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sayhi2certified:
Inside life... Girls don't like nice guy.. I have my own share of this

Thats pure fallacy.

I'm a lady, my man is very nice and I love him,loyal to him 2 the moon and back.

So plz don't generalise.


Remember not all helpers we must have sex with or marry.

Op is the kind of helper that falls in the category of a kind friend or kind brother.

But trust me Op, you will be blessed for being kind and helpful.

Well, I've heard all the pressures in this world to last me a lifetime and I ain't falling for such traps.

Nothing anyone will tell me, that I've not heard before , so pressuring me? I will just block you straight!
I don't have time to be pressured into another form of depression. Because if you marry the wrong man? It's worse than being single. There will be too many regrets and sorrows attached to it.

Anyways my family and friends know me. Leave jeje and lemme make my own decision at my own God given time. Simple.

[quote author=profeazy post=84878482][/quote] thank you.

cedricksly:
Sorry to say, but you are an idiot. You are also heartless and childish, She said what she said so you calm her down and reassure her all will be well soon, but you were quick to trivialize the breakup like it has been what you've been waiting for...
Except of cause you don't believe there is light at the end of your tunnel, that's why you didn't reassure her all will come good soon.

Mind you, I'm a guy, so don't tell me I'm sentimental

Bros! What's there to reassure when the guy himself is lost and confused about getting his life back on track!

He does not even have where to stay. His car is not working properly and he has a family responsibility on his neck.

He himself is not even sure of himself when it comes to balancing the boat of life.

No need giving her fake promises, when he himself knows he is lost in what next to do.

Anyways Op, sorry about the breakup. It's bound to happen with the situation that surrounds you.

Your gf is done and tired helping you with funds and emotional support.

She needs a man whom she can lean on and feel secure with.

Unfortunately with you, shes not feeling any sign of security or protection. Her energy level to keep patching the boat is already on 1% level, that's why she said she hates you. She also hate herself too in starting what she thought would end well but there are still more mountain to climb, like you having your own accommodation and a younger brother to train.

Mehn! She's completely tired.
Both of you really need a break from each other.
So the breakup is good.

Don't think of dating another babe for now. Just sort out your car, your accommodation issues and your sibling before thinking of dating another lady.

Focus on stabilizing yourself and finance first.

Woman go everly come into your life. We plenty full ground remain. So leave woman matter first and balance yourself well for ground first.

Wish you best of luck.

There are so many ways of catching a rat!

Shebi majority of naija guys have vowed not to spend or give their babes treats?

As long as your dick doesn't stay in one place, most of y'all will cough out that money! By fire by force! Hahahahahahahahah.

Mehn some babes are not smiling.

That's how I went to one business centre and a lady was talking on phone , she said to the lady on the other side of her call: yes! send me, hin mama name. Yes her full name? Use style ask am, u know how naw? then text the name to me. Don't worry everything will be fine. It's settled

I said Ol boi! The guy whose mama name Dem one use is in the deep shiiit!

Chai! I just photocopy what I came for, shook my head and walk away.

Some Babes desperate!

Confirmed Queen of the coast be dis! No be lie!


I can't believe what she's saying.

Mummy G. O

O ga o!

Bigcowhorn:
Well you can call him broke alright but he has his talents. He a bet9ja agent who uses multiple monikers to post game predictions on NL. He has 5 different monikers ending with 1419 and there other variations including that Yoruba.Warrior.

He's a slippery fox that's hard to track but not for me.

Can u imagine?

Busted!!!!

Bigcowhorn:
Leave victorian alone ooo you this useless transgender. No go carry your YorubaWarrior moniker come back/. Keep patrolling as a woman.

Oh! Tboy1419 is even a guy!

Thanks Bigcowhorn

No wonder!

The usual epistles and wailing of a broke guy once again on my case.

Sighs Tboy, who do you like this

Handsome boy!

He looks like his mom.

So cute.

Tboy1419:
next, you will come back to nairaland and tell us how stupid and stingy he is, since I know you here on nairaland all your stories is about men that wants to marry you, All na audio marriage.

I understand you are frustrated dear. And you wish deep in your heart my man is stingy. Lol

It's seems your bf doesn't drop shi shi.. Lol

But it's alright. I understand that's the recent day Nigerian man for you. It's a pity

Everything will be fine in your life, las las.

Don't blame me, I'm happy. I deserve all I'm getting from my man. And I can't marry all the men who wants me for marraige nah? Na only one pussy I get.

So It's simply life as we see it.

truthsayer009:
Na So. No one with a legit source of income spends money lavishly in Lagos. Half of quilox customers are Yahoo boys.

A man can help your business when you need help, there is a diff in that. That's purposely spending.

Nobody makes money from sweat and gives it out freely. Even a guy working at Exxon earning 2.5M will still be careful about his money.

Nigerian women would never ask their Boo's what he really does for a living. That one no concern them.

I will shock you. I have never been to Quilt before and I don't even know how the place looks like. Although I've heard of quilox but that's not my style.

There are guys with legit biz who spends on ladies, they love to look at and admire around them and be with. It makes them happy and feel fulfilled.
These kind of guys don't club, no time sef for them to club. And I don't club either. I don't know which year, ive been to club last. And I don't joke with my night sleep.
Staying awake all night is not my thing.
But they go to parties sometimes.

Not all men spend stingly. And most men don't even support a lady in the business she's doing. Most come up with stories of how they don't have but they are building houses here and there o. But assisting the babe in growing her biz, pure zero.

Anyways I thank God for the one I have. And I know his source of income. He's not a Yahoo guy.

karnap:
if Your family still believe on the agbanje spirit, and they tel you and you don't hear them,they will use their hand to kill you and claims its your wife,I don't believe a woman who loves you so much will kill you,but then what is your genotype?
what is your girl genotype?
from there,it might help you break up with her.
and also ask about the opinion of her parent's marrying a non Muslim.

Don't mind his family..

They are already killing him slowly, they are saying an innocent girl is an ogbanje. Nigerian families with their holier than thou attitude.
His two elder brothers, the same family have ruined their homes.

Anyways Op, it seems your family has an ancestral curse on the men.

The only way out for you is Christ. Go to a vibrant church like MFM or you can come to my church Divine appointment ministry international, any curse or illness following you will disappear within a month of drinking our holy communion.

So many have testified about being delivered and healed. A Lil boy of four years Old has always been falling sick since the day he was born til he was four years,every two weeks the dad spends 16K on drugs until he got to 4years old and heard about my Church. His dad brought him to our church, after giving the boy holy communion for like a month, all the illness vanished. He's no longer sick, the dad has stopped buying drugs for his son.

So no matter the illness God can still save you and prolong your life.

Then about your gf, she's Muslim. So forget about Marrying her. That's the only thing I can say about her. Marry a woman of same faith with you, because of the children both of you will later have.

Gang90 you won't die young in Jesus name Amen.

They don't look in love to me.

I think what they have is a kind of family friends kind of affection between them. They naturally like each other, they feel at home with each other ,best of friends kind of affection. They clearly cannot marry each other.

It won't last. They are better off as besties. And they both know.

They are just teasing the minds of their fans. That's all I can deduce from the pics.

She is right in a way but they're not razz men. Maybe the ones she knows are Razz. But I call such average looking guy a self made millionaire. If you are extremely pretty and look flashy, they will so spend on you ehn? You will be like wow! So average looking men with money still exist?

They love showing off a clean flashy babe by their side. How such guys give money so freely and easily without stress amazes me.

God will keep blessing the few ones whom I've touched my life with their generosity in Jesus name amen.

nkwuocha1:
That's Lagos

Serious?

Then I'm shocked.

It has to be igando or ikorodu axis.

They should come to mushin or fadeyi and see if they can seat on the road and be gisting amongst themselves

Lol


Sighs, Nigeria we hail thee.


Na wa o.


I don't think that's Lagos. They should mistakenly come to Lagos and sleep on the road like that with no owner in sight.

Christmas food don sure be that!

Cows find your way to Lagos. You all are urgently needed here.

Wizywiz:
VICTORIAN

Awwww

I'm so touched.

Eeyah


Oya take this! Correct G!

ednut1:
chinese babe u dont know?

Hahahahahahaha, you are not serious.

As you call me Chinese, how should I know what happens in Nigeria then?

Tell me jor. Lemme know what Sowore has done to warrant this suffering and torture .

I need to be intune of what he has done.

At least

ednut1:
Mr Sowore 2023 no far. Enjoy your karma

Why did u say karma? What did he do?

What a biography. Now I understand.

He was really bored of his quiet and calm life overseas. No wonder he came back.

May God see him through one more time and back home alive in Jesus name. Amen .

Sighs what a life.

He's really living his destiny. Hmmmm

FoxyFlow:
Let me say it here and now.... I had a very huge crush on her and I even looked forward to the day we will finally meet. That day will never come.... I feel so sad for myself and happy for her that she's finally settling down with the man of her dreams.

One question though....


Why the guy take style old?

He doesn't look old. He should be in his 30s

And he looks very comfortable to be able to maintain a wife and family.

Better than marrying some guys on their 20s, who cannot even feed three times a day but they are looking for someones daughter to suffer in sufferness

Pardon my grammar. English is not my language

Rubbiish:
There is no gainsaying Yorubas are fearful
Your analogy doesn't match with the case at hand. Why wait for Sowore to die? When Abiola died what happened??

Don't you know Nigerians before?

They are waiting for the person to die before they come out amass for burial process.
His Yoruba people are waiting for his burial proceedings and las las nothing will happen after his death, that's if he dies in custody. They will make few noise, then everything swept under the carpet.

How. Sowore still don't understand the kind of country, he was born and bred from amazes me.

Nigeria is not a country any right thinking human being should die for, or suffer for. And that's the honest truth.

Same thing I told a friend of mine who campaigned under pdp against apc.
I told him, if you want to win politics in this country, your hands must be neck deep in cult, and u av to Join apc then you can't say u are preaching Christ , dashing money here and there and eventually win in your ward. You can't win, that's the gospel truth.

People whom were dying to eat his money surrounded him, hyping him, inflating his ego, giving him false hope and assurance . He even took millions of naira loan after emptying his accounts to be dashing people who assured him he will win. I just shook my head, as I watch him calmly display his foolishness.

Anyways on the day of the election, the apc guy won. How he won, I can't say it here due to security reasons

My guy was shocked and was in huge debt. I reminded him, shebi i told you.

You said they love you so much in the ward, they all want u to contest And win.

I smiled, Really?

God abeg o!


Haba!

folake4u:
Shut up! you talk too much

DTC2:
Shut the f***k up

E pain Dem! Lol


Both of you are village blind Ewures!

Nat404:
You are faithful to only one guy? Hey, shop that! You have not convinced me yet.

I don't need to convince you.

I know myself.

Nat404:
Lol..but I am not a fine guy. I am an ugly guy. So ugly.

But I do speak good English though and stuff like that. I met a lady four times at a different place. The fourth time, she was like are you on WhatsApp, then my response was baby girl, hasn't your mom ever told you that fishing with dynamite is dangerous? Lol. I will give you my digits later and so, you can catch me if you can. I then gave her a slight hug and left.

Well such gimmicks can have effects on Nigeria ladies but not one me.


You go try harder

folake4u:
Shut up! you talk too much

Seems u have started hearing voices.


Hope you've taken your medications today?

Handsome Pete Edochie


Even in his age, still rocking the handsome looks.

I saw him, some years back walking with his famous walking stick on the Lagos island and a body guard behind him. I was in pry 6 by then.

I was like wow! See Okonkwo! Pete Edochie!!!!! And he's so handsome in real life! Ohhhhh where is mum when u need her! She should come and see Okonkwo! Wow!

How I wish I'm an adult., he would have seen me and fall in love.


Ohhhhh when will I grow up!!!!

I thought about him for weeks! Lol

Nat404:
Another secret is never show a woman you love her until she proves her love for you.In other words, focus more on your life, be an interesting guy who is always busy, she'll do everything within her power to get you.

Women love guys who are difficult to get.

Wrong again.


Another cute broad shoulder guy tried the same trick on me.

I simply placed him one side.

Haba! When better guys are on my case

Forget o!

I'm a different kind. Of naija babe o!

I have thick skin and thank God I have over flow of guys on my case.

But I'm faithful to one guy sha. No matter how much they pressure.

Nat404:
Lol, you will still fall baby gurl. I know how girls think.

One fine dude tried such with me.

I just blank the guy.

When other fine rich guys are still on my case , why worry over one tall guy that feels he's god's gift to women.

He's shocked I blanked him. Lol

La la la la la

La la la


When a woman's fed-up, there ain't nothing you can do about it.

If you like cry a river, until the ocean overflows, she will always remember she's a woman scorned.