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This lady's (Ex-Gal) version may be true but I must say:

She invested in cash and kind in a relationship that failed.
The relationship eventually didn't work.
She lost her money, not really to the man, and the man.
The Ex-Gal is still a woman scorned.
Don't play the victim card here, especially with me, because you will not win.
She needs to move on and get busy with some other things and pick up the pieces of her life.
She needs to get over Shola, believe in herself, stay hopeful and with faith, she will rise again above the level she was ever.
The Ex-Gal needs to understand that he is married to another woman now, perhaps gone forever and stop wailing.
MOVE ON!

Besides, to Shola I would sound the need for caution; I think Shola needs to be very careful about his treatment of women. I am happy he chose to settle into marriage now so he can become unavailable to other women and become more responsible. Shola, try to meditate and understand the marital vows you swore.

To the lucky Madam that got married to Shola, I will say:
Be cautious in dealing with your husband.
There you have his dirty secrets just in case he never shared the secret with you.
Recognize that there is no perfect man out there and as fate will have it, you already married this one.
I hope you meditate and understand the marital vows you swore.
Shola's weakness and strength is a total package, you can't have either; You married the whole package of Shola!

Yes, I will.

This ranking is questionable though I have limited information about the parameters used to determine it. However, I totally disagree.

How does that bother my life

I am almost certain it wasn't suicide, she must have been on cheap drugs, honestly.

I beg to differ with Reno's view on this case: I strongly believe you can cheat on both a girlfriend (lover) and wife. You ordinarily have a commitment to either of them.

Please note: this is not to excuse cheating!

Tonto is not a serious fellow. Besides, why do I need to comment.

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I believe Senate President Olubukola Saraki is a questionable character judging by the many cases he has pending in court. If, and only if, he is a questionable character, then it is OK to assume that the majority of the members of the Senate are questionable characters. However, they can prove me wrong by impeaching the Senate president.

eameh30:
You have forgotten that sin is desire that superceeds your godly desire When you sin and that is why sin can be committed even when you conscious that it's wrong. So do you think you can get over this spirit on your own without God's assistance? That's why you need the grace of God to help you remove the desire to sin and create in you a desire to live righteous life. The Law is like a mirror, it can tell you how fine you are or how ugly you are but can not wipe away your blemishes, it just expose you but Grace cleanses your blemishes... I was once scared like you but think about this; does your been conscious of the law prevent you from committing sin? Are you living a free life devoid of sin, now that you are very law conscious? Grace is what can free you. D device the devil use against us is guilt and condemnation which we feel when we know we have violated law and that guilt separates us from the loving father who is ever ready with an open arm for us but law didn't show us that loving father and show us that the father is angry at us when we do wrong, meanwhile we are free to enter His warm arm and He will welcome us and takes sinful desire from us when we close to Him. How many of you felt so loved by your earthly father and still want to annoy him?
Let's not try to help God...... Man's wiseness is foolishness in His sight..... Try grace and receive freedom from sin

Well, that is your opinion. Christianity is by personal confession and choice. I have a right to choose what to believe and how to serve God. If I need advice, it will not be yours but that of the Holy Spirit. I don't need you filling my mind with crafty and clever deceit.

eph12:
Summary is that grace came to complement the law not delete it.

You are absolutely on point. You made my day. God bless you.

I am worried about the drastic teaching of righteousness by faith and being born again rather than living a life of consciously avoiding sin. I was at a church gathering recently and was told that a born again christian man who is caught in act of sin just when rapture occurs. I was told he will make heaven.

I chose not to believe it and also not to dwell on that analogy because it is an extreme that only God can tell. The devil is now using the words of God to deceive a lot of us. We need the grace of God to recognise the deceit of the devil.

Jesus Christ is my favorite character

President PMB must be insane to defend Alli on his undisciplined and irresponsible act.

Then start the process of legal separation; put together a referendum. Please go and don't come back.

Adeshina is a man in need of wisdom and manners, I understood that some time back. The tunder wey go fire Adeshina dey warm up to strike. Onisokuso!

As for President Buhari, I can't wait for 2019: we shall take back what we gave to you and present it to a better person. Oloruka to GBA oruka, lobatan! You will realize who get mandate.

I just read the epistle written by Uche and I could only conclude that Uche is sick in the mind besides, if he wants to have a shot at marriage to Tonto, I suspect he will have his day.

As for Tonto Oladunni or Dike, she should go and sort her private matters out and stop giving us information that isn't necessary.

We don't really care if she stays in the marriage or not; it was never our decision.

You did significant damage to your value with the decision to ditch Nigerians on that protest walk. We believed in you but you proved that you can't be trusted and I can't forget your cowardice anytime soon.

Now, this is a big joke! LMAO

Tuface don fall my hand. Tuface, why naa! I am highly disappointed.

Whisperedd:
Good day TNT. Dear FAM, we've all been crazy, but I'm not looking to be judged, I just need your advice on this..I'm 24, from western Nigeria, finished my masters a couple of months back, and my boyfriend who I've been dating for a year, might end up leaving me for my mistake in the past. Back then in my university days, I partied like a maniac, I didn't smoke, but I loved spirits and red wine. The thing is,I had a friend then, Owen, who always asked me out, but I wasn't emotionally attached to him. I know he was a bad influence, but I figured I only had 3 more years to have fun in the university, so I didn't mind. Although it didn't affect my grades, it made me popular for the wrong reasons. One night at our friends party, things got wild, I was high and even took some pills, I guess I got Hot and next thing, we all started making out and it was fun.. I later blacked out, woke up in the morning and met a gory scene. We were all naked, all 10 of us, each girl to a guy, and I slept in Owens arms. I was so upset, I cursed at him, left and headed to the hospital. That was the end of my friendship with Owen, I avoided him till I graduated and traveled out for my masters.I haven't as much as attended a birthday PARTY till date, and I'm really happy with my new life. I met James online, we became friends and started dating, he has lived practically all his life in the states and plans of settling in Nigeria this year. I came back a week ago, so he came to the airport to pick me up with his friend, the same guy he complains that he doesn't like his lifestyle and how whores hover around him and all..that friend is Owen, his childhood friend. FAM, Owen is threatening to break us up, stating that I don't deserve his friend and all. My boyfriend knows that I was once a party freak, but I doubt if he can swallow this gulp, should Owen tell him everything, including that night. The fool still makes silly advances at me and when I turn him down, he keeps assuring me that James would never settle with me, and it would be his word of 28 years against mine of just 1year... What do I do, I've invested my all in this one year of knowing and loving him. @truth_and_tears

Tell James about your escapade with Owen, test his decision to be with you. If he stays, then you have got him forever but if he leaves, get over him and move on.

tuktudicko:
Old man
and still you don't use any part of your brain to think

Yea! Old men's reasoning and opinions hardly makes sense to kids like you. I advice you run along; go play, bully, insult and irritate your mates.

tuktudicko:
Mr man be quiet
if said royalty is paid will any get to you?
or will any be used in the improvement of our economy?

the whole thing still ends in the government's pockets
even the tax we pay is useless you are here talking bout royalty

There are so many children on nairaland these days!

geekybabe:
Which royalty or loyalty should they pay to you? The politicians and lawmakers are they paying you loyalty for not being able to provide basic amenities to run a reality show?? Abeg park well oga. This show is purely business for d producers.

You obviously just felt like writing. Anyway, I didn't say loyalty, rather I said royalty. Royalty in this context is an economic term, maybe you should Google it to get a better understanding.

Naija is a Nigerian brand; it is recognized as another word for Nigeria. So when you choose to use that Brand name along with any other name coined by you, especially to generate income, you have to pay royalty to Nigeria.

Technically, what MNET tried to do is to dodge royalty payment to Nigerian government and also divert all associated business to the Big Brother Naija programme to South Africa.

There may be cases against MNET provided there are laws or requirements of Broadcasting Standards that have been violated due to this business decision.

Wetin Buhari too dey do for hospital? Can't he communicate to Nigerians from hospital so we can be certain that he is good.

litaninja:
Then create the Nigerian environment. The Nigerian reality show. Pay the Nigerian tax. Use the Nigerian Power supply. Run the Nigerian business. Build the Nigerian economy.
You saw NTA there before you subscribed on a South African cable tv provider to watch a South African created show na.....

You have got quite some problems dude! You seem to be low on comprehension and reasoning abilities. I should not bother to engage you in a discussion on this topic or argue with you.

Go for her if you love her enough be your wife

musicwriter:
Yes, I' am a Russian.

Nigeria has created the atmosphere for foreigners to dominate your TV airwaves. And so shall it be, until you're knowledgeable enough to understand you should be blaming your incompetent government, not Multichoice.

Your advice is noted. Thank you.

musicwriter:
Instead of complaining, inform your useless government to create the enabling environment for the TV industry in Nigeria, and you'll see our TV producers also producing "Big brother SA" and hosting it on NTA in Abuja.

I don't think you understand what's going on here, cause if you do you'll understand you can't eat your cake and have it!!.

I already figured you are not a Nigerian. I don't need to convince you but we shall deal with Multichoice appropriately if found guilty of violating or infractions again the Nigerian laws or regulatory broadcasting standards.

musicwriter:
They have also hosted Big brother Africa, Big brother Mozambique, Big brother Angola, e.t.c all in South Africa. It is their show, not ours!!!.

Big Brother Africa encompasses Africa but Big Brother Naija is about Nigeria hence, the opinion of the Nigerian government and stakeholders matters. It is just like making money with someones brand without giving credit to the person or creating benefit for the person. That is very wrong!

pek:
MultiChoice does not owe anyone any explanations. They are not obligated to the Nigerian government. Music videos and products commercials are shot outside of the country yet the products are consumed by Nigerians. The Minister of Information is really dabbling into another man's affairs.

If you operate business in Nigeria and you are under the illusion that you have no obligations to the Nigerian government and stakeholders, you must be out of your mind and your eyes go soon clear when they wield the big stick.