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ericsmith:
they are scarce ... DD exceeds SS ,hence minimum of 20 bf to one beautiful gurl . i just can't stand the queue anymore

Eeyah


Sighs u are right but don't worry your own beauty will not pass you by

I was like you before. I wanted a gorgeous handsome guy but the ones coming were just there, I say lemme manage them but I didn't know I was making the biggest mistakes of my life.

Then I said to God, it's either my man is this and this or else I won't be in a relationship and I will not Marry, that's it.

Then look and behold, I met the kind of gorgeous level headed focused handsome gentle man, I have been wishing for all my life. Although he's fair not dark but he's still very handsome and tall. And so into God, which one thing that stole my breath away. He's into God more than me sef
He's not jumping on me for sex, wow! What a huge relief!

So what are we saying? God still answers to our yearnings. Well to mine anyways.

Yours will come and that's certain if only u are patient.

ericsmith:
Alol ! how can something be "everywhere" n where i look still counts .. i've bin check NL buh seems beautifuls ones never signed up

Smiles that's true, if I mean they are everywhere, then it shouldn't be hard to sight them

Anyways on your street, in your church, place of work, even in your banks, at Least u must have sighted a fine babe. Cmon?

You can't tell me they are scarce commodity?



If not that my heart and mind is already taken by a fine man, whom I'm well pleased with. If not, I for add myself join amongst the fine ladies.

But my heart is taken already.



So check around u

ericsmith:
buh can you say that for the ladies ...

There are pretty ladies everywhere as well.

It depends on where u are looking?

One thing I love about Ebuka, he's not allowing any woman distract him from his rich family.

He's staying through with his wife. No ugly stories, no misbehaving . Very focused family and career guy. He knows where he's coming from and hes determined to get to the top! And the wife love am die!

Donexy16:
Gaademit... Ain't those heavy on you?

Nope it's not.

It's God's gift

Alot of women pay millions of naira for these puppies and go under the knife for it.

So for me? I'm thankful to God for it.

If you see two of my female cousins, u go open mouth! Their own is even bigger.

Onyi22:
I so much love this guy, please is he married?

He's married with two kids



And his wife is the daughter of a fucvking billionaire!

Too much money from his wife and her family.

So sorry, he ain't looking at your side.



Heheheheheheheeheh

fatymore:
thanks Ma

Call me Princess Vicky, biko . I'm a very free person.


Pls I'm not Ma on nairaland o

Not to worry, I know I have too much sense but too much will not kee me

[quote author=fatymore post=82261183][/quote]You are welcome dear

fatymore:
I gats to do screening now...abi..and my requirements must be met

Relax on the requirements and screening. This is not a job interview.

You will screen them after uv replied their pms, chat few times. Then u will be able to know if you both like yourselves or not.

It's not just about you only.
The other person contacting you matters as well.
The other person also want to know if you fit his or her bill.

It's two way thing

So. Relax and take it easy with the screening. You are the one searching for friends, not them.

fatymore:
I wish to, but I can't...mini yansh and bwest

It doesn't matter.

There are some guys who likes slim shape ladies. Be proud of your looks and own it.

Being proud of how u look, makes one even look attractive.

You didn't create yourself Biko. U will be amazed how people will come around u, if u have the kind of character they need in a friend. But a pic has to be there, so it won't look like u are an imaginary ghost.
Also comment on posts, say your views about topics posted online, and with time u will make friends. Some may try shutting your views down but don't worry. Keep commenting and the rest will be history


For me, I'm outspoken in a funny way sometimes, and I have so many friends, on and off nairaland. I can't even keep tabs anymore.

I like being happy everytime. That's me sha.

So Just be you and place your pic
You will be fine.

fatymore:
I need new friends.

Male or Females.

You must be of good behavior or modest.

Location: Lagos

Note: Being a Muslim is an added advantage.

Start dropping your application, so that I can review those I am picking.

Place your pic on your dp and you will see friends clicking on your pm.

Very easy

Yahman1:
Choi !
U no go make heaven, no atom of pity

He's too self conscious of his looks and what people think about his handsomeness, too bad for a guy

Taavon2:
My guy my guy. Stop knacking her. Just stop. That is obviously the cause of all these problems.

Lol

carter009:
RPTFL so after testing her honey pot, wasting her time, you want to flee, lol u better start accepting as your wife, your family has accepted her already .....

Lol


You see? Love is scam!


Op wan jakpa! After series of styles on her body and pussy.

Op you lie! You must marry her.

Who you wan leave her for?

Op I was once an Introvert too. As in extreme introvert with stammer join.

Lol

But what changed me?

After my degree, I wanted to float my own company and also teach, sighs how can I achieve such huge feat. My late mum mocked me without end that how can I be so quiet and expect to succeed in life and in fact before I can even say a sentence sef, all my employees and students would have been so bored to death with my presence. Lol
And she's not wasting a dime, to assist me in my business plan unless I stop to stammer and come out of my shell wit people.

And no customer will even have the patience to wait until I finish one sentence, so I have to seat up and change! Or else no money for me o.
I was in great tears when she was saying it.
That night I made up my mind, no more stammering, no more avoiding people, no more keeping to myself. I must talk and I must be bold to face people.

As long as people are not crazy to bite, when I talk to them.

So with time., I realise if I'm not social and friendly, my company will fold up and I will suffer greatly.

Mehn I buckle up o and changed.

Remember people will not kill you, if you talk to them. They will even look at you with either curious or bored eyes wondering what u want to say.
So say your mind with wisdom jare and be free!!!!!!

Freedom. Is Power!



And my next challenge now. My Pastor is organizing a convention, where other pastors from other churches home and abroad with delegates and close to 1 million viewers for 7 days are going to seated watching people chosen to dance. And sighs he has chosen me to dance Infront of so many people on a wide stage.
Initially I was angry, why can't this man just let me be jeje but he made me understand if I don't dance, he won't talk to me again.

And I admire my Pastor, I don't want to fall his hand, so I accepted , especially as he called me out infront of congregation. Sighs, I'm practicing my Micheal Jackson and moon walker skills already joined with break dance

May God help me o. I pray I won't collapse and fall flat on that day. Ewoooo!!!!

It's a challenge I must go through, so says my mind . Devil is a liar!

Op you have issues I swear.

Just forget about your looks and how many ladies are staring at you and make money.

Make your life comfortable, before wondering about reaction of babes whenever u walk pass. It's time wasting, very unnecessary, in fact ehn? It's annoying

Fine guys full everywhere, as in drop dead gorgeous guys, so your looks is just by the way side.


Next!

Lol.

GreatResearcher:
Victorian

Anyways I won't argue with you on anything that has to do with God, my Alpha and Omega, My Beginning and My End, The Reason I'm alive today, the Reason I'm stable and at Peace today, The Reason I'm Flourishing and Happy today, The Reason I cannot be cursed and destroyed is because of My Great God.
A former friend who is frustrated about his life wanted to argue about God with me, so I can back slide against God and turn my back against My Everlasting Father but immediately I sensed his motives, I warned him, you talk against God I will block you from all my social media and cut u off!

Where were u when I was at the point of death, and about to die? None of you were around, it was just me God and an evil ex fiance who already dedicated my body and soul to be used for rituals. I was at the point of death but My Almighty God saved me at the Nick of time.

Not once, not twice, evil men coming as suitors wanted to kill my soul and use for rituals but this Mighty God saved me from their evil intentions. Because they know I would want to marry.

That's why I don't bother myself anymore on marriage.

I'm flourishing today, not missing anything called marriage or sexual relationship, because it's a tool evil people use these days to kill and maim their victims. And By God grace , I will never be their victim, amen!


So Biko, I'm happy with the Peace, Security, Success and Joy that surrounds me, I will not talk against God or find faults In His choice on human beings.

Las Las my God has been so good to me and that's the end of it.


Don't ask me to talk about your research. Bye.

So painful.

I pray the man I will end up marrying will never say such to me, if not that marriage is dead on arrival.

Honestly it's over. Na just to manage ourselves for the house remain.

Op u messed big time. How old is 31?

Me, that I'm even.more than 31 years. I still look young and frosh. No man can say such to me sha. You can now see why women lie about their age? Cause men like you will use it against her in quarrel. Men don't like truth when it comes to age matters.

Na WA o.

TalkTalkTwins:
If hate kills, Tiwa would have been dead yearsago...
...but she keeps going higher, and even planning to get a private jet...


Meanwhile check my siggy

No one is hating her.

Everything we do on earth here, it's just for the earth

Her modelling with Naomi is for herself and her self esteem.

Her private jet she wants to buy. It's for herself and her crew.
It wont add anything in the lives of teeming Nigerians looking for a way out in their lives. It won't add a cent to our bank accounts, nor will it pave way for people like me to make heaven, because that's all I care about.

I'm not poor, I live a simple life, I'm comfortable and I don't even have time sef to envy anyone, because Las Las when we all die, our earthly possessions won't go with our spirits to wherever we are heading.

So why envy? Why feel jealous? When I know her private jet is her headache and not mine.

So guy! Chill nobody is envy tiwa. She's silly living her life as she likes it.


O tan

Welcomme:
The truth is, that same Muslim guy won't allow his own his own sister to marry a Christian. You see the bias and hypocrisy in these our Muslim brothers

Well the issue is he doesn't care. He's a liberal guy. His dad first opposed to it. Even both parents from both sides opposed it but later the guys dad saw his son is truly in love and has spent so much on the girl. The girl too is Inlove and the Dad of the guy accepted as long as the marriage rites are done Muslim way.
The parents of the girl says hell, no! How dare the father suggest such. They are Christians for God sakes. The parents of the girl banned the girl from seeing the guy.

The girl so in love, was so headstrong and kept quiet. Unknown to her parents, the guy and his family has already fixed the nikkai day. She eloped with her elder sister and they went to the guys place for marriage. They got married that day, just she and her sister with the guys family and the groom.
Alfa wed them, and she moved into the guy's house. She went to her parents place and told them she's now married. Her dad refused talking to her, likewise her mom, she packed her things, and stayed with her husband.
He opened a biz for her as his own business increased , then she quickly got pregnant.

Later the parents of the girl reconciled with the Muslim guy when it's seems he's the one taking care of her elder sister and he also gave the younger sister job in his biz.

He's the only responsible in-law they have. Remembering them during Xmas and eats period with gifts and money. He truly love this girl and she's so beautiful in face and very sexy, I mean endowed and loyal join. Even me sef wonder at her endowment, it's a sight to behold . The bacca no be small thing.

After the second child was born, the parents of the girl had no choice but to accept and bless their marriage.


So seek for your own happiness, don't let society or family determine your joy.

Na your own u know, leave others to solve their own when their time comes.


He's my childhood, that's why I know this much about him and his wife

The son is not wise.

Be friends with Regina from day one, even if he hates her, just smile and be her friend. Praise the Dad for marrying a beautiful young girl and everything will move smoothly for him

Men don't joke with girls they are shagging or in love with at that period of time . That's the pure truth. They can even fight their own blood , disown their children because of woman, as the case applies here.

What a foolish son.

agbonkamen:
Is she back to her husband..... But don't divorced men misses their wives kpekus

I don't think they do

The divorced men starts tasting other kind of soups out there, breathing a sigh of relief.
So after tasting Oha, nwkobi, egusi, ogbono for a year or so, maybe that's when they can miss their wives if she's a good and industrious woman.


My two cents though

mrgoodd:
To be sincere it's not easy to be in marriage, But why did people pull out when they claim to know each other well before marriage.

People don't really know each other well before getting married. They dates for donkey years and still know nothing about their partners behavior except the sexual parts. That's all they know very very well.

Every other thing is zero and less important.

shamecurls:
Damage control!

It wont erase the fact that your husband was fvcking another lady even while you were preparing for the marriage ceremony.

That fact can never be erased.

Whether erased or not.

What do you expect? She should divorce her husband?

Keep waiting for divorce, u go wait taya.

Nnadi is not going anywhere!

Let all his side chicks rant from now till tomorrow, that marriage is rock solid between those two.

money121:
2014 VS 2019
What Ever Blessings I have, Everything is from you YA ALLAH,
nothing is from me I THANK YOU, For all the things you have blessed me with...
Alhamudulilahi �
#HappyAnniversary
#IyawoAyyub
#HappyFamily
#OluwaNishola

I can recall 2014 that I posted my introduction anniversary here on Nairaland see here >> https://www.nairaland.com/1903745/see-pictures-introduction-ceremony lot of positive and Negative comments from members, but Alhamudulilahi for today we are still alive to witness today!

Don't mind some Nigerians, they must have something bad to say about marriage , especially the male folks. If their male friends or colleagues or even strangers want to marry, they must use mouth scatter the groom head against marrying, while they quietly go and marry their own or they stay single with different babies here and there from different mothers, saying women are this, women are that.

Follow your heart, which you actually did and it's working for u and your wife.

God bless your home amen.

Both you and your wife will live well in complete peace, prosperity and harmony amen


A 24 years old Muslim guy wanted to marry a Christian lady, come and see negative comments. They are married now, it's going to 6years with 3kids, waxing stronger and better..


Enjoy your marriage jare.

universe26:
WOW! interesting.
man becomes how & what he/she thinks. that's the truth about life my dear. the more deep d thought the more powerful it becomes. keep it up. u interest me with this. not every human knows & believes this.

Thanks on the compliment.

Cutehector:
my friend go and look up the meaning of cool in the dictionary and stop embarrassing yourself in my presence.

So that icon is in the dictionary, right?

You are the one embarrassing yourself in my presence not me.

olushowunm:
Even if she donates the kidney.. The man cannot live more than 5years...its just opportunity for the man to come and set his records straight. Write will and arrange his estate. Nothing more, nothing less. I will advise her to stay with him althrough his dying days but not to donate her kidney.

God bless you, because the man will still not live long.

Why reduce her body to one kidney and the man still dies after some years?

She should stick by him but sorry no kidney. Let family and in-laws contribute money to buy a kidney from somewhere.

funmisticqueen:
Let her do what she wants to do. It is not by force to give him her kidney
Also, isn't it difficult to carry a pregnancy with just one kidney in future?

Don't mind the men, as if, if they were the one they will give their kidneys.

Most Nigerians are so hypocritical .


For me? I ain't giving shit!

What kind of wedding present is that?

Alot of. Men will jakpa! They won't even divorce. They simply disappear into thing air, while their families will tell the ailing wife to go meet her own family, she can't come and destroy their son for them.

Is it not men again? And naija families?

Let's stop deceiving ourselves.

Cutehector:

*coughs*


What's the look for?

Martinez39:
Oh great that both of you found peace with each other. Peace is better than dispute. Have a nice day.

Yes we did.

Thanks dear