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Acidosis:
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Must you learn from your father and mother? How about learning from those who have had and sustained great families?

Yes ! I Must!

If my late mum had bought her properties in my father's name , sorry would have been my name by now. What even motivated her to buy three houses was when she saw my dad buying his own , without adding her name or any other wives names to his own. And she knows in a polygamous home , there is always strife and sorrows .

So she did a smart and intelligent move by buying hers , 3 houses ! My dad has 3houses too.

My children means all the world to me ,if their father decides to make a mistake later in future cause of his dickk! I don't want it to affect their joy and peace of mind later on in life .
Men ehn!? Only God will help them to plan the life of their family and children well.
Depend on man fully and one is in deep shit!

Like I read on nairaland , a man waking up one day packing his wife load out of his house , and saying he's tired of the marriage . the mother of the wife came to fight man . in the process the wife wants to carry TV. Ordinary TV, both of them are fighting over until he break tv and the wife and mother pounced on him

I wonder at these people and am like TV? For Godsake TV? What's TV? For me TV is irrelevant . I dashed some people online household stuffs like printer, washing machine and my neighbour, I dashed him and his wife my 34" led TV and DVD , they were so happy and I replaced the ones I dashed out with brand new ones, no be brag na fact!

But when I read stories like struggling to claim TV between husband and wife , I shake my head and I decreed God punish poverty.!!
If not who wil claim TV between husband and wife became a brawl? God forbid .

Anyways I vow to protect my kids like my mother protected us . That's the only example I see and I believe in. Any other from any other family? I don't want to know . You know why? Because people lie a lot !they wouldn't say the truth . and I don't have time watching 24/7 on what's going on in other "great families ".

No time. Am not that jobless !

Its normal

I gist with my late brother in dreams, he follows me in my dreams to places .

My late mum , I see her in dreams , sometimes she takes me shopping or gives me money. Nothing bad has happened to me afterwards

I don't see anything wrong with it . My Step brother said I should always reject and bind them out of my life and its bad omen .
I gazed at him with disdain and I reply bind fire!
Abeg! Don't come and put sand sand for my garri, biko. Its been like 8years till date av been dreaming of them and I like it .
Although I miss them a lot .its only through dreams I get to interact ,play and Go out with them , so why bind them out of my life again.?
Abeg I won't ! I miss them badly , thank God I still get to be with them in dreams .

Op its normal!

lefulefu:
she"s bootliciously made no doubt but dis one too big for me
see actually my spec

Chai!
You too like better thing !

I intend to buy properties on my full names, not husband name join, but I will let him know a day before buying it. If he wants to buy ,he can buy . And all my properties will be willed to my children .
Cause my late mum willed hers to us and that's what gave us the leverage we have financially in opening our own companies and buisnesses .
While our late dad willed his own to all his children from other wives with us . War in my father's properties between the siblings excluding me is terrible .

When I saw the rivalry and power tussle , I vow never to have a hand in my dad's properties , so I can live long. I simply focused on what my late mum left for me and my sibling. I'm content with it . With that been said , I will definitely Will all I have to my kids .

She try!

She do well :DD

Lefulefu come o! Food don ready! Served hot!



If this one born just one pikin, na so the yansh go come resemble Iya basira yansh!


Lol

Shalomc:
So you don't want to post pics of you when you were black as coal tar?

Lol! Insults all you want !

I don't care .

I already have thick skin and selective blind eyes to Nairalanders like yourself . so boy! The floor is yours , wail all night !

Lol..

Ode!

Shalomc:
Take the challenge fully.

I don't have the full pic of my ten years challenge . if not I would have added both of ten Years back and recent as well.


Anyways yours nko, Mr anonymous

Shalomc:
Post a full picture of you.

What do u need my full pic for ?

FruitCakes:
I stopped going cause he doesn't answer prayers

Eeyah
And God answers

U need to be patient and serve him in truth and spirit . one cannot be commiting any sort of sins and still expect God to answer . He won't . He will just be looking at you.
I needed something very important from God , initially I was desperate for it and angry with God for not answering on time but later I realised after two years with the turbulence I went through, that God wanted to prepare me for what I was praying fervently for . and also open my eyes to devourers when I receive my blessings . He wanted the blessing to last for a lifetime with me and not devoured by friends and strangers who are actually devourers .

For it is written the Lord will remove the devourer for our sakes .

Two years I didn't have sex , I kept a clean and straight forward life , I fell weak along the line and that few hours I fell weak , enemies came quickly to hack me to death but God in His mercy saved me once again.

I was so grateful to God cos I could see and feel death around me, but I was revived back again .
My dear , I don die several times and wake up again. I swear to God !

So as soon I got back up again , I remained focused on God and guess what my waiting for two years , that I backslided afterwards . I never knew I was ONE WEEK ! away to receive my blessing . And I received it . I was so happy . extremely happy and grateful.

Can u imagine , I backslided a week to my blessing and enemies tried to kill me immediately i backslided , cos they were waiting for my fuckkk up. And I bleeped up but God took mercy on me and say Victorian make I pity you , you are almost to your goal. And I recieved what I was yearning for . After realising my mistakes and begged for forgiveness.

So my dear , God answers . you pray and worship without ceasing .thats the key

Imagine miss okeke ( the igbo actress with cat eyes ) and her standing bumbum wear this jump suit .

Mehn its finished .lol

Guys will just collapse with high tension erection..lol

Her market go skyrocket!

jakandeola:
ignore. @afribabe is not possible Victorian am angry cos she live him in pains

My dear such is life .

If he really do not want to loose her , suggest court marriage .simple!

jakandeola:
can he sex her after court wedding if d girl is IBO as IBO greedy did u think dey will accept court wedding. if d guy Neva marry her were did she see a guy quick in 5month to marry her. dear am on ban since DAT why I Neva replied u on my blog

The tinsel actress who got married to her Muslim tinsel actor is Igbo! And I doubt if they even did traditional marriage . it was court marriage all the way and they are happy .

All it takes is understanding. Possibly he will pay her dowry later .

Then about the op story of the girl seeing someone after 5months is very possible . some men dont belive in long dating before getting married . 3months is enough for them to know whom they wish to marry and with women, if we are with a man who treats us nice , with few months we can fall inlove , stay loyal . especially if the man is serious about getting married .

Don't u know our biological clock is ticking ? We don't have forever to wait . if another man fits the bill and he's ready to pay dowry , biko allow the man especially if he's caring. Ladies in our thirties we can't wait forever .

Court marriage would have solved the issue .

Why wait for another one year !

Who knows she could be in her mid or late 30s. Possibly 38years sef and he expects her to wait for another one year.

The guy no serious .
Nobody said he shouldn't bury his mum properly but go for court wedding aftewrads .
Shebi that's what tinsel actress what's her name again with her Muslim husband did.
After he buried his mum, they didn't waste time . they went for court marriage , only the two of them with witness , exactly few months ago. Now she's heavily pregnant with both husband and wife looking happy and at peace with each other .

Guys make una dey use sense , biko. Its not a herculean task!

weyreypey:
I really don't understand why your man is after your money so bad ...very desperately... That has made you incessantly fixated on men looking for women to spend money on them. Very pathetic.

I don't av your time today, wailer!

You are jobless ,its clear so no need wasting my precious time with u

Anyways am not the cause of your frustrations in life , so don't start on me this morning. Before your obsession about me will make u go nuts soon!

Bye!

Seenyo:
I see!... little wonder the poor dude accepted her back. BUT if I were in his shoes, believe you me, I'll proudly eat from the gutters rather than go back to her, heaven knows.

That's you .

Not all men have pride .

And someone like him would love easy life , and that's what hes enjoying in full blast as he see say the actresses , and other ladies he has dated are not willing to drop a dime to spend on him, so why not reconcile with his estranged wife , thats willing to come back with goodies ,lol.

And that's another reason he's posting pics of different styles of kisses all over the internet , so all his ex's would see , he's back ! And feel jealous .lol

Mentality sef

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Protested? So he'll pick the gun and blow out her brains? Hollywood movies messing with your head or did you sign her up for any karate class?

Don't mind the guy!

He prefers her dead than alive and raped .

That's the kind of love we have these days . Selfish lust! People will call it love . love indeed !
Let something bad happen to either the guy or lady , one of them go begin think selfishly , withdraw steps and japa!

He feels this way because him and his gf were never best of friends .

I bet it started with lust, then sex all d way.

Anyways op, if you truly love her like u claim, the trauma she went through should be your main headache and not because another guy fucvked her ,because I know that's what u will be thinking , u are not even considering the fact that she was RAPED ,at gun point! Smhhhhh.
Anyways give her postinor and for Christ sakes just try and understand the gravity of what she went through.
I feel for her

Seenyo:
as for me, IF YOU DESERT ME AT MY WORST, YOU DON'T DESERVE ME AT MY BEST! ....irrespective of our relationship.

As in ehn?

The relationship is over , even if its marriage .

Well that's their cup of tea but I heard she has so much money and spending it on her gigolo hubby. That's why he accepted her back! All he has is fame and fine Boi looks .

Are male actors really making that much ?

But seriously his heart would have triggered some signs in his body ,like dizziness , shortness of breath and I bet he will be like its nothing , lemme continue and get the ball .

That's where he fell into his death.
If you are jogging , running , going through any form of exercise or playing football then u feel dizzy and weak or shortness of breath . biko! Stop! And calm your racing heart. Immediately u are calm , go back home . no need forming James Bond orelse it may lead to death.
Rip to the young chap.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Hope you in the Canada or all your family are there sha

Lol, you sef!

akinszz:
hmm. Talking from experience

Its pure common sense , especially when I was almost raped in my office twice by two guys I thought were friends on different occasions . Next time I don't invite any male friend to my office during close hours and u wont stay glued to my visitors chair for hours , marking when I will close . I will never allow such anymore , no matter how seemingly innocent u look or smile .

So simply imagine if I had gone to their homes. It would have been full sexual assault !
Smhhhhhh!

Most men of these days are extremely sex starved, they have no self control!

But seriously do ladies still visit guys , whom they are not dating ?

Ladies better stay una house o, orelse most naija guys na rape go end am!



Fact!

Human beings and properties

Word of advice : if your other siblings and family members are clamouring for the sales of parents properties after their demise , biko sell o and share it , orelse na death dey end am. Especially if u are a female and the only one against selling . if you want to stay alive? Pls join the majority vote and sell.

Don't say or imagine your siblings or family can't kill u over property , cause they will without blinking an eye. Its that bad .

weyreypey:
You overrate your coochie...

Yes! I have value over my coochie! Its priceless.

HungerMustGo:
You speak for ladies that can afford a car. What of the millions of ladies that can't even afford transport money let alone car. Who represents them.

An its very easy to boast online, "I have a car"

Am not boasting

Have always planned my life early in areas I have control over . its not my fault .

Then for ladies who cannot afford tfare or own a car . l advice such ladies don't go on a date with any guy without carrying extra cash with u, that can take u home !
Never visit a guy without vex money orelse OYO.

Its either they rape or corece u to have sex with them. So be wise ladies !

And if u are earning a good salary , pls biko buy yourself a car . it helps and saves in situations like this !

Guys and their entitlement of sex!

Nonsense!

Leoswaggs:
no means no..... buh u go trek go house that night. I no care wetin be time.

then I wil gladly drive off with my car and go lodge in a hotel .

That's the end .

You can go and fucvk your pillows!

What rubbish!


Smhhhh




A guy tried that shiit with me , I just took my car keys , stood up , walked to the door as he was inside the rest room trying to light skonk or whatever they call the name cos i told him i was allergic to anything cigarrette or smoke and I drove off as soon as he was out of sight getting high in the rest room

He called taya! Up to 15missed calls , I didn't pick until I got home.
And that was the end of the date.

That's the kind of marriage we see these days , sufferring and smiling with Infidelity trails here and there and if care is not taken ? Death ends it all.

sexymoma:
Buh she s hard working, Nigerian guys i nor know wetin una problem be, if we fine you guys will say beauty without brain, u come online to rant like person wey get one ball say u want a hardworking lady, if you see one you'll say something else..shey won sepe funyin ni, , at the end of the day, you pple will not let us rest with your "i married a devil thread" as in una dey vex me

Its seems u are a new nairalander

Guys here are frustrated , that's why they wail about Nigerian women every time 24\7

Don't let them get into your skin..just ignore their stupidity and tantrums.

Cause there are born wailers on this site .

vingeophysicist:
kindly cross check it was mine monicker you mentioned lol

Hmmmmm!

Then u could have easily ignored .its not that hard !

Abi u don turn prophet?

Saintsammurai:
Yes you will but you have to be patience.

Ha! Thank God !


God bless you sir .

vingeophysicist:
you and this your money mentality. I still insist you are getting married this year. When that time comes please don't forget to invite me oo

Oga? Are u saintsammurai?

Cos its saint, I directed my question to.

What's your own? Na wa o

Saintsammurai:
In the realm of the spirit, i see that 2019 will be very challenging for you, but you need to keep working and believe in GOD.
By August this year, you will see your life and businesses change for the better.
You are in my prayers.

Please will I receive my payment in a contract very soon?

That's the one am most concerned about .