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I laugh at you guys who say sex is overrated. If it were overrated, you would only have it once or twice. Worse ase scenario, you wouldn't have it more than 10 times in a life time.
The problem here is that men get tired from one sex partner. If you have the kind of status David O has, you won't hesitate to have sex everyday.
Just imagine if you have 100s of women chasing after you everyday. You won't be saying this.

politicoNG:
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Why are they blurring his face?

More brain drain

Yugoslavia247:
The most acceptable means of ID
International Passport
Drivers license
National ID card

NIN is not internationally accepted.

When an international company says they do not want NIN it is because they can not verify it.

I hope you find a way sha.

Be ready to spend money.

Go to the main office and do it.

Forget the app.

NIN is National ID card, isn't it ? Or is there anoter one ?

amadil14:
Good day all,
I met my wife 4years ago, before we got married she told me that she has a boyfriend and she do call him pet name as ( MAJESTY) and I do see it wen ever he calls her not until our relationship became strong and we eventually got married.
However, before we got married my wife changed her sim card entirely and even till today I have never witness any strange number call her and we have been happily marriage.

Not until last week, my wife older sister gave birth to a baby girl and we both went to visit her and the baby with gifts. Infact my wife took along with her so many things in our house including baby baff my mum bought for her wen she put to birth.

My worry now is that, my wife sister named her daughter after my wife ex boyfriend and that has been disturbing me because the name still rings in my memory and I'm yet to know why among so many names on earth why I'll she chose (MAJESTY) as a name for her new born?

Note: this my wife sister is not yet married, she just got pregnant for a married man even as I write, the married is claimed to have traveled to London.

Please ur kind advice is highly needed.

Thank.

It's disrespectful. SOme women don't even think before they do certain things. SHe's still into her ex boyfriend for her to do such. I don't know if they still have something together.,

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VeeVeeMyLuv:
This country has been retrogressing under APC

Nigerians can no longer afford basic things of life they could conveniently afford in 2014.

Nigerians wake up and take back your country.

It's now very obvious that majority of Nigerians are tribalistic. I remember how Nigerians protested when GEJ increased fuel price to N97 per litre. APC and co. started protested. Tunde Bakare and Wole Soyinka led a protest walk to freedom park in Lagos.
Fast forward, when PMB increased it to N195, they were all quiet. Today, BAT has taken it to N540 and still climbing but they are not saying anything. They are rather praising him for removing subsidy. They are happy that their tribesman is in power. You increase fuel price without increasing minimum wage. There are Government workers that have to pay 3ce the amount they pay on 30k. How do you expect them to survive ?
Let us see. All of us will suffer it together. SOme f**lish people are saying the government will favour me. Let's see how it will happen.

BATdBigot:
And how is this news for God's sake? Foreigners reading such pathetic news on nairaland would be wondering if Nigerians are normal or subhumans. Someone worked yet you make it seem as if paying their wages is such a great achievement?

I hope this pastor won't allow Tinubu's senseless propaganda infect him too.

Normally, salary is the right of a worker. But because of the injustice of they've suffered over the years, by the former government, when a new government pays them, they'll be excited.
Na Naija we dey

ebukajay184:
"A Woman Isn't Supposed To Bring Anything To The Table" - American Author (Video)


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JQL0NPfz3Z8


Video credit: TikTok/Instagram/@reemusb

Everyone brings something to the table. It's a figure of speech. It means to add value.

okito:
Let me start by saying you can successfully relocate abroad at 40. I left an oil company job Nigeria at 40, relocated and within 5 years, I now have footprints not only in Nigeria but in 2 North American countries. The western world is such that you can be what you want to be cos the system is an ideal one. However, the truth is Nigeria is a promising country and lots of people in Nigeria are doing better than some people in diaspora. So, ask yourself, do you have conviction about relocating cos if you are not convinced, stay back and make it work. it's not a bed of roses in Europe or America but if you are hardworking, resilient and surround yourself with the right people in diaspora, you MUST make it!

This is the best advice i have come across

Emperormartin:
Not only Nigeria is divided but the division has seared into the churches...

Even pastors now preach it openly every Sundays.

Don't tell me that the pastors are Igbos as major churches in Nigeria are anchored by Yoruba men of God.

As the division has now taken religious undertone; that once united country is now heading into tatterrs

Na the plain truth be that. Look at the pastors in Christ Embassy as well as the pastors in MFM AND RCCG. Most of these pastors are from the same tribe as their GO.
I once attended a mid-week service in MFM Port Harcourt when they were appointing new pastors. All of them were Yorubas.

SonofGod231:
I've known her while we were much younger.only started dating last Dec and the fact she opened up to me for anything about her status made everything dicey...I can't count the numbers of doctors that have assured me she can't infect me as long as she's regularly on her tabs,yet it remains a big problem to me....She remains so far the sweetest soul I've ever dreamt of dating... maybe coz she's positive,who knows.

She can't infect you if she takes her medication but are you ready to risk it ? I know they are human and therefore deserve to be loved, but are you ready to handle it ?
But btw, did you attempt to date her when you were younger ?

SonofGod231:
How can I escape this life I'm living,I'm in a fix I'm in love with two women and I don't want to let non of them go.
One is a young red hot model chic withno brains while the other is a gorgeous banker in her 30s but she's HIV positive but I'm not.
They can both cook like professional chefs and bang like mahd and I'm really cool being with both but it's boiling down to the point where I really need to pick one.
Pls guys,help a brother choose one.
They're all I've got as long as babe is concern.

SInce you're noy HIV+, why are you considering her ? Sincerely speaking, the HIV of a thing as really messed up a lot of opportunities.
That being said, you don't have to choose any .

It's painful. But what did his church do ? For someone who's a pastor of MFM, an influential gathering, i expect someone to rise up to assist him.

[quote author=NairalandGossip post=123907745]sent man
I can't reply your mail. May be your mail box is full .Or do you have any other mail ?

NairalandGossip:
lol you de Abuja? Make we link up na

Send me mail

efelicity:
I recently secured admission into a state university in the north. And as an intelligent guy, I was noticed the first day in class. My first class was fun, the female lecturer always point at me to respond to questions.
She later asked me where I came from, my goals and all that.

Two days later, she invited me to her office where she asked me few questions. During the questioning session she was looking at me straight in the eyes while smiling in a sexual manner.

That was how we got so close and I finally got into her pants. This lecturer doesn't want to see any female student close to me. I'm truly in love with her too. I'm seriously taking it into consideration to propose to her.

Love is Sweet!❤️

Nah.. it doesn't happen so fast.

Freshtruth:
I Have this friend whose mother sell roasted corn and bolle(roasted plantain) the mother called me and narrated what happen this is own son pretended not to know her because he is with a group of girls and guys that day when the car he enter with his friends stop buy to buy roasted corn. She saw her son inside the car and she was like 'kelvin wetin u dey inside person motor' the young man was shy and had to deny that he is not the one I confronted him. Continue..

That's the effect of materialism and peer pressure. Maybe he had lied to his friends that his parents that he is born abroad or that he goes to Canada for holiday.
But that being said, why did she shout his name, "Kevin wetin you dey find inside person motor?" Is it wrong for him to have friends that own cars ? It's sort of embarrassing. This calls for emotional intelligence.

NairalandGossip:
Runnish stats, go to plateau state and ask of berom women u will understand

In case you still dont understand, go to Benue state and test run Idoma girls, u definitely will understand

But if you still don't understand, then go and spend one week in Edo state, you will understand perfectly.

Where dem dey for Abuja na ?

Flets:
Before we all get carried away with the media propaganda, here are the summary of Tinubu's government to date:

1. Fuel subsidy is removed and you will buy fuel for 500 to 900naira per liter (depending on the exchange rate). The savings will be looted like that of kerosene and diesel. There will be no commensurate succor/ palliative for your suffering. Instead of going after the subsidy thieves and stopping the smuggling across boarders, they have transferred the responsibility to the helpless Nigerian people.

2. Naira has been devalued (though they call it floating). The FG has handed over the exchange to the market forces where speculators and banks are king. Naira continues to fall in the I/E and parallel market. Anybody who tells you Naira will appreciate is a joker, for a corrupt country like ours, the banks and speculators are the new cabal and will drive the rates how they deem fit. Don’t believe…. Just observe. What most don’t get now is that CBN now has no obligation to provide FX at a particular rate to the market, as such the new FG players can access FX from CBN without noise.

3. FG funding for tertiary education has been removed. Students will pay upwards of 400K tuition fee starting next session. A lot of students will drop out and cannot complete their education anymore. The so-called student loan will be almost impossible for an average student without connection to access. Guess what happens to the savings from this funding…. To be looted by the same people who have impoverished the nation.

4. Electricity tariff have been increased (without increased production) and will take effect from July 1st. This is a death knell to small and medium scale businesses. You are now stuck between the devil (PMS at 550naira per liter) and the blue sea (extra expensive electricity tariff).

5. All the FG has done so far is abandon almost all responsibilities it has over the people through the bills being signed since May 29. All Tinubu has done is to make available funds to be shared by him and his goons at the expense of the people. Not a single bill or action aimed at ameliorating the suffering of the already downcast Nigerian people rather adding to the pain in the guise of elitist policies

6. Guess what…. None of these policies have any impact on the political class and they have not made a single sacrifice. Same old political criminals are back in power, Gbaja, Akume, Asari Dokubo etc and you expect any real change apart from increased suffering?. How do you expect Tinubu to pay back the these same criminals who supported him into power?

Nigerians…. Suffer no dey tire una?

reaThat's a gloomy picture. We just have to wait a and see. I don't have full confidence in this man. I wish he proves me wrong. He was part of the people who brought PMB to power.

saweide:
Pls something is really bothering my mind and I pray I will find good advice here.

I reside in Port-Harcourt about 1 and half years ago Iost my cousin. He died of heart attack. After his death, his wife has been getting closer to me, always calling me and visiting me and am still single. I have had failed relationships in the past. I have been so unlucky with the kind of ladies I met. They are always violent and disrespectful which I dislike so much.

But during my cousins lifetime, she was so good, cool and caring to my cousin and they never had any misunderstanding and they married for just 6 years here in Port Harcourt before he died and they never had a child due to infertility on the side of the cousin. But now everyone like friends and family knows me and scared if I should make advances to her if they won't be saying things against me or should I just forget and look for another lady to marry.

Pls i need ur serious advise. She has fallen in love with me already.

If you have the courage and strength to handle the criticisms and all. It's not gonna be easy. May be you should ask the elders in your family. It's just that we don't live in obodo oyibo

totit:
Qatar-based drug kingpins Murphy, Oluchukwu smashed by NDLEA at Lagos Airport





https://pmnewsnigeria.com/2023/06/18/qatar-based-drug-kingpins-murphy-oluchukwu-smashed-by-ndlea-at-lagos-airport/?utm_source=&utm_medium=twitter

It's better they are caught in Naija than for them to be caught in Qatar.

nairabacks:
My boyfriend uses them.
Mostly injectables.
Hes 48, swarzchenegger and Stallone used them.
They didn't die.
Moderation is everything

Schwarzenegger has had heart surgery at least once. If care is not taken, your bf will develop erectile problem.
Just be 100 percent natural

Raalsalghul:
The financial aspects of hypergamy is relative and not a one size fits all.

Reason being why a certain SSCE educated Kudirat living in a one bedroom face me I face you with her parents in Ajegunle will mate with an OND educated Kunle living in a self-contain in Orile.

Or why a Blessing who has lived in a one room self contain in Oshodi with an OND education will mate with a BSc educated John who is a able to afford a two-bedroom flat in Agege.

In both cases, both guys are not multi-millionaires but there are women willing to mate with them hence there is that statement "find your level".

As regards looks, the truth you'll have to later accept is that no matter how ugly Nigerian men are, there women still find them attractive if not why do we have single mothers everywhere with deadbeat broke dads.

Surely, this men must have satisfied the looks hypergamy of these women to be able to mate with them. It's only when compared to their abroad counterparts that Nigerian men become ugly. And don't also forget that Nigerian women on the other hand, men of the other races don't find them that attractive so who do you want them to mate with if not their fellow Nigerian men.

All these hypergamy and looks discussion are not as straightforward as we make it out to be sometimes. There are several other factors that come into play.

True. Different strokes for different women.
I've also realized that not any men will attract any woman. As crazy as it sounds, guys with good games have been rejected by women. That's why i also encourage guys not to be frustrated because of a woman.

imagrg:
Low libido at 30?

Haba!

When in my late 50s I can even impregnate a baren lady.

. U be real African man.

Walkerstilldey:
I just entered 30 and experience low sex urge and low libido,is it normal

Stress, illness, medication, depression and diet could be the reason. 30 is too young. In fact at 30, you're still in your prime. Just look at your lifestyle once again and see where you're missing it.
Alternatively, if you've been with a single partner, you could be bored of her. You can spice things up.
If you can handle the issues mentioned above, you should get back your vibe.

Olarewaju89:
But you get to go work?

You get your income from your place of work, bro. You dont joke with what brings food to the table. A Church is a gathering of believers. If you have to choose, you can gather anywhere.

Borntosmoke:
Why are we introverts so dull!!! Why!! Why!!! This is to much. We are too boring!!

. The fact that you are dull doesnt mean everyother introvert is.

I see guys arguing about whether to take a lady on an expensive date or not. Here's the catch: what is expensive is relative.
The bottom line is for both of you to have great fun.
You will have to spend to take her on a date and you are expected to foot all the bills. It's insanity to expect her to share the bill with you. That being said some of the best and modest dates you can take her to is the beach, or the zoo or some sort of outdoor activity.
I wouldn't really encourage expensive dinner date in a cold room on a first date.
Your first date should be moderate in terms of expenses and fun.
Don't take her to NICON Hilton yet.

manoflove22:
She turn on she even told me she is wet, i did that in her parent house cos na she invited me i Don't know if that is the reason


But she tell me we wil have sex but not now, i don't know maybe she don't wanna look cheap or something

You have nothing to lose. If she allowed you do that in her parents house, it means she's attracted to you. She will most likely give you the real deal sooner or later
Yes, she doesn't want to look cheap. They do that quite often. But if you press harder, she will be free and the leg will open.