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MrBrownJay1:
ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!!
the minute the father said that you guys should cancel the marriage and/or said the negative things about you bla bla bla, thats the moment you should have turned to your wifey and tell her to take a decision.... be with you and to hell with her negative parents OR let her go to her parents and divorce her. basta!

why would you even want to be around a man who has NO RESPECT for you or the relationship you have with his daughter?!?! what kind of woman would even want you to be around this disrespectful man?!?!

you will never win with such mad parents, and should only give respect where respect is due and vice versa.

He didn't consider her parents disrespectful when he was disrespecting himself by using her for papers, he went ahead to marry her secretly and you expect her parents to open their arms and welcome him.


I don't get what you mean by he should give her a choice, like seriously? He should ask her to choose between him or her parents?


I hope the woman realise this USER now and let him go, he will still divorce her over silly issue in the end after he has gotten his full papers and he has nothing to worry about again..mtchheww.

Madam, be not worried about your vagina after delivery, as your husband will still cheat on you if he wants to, lose or tight vagina will not stop him.

They are coming back, interesting times ahead on family section, still expecting others.

Happy birthday to my daddy, llnp sir.

If you like, lock up your wife in the house all day, make her use Nokia touch light and cut away friends and family, if she wants to cheat, she will still cheat.
Don't worry op, you will be fine.

There is nothing we won't read here, how difficult is it for you to call your own dad "daddy", do you have another daddy?

My mom's last live in maid connived with her boyfriend to steal every useful house appliances, we got back home and met the house empty, she even packed utensils like pots, plates and spoons.

I made up my mind never to get one once I'm on my own.

If you have sex with lover boy and you get caught, you have everything to lose while he has nothing to lose.
Your way older husband will still get another younger woman to marry and if you are unlucky, you won't have access to your kids.
Use your head girl, have some patience, wait till you graduate from school, start living with your husband and build a close relationship, you will bring out the baby boy in him and you will be surprised at how much of a lover boy he can be.

Shameless man sleeping with another man's wife leaving his own wife at home.
Who knows though, someone else from Ekiti might be sleeping with Mr Tunde's wife too, what goes around comes around.

madridguy:
Get her ATM card if you know her PIN.

Certain amounts can't be withdrawn over the ATM, he will surely get stuck and the bank will still know.

Whoever she used as her next of kin has a right to the account. S/he will need:
Affidavit of next of kin
Death certificate
Letter of administration by court.
Newspaper publication about what you are about to do.

It is better to go traditional, visit women that sell local herbs, show them, they will recommend the herb you will drink and also use to bath, it will clear off in no time.

Some of us are just lucky to be with sweet man.

I don't understand how a husband will feel it's not manly for him to speak with his wife's parents ven if it's just once in a month but would expect that his wife speak with his own parents all the time.

You trust him, I don't trust him.
I hope they are not having a party yet.
Confront him and see to it that he reduces his closeness with them, you don't trust a goat with a yam.

Like you would know anything happening again once you are dead.

Paternal parts always abandon the child, it's only the maternal parts that shows a child the type of love they would give their sister.

Don't allow our politicians see this

luminouz:


I see Nlanders comments and shake my head. Are these guys not seeing what I'm seeing?


Red fuqin flags everywhere.

1. Proud, provoking stance
2. Initiates sex first stance

Verdict:

She loves conflict, she thrives on it...it stimulates her and when it gets to a crescendo, she must have sex to have a mind blowing release. Women like that have deep psyche issues. They desire being rough handled, roughhoused, even beaten so as to have some measure of self-worth and to respect you as a man. She likely grew up in a home where her dad beat her mum or was broken in by a violent, slugfest loving guy who dominated her for years. This led to a Stockholm syndrome type of disorder that made her love those who torment her and derive sexual pleasure from such violent acts.

Solution:
1. Divorce her....you will need to be violent at intervals to win her respect and even her love. She is wired that way. No amount of useless counselling or prayers will change shiit. If you deny her sex for awhile and she meets a violent mudafvcker outside, the marriage is as good as over.

2. Be Violent: You are likely a nice guy for you to come online to seek opinions but if you want to have her respect. Be rough with her....when she ails you, beat her or dominate her roughly. That's how she respects you. It is wrong for me but it is what it is. Nothing else would work. Once you discipline her roughly, have sex with her and be rough at it. Then watch her do your biddings with a silly smile on her face. When next she fuqs up, repeat the dosage. That's her cure.

N.B: Your kids are all boys and trust me mudafvcker, they are watching. If you choose option 2, their future wives are in trouble because they will think all women love being beaten. And the Violent Circle Continues....

#Luminouznuggets#

How does this even sound to you?
What if he kills her in the process of handling her roughly?
Will you be there to serve the time with him?
Easy on these type of advice.

This one I'm reading "handle her roughly and ask her who is your daddy? "
Rubbish, too much of bluefilm.

Continue starving your wife of sex, I hope you won't come here to open a thread later that "women are scums,i just found out my wife has been cheating on me".
You are married to a human being that has feeling, look for a solution to your sex life [s]unless of course, you may just be sexually attracted to men [/s]

Tell him ASAP, let everything scatter, it will fall back in place, it will only take time. Whatever decision he makes will not change the fact that everything will be alright in the end.

Pafoma:
Thanks for your contribution, these were my exact thoughts when I decided to continue with the relationship especially as i started seeing changes in her but my mind but despite the changes and improvement my mind does not just still have peace no matter how much i try to make it have peace. I have tried many different ways of sparking up the relationship but something just keeps putting doubt and worry on my mind..

The guys are no longer in my circle but i still see them and it will always be like that because we have alot of mutual friends and interwoven circles. I totally get your point but for lack of peace that i have to take that step with her.

If all these keep coming to your mind and you are not at peace in your heart, then let her go, get someone else and start all over, you don't want to wake up beside someone you see your friends banging everyday.
Cheers.

Ugly boy.

Lol, I checked the boy out on Instagram with his one shoe on different aba shirts, I thought to myself that Davido would likely ask him to upgrade.
Life of celebrities, he will have to start spending more on fashion rather than focus on his musical career.
Thank God his own face is even better than that of Aloma

You alone can have your woman's back, you alone can give her respect and have others respect her.
The most important thing is if she is truly changed and remorseful, is she also ready to be loyal?
There are men that married retired sex workers and things work Perfectly, Marriage is like a black-market, you never know what you will meet until you get in there.
Since those people are no longer in your circle even long before you met your fiance, then you may go ahead with her, In the end though, follow whatever your heart tells you.

Misplaced priorities.
Anyways, this can't go beyond the national Assembly for they know it will still come back to haunt them when they eventually become opposition again.

If you will be driving the car for Uber go for it, if not, just go for land, raise the fence and continue with your salary job.

donstan18:
Take this rubbish outta here.


Marriage no get script

It will be rubbish once it's talking about how men should make marriage work rather than leaving all the responsibilities to women.
You will be alright.

This is a funny one, don't I love oyinbo laws?
In my country, even the man that knowingly married a woman and gets her pregnant through peni and puss would still not take responsibility even if he is rich and nothing will happen.

The millionaire should equally sue the woman and make her pay for her act.

The woman was all shades of wrong to have done that, she will surely face the consequence of such action but the man met his own consequence earlier. I do not understand why a man would ask his wife to step out of the car midway, how does he expect the woman to get to their destination? What if she doesn't have any change in her for Tfare? What if she gets into the the hands of one chance boys? What if she falls into an accident prone car? This same type of man would ask his wife to leave his house anytime they have little quarrel.
There are many things patience can resolve, you don't have to order your wife out of the car midway like she's some slave.

He wants you be a Muslim by act and deed, you mentioned that you were not used to praying five times daily and he knows. I bet he has shown you example severally by observing the five daily salat but you still don't get the memo hence his forceful way of ensuring you observe your salat daily. It won't hurt you if you do that, especially if that's what will bring him back to you for now, you will get used to it.
I bet if it's about you wearing skimpy dresses, going down on your knees to pray over a cheating partner, you would do them with ease.