₦airaland Forum

richidinho:

They are many over there!

50cent - ojota boy

Rihana - Nsukka babe

Jay z - oshogbo but him mama frm Ngbidi

Even that babe with big nyansh from Isele Ekiti

Mark Nsukabag is a full blown indigene of Nsukka city

Loool....guy you no well o swear.Nice one.

DaddySLY:
have u tried telling her?... you met her untouched...where are u expecting her to get skills like jessie jane the porn star?

True,but nothing stops her from learning,based on what the OP said,they have been together for 9 years before marraige ,and she was not disvirgined on her wedding night,if you ask me 9 years is a prety long time to have an idea about what makes your man or woman tick emotionally,psychologically and sexually,paying close attention to any changes.Keeping a relationship going hot is like a full time job and time must be set asside for that purpose.Most people are just too lazy to put in said time or not even aware of the enormity of work needed for a lasting relationship.

Berbierklaus:
This is not a matter if feminist or not.

And right here and now,I am not copying western cultures,I am only saying what should be fair to me as a girl.

A girl should not be compelled to stay in a loveless,nonfunctional or even violent relationship,because there is a limit she can go with the number of men she has been with. that's hogwash.

A girl should not remain single and forfeit her happiness because the society has given her the grace to be with a certain number of guys,that's another hogwash there.


PS:I am perplexed and shocked that you could go so low,then again,we are humans,we don't stop surprising ourselves

True...I would also love to add that men and women are very different in the way they think,act and see things,including relationships and hence can never be equal in the real sense of the word(sameness),but entitled to equal oppurtunities,it will do both sexes a lot of good to be aware of these differences in each other including how we see relationships,while i would not condemn those who do,i am not really a fan of going into supposedly serious relationships with the mindset of trying out or testing to see wether it works,one should go into a serious relationship purposefully with full awareness of what he or she is trying to do,this includes becoming aware of the future beloved's traits,features and flaws with some idea of what the future beloved is trying to do also regarding the relationship.This value of patience,studying,observing,being friends with the future beloved before rushing in has all but died in our impatient,quick result and quick fun oriented generation,which is why for some reason we keep trying out different people,leading to some people trying out 10,20,30 different people under the guise of finding that one person.If the idea is just to have fun,by all means one should,but know exactly what he/she is doing and not blindly go into a supposedly serious relationship for all the wrong reasons still expecting a favourable outcome.

mhiz:
Exclusive friendship . The love most people talk about this days....pure fake. And I don't see the whole fuss about sex.

I think the bigger problem is that most people have no idea what love is,often atimes they equate love to strong feelings for the beloved which usually happens when we become attracted to,invested in and committed to the beloved which most people then term "falling in love".This feeling of falling in love is really as a result of our very strong psycholigical and biological needs being met by the beloved.Our psychological need to escape loneliness and our biological need for sexual gratification and survival of the specie.True love transcends ephemiral feelings,it is an act of choice," the WILL to extend ourselves for the purpose of nuturing our growth and that of the beloved.While these feelings of falling in love is euphoric and desirable,and since we cannot really nuture our beloves growth without truly knowing him/her,the process of being attracted to,invested in and commited to the beloved associated with the feeling of "falling in love" is important in romantic relationships.I would conclude therefore by stating that while "falling in love" is not in itself real love,it is part of the great and mysterious scheme of love.THE PURPOSE OF A RELATIONSHIP IS NOT TO HAVE ANOTHER WHO MIGHT COMPLETE YOU BUT TO HAVE ANOTHER WITH WHOM YOU CAN SHARE YOUR COMPLETENESS.You cannot share your completeness if you are not complete and the first purpose of love is to nuture your own completeness.REAL LOVE IS HARD WORK AND REQUIRES COURAGE.

obiorathesubtle:
Can't say you don't have a point..

Well...he might have a point but I think the bigger problem is that most people have no idea what love is,often atimes they equate love to strong feelings for the beloved which usually happens when we become attracted to,invested in and committed to the beloved which most people then term "falling in love".This feeling of falling in love is really as a result of our very strong psycholigical and biological needs being met by the beloved.Our psychological need to escape loneliness and our biological need for sexual gratification and survival of the specie.True love transcends ephemiral feelings,it is an act of choice," the WILL to extend ourselves for the purpose of nuturing our growth and that of the beloved.While these feelings of falling in love is euphoric and desirable,and since we cannot really nuture our beloves growth without truly knowing him/her,the process of being attracted to,invested in and commited to the beloved associated with the feeling of "falling in love" is important in romantic relationships.I would conclude therefore by stating that while "falling in love" is not in itself real love,it is part of the great and mysterious scheme of love.THE PURPOSE OF A RELATIONSHIP IS NOT TO HAVE ANOTHER WHO MIGHT COMPLETE YOU BUT TO HAVE ANOTHER WITH WHOM YOU CAN SHARE YOUR COMPLETENESS.You cannot share your completeness if you are not complete and the first purpose of love is to nuture your own completeness.REAL LOVE IS HARD WORK AND REQUIRES COURAGE.

patriotic9jaboy:
Reno is a fool who likes to talk too much. Why the Efcc and Dss allows him to work free is still a surprise. He is a staunch critic of this government and deserves to be arrested and probed for corruption. I hope he is whisked away to kuje prison soon. Useless parrot

So once your a critic of the government,you should be arrested and probed....it is thinking like this that has kept this country in bondage.

kahal29:
I see Danger ahead.... Since NJC has constituted itself to another arm of Government I see a situation where PMB will refuse to forward the name of the next CJN they submitted to him to the Senate and ask NJC to send it to the Senate directly since they are now an arm of government. This would mean that by the time the present CJN Retires on the 10th of November we won't have a replacement and nobody to chair the NJC.

Bro,the Judiciary is actually an independent arm of government or should be as enshrined in the constitution and hence not subject to the wimps and caprices of the executives,the NJC controls and regulate the judiciary so are independent.While i do not hold any brief for the accused judges,the SSS should have handled the situation better.The president doing what ur advocating will lead to a constitutional crisis which will bite him in the back.The country is already too unstable as it is.The constitution of the republic must guide every action .

TrapQueen77:
No...but ofcurz the accused can file a new case/complaint for the damages she done tho him...probably a penalty which involve money...

I think a penalty involving money is too linient,bear in mind that the accused could have spent years in jail if the truth was not discovered.

agbangam:
Hmmm, u see only God can salvage dis country, I sometimes wonder if dis country can ever achieve her greatness wit these set of crooks, corrupt pple everywhere and even d youths are not helping matters. My happiness is dat someday we shall all remember PMB for taking giant step in dealing with our corrupt Judges which even d Military/Obj cudn't do. History will remember dis day dat PMB tried his best in exposing those dat have kept dis country in dis darkness, backwardness and HUNGER but Nigerians cos of religion/ethnicity refuse to support him.
Pls PMB shud release those corrupt Judges and Pls those corrupt Judges shud also free Dansuki n Co. No be suffer, we never see anything.
Lubbish as my igbo pple will say.

Bro...while I can relate to what ur saying,you need to understand that there are laws enacted to govern and preserve a society and all its institutions,you cannot claim to be fighting the ills of said society by breaking the very same laws that serve to preserve it everytime,there are procedures which should be followed.If to effectively tackle corruption the government needs to disobey its own laws,the system has to be overhauled then.

sarrki:
Wonder shall never end

So wailers is soliciting for a known terrorist

Just because the hatred you have for Buhari

Bro...if he is a terrorist the government should take him to court,provide proof let justice prevail.Stop trying to justify this governments commando style of wisking and detaining people indefinitely. If everyone continues cheering them on,it will one day move from supposed terrorists to everyone that opposes the government....hell,it has already started,that's what you lots don't understand.

IamLEGEND1:
fuck_her other name. Who cares about her other name.
very few girls know my surname not to talk of other obscure names i answer. if e pain her say you forget,she can go and die.

Bro....calm down,I think its all about context here,ur assertion might have been valid if they were just playing around,according to him its a serious relationship and he loves her, knowing ur girls full names is a basic requirement.Even bad guys should have codes and principles.

bitchcrafts:
How old is she ? All I see is naivety and tints of boredom.


Well, next time you see shes up for this kinda sheet, just ignore the whines and dont argue. Maybe try cook up something rather outlandish . Maybe a tale by the moonlight or a sweet prose picturing a rather ravishing angel you were lucky to get;her . Then ,challenge her to a feat of like or something... Just get her thinkiň deep shiits before she goes all nasty in yo face henceforth bruh!

You might have a point,but I really do not think its cool not to know or to forget ur girl's full names after 2 years in a relationship,her not been happy about that is justified....my thoughts tho.

jazinogold:
just here to read comments... hope my comments grow like mavro so I can GH 30 days later!

Lol.

Cherishing:
Yet some fools won't heed to this call

You really do not have to insult people,its their choice to do what they wish with their money,i am sure they have heard the warnings,if eventually anything happens,i doubt they will blame anybody,those who will do it will do it,about 6 people i know have been doing it for over 6 months and they have been paid consistently,i was ofcourse skeptical about it and warned them,what they said was look,we have all gotten almost 3 times what we started with,if it crashes today we r good.For those it might affect well....from what i gathered money is not paid into any central system.Considering the rate at which people r trooping in,i doubt the crash will b soon.

madridguy:
Since every nairalander discovered Lala pin code na to dey waka up and down with camera looking for where dem kill snake

In Mama Peace voice: Make una kontinu

Loool.

John902:
now who's the child? when your brothers are vandalising our pipe lines and someone said militant against military. wait and see who the child is

I do not remember mentioning in my comment that I was from the Niger delta region....you see ur life, I guess wole Soyinka who is advocating the government dialogues with the militants is also from the Niger delta region,its people like you who generalize nd group everybody who has opposing views to urs as ur enemies, who r the real problem with this country,everything is "kill Kill Kill!!!...if u r so blood thirsty why not join the military nd go kill everybody in the so called "yeye region" as you have called it.It will do you good to introspect on this quote..." He that is good with the hammer tends to think everything is a nail".

John902:
you think say all of una for that yeye side pass military? because the military dey look una ba.no worry when military gets that order to level una ba,na that time una go know say buhari na dictator.

Stop talking like a child,no peace loving person will support bombings for no reason,but when people rise up against its government,the only way is to handle it diplomaticaly or go the way of syria....the yeye side as you put it is the region sustaining this nation for now.

LesbianBoy:
No o! Don't take a break! Keep popping out baby you hear. Mtscheeew........I even doubt that man married her for love sef. The man go dey fvck her big ass everyday

Bro calm down na....she dey owe you money? .

kabrud:
These christians are always out looking for problem with the muslims. May be that one thinks he is on nairaland. For God's sake, what is the meaning of this rubbish? U will see them insulting muslims everywhere for no reason only to turn around and start forming the victim. After creating the storm, they will be asking why the rain. Has any muslim ever insulted Jesus Christ? This thing is getting too much. And they know very well that a muslim will never take that from u except if u hide behind the laptop to do that. We shall see the end of this problem they looking for upandan.

Bro,while I am all for respect for each others religion,what will the world look like if we all began to kill each other as a result of disrespect to our religions,we must not let the weaknesses of others dictate our actions,people will always talk,how you respond to what they say is what defines you.

Stelvin101:
Trouble dey him own dey mind him own business, ediot wan wake am. Ogbeni get lost abeg, I don't av time to argue with incompetent fooool dis cold nite. Park well

Only children, as a result of their inability to express themselves constructively start hurling insults around....grow up bro,SHALOM.

Stelvin101:
He might not have any link with Militants but the people he allowed to loot is dry to this our present condition are the ones sponsoring Militants and Boko Haram. So he better starts calling names else Freedom will be snuffed outta him

And who is going to snuff freedom out of him...you?,is it Jonathan's job to go after the militants,or the government has forgoten how to do its job,or u just feel like typing whatever comes to ur head...

tinsel:
You must respect others religious belief. What is the position of dog in the Moslem world?

And Jonathan that was called so many unprintable names does not deserve respect abi?....

OrlandoOwoh:
Nobody doubts he went for an AU assignment. Ibrahim1975 is interested in knowing why GEJ hardly stays in Bayelsa State. All former leaders, though are not compelled to, retire to their country homes.

How exactly is where he decides to stay ur business?,if other leaders decide to stay permanently in their home states,does that mean he must also do that,or does he not have the right to stay where ever he chooses anymore?, the way some of you let ur hatred for the guy turn you into irrational beings is really funny,some say he stole,nothing stops the president from investigating him and jailing him if found wanting,until then u guys should grow up and stop acting like pained and angry kids.

uzobaby:
You didn't read where it was written that he went for AU assignment?

Don't mind the pained dude.....

hub:
What you fail to understand is government does not cultivate those agricultural products you listed, they are done by hardworking individuals. Mind you no individual produces crude oil, what I was expecting those agitators or avengers to do is to demand for royalty on land usage and if they can, invest and go into crude production like the exploration companies.

Bro,individuals own some of the exploration companies that drill it nd all,the issue is not about demanding royalties,its about resource control,how can an individual or local demand royalty on a resource that even states in which this crude is found have no real say or power over apart from the extra allocation they get via derivation in the name of oil being on the exclusive list,one step at a time.I also do not support the avengers method of destroying national assets but sadly our government has shown over the years it does not pay attention to peacefull agitations.

mikolo80:
go and check properly
It's only politicians that enjoy oil money
The north actually feed you.
If they leave you with the oyel
Oyinbo will just collect it

Oga what are you saying...how much does rice,beans,corn or other food products add to the federation acct from which salaries,other recurrent and capital expenditures are shared,stop being ignorant,you claim oil is not important yet a drop in price and sabotage by militants is causing the country so much hardship.We all want our agricultural sector to boom and the country to cut back on it overdependence on oil,we must however stop decieving ourselves and others that oil at the moment is not important.

diegwu01:
Ahh! this policy would suit those wailers and IPOBians with Neanderthal mentality and extremely low IQ
Noticed how quick they reacted to the News claiming "Nigerians Reacts...", the topic should have been "Wailers and IPOBian yoots reacts...."

In ur twisted mind,everybody that criticizes this government's is an IPOB youth,you need serious help.

saintdennis:
I actually bolded those 4 to prove some points.
#1- THERE ARE NO REAL ETHNIC DIVISIONS IN NIGERIA...it is ONLY the igbos who are causing problems and have infected the ND. ND was never really about secession but about greater share of oil wealth.
It's the igbos who have refused to move on from the 1966-1970 issue other tribes have moved on...they need to grow up.

#2- the NW, NE VOTED FOR BUHARI... BUT THEY DID NOT REJECT JONATHAN. GEJ GOT @LEAST half the votes from the NW, NE buhari DID NOT GET A LANDSLIDE VICTORY let us not forget the EAST ALSO REJECTED PMB IN 2011. Gej won SE/SS by a landslide.

Gej assured of being a 1-term president, this is politics he reneged on the deal which saw him win NC and some NE states , attached are verifiable images THE SW,SE,SS overwhelmingly REJECTED PMB IN 2011.

#3 bro it's politics and the nation will grow for it, if the igbos wanna start another war over this they should go ahead but should remember like 1967-1970 only the victor enjoys the spoils of war, the loser must accept the crumbs all over again.

The east cannot hate the SW, NC,NE,NW just because they chose to switch allegiances in 2015 , also a lot of ND and IGBOS occupy good positions in buhari's govt but they cannot occupy the MAIN JUICY POSITIONS it's not possible.
Look @ kachikwu who was a super minister his people disgraced him by continually bombing pipelines amaechi is also a super minister onyeama(foreign affairs) ngige(labour) eyinnaya(trade) onu(science). What were the IGBOS EXPECTING? Power,housing? Transport? Lols

#4- bro it is that feigned ignorance that has put us where we are today where humans have become demi-gods a man like eweremadu CAN NEVER GO TO JAIL(everyone knows that) because it will be tagged witch hunt, A MAN LIKE TINUBU cannot be sent to jail Cos it will be tagged assault on yorubas A MAN LIKE BUHARI cannot be impeached cos he's the top man from the north.
YOU CANNOT SACK A WESTERNER AND REPLACE HIM/HER WITH AN EASTERNER Without causing ethnic problems? Why??

If the country is to break up no wahala...but we cannot continue to allow everything be dictated by "what tribe are you". PMB REMAINS OUR BRAVEST PRESIDENT SO FAR.

It's all or nothing.

I do not totally agree with you that there r no ethnic sentiments and the Igbo's are the only ones fueling unrest,the deep ethnic nd religious sentiments r so glaring and I am not talking about MASSOB,IPOD,AVENGERS and all,these groups just deepen the already present devisions,most people they claim to represent do not agree with their methods,you said it urself that some people are untouchables irrespective of crimes they might have commited due to what their people would say,this goes to prove my point,about the ND clamor for more control of their resources,it is not a just cause considering....,if it is why then is it not been seriously looked into,nd a road map drawn to bring it to fruition?,what r the people opposing it really scared of?.About the whole biafra ish,i think its a little insensitive for you to just ask them to grow up,most of them grew up hearing about how their grandparents were killed,starved nd their land decimated,irrespective of who is to blame.Refusing to face our history however painful,choosing to bury it and pretend nothing happened will not help matters,help our healing nd foster unity,not everything is about war,spoils of war nd all,everybody has a right to self determination,if they decide they do not want to be part of the union although i think majority do not share this view,its their choice,we cannot continue threatening every region that might want to leave the union with war under the guise of one nigeria. I am a strong supporter of the Nigerian project nd feel we would be greater as one nation but we must draw up a system that would ensure our unity,not a forced union that tends to breed suspicion among the numerous ethnicities,hence the clamour for true federalism which i think might be our only option.

saintdennis:
Yes...You're right

But who actually says he's holding it against them?

Have you ever played ordinary school politics? well i've seen it first hand and there are trade-offs involved.
I.e you want my delegates? Ok what can you offer me? This Is why it's called politics.

Before pmb got there do you know how many slots he promised to SW n north? How many personal promises he made to atiku, tinubu, amaechi, obj, oshiomole, okorocha n co?

All those rented crowds you see @ rallies you think it's the governor who goes to load them inside bus? Do you know how useless a ward chairman/leader Is (even within a winning party) if he couldn't deliver his ward during the elections?

Dokpesi that is going around state by state to woo delegates do you think it's just to chat? Man it's politics!

Lagos-calabar rail was removed from budget, calabar-itu was removed yet ND SENATORS FROM CROSS RIVER haven't been castigated for it shows politically inept they are... politics is a ruthless game, go hard or go home.

The east rejected buhari, they shouldn't heat up the polity. If there are to be 10 appointments only 1 or 2 will be from the east...it's not marginalisation, it's politics.

Come 2019 they have another chance @ politiking but from what i'm seeing so far they haven't learnt their lessons if okorocha and ngige can be HATED cos they played their politics well.

Asking for presidency to be zoned to east proves failure to play the game.

Your might b right bro but you must understand that Nigeria is a peculiar case,with deep ethnic devisions nd all,the northwest nd north east did not vote for jonathan too in his first tenure but the appointments were spread across board,i am talking about very sensitive positions like the security of the nation nd all,the people who wrote the constitution were conscious of this deep devision hence the inclusion that all appointements must show federal character irrespective of how the people voted.WHILE I THINK THE HATRED A LOT OF EASTERNERS HAVE FOR THE PRESIDENT IS TO A CERTAIN DEGREE NOT JUSTIFIED and that they should realize he would not rule forever,the president must be very careful not to widen the devision, his exclusion of the east from very sensitive position is too glaring,its almost as if he is saying its payback time,it would have been cool nd termed POLITICS if it did not risk the disintegration of the nation,hopefully one day we would rise against ethnic sentiments but for now we must not feign ignorance of its existence.

saintdennis:
Bro what do you expect from a zone that OVERWHELMINGLY REJECTED A CANDIDATE yet behave like HE OWES THEM HIS PRESIDENCY.

I'm really wondering how these easterners and militants reason...seriously it's confusing

Chairman they have a right to vote whoever they wish and the president is not supposed to used that against them,the last time I checked he is also the president of the south east region .

omenka:
There is simply no other way- one way or another, he simply has to be removed. This is Saraki's original sin besides the fact he's a recalcitrant crook (na Kwarans talk am no be me).

In battle, you don't sharpen the sword of your enemy, you try to blunt it as much as possible- that is a FACT people who get too emotional won't accept.

Sixteen good years, we never had a diluted NASS top most leadership- doing so is neither for the good of the party or the executive leadership.

Most of what you have stated might be true,but there is a first time for everything, national development and progress should not be halted or slowed as a result of party politics.They should move on already.

lovedatruth:
One can only fall cheapishly to dis write-up, if u read only with ur mind n not ur BRAIN. Whr was he wen his father was forming a govt within a Govt? Whr was he wen his father followers were beating the chest of Army Generals? Whr was he wen his father folllowers Were carrying Arms against the Nation's Army? At a time d army ar fighting deadly war with the bokoharam, one useless group was springing up again in d same region. For me, I supported the army on dis clearance of religious extremiists. We dontwant anoda bokoharam to spring up.

Just as you have stated that we must not approach this issue with just out hearts but with our brains as well,I also admonish you not to approach it with just ur brain but also ur heart,although unverifiable some of the allegations u have stated against the organization might be true,but ask urself certain questions...was the action of the army really justified?, were they as armed and posed so much threat at that point in time to b decimated to that level?,is what u have stated enough reason to kill women nd children,youths who would have had an otherwise bright future?.We must in our quest to fight EVIL be carefull that we do not become the EVIL we seek to fight,i am neither a muslim nor from the north but was almost brought to tears at the sight of brutalized dead children and women. WE MUST TRY TO NEVER IN OUR QUEST TO FIGHT EVIL LOOSE OUR HUMANITY.