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Romance / Re: Will I Ever Get Married? by Vijuchoco(f): 10:23am On Sep 20, 2023
talented321:
They are just catching cruise, you can't insult people offline abi you want make i blind ur eye with my weed..
Abeg no blind my eye o, na wetin people first dey admire for my body
Romance / Re: What Else Is Eating Your Money by Vijuchoco(f): 10:19am On Sep 20, 2023
MrAgbako:
Nothing eats my money. I don't have rats in my apartment.


Lol.. Cruise Master
Romance / Re: What Else Is Eating Your Money by Vijuchoco(f): 10:18am On Sep 20, 2023
Supporting family
Romance / Re: Will I Ever Get Married? by Vijuchoco(f): 10:09am On Sep 20, 2023
TONYE001:


At the slightest opportunity, Nigerian girls must be attacked.

I just tire o. Sometimes, I wonder if the guys we see offline are the same ones here or they're just acting because it's a faceless forum
Romance / Re: Do Guys Still Marry Beautiful Illiterate Girls by Vijuchoco(f): 10:04am On Sep 20, 2023
talented321:
Don't mind the op' he just want to insult ladies...
Samantha124, anybody can be boring and supid whether educated or not..
Abi o..
Family / Re: Do You Sweep Your Apartment Every Morning? by Vijuchoco(f): 11:07am On Sep 19, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:


Invalid question. If what one does for a living doesn't stop him from taking his bath everyday, then it shouldn't stop him from sweeping every morning. It's all about planning your day and timing yourself.
Set your alarm timer to accommodate your sweeping routine and you won't be late for work. Shikena!
Funny but true
Family / Re: Do You Sweep Your Apartment Every Morning? by Vijuchoco(f): 11:06am On Sep 19, 2023
Pacesetter2021:


What I do every morning is wash the bathroom floor. That is a must. Daily Bathroom cleaning is very necessary.
Wow! Make sense
Romance / Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find Someone You Like As Much As They Like You?? by Vijuchoco(f): 11:39pm On Sep 18, 2023
Me too, never experienced the balance angry
Romance / Re: Mother-inlaw In Daughter-inlaw's Home For 6 Years by Vijuchoco(f): 11:34pm On Sep 18, 2023
Hmmmm.. If the woman is not stressing her, she should let her be..

Going as far as traveling with their child without their consent is not proper though.

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Romance / Re: Keeping Virginity Till Marriage, Does It Still Matter?. by Vijuchoco(f): 11:23pm On Sep 18, 2023
zeebabyjoe:
Last year my younger sister got married as a virgin... so Sunday morning after the wedding, we got a call from our in laws and they said they were coming to see us. At first we taught some tin had happened. Not only for them to bring in truck load of gift.. that Sunday night... gift times 2 of wat they brought on Friday for engagement. My mother couldn't curtail her joy as she was just filled with tears of joy.
Awww! I love this
Romance / Re: Keeping Virginity Till Marriage, Does It Still Matter?. by Vijuchoco(f): 11:19pm On Sep 18, 2023
Lienn:


You really must have seen many "CAPS"
Your response made me understand the "CAPS".. cheesy grin
Romance / Re: Ladies Can You Date A Man Without Asking Him For Money by Vijuchoco(f): 1:13pm On Sep 17, 2023
Gajagojo:

A responsible woman who is genuine in a relationship must know her partner's pocket and either contribute or avoid expenses that will harm him.
Of course
Romance / Re: Ladies Can You Date A Man Without Asking Him For Money by Vijuchoco(f): 11:22am On Sep 17, 2023
Gajagojo:

cheesy
There is no contradiction.
Even in transaction there are gender roles men tend to pay female prostitutes most of the time
Like I said Nigerian women see it differently from other places and even then that varies with social class.Upper and upper middle class Nigerian women tend to be more financially independent.
It ultimately comes down to background and need. If a person has sufficient money for all her needs she won't need anyone to give her money
If she grew up in the trenches or close by she has that mentality of entitlement to remuneration
Hmmmm..
My mum was the pillar in our home and somehow even as a child, I just had a strong feeling within me that it shouldn't be so. Not like I ever saw my parents quarrel or anything, I just didn't like it..
I later went on to live with my uncle, where he's mostly in charge and I really admired that, seemed the ideal way to me.

For instance, when I go out with a guy, I don't expect to bring out my money to pay not because I can't afford it but because I see it as somehow.. But if there's need, I would gladly assist
Romance / Re: Ladies Can You Date A Man Without Asking Him For Money by Vijuchoco(f): 9:16am On Sep 17, 2023
Gajagojo:

It is the natural order of things to pay for services rendered
I think people should be upfront about the services they provide and their fees.

It feels like the sane thing to do for whoever gets the most benefit to pay for it . E.g sugar mummies will pay toyboys and vice versa The issue here is the Nigerian context and mindset of Nigerian women that it is the sane thing to do to be paid by their lovers
In my travels I found it is not so everywhere and it is a very prominent thing among Nigerian women. I just have a problem with pretending it is not transactional
Eh God! cheesy grin
I don't see it as transactional though, it's more like gender roles in my opinion..
Romance / Re: Ladies Can You Date A Man Without Asking Him For Money by Vijuchoco(f): 7:34am On Sep 17, 2023
Gajagojo:
why? Should he give you money?
What are you selling.?I
Why can't you give him money instead?
Well, I just feel it's the natural order of things..

My nieces and nephews visit me, I give them money. Most times, I go out and I give whoever attends to me something, money or gift. It's not like is anyone's right, it just feels like the sane thing to do.
And just so you know, I've also assisted guys financially so no big deal abeg.
Romance / Re: Ladies Can You Date A Man Without Asking Him For Money by Vijuchoco(f): 6:26pm On Sep 15, 2023
Negroid001:


Lmao. Me I no dey shame o.
I dey shame o. Even for work wey some of my colleagues go dey do all those stylish begging, I dey always fin where waka go but if person give me, I go gladly accept

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Romance / Re: Ladies Can You Date A Man Without Asking Him For Money by Vijuchoco(f): 6:24pm On Sep 15, 2023
Dremca:
hmmmmmm
As you don know my moniker now, na so you go dey monitor me upandan.. Very soon, I go ask you question for area, you go come NL con respond sad
Romance / Re: Ladies Can You Date A Man Without Asking Him For Money by Vijuchoco(f): 6:21pm On Sep 15, 2023
Tempulated:


Good one

But you seems to be okay financially because you work in the Health Sector.
If okay means being able to provide for my basic needs, then yes..

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Romance / Re: Ladies Can You Date A Man Without Asking Him For Money by Vijuchoco(f): 5:23pm On Sep 15, 2023
Negroid001:

Abi?
Yes ke..

Me wey dey shame to even ask my siblings for money

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Romance / Re: Ladies Can You Date A Man Without Asking Him For Money by Vijuchoco(f): 5:17pm On Sep 15, 2023
I don't need to ask, he'll give me on his own tongue

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Family / Re: Why Do Some Women Hate And Maltreat Their Househelps? by Vijuchoco(f): 4:58pm On Sep 15, 2023
Badmashii:


Good observation.

Abeg Mek all of una calm down. It's the natural order of things.

All female animals are naturally selfish and only care about themselves and their offspring,what you lots called *wicked*. That's why men hardly do stuff like this. When some men dey eye them househelp sef.


Besides, WICKED IS GOOD.

if anybody can tell me the book where this phrase was mentioned,5k don sure for that person.

My mum was very nice to our maids back then though, many people didn't even know we were not related..

WICKED IS GOOD was mentioned in the book titled "WICKED WITCH" and also "MAZE RUNNER"

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Family / Re: Why Do Some Women Hate And Maltreat Their Househelps? by Vijuchoco(f): 4:31pm On Sep 15, 2023
Acekidc4:
Many Married Women are generally Wicked at heart. They Only Care about their own Children!!
I recently observed it amongst the goats we're rearing, mother only after her own..

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Romance / Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by Vijuchoco(f): 5:55pm On Sep 14, 2023
Dremca:
mom, the older woman dey better pass, with more experience.
Na wetin go kill you you wan go after abi
Romance / Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by Vijuchoco(f): 5:36pm On Sep 14, 2023
Dremca:
He is a low budget relationship/marriage counsellor.
What are you saying son? I don't understand you o
Romance / Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by Vijuchoco(f): 3:43pm On Sep 14, 2023
Victor2707:


Dating a woman older than you sounds like fun at first,

But as the relationship gets deeper,

She begins seeing you as her son.

A woman looks up to a man not the other way round.
Dremca my son, hope you've seen this cheesy grin
Romance / Re: . by Vijuchoco(f): 3:13pm On Sep 14, 2023
Reminderz:
if you're bored, find a book and read... if you're depressed, exercise... be productive with your life.. just do something... be useful to yourself... not creating threads like this asking how many unread messages does someone has? did you think about this even for a second?
Lol..
Romance / Re: So Nobody Wants To See You Succeed In Life? by Vijuchoco(f): 7:44am On Sep 14, 2023
IamAtAnger:
Even at times ur parents might not be that genuine love... no be inside this life we dey see parents use their pikin for rituals?.. or even if ur other or especially ur younger ones are doing better than you, you'll clearly see how ur parent go relegate u korokoro
Lol.. True though.
Giving preferencial treatment to the ones doing well is like a norm to many parents but whichever way, I assume most of them would still love their children to be better than them.
Nairaland / General / Re: What Immediately Tells You That A Person Had A Traumatic Past? by Vijuchoco(f): 2:35am On Sep 14, 2023
Rayban25:


Na lie you dey make some some sensual moves at her grin
E be like say you go like wahala o cheesy

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Nairaland / General / Re: What Immediately Tells You That A Person Had A Traumatic Past? by Vijuchoco(f): 2:32am On Sep 14, 2023
Rayban25:


Oga she dosent like you and shes not feeling you.
Lol.. Take it easy nar

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Romance / Re: Why Do Some Girls Wear New Pant And Bra When Visiting A Guy? by Vijuchoco(f): 2:26am On Sep 14, 2023
cheesy grin

Chai! Nairaland sha
Romance / Re: So Nobody Wants To See You Succeed In Life? by Vijuchoco(f): 2:17am On Sep 14, 2023
Only your parents genuinely want you to be better than them..

As I am sef, I'm already planning how I'll make my upcoming children's life better cheesy

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