thinking of sleeping with another man for money just because the husband refused to give it to her.. ..wife o, it's crazy,even for a girlfriend.

Ijobaorun:
Does the school force any parent to bring his or her child there? If the answer is no, then they should be ready to obey their rules and regulations at all cost as long as you are still under them.
It's not by force to go to private own schools.
If you want freedom, go to government schools.

Well.. .what you typed would have held water if it was clearly stated in their rule book that attending their programmes is compulsory.. .besides this is a higher institution for Christ sake and issues like this should not even arise.. .why don't they just decide to make the school an only winners member sch then. Even God is not this extreme or people for dey catch fire everyday.

frank317:
Oga do not take every word in the Bible literally... Allow the holy spirit to interpret for u.

Why not then allow the Holy Spirit interpret for others too, instead of forcing ur own interpretation down their throats.

frank317:
Imagine if Jesus was married, would he give his wife doggy?

No, Christianity only allows for holy sex. God will definitely send you to hell if you take your wife from behind or allow her to ride you from the top. Sex must be holy...the woman lies down, the man puts it in, pump till he comes and that's all. Remember nothing like 'ohhh don't stop, faster, please faster' from the woman. This will upset God and the next thing, u will find yourself in hell.

A word is enough for the wise.

Sometimes some of you make God seem to Petty with all these funny rules and what not about what God condones and does not yet wonder why people stop believing,so now God will send you to hell to burn for eternity for giving your wife doggy style.. .what a loving and compassionate God he is.. ...

IamPatriotic:
There should be a limit to what idiots like Femi MaseanFani Kayode should be allowed to say in public domains before they are taken away from the normal society.

Well... The dude is exercising his right Na, is what he has just written worst than insults rained on Jonathan and other presidents?? ....the worst than can happen is for the DSS to raid his house and detaining him for 2 years over trumped up charges without trial.. .na normal thing for this government now.

Franchise21:
Mr Jang, if u're innocent, u shouldn't be bothered

Oga this is not about whether or not he is innocent, you don't just break into people's houses without following due process....its about doing what is right.

izzou:
Am very sure the Ooni won't bother to shake him next time

Not being friendly with someone doesn't mean you are bad. Sometimes, Its a means of earning respect

The late Ooni would have greeted the Obi only,and sat down. That I am very sure

Well... you make a very good point but I think except they had some sort of beef the Ooni had no reason to greet just the Obi ND ignore the Oba,like I mentioned earlier he was probably just being a gentleman but then again, knowing how arrogant the Oba can be, should have just ignored him, I doubt he expected the Oba to display such extraordinary act of childishness.

izzou:

I am not Yoruba but I heard he ain't a first class king sef

And he's always in the news for the wrong reasons

I actually blame the Ooni for this. He should have just gone to his seat straight. Sometimes, forming familiarity dey bring insult

You really should not blame the Ooni of ife for being who he is.. .its just like blaming a good person for being good cos his good deeds brings him temporal discomfort and demand he reduces his goodness...power should be exercised with and not over ur fellow man, a lack of this understanding is the reason the world is the way it is.....the oba was just being a big baby.

anotherydz:
When person dey use hin mouth drive rough na wetin go happen be this. Dey talk say 42M na chicken feed for country where some people cannot even eat a complete three meal a day.
I doubt if these so called bishops/priests are called by God. Most of them are men-ordained bishops/priests.

Someone's house was ransacked by the military unlawfully and this is what you can type.. ..what exactly has his predicament got to do with what you just typed up there or was the 42M found with him, na Wa for some of una, when injustice is visited on you or any of ur loved ones,you will understand what it feels like.

Frolic:
It's not something alien tho. If you can put yr ears on the ground, you'll hear friends and family of an overgrown bachelor telling him you better go marry instead of having to this cooking, cleaning even bathing all by yourself . Anyway, ya right sha some men no sabi how to care for them wives and that doesn't necessarily have to be helping in the kitchen or what have you.

True.

Frolic:
It's not something alien tho. If you can put yr ears on the ground, you'll hear friends and family of an overgrown bachelor telling him you better go marry instead of having to this cooking, cleaning even bathing all by yourself . Anyway, ya right sha some men no sabi how to care for them wives and that doesn't necessarily have to be helping in the kitchen or what have you.

True.

Frolic:
sweet Jesus, not all men have time for all these house chores booshit and all. If you dont know , one of the major reasons some men esp those with time consuming jobs go into marriage is to get emselves relieved of stupid must do chores like washing scrubbing and cooking to pave more time for work and get other essentialities go on their kneel. Now pls, stop all these stuff and nonsense as if domestic work reach pushing kaya for Oshodi .PFFT it even helps person like me unnerve!

This is the first time I am hearing a major purpose for men getting married is to relieve themselves from chores lool.. ..a lot of you are oversimplifying the whole thing, this is not about doing chores.. .its about showing little acts of kindness by helping someone you claim to love once in a while, about caring a little more, about companionship,mutual respect, a lot of people based on comments I am reading here do not yet understand the meaning of life. One day I hope they will, ND I hope they are not 60 years old when they do.

PaperLace:
OP, the only thing you did wrong is posting this on Nairaland. There are lots of sad males here, they don't like to hear that a man helps out in chores. To them, all a man needs to do, to be the HEAD of the house _ is have a dick and provide money.

They'll try to make you feel less for doing these things, please ignore them. They will tell you to go and make money, I doubt they are richer than Dangote. If they are so smart and rich, they would know different strokes for different folks. A traditional man, who believes all he has to do is provide dick and money, should marry a traditional woman. A man who doesn't believe in that ideology, should go for his kind!! I didn't even know that making money and doing house chores are mutually exclusive. Lots of women do these two things and more at the same time.

If helping out in the house,makes your wife lose respect for you,then you should be more concerned about the kind of woman you are married to... because if you lose that so called money tomorrow_you'll see hell.

One even said it's not in your place to wash your wife's cloth. A woman that puts her life on the line every time to have you guys lil ones? Sometimes with complications? Tears?
You go down on that vagina and bury your head there like your future is inside it, and it's not your place to wash her cloth? But it's in her own place to wash your clothes?

Some of you have made marriage seem like a battle field, where each party is always trying to exert some authority. Sweet Lord, I can't deal...

You have said it all... Was shocked at some of the responses, that goes to show you how unelightened certain men are and why their marriages are either battle fields or a master slave relationship with so much unhappiness. It's crazy.

Kingbuhari:
suffering and smiling... Ok nah

Since you are suffering and not smiling, what have do done to improve anybody's life?

Kingbuhari:
having fun ontop of famine? Tufiakwa

Famine...cool, go about getting angry at everybody that's trying to have a little laugh cos in ur mind the world is coming to an end.. .everybody knows the country is not in a good shape now but that does not mean we should all go about looking chronically depressed.

GloriaNinja:
NIGERIANS WILL POKE-NOSE AND REACT TO EVERYTHING, WHEN THEIR OWN COUNTRY IS IN A DEEP MESS.

Sister lighten up.....dont take things too serious,they are just having fun.

GloriaNinja:
NIGERIANS WILL POKE-NOSE AND REACT TO EVERYTHING, WHEN THEIR OWN COUNTRY IS IN A DEEP MESS.

Sister lighten up.....dont take things too seriously,they are just having fun.

OlajumokeBread:

Spits

He's mentally unstable

You were created a man but you wake up one day and then decide you wanna a woman

That's some sick shiit

Spits

Did you even read what was written before rushing to comment......and we wonder why there is so much misunderstanding and chaos in the world. Na Wa for some of una, go back re read then come back And read what you wrote.

abescom:
On campaign promises let's put things in the right context. Highlight some of the campaign promises that has not been fulfilled, let's educate each other.

Who has disrespected the NASS? I am lost here. Maybe you should enlighten me.

Court orders not being obey maybe because some of the orders are just silly and against the wellness of the nation. Like asking to free Kanu who was busy preaching hate. No where in the world is a treasonable offense bailable. Nigerians are often quick to make comparison between us and the yanks, oya tell me which court allowed America to kill Osama Bin Laden? How about those in detention in Puerto Rico for years now?

And on Dasuki, why should he be freed? He shared money that can feed you and every Nigerian for at least two years and you think he should be granted bail? Sometimes commonsense should prevail over the law.

Bro.. .i would have responded to all you wrote but for time cos I need to run, but will just comment on statement about "common sense prevailing over law".Why then should laws be made if they would not be respected, what would happen if every leader begins to disregard court orders in the name of letting common sense prevail?? Besides, I don't know why the president decided to heat the polity by arresting and detaining the Kano dude, this guy has been talking for years without anybody paying attention to him... You cannot just arrest and detain Someone for more than a year without recourse to the law in a democracy for Christ sake, the whole treason crap does not hold water, a lot of people have been making devisive statements for years in this country and nothing has happened. It is mass support for leaders, justifying their breaking the law with statements like "common sense should prevail over law" that gives rise to dictators because one day he would decide he alone has sense and others don't.

Wilgrea7:
nice writeup johnydon22.... this is an opinion not a rebuttal... cuz some of the things you said are true

firstly.. to imagine how small earth is compared to other stars is something really fascinating.. I'll talk about involvement of an all supreme creator(creator of the cosmos, nebulas, galaxies) etc on earth... i think the problem is that whenever we hear the word ‘God' we think of a man with a long white beard somewhere... but I've come to realise that God is more than that.. i like to think of God as a ‘thing' that surpasses all things yet is in all things... i believe God is outside, inside, and through the universe.. so i don't think it would be much of a problem for him to actually relate with the different planets no matter how small they may be.. concerning the killings in the OT, i don't support it neither do i justify it... i know little or nothing of what happened then.. all we have are bits of the tip of the iceberg.. Christians who think they know more than the Jews about their(the jews) own history need to recheck... you did make a very good point in regards to an all supreme creator being affected by human emotions like jealousy, rage etc.. but i don't also think that God should be emotionless to creation... as in... not caring at all.. please try to get my point... I'm in no way justifying anger or jealousy... but emotions like love can bring things like sadness... except we are to all agree that God doesn't love his creation..
concerning worship, i don't believe God needs our worship... i don't even think he wants it... praise and worship are things to be done out of gratitude and not compulsion.. if i start speaking my mind ... my fellow Christians will come for my head... but God doesn't need our worship.. even if we are to take the bible as a point of reference... you'd see that God in the Bible has millions of angels with angelic voices that sing to him... compared to our human crooked voices, you'd see that God doesn't indeed need our worship/praise... but its something we do out of gratitude.. I've been in churches where people dance and sing to show themselves...but their intention isn't to praise God.. I'm 100% sure that those praises won't go anywhere.. i once saw a woman with a crooked voice.. crying and praising God.. mere looking at her you could tell she was not faking.. I'm pretty sure God would acknowledge her more than the other circus workers...
you said something that echoed within me

your exact words were “Theism ridicules and demeans the very idea of God they conceive"

i agree yet disagree... there are religions that don't demean God... but don't expect them to be common in the west... but coming to Christianity and Islam, you're correct.. i recently went to research on the jews and i realised that the abrahamic religions have reduced God to the likeness of a man.. Judaism is way better in some certain aspects... the Christians and muslims have this daddy mummy mentality with God... which in the real sense is not a problem... but how they use the mentality.. that's the problem... Christianity tends to reduce God to a mere servant.. you hear things like “God i need a job"... “God help me pass this exam"... i don't pray like that anymore cuz I've realised that we pray for things we already have.. its like asking for food and then asking to be spoon fed... its wrong.. the only thing i ask for is grace and mercy.. I've began to see the importance of the Lord's prayer... let me stop here to avoid provoking certain Christians... my point is that most Christians have reduced God to who he is not and it is wrong... this is not a rebuttal... its an opinion cuz some of the things you said up there are true

It's almost as if you brought these words out of my mind, I have always believed a lot of people have a distorted idea of God and how he relates to us hence so much misconceptions and all "God is outside, inside and through the universe" that's a profound truth, his essence is in everything.Very well put.

DoctorAlien:
The OP has posted this same ignorant article countless times, each time with different words.

Apart from the fact I'm confused as to how GOD is "vane", the OP is yet to prove to me that his understanding of what a "perfect GOD" should be is the reality.

The OP said that a perfect GOD "needs nothing." And I say yes: GOD really needs nothing from anybody. He is worshipped by those who have realised that worship is due to Him simply because He is the Creator. But what can be more just for the Creator to do than to destroy out of existence those creatures who have chosen to remain a nuisance to creation by continuing to disobey the laws which the Creator has put in place to govern creation?

I disagree with you bro.. .destruction of his supposed creatures can not be just for a supposedly all loving and all knowing GOD, if he wanted perfect beings, he could have created them,without the tendency to be a nuisance and the capacity to disobey as you have said.. ..afterall he is all knowing and all powerful. I think it insane to have the capacity to create a perfect being as some believe he does, then goes on to create a being with a capacity to stray, knowing this all the while, and then destroying this being for the very same imperfections he put in it.. ....This been said,i must mention here that I do believe in God, but think there is so much we do not know of him/it/her and his/her/its relationship to the world and us humans. Our different religions I must confess have failed to give us complete answers,look around you, religion is responsible for more deaths than almost all other causes put together.

stainlink:
AND INCASE YOU ARE TAKING IT PERSONAL, THE COMMENT I MADE IS JUST FOR THE FUN, NOTHING MORE
THE MORE AWKWARD YOUR COMMENT, THE MORE LIKES YOU GET

Hehehe....alright then, I did not take it personal tho

stainlink:

Dangote no get
Obasanjo no get
Bill Gates no even get
so who you wan intimidate?

I guess most of our ladies will go for six cars than this your six packs and mighty chest.

I understand your point perfectly, but we need to stop making it seem like staying fit is a bad thing and having a pot belly is healthy once you have money.. ...it should not be an either/or ,one should aspire for wealth as well as good health by staying fit.

willjoe:
We may say she made it. I argue she's still not better off given d 7 wasted years.

That's a very flawed way Of Looking at life, the lesson learnt is that she stayed true to her dream ND it became her reality. How about those that did not waste any time as you have put it only to come out unemployed for years. No time is wasted as long as you are moving towards your dream, just keep moving and whatever time you thought you wasted will be recovered. One day you will understand this truth.

Olayimikami:
Guess the nairaland mail server issue affected the delivery, however i will add you today and we can discuss though i am currently out of my base

Thank you sir,will come online later today.

Olayimikami:
Prices of most commodities should dip this month. Maize which was scarce is gradually appearing again, at much lower prices.

Guinea corn at N180/modu in selected area in kaduna.

The only commodity not moving south here is rice, hopefully by the third week in december, it would eventually start its decline.

For yam buyers, you may initiate action now.

Been trying to get your contact oga Ola... Can't find it, please add me. 08081246412 . have egusi in large quantity, sourcing for buyers.

anigbajumo:


Some people lack rational direction, they can pen down fictional views of uncertainty but they can't even speculate their future.see long episode about what is not their papa business...

MMM is not coming back blablabla, you see urself unclad today....
MMM still surprised you badbelle , see another stupidity on NL here and there, why are some people are so daft like this??

I can't wait to pay my PH of 450k any moment from now despite I have 350k frozen in one of acct....


MMM haterz,fuvk Yer all.

Bro don't mind them,they are more pained than the participants self.

bettercreature:
Don't mind them! one thing is to get help and another thing is to get matched,The system will crash today

He has already provided help for almost that amount,and there are a lot of people willing to pay,me included and its above 150k,i have gotten a lot more than that from the scheme and will gladly ph more even if I will not get anything,if your not in support of the scheme,stay neutral or advice ur loved ones against it,you dont have to keep hoping it crashes just so you feel good.Its sick.

kingsilly:
you fucking daft, he is only GH cause he has PH roughly dat amount in the past
mshewwwww

Don't mind them,all they know is to spit nonsense without understanding how it works.