₦airaland Forum

Shynaboy1:
I PH last december. I've just been matched now to pay the money. I have it but I'm currently scared. E be like say na only me wan PH. Make dem no block my acc sha

Bro if you were matched please pay the person,a lot of people I know also PHed too,nd will pay when matched,dont be scared.

Lustig:
WARNING!!! The next idea na to collect as MANY people money as possible then close shops. Better collect una money run o!

Who is collecting the money?una go dey talk wetin una no know.First you guys said the scheme will not come back,now its back nd ur saying something else,its their money,if they loose it,its their problem,at least the scheme kept to what they said,make una rest.

DropShot:
How does one refusing to accept defeat in an election he had earlier conceded defeat equate to not obeying an ECOWAS court whose ruling is largely advisory?

Are court rulings in Nigeria that Dasuki be released on bail also advisory??.

gawu1:
A first world life in some ones else well built country where you are hunted around like à mad dog? Tell me you are à second class citizen! Just make sure you are not used as taget practice by the police there. Who is cursed than à recognised vagabond like you?
Your ineffectual buffoon Ph.d hero looted my country as if there was no tomorrow yet your Ipod tout mentailty would not let you see reason why hé was booted out. If your ineffectual buffoon had not milk us dry, my admirable président Buhari you so much hate would have no reason to borrow 30b dollars from the imperialist.
I know all you ipods live on drugs trafficking. My earnest advice to you is that you stay clear countries like Malysia, Indonésia, and syngapole with your drugs or you risk ending your first world life on firing squre. Remember that Your delictor is still languishing in my belove country's prison, and so would not be there to rescue you.

The elections were about 2 years ago and Buhari won,move on,Jonathan has,i do not see what our present president is doing anyways,look around you,there is so much hunger in the land,failures of previous administrations may have contributed to it but Buhari sure compounded it with his flip flop policies,a lot of his supporters agree on this.

Emmahunk:
What in God's name was he doing in the office at 2am with a driver and secretary?
The DSS certainly know their job.
Kudos boys

The last time I checked it was his personal office,he reserves the right to pass the night there if he so desires.

dapsonlou:
Dss is the equivalent of U.S. CIA, the can pick up anyone who is a threat to national security, they can even Old you indefinitely

That may be true but I guess it depends on what the government of the day calls a "threat to national security",because lately that phrase seems to be thrown around when the government is about to go after someone.

douchesnozzle:
Oga keep hoping o. I ll be here to open a special wailing thread for people like you. Your number one guider is moving around with body guard, he is using this period to give u guys hope while he perfects his plan to leave Naija u are here hoping for MMM to come back.

Its one thing to disagree with certain things and advice people not to do it,its another to be filled with so much hate thay you want people to suffer just to proof some point.Its really sad....really really sad.

progress69:
Every Nigerian heard wicked Wike on tape threatening to kill anyone who doesn't do his bidding. If the man was trully killed during the legislative elections, his family members should ask Wike what the man refused to do for him to warrant him taking is life.

Wike confirmed on tape himself that he is a serial killer in power, a blood sucking demon and a ritualist!

I don't understand,is it that you did not read what was written about him being a PDP chieftain and was abducted by APC loyalists? or you have intentionally decided to be selectively blind.

fumisko:
Lol
Makes sense
Wld try not too
Some guys over do it Dts y
Call u morning Nyt etc
Wana hear ur problem and all
We women are emotional beings
So what do u expect of us at the end

Hehehe...you have a point and yes some guys overdo it,i feel if any woman finds herself falling for a guy without knowing how the guy feels,the best she can do is ask him directly what his relationship with her is,his reply might be painful,but its best to know where you stand.

fumisko:
I guess some men are confused about what they want. I have a friend like that. Treats you so nice then and all that. I got emotionally entangled too. But yet it seemed he was never attached with all those care. Apparently some men like this exist. I think if u ask him m, he won't b married...I feel it's emotionally confused men. Commitment phobic men who over care for a lady...make her emotionally attached n yet d don't get attached. How does that even work...how are some guys able to do it without being emotionally attached too?
I had to stop talking to him o...it hurt n he asked y. I told him I was getting emotionally entangled with him and don't need that
If he loves u then...he shld pursue...if not...let him be
Now am free and counting my wedding soon

Sis...really trying to understand what you wrote,can't a man just be nice and caring without it leading to a relationship?,when guys take your being nice to them to mean you want them to sleep with you,you complain,now a man is being nice for the sake of it without any ulterior motives and ur still complaining and terming it immaturity....Nawa o,well you made the right decision cutting off ties with him seeing as u were in pain with him but please dont go calling someone immature just cos he is being good to you without wanting anything in return.

wazobiang:
It was when I got older old that I learnt that criminals really believe their sh#t. I mean, look at this guy talking as if 30% a month is like green grass, sunlight and certain nightfall. Now that I am older, when I hear someone believe their shit I simply try to run faster and further away from madness which is what they are.

This MMM coming back will be to bury the remaining standing members. It will be the mother of all comebacks. It will be armageddon. It will be the finisher. It will be .. in fact it will be hooohaaaa! Gbam. Okwu agwusigo. Final. People used other people's money, their childrens' school fees, institutions' money etc in the first trap, the second trap may cost something like "o di kwa egwu! to come out of people's mouth.

Everybody will be running helter skelter on the road looking for help while the people they meet will also be hope less and helpless. 3.3 million people before, next will be 30 million. Even Buhari go follow join.

See mad man. This man wan finish Nigeria. We say we no get money but this man sabi otherwise.

Oga calm down,ur too dramatic,see as you carry other people matter for head like pure water hawker.These participants are not complaining for Christ's sake,they have been warned,by the site,government and know it all people like you,its their money,leave them be,I doubt they will blame anybody if they loose it.Haba.

nnamdiokere45:
hmmmmm...baba dis tin na hm image hm dey tarnish. den he shldnt have taken a pic in dat parlor

Haba bro...we are too concerened about what people will think about us instead of just leaving our lives,some old women can be very adamant and sentimental about their homes been left the exact way their husbands left it for them,so he should not take pics with his mum in a home a grew up in cos of so called image,things like this encourage the fake people roaming around.No amount of what people think or say will change the fact that he has done very well for himself or reduce his wealth or business accumen.

bettercreature:
!!! Serve Buhari right
When Jagaban was trying to remove the Saboteur(Saraki)they were calling for his head
Now all Buhari's appointment,SGF,Ministers,EFCC chairman are under fire from the senate (i read somewhere Senate are debating on bill to fire non performing ministers).They are even stripping Buhari off his powers when he is alive
Buhari need jagaban! and he must take a very deadly step to remove Saraki by force through CCB
Otherwise APC government will not know peace till
2019

Jagaban is soothsayer! he is able to foresee what will happen tommorow
The major obstacle to this government is Saraki and he must be destroyed before its too late

Just re read what you wrote up there,is the issue about buhari's government remaining in power or about the good of the nation with or without buhari?,it is comments like urs that give our leaders the right to do whatever they like and feel they can get away with it,you very conveniently ignored the allegations against the magu guy,even the SSG babarchir was not spared,these are the questionable people ur saviour buhari is working with.Change indeed.

bettercreature:
!!! Serve Buhari right
When Jagaban was trying to remove the Saboteur(Saraki)they were calling for his head
Now all Buhari's appointment,SGF,Ministers,EFCC chairman are under fire from the senate (i read somewhere Senate are debating on bill to fire non performing ministers).They are even stripping Buhari off his powers when he is alive
Buhari need jagaban! and he must take a very deadly step to remove Saraki by force through CCB
Otherwise APC government will not know peace till
2019

Jagaban is soothsayer! he is able to foresee what will happen tommorow
The major obstacle to this government is Saraki and he must be destroyed before its too late

Just re read what you wrote up there,is the issue about buhari's government remaining in power or about the good of the nation with or without buhari?,it is comments like urs that give our leaders the right to do whatever they like and feel they can get away with it,you very conveniently ignored the allegations against the magu guy,even the SSG babarchir was not spared,these are the questionable people ur saviour buhari is working with.Change indeed

Rextayne:
re u in Sa

What kind of question is that? I am sure you followed US elections and other world events,were you at all those places??.Na wa for una.

divicode:
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How did he slay APC when he barely managed to get 60% of available seats? With all the mouth he made, APC should not have won any seat!![/color]

Oga,go back and check the results,INEC has released them,stop spreading lies.APC was beaten.2 out of 3 senate seats,7 or so out of 9 house seats etc,do the maths.

Pylony:
What do you call a financial site that claim because it can't take the heavy traffic from its very own investors it need to froze down the site for a month, during a special time as the yuletide when its a fact many would be spending? It fails in its obligation as a financial entity to provid to warn investors prior to now that many are crying foul already cause for one, you were not informed its a usual thing to experience the froze.

From what I have gathered so far,it is not a business and hence the participants are not investors,its a community where people contribute with the hope that people will contribute to you too with interest after a given period,it was also clearly stated on their site that only spare money should be used cos delays such as this may occur.It was also clearly stated as part of their mode of operations that a time may come when the system might be frozen for a while to correct any anomaly,people just dont like understanding things properly b4 jumping in.Finally,you really should go to the source for information and not depend on newspapers with their false reportage.

Phoenix619:
Seun we know you're an avid hater of mmm so I'm not surprised about this unnecessary and fruitless campaign of yours. For all we know you might have bribed by this useless govt to create panic but that mission is dead on arrival!

MMM is not crashing, just visit the nearest bank to you and see those matched over the weekend paying. The site is taking a break to reduce the rush this festive season. Come January it'll be business as usual. Nobody will loses his or her money

Let them keep talking and let the money keep growing. Pay heed to nairaland at your own peril.

Your head dey there bros,don't know why people are panicking unnecessarily,some haters are even rejoicing just to proof a point....HATE no good o,come January every go normal.Saw this coming.

Pylony:
Wahahahaha! I promise this laugh a week ago. I said the scheme will fail many and some guys call me names for saying so now "e don happen" in the words of P'square.

Bros na wa to you o,the information I am seeing says frozen for a month,you talk say e fail,are you this desperate to be right and see people suffer cos of ur need to be right?.You need CHANGE.

infogenius:
Thank you for consolation.
I have not mouth bashed the scheme and also I had spent over 4 months
gathering the required information before venturing.
I just wanted to give it a try to prove what others are saying about the scheme.

The truth is that having a First time experience of this nature gives a very bad impression
of some of the participants and also the way the issue has been handled.

If i get the money back good and if I don't no qualms i no fit kill myself but
the truth is that I have had a bad first time experience and you don't expect
me to encourage anyone to join.

True...having a first time experience like this can be frustrating,some participants are not just helpful,it might take a lil time but ur money is safe,that I can assure you.And yes an experience like this can prevent one from encouraging others to join.

infogenius:
Thank you for consolation.
I have not mouth bashed the scheme and also I had spent over 4 months
gathering the required information before venturing.
I just wanted to give it a try to prove what others are saying about the scheme.

The truth is that having a First time experience of this nature gives a very bad impression
of some of the participants and also the way the issue has been handled.

If i get the money back good and if I don't no qualms i no fit kill myself but
the truth is that I have had a bad first time experience and you don't expect
me to encourage anyone to join.

True...having a first time experience like this can be frustrating,some participants and not just helpful,it might take a lil time but ur money is safe,that I can assure you.And yes an experience like this can prevent one from encouraging others to join.

infogenius:
The pastor is right.
Today makes it one week I gh and
I am yet to receive my money.
I have not had easy sleep in the past few
days.
Asked a scammer to provide me with help
he put up a fake payment screen shot of payment of another amount to
Someone else to buy time. Nothing is happening since then
No help from support. Just believing in God
to get my money back even if it is my investment
and run for my dear life
What an experience.

Oga,calm down down,ur not the first to have this kind of issue and you will not be the last,someone uploading a fake POP is not an indictment on the scheme but on some Nigerians who will allow their scammish tendencies rare its head into anything and spoil it,even the founder complained about never having as much issues as the scheme has in Nigeria.One thing I know is ur money can not be lost,happened to a cousin of mine,had to wait a while but everything was paid in full in the end,I am sure nobody forced you to join so no need bad mouthing the scheme cause you had some issues,next time try to get as much information as possible before venturing into anything.As for those bashing the scheme,it is funny how your all crying more than those who have chosen to risk their money,they know the risks involved,if they loose their money its their problem.

Olumaeme:
Well, if you visit your man and you will not cook, definitely you would bring the money you will use to eat in the restaurant when you are coming or probably take garri all through.

Because I don't know how you will visit your boyfriend and spend lest say 1week and cook only twice, are you expecting him to always take you to restaurant anytime you are hungry?

Lest take for example you go visit your man in Port Harcourt from Lagos during the holiday and spend like 2wks with him, you will only cook twice or thrice, hehehehehehehehehehehehehe u go hungry eeehnn, because you don't expect him to take you to restaurant everyday... And later you want me to come pay your bride price of Over 700k if you are from Imo State

AND note that if you don't want to cook, then don't expect transport fare because you have added no value and it's a waste of time and money.
Don't also expect money for hair or any meaningful gift since the guy too has to spend on somebody who will help and assist him.
NO pain, No gain.

Ladies of nowadays are something else, they want all the goodies but don't want to do anything...
They fantasize how lucky Emoney's wife is when he bought her a jeep, they love when you treat them like Queens but won't want to treat you like king.

The thunder that will fire you...... Is coming from North Korea!

Bro you have said it all,I usually just read comments and don't comment much...I have been trying hard to wrap my head around what "IF I COOK FOR MY BF OFTEN WHAT WILL I NOW COOK WHEN WE GET MARRIED" means,its just crazy,its just like saying "if I show my bf all my good attributes, which good attributes will I show him wen we get married" so I should show him good attributes once in a while and probably be a witch the rest of the time so my good attributes does not finish before marraige,nobody is saying a gf should be the bf's slave or vice versa,certain things just flow,this our generation has lost touch with what relationships should be about and then wonder why it does not work.Relationships should always be about what ur bringing into it and not what ur getting,an oppurtunity to heal every flawed mentality and bring ur best in,an oppurtunity to grow,if both parties consciously begin a relationship with this in mind and stay faithful to this purpose most things will fall into place.But not our generation,always thinking about what they will benefit,no wonder relatinships become competitions,trade by barter,most times sex for security...really sad.

Dexema:
Very true, I was telling someone yesterday that the true test of a relationship starts when "the sparks stop flying"

Exactly .

Raine80:
This is why I will return to my first point. If I connect with someone and get to know that person I will make an effort. If I feel nothing and that there is not going to be anything ever what am I hoping to achieve by marrying someone I am not compatible with? I don't know what drives you, what motivates you or what it is you look when it comes to relationships. I know myself and I know what works for me. So we will agree to disagree shall we?

Only quoted you because your first point made mention of relationships not needing conscious effort but should just work,sorry my replies r scattered,still trying to understand how this stuff works.

Raine80:
This is why I will return to my first point. If I connect with someone and get to know that person I will make an effort. If I feel nothing and that there is not going to be anything ever what am I hoping to achieve by marrying someone I am not compatible with? I don't know what drives you, what motivates you or what it is you look when it comes to relationships. I know myself and I know what works for me. So we will agree to disagree shall we?

From what you wrote,I don't know where the disagreement is,u basically repeated what i said in different words,which is,feelings and compatibility draws u close,effort from both people keeps it going strong.

Raine80:
It will be cruel to be with someone just because you feel sorry for them. I cannot say yes when I have no feelings ,chemistry or common ground with that person. It's about being compatible and complimenting each other. I am not perfect by all means I am realistic. Relationships should not be about trying to make it work. It should work.

While compatibility and all is needed for a start,feelings,chemistry and all is not all that is needed for it to last,and i doubt relationships just work,maybe the first few months,a year or two,once the euphoria is gone,both parties actually need to consciously nuture its growth,i.e try to make it work,implying effort.

yarimo:
Mtcheeew SARAKI been claiming important citizen in nigeria since 1805AD

Why are you hating on the guy na...he is actually an important citizen .

ceeethru:
This is to show governors are the may cause of poverty on Nigeria, they are hiding under immunity to defraud federal government allocation, they seize workers salaries and get their own salary, the rule with impunity, they are criminals in power, when EFCC probes them they attack buhari for witch hunting, and some fools who can not eat three square meal a day right from Jonathan regime will still support them. Governors like Fayose is one of the reasons we are in this recession not buhari hoha, they collect security votes which I think should be scrapped from the constitution.

While i agree totally with ur assertion on the role of governors on the deplorable state of our country,let's try not to get all sentimental about the issue,the question remains,is the action of the senate supported by the constitution of the republic?.

Fiwasayo:
According to op,the said man has maintained the girlfriend for more than 6months or more,so is it still about his intimate needs or there's something else he's looking for,and probably has found in the girlfriend?

Well..who knows,it could be any number of reasons,also based on what the op wrote,they have been friends for very long and he never saw him cheat,the whole thing started after the wife traveled,this sugests whatever he was looking he found in the wife until she traveled.I must state it again that I am in no way justifying what he is doing.

Fiwasayo:
Someone up there blaming the woman for the wrong doings of her man,smh... marriage is not all about seeing each other everyday and having sex every time,yes long distance relationships do work out,the wife is ambitious and trying to upgrade her life for herself and her family,and the man is shamelessly cheating on her....it's not about her not being in the country,if she were pregnant and couldn't have sex,he'll still cheat on her,anyhow,he'll still find some excuse to cheat on her. Marriage isn't for everyone.

While it's disappointing that some people are blaming the wife and i think the man should be held completely responsible for the possible crash of his marraige,relationships are very complicated and require constant planning and attention to nuture,men and women are totally different when it comes to certain needs,especially after their basic need for food water and shelter are met and higher goals are aimed at,while sexual gratification is not nearly as important for the woman,for the man it is high up,this is not an excuse for the mans lack of control but a word of caution to wives who underestimate this need,i dont know the guy so not sure if he cheats normaly,they have been together for long and should know needs they each have that needs relatively frequent gratification and factor it into their final decision with both willing to make certain sacrifices.While i think its her right to pursue higher qualifications,6 months to 1 year might be too long a period to be away from ur spouse in my opinion,arragements should be made to see each other at 3 to 4 months interval.Might be a lil expensive though,an expense that may be well worth it.

Fabulocity:
Because you're the same set of sanctimonious people that'd slut shame her if she admits she isn't one.

That should not be reason enough to lie,what did she think was going to happen if the relationship lasted long enough.