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@the OP..
Be very careful Sha..

Particularly if d Girl's Mother divorced her Father
because a Friend's Mother told him Straight up 'Don't ever go bring a divorcee's daughter to this House'

This is because..
*Women transfer aggression alot..i.e. Your Girlfriend and her mother will transfer d Sins of thier father to you..
*Women are Partial alot in Judgement.., In times of some Marital issues, they might gang up against you!!..since der's no Father to talk to..
So Just be Careful!!

i926:
Why do men always do this? I find it difficult to impress girls, even since I was a kid.

Conciously or Subconsciously, we as humans would always to Impress d Opposite sexx..

As a Guy, if you buy a Clean Ride, Posh ride, and live in a Nice Crib..
In your mind, you would want some Pretty Babes to be taking notes of you..
When you drive by, and they are eyeing n Twisting dier bodies for you, You will feel Fulfilled..
Take it or leave it..

i926:
I so much hate this kind of thinking!

Let Bill Gates, CR7 Aliko Dangote, Obi Cubanna and other successful people inspire you, couple with your own ambitious drive to make it. Most men that achieved great stuffs in life, never did it with women. But women of different sizes and colours appeared, after they made it. If you wan dey fvck to relieve stress, during the course of your journey, it's aiight but be careful.

Nas & DMX, "life is what you make it, I ma make it. No matter what it takes my nigha, we gon take it."we

In summary, you are the right mou'fucker to inspire yourself, nigga...not a woman.

Hey..
Everyone is not CR7 or Dangote..
Those Guys had their own motivation..

The OP is really right to think in the way he is thinking..
A Lady/Girl can motivate a Man..
Infact it can be the Strongest 'Pusher' for a Guy..
Remember doz days when School Boys wanted to Take first position because of the Finest Girl in the class?

Also for Ladies too, When they meet some Guys, Their Life changes and they become more goal-oriented..
D Guy motivates Dem to think Big n do great things..
Just dat nah only 15% of Naija Ladies are like dis oo
85% are looking for only Hushpuppi or Obi Cubana Kind of Guys..

OP
Nice Topic from you..
because the Dicck, Towtow, Girlfriend, Boyfriend Topics days ehn..

Back to d Topic..
I Hardly Advise friends..
Many know what to do But don't do it..
For instance..
One of my Guys was about to Fvckk one mature Ashawo and was asking me' How you see am?'
How I see am b4?

Halle000:
One of my best of him...such a talented actor
May he live Long

Can You still remember d name of that movie??
Either Omotola or Bimbo Akintola was also in the Film..
His delivery of Liberian English accent was Topnotch..

In our Area then, One Soldierman went to Liberia for peacekeeping n bought back a Liberian girl as Wife after many Years..
D Way she Spoke English and Pidgin was funny to everybody..
So Francis Duru did that, He was Hailed where I was watching d movie!!..

salisuammy:
I remember him as Jude in "Blood money" as Zack Orji's younger brother

Hmm, see Strong OGs..
Didn't remember him in that movie Blood Money
But I know Vulture Mike (Zack Orji) and Chief Collins (Kanayo o Kanayo)
+ One scene where Zack Orji used his Cult member's son to do Rituals..
He told the boy 'Do you want be a great keeper like Peter Rufai'?
Damn.. Men don take style Advance oo..

Francis Duru..
The great Complainer!!
Dem Nonso Diobi, Emeka Ike,etc dey Sabi take him Babe..
There was one Nollywood Film, 2007 or 08 or so, where he was a Liberian Refugee..
Can't remember d name..
He Put on a Classic, Virtuoso performance with d Liberian accent..
One of my friends was always copying the accent..

Can't call it SCAM though..
But Really, BBnaija is now 'Connection' based..
All those auditions is mere formality..

They only pick Rich, Fine and Society accepted Individuals diz days..
Also they look for Doz whose parents are Rich n will garner votes with dier Millions e.g Kiddwaya last year.

Or Individuals with Rich Celebrity friends..e.g CeCe and Tacha group..

I don't like diz Pattern..
But in Business, no Moral codes..

Having Spent Billions to Organize the show n build dat house, I guess they need to Get back Massive Profits..

SmartPolician:
If you don't know her, then you probably don't have a TV at home.

Oboy, you re correct..
because if he watches TV,@least he would have seen Beverly Naya somehow..
She is in movies, music videos and paid adverts..
Or Maybe him nah Deeper Member or Team Righteousness2.

Susily:
The day I'll kneel down before lady, let the Hosts of Heaven deal severely with me and my entire unborn generations

Hmmm..
Hw about Kneeling down to Lick Plates i.e suck pussy?..
Wat will happen When you decide to do it?
Legions of Hell fire will Fry you, abi?

NrwCrown0217:
I ve been hearing about BBN for years...
See People winning Millions...

Let me follow it nd see what it entail
I Pray the Time will worth it...

Will advise..
Don't spend much of your time on it oo..
Like me..
I follow only Nominations and Sunday evictions..
Dat evictions, the tension is sometimes like Penalty Shoot-outs..
So take am easy oo

Odewaleadesoye:
What do you think about Big Brother Naija Shine Ya Eye's House?

LIKE if the House is Damn Fine and okay, SHARE if it's a TRASH

The House is Damn cool and Posh!!
The Organizers are doing everything to portray Nigeria as a Developed nation to the outside..
But Business Wise, this Bbn is a Big Gamble for Dem..
because I feel this year will not be successful like others..
D Housemates I have seen are too Thick, Muscular, Fat, Refined and pretentious!!

Almost all use Connection to enter d house.
If the Organizers are not Carefully, People will not follow d show or Vote this year...
N They will Lose Billions..

Lostchild:
Candycrushy

I have a 20 years old niece who told me she cannot date a 30 years old guy. She told me her list is 35 to 40 years old.

What do you think?

Hmmm..
Dat your niece is something else..

It's either she fell in love with an older Guy when she was Little e.g 7,8yrs
Was Disvirgined n sexed by one..
Or She is a Sugar Daddy Lover who likes Big Cash/Expensive items..

because how will a 20yr old Girl say her age range for dating is 35-40?
30 yr old is even Small for Her..

Oga, Better monitor dat Niece pls..

GeneralPula:
Such girls are only meant for used & dump..

You’ll hit it & run..

Except old men of 60 or 70 years, I see no reason why any sane young man should be dating 35+ old ladies..

Lol..
I have seen OP's Post since Last week..
Didn't want to comment..

Der is this my Female friend of 30yrs+ whom we just Laugh, Play and sometimes Flirt with each other..
One Night after our normal talks, told her I will call around 10.30pm which I couldn't due to issues in my Phone..
If you see the Vexx she Vexx the next Day ehnn..
Quickly, I ended the Friendship!! Don't Have to Carry Big Problem..
It's now I reasoned the OP's post..

Ishilove:
Early 20s will mean you're between 21-23 so let's see here... 21 + 12= 33/35.

Aunty, the Uncle is ready and ripe for marriage . The person not ready is you, which is why you created this thread. Free the Uncle so he can focus on someone who is ready and willing. You are still discovering yourself

You ehn!!
Your Points are always concise and Sensible..
I Respect you Sha..

The OP is in Love with d Guy!!
But
@22, She is still in the Girly, Flexxing stage where lots of Guys and Men are flocking around her..
Just pray she makes a good decision..

phemmyfour:
you lack understanding

Ok, Suit yourself..
I have told you..
Forcefully Limiting Students internet usage will NOT necessarily lead to Academic Improvements..
There are Better Ways of Solving Problems of the Youth..

phemmyfour:
I m not a student. For students, they can be easily distracted on the internet

Whether as a Student or Worker, too much of Internet Usage is Bad..
But
Dats not Enough reason to Limit d students usage to I Hour..
Dats like Treating them like Small children..

Do u know dat some Organizations Ban their workers from Internet or even Phone usage during working hours..
Might seem Good but It causes Restlessness n Low productivity..

For students, dier Academic Performance will Drop drastically!!

lkillbrokehoes:
Or too Foolish

Brotherly..
I support you here..
Some things that look funny actually is Stupidity in display..
In my WhatsApp, I see alot of Foolish status updates..
Pple will say 'Na Cruise'..

phemmyfour:
Good, they have more than enough resources in the school library. Internet is full of distraction

Internet is Full of Distractions but I see you on this Site most times..
Everything is Conversation..Those students are 18, 19+..
Talk to Dem, Preach to them, Convince them But Don't Regulate Dem like kids..

shogsman:
Smart move

If Buhari/Lai Mohammed/NCC do Wetin your Daddy Oyedepo has done..
I.e. Limiting Nigerians Internet usage to 1 hour daily..
Hope it will still be a 'Smart movd'?
Make una dey get small sense@times..

LikeAking:
I hate all these anti youth policies.

Life is not about what you know.

Or education, degree.

This stuffs literally expire once you even grad.

Lets face the fact.

Life is deeper than we think.

Pastors to me are not good educators when they train people outside their xtian field (Pastors)

These kids wont become pastors, let me remid daddy O.

Dont train them like pastors.

I rest my case.

The so called discipline does not guranty happiness and success.

The worst thing is that Most of the Chaplain's/Winners pastors children will be Flexxing internet services@home..

Most Pastors or Religious pple who gives lots of Regulations CANNOT regulate their Children at home..
You see some Dat Pastors children wearing Rugged Jeans, Jagged Skirts, Buying Big Headphones and listening to Popsmoke, Migos, etc..

N dier Daddy will be on d pulpit Criticizing Worldliness and Corruption like Righteousness2..
Yet it is happening right under his Roof..

ednut1:
he no fit service am wella. Na fact and may lead to cheating

Lol, this Guy!!

That's your Own!!..
In my Uni days, My 60 yr old Neighbor was Banging woman Steady like Young Boy!!..

If the OP marry her, Make he just dey Fortify his Gbana with African Roots and Bitter Kola Always..He will have no probs..

Doja2000:
Nope,never experience that.
What is so special about taking a girl's virginity?
As if u go marry her after u take am.

It's Special oo..
Especially done@the Right moment i.e.when D Girl is of Age, let's 19 or 20 years of Age or Wedding night..

because it is due to the urge to Disvirgin a Girl dat makes most devilish Peadophiles defile Little Girls..

ednut1:
In 8 years time will you be able to service her congo well Answer is no

So 48 yr old Man Nor dey fit Fvckk woman, in Your Community?

Ororocelemi:
My brother my own is even more than yours, she is half of my age and I'm just waiting for her to turn 18 and I will move.
I can't kill myself biko!

Hmmm..
BadMan..
Waiting patiently like Vulture abi nah Hyena and Ready to devour..

But really, Look@other options i.e 20 or 23yr+Girls in your Life..

because those 18yr old Girls has lots of issues..Most are not Mature for Anything serious, let alone Relationship..
Or It's the Punny dat is your concern?

@OP..
The gap is Not too much..
BUT
How is she Like??
There are 25 yr old ladies and there are 25 year old ladies..
While some are mature n know what they want in Relationships,
Some are Slayqueens, all about meeting Rich men and Fine Boys..
they are hooked to Telemundo, Zeeworld,etc and have romantic ideas about the kind of men dey want..some will even have lots of Young Guys as Friends n will be snapping n posting picx with Dem all d time..

So OP, If d Girl belongs to the 2nd Category, Find another Babe..

Kingcalls:
Difference between man and woman...women don't reconciliation....thats y there are high rate of divorce cases ... na only men de get childhood friend ...women no de get am...

My Brother..
Honestly, D way girls/women Quarell ehn..
N they can Hate!!
I don't know how God created Dem..
Any little thing, they harbour lots of Hate..

There is one Babe dat I was talking to one Nite n promised to Call around 10.30pm dat same nite..
Dat time reached, couldn't find the numba in d phone, so Slept off.
The next day, If You see her Swollen face ehn.. , I fear oo..
Quickly, I ghosted the Babe oo..

LadyRosa:
Stop generalizing please.
There's no such thing as ALL the girls trying to be Kim. Truth is men are first attracted by what they see while women are attracted mostly by what they hear(reasons why a smooth talker can get a girl laid easily if he knows his game).
Many of you guys get easily attracted to women who seem flashy or well endowed or with good appearance and most times su h attractive clouds the main purpose of your need in a woman rather than your wants.
Reasons why every Saturday ladies with loose character gets married while the decent ones are struggling in their relationship.

I'm a very crazy woman and I love to enjoy life and don't care whose horse is gored. From my experience, I noticed that my craziness attracts very good guys, SERIOUSLY. I mean good guys, quiet and 'husbandable'. But if I try to do 'holy holy' na all these jaguda guys go dey wink.Most of you find it difficult to stay with simple women.

I had an ex who left his girlfriend because he complained she is too calm. I see the babe, very calm lady and obedient. When I asked why he dumped he told me she is too docile and whatever he wants she does without grudges. Can you just imagine?!

So we started dating and I became a terror! Him buy phones and laptops tire for computer village because if he pisses me off na wetin I use dey stone am. But he left a cool woman for a cray cray, so na him choice and me I dey game.

Owk..You have made some gud points..

But reasonable Guys likes Quiet, cool and sensible Girls..
It's Crazy Guys that will tell you dat they like Wild Girls..
maybe only for fcvkking tho..

because Quiet Girls are very Shy and reserved in sexual activities..
Unlike The Wild Girls who will succk Dicck after 1st round, Give you Angles 45,90,360,etc during d Banging..
Maybe dats y dat ur Ex left his Quiet/docile Girlfriend for you..

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Pussy asss show for Pussy asss niggarrrs, our girl friends and baby sisters
A real niggarrr can't veg out in front of the tv watching bbnaija.....a real niggarrrr should be bombing, smoking weed, drinking some bottle and banging Pussy

......even our girl friends and baby sisters should be advised to watch cartoons instead of bbnaija.. watching cartoons and animated movies like moana, coco, zootopia, tangled, frozen, baby boss and Incredibles will take them far in life than bbnaija

Walk out of this thread with anger while I dragg my weed and do my bombing simultaneously or concurrently

Brother Slawormir.
I don tell una B4..
This BBnaija show is no different from EPL, La liga, Zeeworld, Telemundo, WWE,Xvideos, American NBA,etc..
All are Time Wasters!!
If you are Criticizing BBN, also Criticize doz ones..
In truth, They Don't add much to our Personal growth..
Anyways, wish you well in your Bombings..

mightyhaze:
Nonsense..



I'd rather watch Dinosaur train on Disney junior


Mother pteranodon and her kids and all those spectacular dinosaur species esp the talkative train conductor

What is now the Difference b/w you and the BBnaija watcher?
Is it not same Long Hours wasted?

Come to think of it, An Adult watching Cartoons or animated movies with those tinky winky voices.
U dey Try..
@least d BBN, you can relate with something they may be talking/arguing about..

LadyRosa:
Why are the good women unmarried?
Truth is, you guys are suffering from your clinge to bad choices. There was a time when girls were nice and good, you remember those our secondary school days with the letters and kind words... But many of you messed up the relationship afterwards. Now we have social media and very very crazy materialistic girls. Lick your wounds.

Haba!!
No, why blame Guys for poor Relationships diz days?
Agreed many Guys doz days will just Fvckk a young, naive girl and Dump her..
But dats not d cause of d poor romantic relationship we re having diz days..

D Cause is Simply Social Media influence!!
All our Girls want to be Kim Kardashian, Nicki Minaj, Chioma Davido, JaneMena, etc..
But how many Guys (Even Yahoo guys or married men) can help them achieve dat?

Dats y you see Many Young Girls diz days Running from Pillar to Post looking for Rich Boyfriends..
One of my 21 yr old female Friend has like 3 Boyfriends but on WhatsApp Status, she post sexy pictures and Stylishly claim she is Single to d viewers..

@d end of dis, one Badt Guy will promise her 50k, Fcvkk her, give her N10k like two times n Take Off!! She will now go back to her Boyfriends..

So Materialism/Social media Influence is the cause of 'Empty' Relationships you see among Young pple..
Some Young Girls Hardly know the Value of Chastity and Good Moral Lifestyle..
If only they Knew..

@the OP!!..
Don't mind those Naysayers who re trying to dissuade you..
So a Willing Young man can't Enjoy some Babes again?

Go Tell her About your Feelings..
But Make sure It is in a Good Location..
In Asking a Girl/woman out, Location matters Alot..
In a Church, a Restaurant, etc..Just Walk up to her and say Something like 'Hi Ruth, Surprised I know ur name? Well I have been crushing on you and would like us to be Friends'..

Be Bold while Saying This!!..
Her Responses will be Either to..

*Smile and give you weak response..
*Hiss n angrily Walk Away..or
*Respond Well n ask you what you really want from her..

So Go Man..Getting Babes is not for Weakmen..
Englishman will say the Faint hearted never gets the Fair Lady!!