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CelebritiesRe: DJ Cuppy In Saudi Arabia Ahead Of Anthony Joshua Vs Ruiz Match by victorian(f): 3:04pm On Dec 06, 2019
Budline1:
Exactly o. That's just how it is. Everyone is a gold digger, that's the honest truth, nobody holy.
Correct! You are one sincere guy!

Chop knuckles!
CelebritiesRe: DJ Cuppy In Saudi Arabia Ahead Of Anthony Joshua Vs Ruiz Match by victorian(f): 1:26pm On Dec 06, 2019
Budline1:
Yup. Everything is business to the rich.
As in ehn?

When I realised, I was like WTF!

And later people will be calling somadina 's ex who married Ned nwoko a gold. Digger. Really?

As if 90% of Nigerians are not gold diggers as well but they are doing it codedly so no one will know, until wedding day.

Human beings!
EventsRe: Pregnant Bride Looks So Tired At Her Wedding (Photos) by victorian(f): 1:01am On Dec 06, 2019
BabbanBura:
This ya mouth sharp pass razor I swesr
cheesy No mind me o.


Lol
CelebritiesRe: Jackie Appiah Shares Lovely Photos As She Celebrates 36th Birthday by victorian(f): 7:55pm On Dec 05, 2019
The last pic


She's so pretty. smiley


Ladies like her would want an intelligent, caring, outspoken ,successful guy for a husband.
CelebritiesRe: Simi’s Mother Calls Out Adekunle Gold Over Unpaid Bride Price by victorian(f): 7:27pm On Dec 05, 2019
It's a joke?

That's a very expensive joke..

In fact complete insult .

If he has really complete the dowry, she won't say that trash online.

Anyways Adekunle is still a kid, so she can get away with it.

Say this to a 38years old man, who's popular and doing very well in his field of career. Especially a delta man! Emergency family meeting go pop up.
I trust delta mothers, they can't say such even if she claims she was drunk at that moment. Dem dey look face dey crack nonsense joke publicly.
CelebritiesRe: DJ Cuppy In Saudi Arabia Ahead Of Anthony Joshua Vs Ruiz Match by victorian(f): 7:12pm On Dec 05, 2019
7pages:
this life


even a wealthy man pikin dey hustle for big fish. it's good she's handling Yoruba this time
Didn't I mention one time, that the rich are the number one gold diggers of all times. They have wealth but they still want more by dating or marrying someone richer than themselves.

It's not a bad thing, because even me sef, wouldn't mind dating then marrying a very rich guy . It's just life as we see it.
EventsRe: Pregnant Bride Looks So Tired At Her Wedding (Photos) by victorian(f): 6:57pm On Dec 05, 2019
Lol cheesy


She should have insisted on condom when about to fucvk.


Morale of this story: don't allow passion make u forget to take precautions during sex. Cause after the first moments of sex. All of una eyes go clear and u start noticing something incompatibility about the other person.

She would be like, if only she didn't get pregnant. God knows she won't be in this ceremony of twenty twenty naira.


Lol , even the cake looks miserable.. Kikikikikkkii, my belle oooo

My dear, manage your husband. Men are scarce! grin grin grin cheesy

It's what u signed for in the heat of passion. Chai!
CelebritiesRe: Singer Mr May D Spotted Driving Uber Taxi (video) by victorian(f): 6:50pm On Dec 05, 2019
UnknownJr:
� guy u funny o. So marrying a white woman makes one a millionaire?
So we thought.

With the way Nigerian guys are struggling to marry oyinbo.

So they go still hustle join?


Inside life.
BusinessRe: I Am 41 And Can Buy Almost Anything I Want – Lady by victorian(f): 10:02am On Dec 05, 2019
bukatyne:
The fact that a number of 'Nigerian' husbands are horrible doesn't negate the fact that women or men don't want marriage and companionship.
Read carefully and understand.

And moreover I'm done with the topic since yesterday.

We all have our own different opinions about good and bad marriages.

And that's what makes the world go round.
RomanceRe: I Like Her But I'm Shy To Woo Her by victorian(f): 8:11pm On Dec 04, 2019
CreepyBlackpool:
She came to your place and you did not fvck her?

you've forever lost her
Lol cheesy


Na wa o
BusinessRe: I Am 41 And Can Buy Almost Anything I Want – Lady by victorian(f): 2:51pm On Dec 04, 2019
bukatyne:
Not true.
I'm not saying for everyone out there or for every woman..


I'm saying what rocks my boat.


After God, is money. That's for me.


smiley
BusinessRe: I Am 41 And Can Buy Almost Anything I Want – Lady by victorian(f): 11:37am On Dec 04, 2019
Kennedyiheme:
ah when i know the babe said no marriage just commitment, in a mans mind he doesnt take it serious, thats exactly what a man wants to hear, I'll just have numerous babes
OK
BusinessRe: I Am 41 And Can Buy Almost Anything I Want – Lady by victorian(f): 11:21am On Dec 04, 2019
Kennedyiheme:
one of my gfs told me the same thing about not getting married, after a year she started asking me when I'll propose... lol telling a man you dont want to get married, that is exactly wast 9 out of ten men want to hear.. i wish i find a girl that would be serious about it.. just relationship mo marriage grin
One of your gfs.

So u need more, you will be fucvking without staying committed.

And staying committed, I'm not talking about marriage.
Just be committed and make up your mind. This is whom I want to be with.
Because when marriage is mentioned Nigerian families tend to see it as a way to either oppress the wife coming in or a way of controlling the couples life. That's one aspect of marriage have seen happen most times.

So let's say stay committed to one babe. Choose one gurl, amongst your numerous gfs and just be committed.

At least all the other gfs u have are not clamouring u marry them, nah
BusinessRe: I Am 41 And Can Buy Almost Anything I Want – Lady by victorian(f): 11:00am On Dec 04, 2019
Kennedyiheme:
go to custain and see the amount of gay men looking for men... nigeria is the 3 country surpassing USA in gay porn, you see most men don't even desire women, so sad.... any ways, lol everything on this earth men built, buildings, infrastructures , roads, amenities, everything you need for your survival on this earth was made by a man, even the relaxer you use, sanitary pads... ask yourself, what has your fellow woman done for you?.. even this nairaland you use, na man get am Instagram, facebook... you see how you were shaped by a man?.. what can you do without a man... i dare you to give me an answer
I'm not saying I don't desire a man in my life. Cause I have a bf. But What am saying is, not women want marriage. We are talking of marriage here. Don't change it into needing a man or needing a woman. .In life we need each other and that's the truth. But where marriage is concerned not all women wish to get married, likewise not all men too and that's the truth.

Then my female friends, both distant and near have helped and added great values in my life. I don't know of other women o.

But I have been lucky to have good supportive women around me. I'm not talking of young sisi ladies. I'm talking of matured grounded females who know what they want in life. They've assisted me one way or the other, I won't lie and I won't deny their existence in my life. And even one of my fellow women helped in saving my leg, she's even a nairalander, I f not I would have been a cripple by now.

Ask a man for such help? He would want to fucvk even when the woman is semi unconscious before he can spend a dime on her. So if na help? U are asking the wrong person. Cause women have helped me with huge sums of money when I had nothing than a man has ever had.

So let's not go there. Na marriage I dey talk of, not whether we need each other or not.
BusinessRe: I Am 41 And Can Buy Almost Anything I Want – Lady by victorian(f): 10:22am On Dec 04, 2019
Kennedyiheme:
bills he's not willing to pay?.. lol where do you get your own stories from, nigerian men take care of thier house hold abeg stop this lie.. on the contrary back then in my church we used to hold a special service for unmarried peoole... na women full am... old women, successful ones too... you make Nigerian men look bad.. how about the doctor that came out and said 6 out of 10 men take care of kids that aren't thiers, without them even knowing, you females are horrible people too... all this mouth you make, na Nigerian man you go still marry, we know you people for always taking too much and doing another thing..... lol deceive yourself all you want... women dey find husband like mad... lol including you.. no worry if you're lucky maybe you'll find a husband
Na so!


Console yourself all you want.

Lol

You men can't bear the fact that not all women need a man to marry. You just can't accept the fact lol.

Men! cheesy


Anyways keep consoling yourself all women want marriage by fire force. Lol
BusinessRe: I Am 41 And Can Buy Almost Anything I Want – Lady by victorian(f): 9:48am On Dec 04, 2019
Kennedyiheme:
lies, 95% of women in this world want marriage ... you think its only African women that like marriage?
Because u think and feel so?

Mr man, go and seat down.

You think getting married to a Nigerian man is the ultimate in life?

Nigerian men and their families, that will not give the wife breathing space.
The man himself nko? Carrying babes here and there as if he's still single. Infecting with the wife with gonorrhea and stds times without number
Bills he's not even willing to pay, expecting the wife to shoulder most of the family bills.
Go to churches and see how married women full there remain! They out numbers the singles.
My next door colleague in the office, came in last week with a black eye. She lied she knocked her face on the wall while trying to carry her baby. We all knew it was a lie. She must have gotten a beaten from her husband. We kept quiet and said Welsh sorry. Hope ur applied balm or something? She said yes and walked away with a smile. We all exchanged glances .

And you feel marriage is what 95percent of women want?

Lol.. You make laugh!

Oh jeez!
BusinessRe: I Am 41 And Can Buy Almost Anything I Want – Lady by victorian(f): 9:29am On Dec 04, 2019
Jamesilvar:
This life shaa.
Once someone hustle, e luck shine e go turn motivational speaker.
People like me dey wey dey clock at least 15hrs everyday, 7days a week and yet I can't afford whatever I want.
Abeg, if God bless your hustle just thank him and lay low.
Don't come and boast of how you hustled cos if you look around you go see say your hustle dey learn work.

May God bless our legit hustles everyday in Jesus Name!!
She couldn't contain her joy. Thats why she said it online.

Don't blame her. Not every one can lie low and pretends they are broke and struggling, or pretend nothing is happening in their lives but whereas they are living fine.
BusinessRe: I Am 41 And Can Buy Almost Anything I Want – Lady by victorian(f): 9:24am On Dec 04, 2019
pathneluti:
Finance geek reveals what she benefited from sacrificing her 20s.


Ayesha Selden @AyeshaSelden:



https://mobile.twitter.com/AyeshaSelden/status/1201171562654814211
I remembered when I gave testimony in church last month, that I'm so comfortable, I couldn't keep it to myself anymore. I can buy most things I want and everything is going well . I was so happy at pulpit. Pastor was jumping with joy on the altar, saying shebi he told us, if we stay rooted with our goals, work consistently towards it and hand it over to God with faith and consistent prayers
There is no way, we won't succeed in life.

My heart was bursting with joy as we all danced to the glory of God.



Sighs there is nothing as wonderful as being financially grounded and covered . Its so exhilarating and fulfilling.
Not all women wish to marry.
Not all women even want to marry Early
Not all women are destined to marry early or marry at all,
But being able to afford what a woman wants, without begging people for it and receiving insults inreturn cheesy is the best feeling in whole wide world.

Choose what makes you happy and go for it.

I can imagine how happy and confident she will be feeling every day.

Money is life. That's the truth
BusinessRe: I Am 41 And Can Buy Almost Anything I Want – Lady by victorian(f): 9:01am On Dec 04, 2019
ePoster:
your type is rare. kiss
As in very rare

Izzou, you are just too much with your mindset kiss kiss


Not all women want marriage. Some want to be rich and very comfortable living a single life and having a bf by the side or friends by the side.
CelebritiesRe: Excited Lady Proudly Shows Off Her 'chest' After A Successful Boobs Surgery by victorian(f): 10:13pm On Dec 03, 2019
It's too big

She's going through serious discomfort there.

I truly pity her.

And such boobs keeps growing. At a time I feel it's spiritual o.


Honestly.

Na wa
CrimeRe: Lady Disfigures Her Friend's Face Over N950 (graphic Photos) by victorian(f): 7:34pm On Dec 03, 2019
koyyes:
Thank goodness you admit you were sad when you were avoided by your former school mates in the past. I put it to you that you will feel worse now if history repeated itself regardless of what you have been through.

No man/woman is an island.
Nope I won't feel worse if it happens again.

Nothing hurts me anymore. I can get angry but not hurt.

You cut me off? Fine. I will feel nothing

You don't cut me off? Fine as well. I will still feel nothing

I don't take those things to heart. God knows I don't anymore.

My friends are amazed at my kind of mind. But that's me.
CrimeRe: Lady Disfigures Her Friend's Face Over N950 (graphic Photos) by victorian(f): 6:28pm On Dec 03, 2019
koyyes:
Everything is wrong with it and its sad that you don't know that.

Every demeaning statement made towards single ladies are born out of the insecurities of men and married women. People pick on careless statements made by people and make it their own.

If tomorrow, you find out that most of your married and 'successful' friends develop your mentality and start avoiding you, what will you do?
Wow! I didn't know it's demeaning to single ladies. sad

All the single ladies, I apologise Biko , from the depth of my heart.

I didn't mean to make you all feel bad. By saying I associate with young married ladies. Its nothing personal but although it has kept me out of trouble.

But If all my married friend avoid me, I don't have issues with it.

I'm OK being alone. It's not a problem for me too .

I got used to been a loner, as the years went by after loosing my immediate family along the line. It became part of me.

Honestly I don't have issues with it. As long as I'm working and not idle without a job? Then I'm good to go.

I remember in the past, my school mates back then who got married avoided me and cut off from me, initially I didn't understand I felt sad they did, lemme not lie. And I kept to myself.

But after loosing all I hold dear in my life, I learnt how to live alone and make my life easy going , no fights, no Troubles and it's peaceful.

But single ladies love you all. kiss I didn't mean it the way koyyes, is looking at it.
I'm also single too.
CrimeRe: Lady Disfigures Her Friend's Face Over N950 (graphic Photos) by victorian(f):
koyyes:
Are you married?

Would you like to hear a married female repeat what you just typed to your hearing?
I'm not married.

There is nothing wrong with what I said.

If I'm married and my married friend said same thing? I don't see anything wrong in it.
Cause when I eventually get married, evenings will be for my family. Uninterrupted family time with my kids and Oga.

So I wonder whats wrong with what I typed.

Naturally I'm a loner.

It's growth of biz and my brand that made me this outspoken, friendly and funny.
CrimeRe: Lady Disfigures Her Friend's Face Over N950 (graphic Photos) by victorian(f):
naijacentric:
you are right tho but i am not generalising. But you are sectional all classes of women can be peaceful or terrible don't women not complain of wicked bosses? Good for you if you have good circle of female friends but it doesn't mean they don't have their bad sides because they are married or successful.
If it's bad sides? Every human being has a bad side, including men.
No body is a saint and no one is holy including myself.

But at the end, I watch out for having good natured successful married woman around me. Do u know why I zeroed on married women?

I zeroed on them, because they won't envy me. Especially the young married women who have successful lives, they don't envy my looks, they don't envy my pedigree, even though they admire where I come from and they don't have time to club or start scheming on how to sleep with my man, likewise me I don't have time to start scheming on how to take their husbands. In short I'm not a back stabber.
So it's a win win situation and my friends are not much. Just three of us. And one of them looks like me, we both like ourselves to pieces. cheesy Her husband knows he can't come between our friendship. He's always amazed how we get on well. Even if we have minor issues once in a while, we quickly talk about it and settle it between us. We dey settle ourself by ourselves lol.

Sighs such a she's a nice warm lady.

I'm not saying single ladies are bad o. But I don't want to even check and know. It's easier for a single lady to envy and despise her single friend that looks better and lives better than her. I don't need such negative energy and thoughts around me.

If lil female kids of age 8years and 10years of one my neighbors can just despise me for nothing, because their dad greets me and we tend to gist at the full glare of neighbours? I wonder what adult single ladies will feel like? The mere thought of those kids not liking me, makes me wary of hanging out or being close to singles. But the wife likes me, his son likes me but those lil daughters of his? Mehn it's as if I'm their rival cheesy
Chai! That's female kids o!
So I notice such sometimes and I simply stick with mothers and married ladies.
And I will still say, we all have a bad side which we are all trying to keep in check.
CrimeRe: Lady Disfigures Her Friend's Face Over N950 (graphic Photos) by victorian(f):
naijacentric:
you are funny abeg woman na woman whether married or single the same character dey una blood at least we know ow married women molest house helps a lot angry
In my own click of friends woman no be woman o

I know women tend to envy each other alot, that's why I chose married successful ladies that are busy with their career and family.

We can only chat and talk online or phone, then see each other once in a blue moon. .

It's good for me that way.

Ive never witnessed the messy fights ladies go thru and thank God I don't have shameless ladies as friends . I choose my friends wisely.

Not all women are the same.
CrimeRe: Lady Disfigures Her Friend's Face Over N950 (graphic Photos) by victorian(f): 3:11pm On Dec 03, 2019
Na WA o shocked


Thank God for the kind of friends I have. Purely married young ladies.

I dont move with single ladies. It's either I move alone, or move with companion or male friends.
Then my married female friends? Most times they are busy at home, taking care of their families in the evening. And I like it that way.
Most times we don't get to see sef. Only on chats and calls.


Na WA o.
Just too bad.
RomanceRe: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by victorian(f): 9:49am On Dec 03, 2019
Ladylite:
Aunti
Aunty

Calm down, go and enjoy your life.

You may not believe in religion now but I bet you when you are 35 you will know life is spiritual.


All this you explained here are normal for teenagers and under 25 girls.

Lady to Lady I tell you that you know even if you meet a mature guy with all that standard, he may not be interested in you and you are too proud to chase or beg.


See, you are not ready so move on and have fun with your life and other areas of your life.

IN your 30s try again by then the standards you spent so much time explaining now will not seem important to you.

Ciao
You are so right smiley


I love your analysis.

True, when a lady get older, she becomes more calm, all those standards simply drops and all she just want is a presentable working class man she can connect with.
Depend on what the word means connect with.

Anyways I think because I have been in and out of relationships through the years . Now I'm just laid back, looking for a certain inward connection.

These days I get bored within 5mins of meeting up with a guy, especially if he doesn't look interesting and hes the plain looking type or he has nothing to say or if he's too sure of himself, behaving all knowing and feeling like he's God's gift to women in a hang out.

Quickly boredom sets in.

Although I like my bf but I'm kind of bored , especially when he's busy with buisness and meetings here and there.

So to catch fun, the other guys I have met so far are boring. So boring.

Anyways I'm enjoying my work, and comedy spirit filled good looking Pastor , cheesy


And as per the Op, she knows what she wants out of life, she's still very young and feels on top of the world, which is good. Moreover everyone have said it all. What's more to add again?
CelebritiesRe: '35 And Getting It' - Toke Makinwa In Sexy Bra Top by victorian(f):
unbitchable:
Can you swear by your womb that you are still a virgin.
Esu!!! Get behind me in the Mighty name of Jesus Christ amen!

Your evil plan against me won't work!

Holy Ghost fire!!!!!!!!
CelebritiesRe: '35 And Getting It' - Toke Makinwa In Sexy Bra Top by victorian(f): 3:23pm On Dec 02, 2019
unbitchable:
U ain't even a virgin, so keep quiet.
You've started hearing voices? Abi?

I pity you. Keep hearing voices o!

Concentrated Ekpa!
CelebritiesRe: '35 And Getting It' - Toke Makinwa In Sexy Bra Top by victorian(f): 1:46pm On Dec 02, 2019
Birdeyeview:
Oga its a personal question just incase you dont know.
if you feel its proper to ask such why dont you go to the street and ask every female you see such a stupid question.
Lol cheesy


You dey mind am.


You even have time answering him.
CelebritiesRe: '35 And Getting It' - Toke Makinwa In Sexy Bra Top by victorian(f): 1:44pm On Dec 02, 2019
Biingoo:
See them

CelebritiesRe: '35 And Getting It' - Toke Makinwa In Sexy Bra Top by victorian(f): 11:45am On Dec 02, 2019
Enjoy your life and youthfulness Bae, you no kee person.

One live life but once.

Cheers dear, enjoy! cool

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