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BlackSwan:
I don't think I will marry him again.
Ungrateful, selfish, stingy, argumentative, sex is all about himself, not caring at all. Just an all round negative person. Only thing he is good at is conversation and gisting, he can't do good for others without expecting something back.
I am 8 months pregnant and was vomiting and rolling on the floor yesterday and he heard from pallor where he was pressing phone, he didn't want to leave his precious Facebook and attend to me so he just sat there and did nothing. After like five minutes he brought our two years old baby to drop with me in the room and returned to the sitting room to continue pressing phone.

This is someone I have passed through all manner of inconvenience to make him comfortable, I spent all my savings from when I was working before marriage to furnish our house after we got married because he didn't have much. My parents sponsored everything about our marriage and all he did was show up and go home, they were even willing to pay for our flight ticket back home but as of today he doesn't talk to them or even call them, just cut them off th totally. They are the ones assisting me with money now that I don't have s job and am pregnant because he doesn't like to give. Last time I asked for money to buy new clothes he came from work that evening and started venting all his anger on me and saying very insulting words because he didn't like the idea of giving me money.
But his unemployed friend outside was receiving monthly stipend of 20000 from him before the guy got a job, his friend that was living with us for 6 months was receiving daily transport fare and recharge cards from him. While the only thing he gives me is market money and that is after he had complained that the money is too much.

I made a big mistake thinking if I started small with him and helped him grow he will appreciate me and treat me well. He is just a very ungrateful and entitled person.

Kingsatan, motherfucker, Bluntguy and every other guy feeling bitter about my own sweet story.

Here you have it, sad story, enjoy your read and do deliberate on this since this is all what y'all love to read, misery.

LINTUNE:
try and understand his comment , most women that brag about their men on social are just being hypocritical. I can attest to this, they just do it to suppress single ladies..

If the women that brag about their husbands are hypocritical, what about men that brag about their wives? Are they also saying it to pepper single guy's?

I don't understand why you guys can't just be happy for others and move on with your lives.

motherfucker:
why are you angry?

Counter what I wrote, don't resort to being petty , you should know I probably rated you judging by your submission , reason I gave you a response.

foleskay:
You're the fool here. That man has been married for over 30 yrs, he's not your mate. Gbe nun e soun

He is married for 30 years because he wrote that, he could as well be a liar just to paint a perfect picture.
A man married for 30years would not be so silly to open threads such as all he has on his profile.

I can imagine the disappointment on his 29 year old married son's face if he gets to read something of such from his father.

motherfucker:
he meant you are too superficial and your ideology about the right man are superficial and material for an ideal healthy marriage...

Which gives credentials of someone that may not last if things in the marriage nosedive.

Apparently, your marriage, if it actually exist, is till young.

No one has a manual for an ideal marriage for what works for A might just work against B.

You have no right to tell me my reasons are superficial, you or anyone else is not a standard.

Therefore, those things are not superficial, asides inner beauty and good characters, I have ways desired a fine sexy man with beautiful eyes and I was lucky to get one.

Y'all sound like there is no handsome, sexy, ready to give, tall, respectful and loving man who can remain married for even ten days.

Y'all sound like good men don't exist, like it is a strange thing to have such qualities in this world again.

Guys on this thread need to let this rest, men have been describing their wives as good and no one has called them names but it's different because a woman says it as it is.

This is a faceless forum, we are so used to reading sad tales that we find good tales strange.

crackkhaus:
Lol, chics...

You must have said these exact same things to yourself when you were with your last boyfriend.
We hope this one marries you.


Bukaty come and talk your own jor.
You know I like to read about your marriage to the first and only man you ever dated. Real stuffz

What are you saying?

KingSatan:
There is nothing contradictory about my post. I told you the truth no one, including women like you will ever tell you.


And I also shared a bit of my marital experience with you guys.

Whenever such questions are thrown to the public, there is always a woman like you who tries so hard to convince the public that she is married to a perfect King, perfectly designed without errors and their relationship is blessed beyond doubts.

Oh I get.
There is no point trying hard when you actually have it.
The truth is, no one has it all, the person that has certain good traits will obviously have some shortcomings but that's not enough for us to ignore the good parts.

I didn't see where you wrote that your wife is a bad woman, you praised her and praised yourself, you should have moved on after writing yours, there's no point looking for sob stories in a good story.

KingSatan:
I knew I would meet your kind.

This is not a thread to breed competition or promote hypocrisy.

You woman are good at dropping lines like these in order to portray the luckiest woman on Earth.



I have been married for over 3 decades and I can say "Marriage is beautiful if both of you love each other truthfully" and are determined to make your marriage work. Though it's not a smooth sail but with a determined spirit, you will conquer all.


You will sometimes fight your extended family because of that woman you love and cherish. Marriage is not for the feeble heart.

I remember one time, I looked straight in her eyes and I saw a helpless woman. I stood up to my late uncle's and told them never to insult my wife again or I stop bearing their surname and cut ties with them forever.


I could remember when i slumped, my wife was crying like I child. I woke up to her screams and tears.

I love my wife and I am without any doubt that she loves me too. I married her because I couldn't imagine living so far away from such beautiful soul. I wanted to have her all to myself and I succeeded.

Today, I don't see the curves (Of course I wasn't interested in all that when I married her) and she isn't seeing the albs, afro hairstyle etc but she is still my "Sexy Amigo".

I will marry her over and over again if given a chance.

Your post is contradictory, I wish I know what side of the fence you belong.

cococandy:
Doesn’t matter what anyone says on this thread, Nairalanders will believe whatever they want to believe. People act like that love to see happily married people but they actually derive more joy from other people’s sadness.

Cue the sad threads that attract more attention versus the good marriage ones which at best are boring for these spectators or as usual will seem like show off to them.

OP there are happily married people everywhere. Yes even on NL. They may not come to this thread to tell you about it. But yes there are.

No matter what they write, we won't stop putting it here if we have good men in our lives, they are used to sad stories forgetting that good stories exist too.


The Op even expects to read stories like, " I will not marry my husband in another life because he is a beast".

YorubaLord:
@Bolded. Those guys ONLY exist in Jupiter.

It's not my fault that you don't possess all of these qualities but be rest assured that there are men who are even more, and yes, mine exists on earth.

One of the many thrash I read on this site.
Local woman is getting fed up.

When you are with a guy who is handsome facially with good physique, beautiful eyes, well behaved, not stingy, respectful, overall sexy and most importantly crazy in love with you. You will never want marriage with any other guy even if you come to this world ten times over.
So I will choose mine over and over and over again.

A woman can be 5 months pregnant and she wouldn't know.

RexTramadol1:
That man is very useless





But you sef, why didn't you take care of your body cos you're a married woman?

Having stretch marks and protruding tummy is not her fault, many are as a result of bringing another life to the world, the life that will not even bear her own name.
Women go through alot just to have a perfect body all because they do not want their husbands to cheat.

No need to teach him any lesson, just Waka your thing and leave, the man-boy is simply not worth it.

In other way though, to avoid the nude leaking, you can involve the police so they pick up the man and his girlfriend let them sign an undertaken they would never leak it online.

Go Mane, God gat you.
I'm your biggest fan

Everything is not big buttocks, just be you and you will find who lovesl you for you.
I must commend the OP whose words to the woman are quite reassuring.

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Why lay a curse on him when you can always leave to start again?

So he left you for eleven months without sex, while he has been having sex with different women?

How have you been coping?
Anyways, allow him sort himself, if you don't have the mind to allow someone else make love to you (there would be another side effect to this) simply get sextoys to help yourself, build your own finance, take care of your look and take care of your children. If he is ready to get erection for you again, he should let you know and any day it happens, do use protection, no go carry HIV like many innocent women before you, no say I no warn you.

TruthTella:
Madam I feel for you honestly
You sound like a very religious person and your husband is taking full advantage of that.
He certainly didn't receive any threats from any woman about destroying his marriage, you think am now, why will the woman do juju that stops him from having sex with you and only you when he has countless other side chics that can take him from her?
He was lying to get your pity and he succeeded. Your orange seller dream was just your mind playing tricks on you because you had been habouring fears that his infidelity will destroy your family. The reason he cannot get erections when having sex with you is because he does not find you attractive AT ALL, you do not excite him sexually and besides he has seen younger tighter vaginas than your own outside which he knows he can easily get.

He is an inconsiderate, lying cheat and you are here talking about praying for him. Sorry oooo
He hasn't slept with you since February and you think you still have a husband, hmm. Sorry.

The unfortunate thing is that he will cheat to his satisfaction and waste money he should be spending on his kids while taking care of side chics and you will be running from pillar to post borrowing money for him thinking he is under a curse until he gets tired in old age or goes bankrupt and then, you will welcome him back with open arms and thank God for bringing your husband back to you and making you the winner in the end.

Religion is really turning people's brains to mushroom in Nigeria.

This is exactly how it happens.

cococandy:
Fairy tales. Obviously concocted post . But a perfect breeding ground for the hypocrites to come and tell you how to win back his cheating soul

If per chance you’re a real person. I pray sense locates you this new year.

Amen ooo

Is this his first time? If No, then nothing should surprise you again, you should be used to it while waiting till he kills you finally.

I don't understand why you still had to attend the party though, so after chopping beating in the presence of your kids, you still had the mind to attend party, who are you trying to impress exactly?

Anyways, when your husband calms down, try and ask him what you did wrong and if he asks you to stay on your lane, make sure you don't leave your lane to avoid more touching stories. While staying on your lane, you should expect more because he doesn't seem remorseful.

LudaChriz:
Simple question, u can not answer correctly

I hope you are normal?
I choose to answer the question I want to, I am not under any obligation to answer what you want to read.

Samakus:
Please specify your MDA and possibly, the amount added to your normal salary, it will add credence to your claims. Merci!!

Level 8, 15k

New Minimum wage has been paid, I received mine on 23rd December 2019..it is not audio.

We will all be here when these two will open each other's fake yanshes.

hadjipapiey:
1. You rarely see your lover in your dreams.


4. 95% of all dreams are quickly forgotten shortly after waking up.

6. We can control our dreams.

7. A lucid dream is one when a dreamer becomes aware that they're in a dream and thus gains control over everything that happens.

11. We are paralyzed during our dreams. The phenomenon is known as REM atonia.

12. Many dreams are common and universal. Common dreams experience include school events, feeling frozen, unable to move, arriving late, being chased, attached and falling.


19. Men get erection in REM (rapid eye movements) sleep.

20. We can not read in dreams, because it depends on the different side of the brain to dream and read.

I think No19 is the reason most men wake up with erection.

I experience others often.

crackhaus:
How on God's beautiful earth are you going to explain away this ignorance if you were given the rest of your life?

It's no ignorance, it's what it is, drawn from experience.
Funnily, one of my friend was good with calculations, top of her class (statistics) , a body to die for and a pretty face but then, she was one of the exceptions.

dochenaj:
I don't agree to this your opinion that mathematically inclined women are ugly.

Where did you even get that idea from?

You can draw your conclusion from engineering classes, there are a few exceptions though.

Jammyudom:
my life,my choice, if you are not interested move on.

I don't understand why you are now angry

Op, that your in between that you've been writing since is "by the way" (BTW).
Good luck in getting your dy/dx woman, it's just that they are mostly ugly facially, rough skin and no touch of class.