You works are not new and fresh,why not come through with something more original ,I mean something more research.I might wanna work with you. You try though.
Dupalmer: This type of post is the reason why a whole lot of ladies are insolent, obnoxious and only good for bedmatics then remain very single because all the men that come their way will not be be able to keep to her impossible high standards. They will only pretend for a while and have a full share of her body and leave her heartbroken to continue her search for Mr.Jesus Christ. While she's getting older and less appealing. Her exes are going for younger sweet damsels to her chagrin.
Is it the ex's that are been use by the younger damsels,joining them to their chains of boy friends
Single ladies you better be wise. There's no 100percent rosy marriage. Get into marriage and make it work. Ask our our mothers how they did it. Their formula for marriage still works till tomorrow. And our mothers times is today times ba.
Even though I agree that the effort should come from both husband and wife but your commitment as the mother of the house is very important in shaping the home.
The stupid current trend of feminism is the reason for the very high rate of present day marital failures. In most cases its the ladies that take the greater loss.
Which lady takes the greater loss,ogbeni when you marry don't join hand and build your home.be claiming alpha male .and see where it will end you.
It's 100times easier for a man to marry and remarry several times whether as divorcee or polygamist than for a lady to marry even once. (hard fact)
Stop deceiving your self,remarrying numerous times is far worst for a man,do you think the kids will bond with you or their mum,especially a man with such a record,don't end up lonely at 60 cause of cheap ego.
We are Africans for Christ's sake not whites. I repeat single ladies be wise.
Leave the ladies alone and work on your character,they are informed.
chiemmanuel: After everything, those 200 maids won't follow you to your house, its not about a colorful wedding, its about a colorful marriage
What is your own with their marriage,let people be and celebrate events the way they deem fit,after all there is a thread on this forum where some one did his marriage with 29,500, do you think that guarantees happiness, if you think it does then follow and do same ,and let those that have the cash to add glamour do.ignorance,jealousy,bitterness and brokeness are blood brothers.
Lacazette I can now officially call you a man. Men are created to cheat and women are created to be cheated upon.. please continue my man, you do well. That's why you are a striker.. not easy striking multiple hoes pussy.
Hahahahah no dear,is rather the other way round,women are born cheats,and men are created to be cheated upon,how come women term them maga.thank god for culture binding some women if not....I repeat if not ...........and suicide among men for over plenty for woman matter.
donstan18: 7: The babe with cane is seriously showing the current celebrants pepper. Lol.
No joy!!!
I taught you don't like seeing women been in position.my taught was all correct,you ate an igbo dude.sad most Igbo men are mysogist and chauvinist by default.though your hypocritical disposition is on another level
CAPSLOCKED: MARRIAGES FAIL. RELATIONSHIPS FAIL.... WHETHER SINGLE MOM OR NOT.
FROM YOUR NOTE, I'VE CONCLUDED THAT YOU WERE THE PROBLEM IN YOUR MARRIAGE. WITH THE AUTHORITATIVENESS IN YOUR WRITING, THERE'S A CHANCE YOU KEPT MISTREATING HER, EXPECTING HER TO WORSHIP YOU BECAUSE YOU BELIEVE IT'S A FAVOUR YOU'RE DOING HER BY BEING WITH HER.
I'M HAPPY FOR HER WHOEVER SHE IS. PEOPLE DESERVE BETTER THAN PEOPLE LIKE YOU.
I applaud your observations ,I taught I was the only that picked the pointers,dude sounds egoistic and loud.
onyi25: ‘I’d Marry My Side Chic If She Remains Calm While Being Attacked By My Wife’ - Political Analyst, Olushola Olufolabi, Reacts To Viral Video Of Angry Wife Attacking Husband's Lover . . Nigerian political analyst, Olushola Olufolabi has taken to Twitter to react to the viral video of an angry middle aged woman attacking her husband's young side chic at Ikeja city mall in Lagos while the young lady remained calm.
Reacting to the incident, Olushola revealed what he would do if his wife confronts his side chic.
According to him, if his wife disrespects him by making a public show with his side chic, and the lady is able to keep calm, then he is going to upgrade his side chic to his wife.
See how grandpa just ended up disgraceing his family and generation.so at your age you can still keep a side chic.and will want to upgrade if she keeps calm.is this the advice you will dish out to your sons and grandsons.truelly age is just a number.
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The part where the young Lady KNELT DOWN, poured goosebumps all over me. . She didn't run away neither did she dissociate herself from him. She was ready to take anything for the young man, imagine she held the officer to an extent.
Stood by him even when she wasn't suppose to, she even knelt down to plead on his behalf, This one is expensive shaa
It is stage, which sit out in 9ja will military guys show to arrest a yahoo guy and every one will still be sitting cool and not scatter and run from accidental discharge. Nice play.
ARKINZ: I am facing same issues in my relationship but this lady has been with me close to 7yrs. Last year when things a little sore because I almost lost something very crucial and I was down. She came to my house to tell me she is done with me and say alot of things she has been keeping and I tried as a man to control the situation and ask her what is wrong.. which she said She is getting old and she just finished her schooling, now serving. I told her to wait after her service then we do what's needed to be done. Several guys call her then and things lead to things I found out she was dating another guy, which I gather courage and took her on a date and told her my plans and giving her a bit of life and how it works but all to NO Vail.. fast forward to this few months we were together at my Apartment, she silenced all her phones and all calls coming in is sometimes ignored or cut off. Even when she manage to pick one, she is never comfortable picking it.. especially if it is from a Male friend and she act up ( that kinda feelings you give when something is wrong) and I feel that every Goddamn time. This girl I want to marry her and same time scared of what she is going to do next? I dont want to make a big mistake by marrying her then we encounter what we are going through now. This same guy calling her since last year is still calling her and she is still lying to me, I confronted her few days and I am thinking of ending everything today because I am never unfaithful. I need serious advice because anything way want happen way want happen make he happen make one person out millions no spoil my joy because this marriage thing no be moi moi and I dont want a baby mama or something my children will be affected because I passed through same stuff with my parents.
you are the one the OP wrote the article for,please read the article again so that you can comprehend better.why keep someone for 7years and still expect faithfulness.dude end the relationship and move on,cause from your write up another 5years you will still be on default.
Rapmoney: Recently, I was having a discussion with a younger colleague who confided in me about some relationship issues he has been having with his girlfriend of 4 years.
They young man was of the opinion that his girlfriend has been cheating on him. According to him, she receives long and suspicious calls from 'male admirers' and this gives him worries that she could fall for any of them anytime soon. He had accosted her several times about this act and it had always ended with the response that they are 'mere admirers' and this has led to numerous quarrels between them. Some even turned physical!!!
First, I tried as much as possible to be very objective and logical. I really did not want to be biased despite the work relationship we share. As a realist, I would always state the truth even if it comes out bitter like the gall of a chicken.
From what he told me, he has been dating the girl for 4 years. I asked him if he had made any concrete plan towards tying the knot with her and his response was a negative one. After 4 years, you still dey calculate, dey estimate and approximate whether na she go be your wife or not. Ogbeni, which level you sef dey operate on? I made him to understand that problems are either caused by commission or omission. In his case, the inability or reluctance (omission) to define the relationship and attach a final destination to it through concrete visible plans is the remote cause of the problems.
Women are like flowers; they blossom today and wither away soonest when they are not plucked. You cannot date a lady for years without any concrete plans of marrying her and still turn around and accuse her of cheating on you. What would you expect her to do? If she pressures you to do the needful, you will still be the one who will quickly see her as someone trying to chain you down with marriage.
We should accept truths, no matter how painful they are. I am not in support of cheating in relationships but you do not have any right as a man, be it customary, legal or religious to demand faithfulness from a lady if you are not formally engaged to her. If the finance to coordinate a family is absent and she understands that, two of you can put heads together to see how to reach a compromise. If she is not in, then leave her and let her find her way. Don't leave her on the fence. Work harder and smarter and create a life for yourself.
Marriage is not for boys and girls. Nor be bobo and cheeseballs business. You might make her miss eligible suitors. You should not be the one to be blamed if things later go south for her.
If your inability to tie the knot stems from the fact that you are still young and want to enjoy your life, then you have no business with committed relationships. Get yourself a fvckmate on contract basis to satisfy your sexual urge. E nor dey expensive. If your inability stems from the fact that you are still watching to know whether she is the one or not after couple of years, you are not a serious fellow! Na spectator you be? Let her go. Don't be an obstacle to her marital prospects. You have no authority backed by law or custom to go haywire if you suspect she is cheating on you. My brother, her papa and mama nor know you. Na who bring drinks and kolanut come deh know. Nor be fight.
The socio-economic system witnessed by our parents is far different from what is obtainable today. Things are really not smooth for many young people. Na the one you know you sabi.
This ugly situation has made it difficult for many young ladies to meet eligible suitors. Gone are the days when people date for 7years, 8 years and 10 years. Making your girlfriend commit to only you for couple of years without her seeing any good plan of a future together with you is as bad as evil.
Time waits for nobody. If e no gree you do, ogbeni leave am. Somebody dey for everybody.
@op am with you on this one. you wrote every woman mind.a lot of selfish guys around will never read and comprehend. more ink to your pen.
Madibah: At first I'm dedicating my FTC to Americans rip in advance And as for teebliz he should have seen this coming ,u can manage a totally and rudely behaved hypocrite for Christ sake,tacha is just a hoe or maybe he his just trying to get a share out of the smelling pvssy Sha .. We can't say bcuz cat can't pursue a rat without a purpose of eating it ... definitely teebliz get beta plan to Nack am
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Dead on arrival, sounds more financial than what you mention. Work on the name.
[quote author=milemimi93 post=85495171]My First Date In 2020. What A Nigerian Lady Did.
What happened yesterday left me in shock. I least expected it. Not from a Nigerian lady.
Yesterday I went to visit a lady in her state. Arriving her state, I told her I've dropped. She texted me to go to an eatery and wait for her. I didn't want to spend much on her so I asked for an average eatery bought a drink and waited for her. She came and told me she didn't like the place that it was crowded. She took me to one bigger eatery within there. Just as I entered the eatery I said to my self "I ain't spending more than 5k here". We sat and she called the waiter and asked me to make my order I told her to make first. She ordered for food and drinks for herself. I later ordered for mine. What I ordered outweigh hers in price because I said to myself "I can't spend less on me and more on a leech".
After eating we sat down to gist. Along the line I felt pressed and I went to the gent. Came back gist and it was time to go. I went to the waiter asked her how much the bill is. She said 11,600. I pulled out my purse to get my card I heard the waiter said "She has paid". I asked "She? who?" She said "the lady you followed paid". I was shocked and felt ashamed.
Since I was born, this is the first time a Nigerian girl has ever spent on me .[/quote
Please where in osun state ,eating in an eatery cost 11k plus.OP take it easy biko.
landmark86: Am a fresh graduate that just got a job with a private organisation. Last month I was transferred from our headquarters to one of our branches here in Akure, Ondo State.
I stay in my elder sister's house right now cos I moved in last year December but have met with an agent who promise to get me a good apartment soonest.
To cut my story short, my sister has a house girl/lady which was so caring to me. Am 29yrs and still single not that I have never dated before, just that it never worked well while I was in school.
The house maid of my sister is 25yrs and a school cert holder but due to some reasons she couldn't further her education but still willing if she can get help.
She's a pretty, caring, very neat and also intelligent. And my sister also takes her as a sister not an house help.
Lastly weekend, my sister came back from an event and saw me and her catching some fun (I mean gisting and playing games) in the house and she got provoked.
She called me in and asked what is the relationship between me and her but I told her the basic truth that though we are just friends but I wish I could date her and my sister shouted on me NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Not even when am alive.
Now I keep asking my self some question; Is house help not a human being? Is it a crime in dating/marry them? Is it a crime for a graduate to marry non graduate/illiterate ?
Please help a brother cos am in love with her. Thank you.
You sound classless and cheap,common dude who act this way,just getting to your sister house ,and the next thing boooooom you got eyes on her maid.can't you find ladies in your social class. Let your cheapness not put you in a mess the respond/action of the maid to you is not love but gratitude.once you upgrade her I bet you ,you will not like the new her.
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Forex trading.when the market is stable from the brokerplatform manager to the bank manager you cash out from want to identify with you.you automatically become a celebrity.
funmisticqueen: fact of life, money changes both men and women because it comes with control. It's human nature
Your wife is not emasculating you, you are just losing control of the power and finances in the family. Do you know how much BS women tolerate from men in marriages because he earns more?
Uncle, go and hustle or give your pants over to your wife and stop complaining
Thiwalade: for someone like you, I don't deserve love or relationship at this time? You lack foresight honestly? 2 years from now my PhD won't be a waste and I may earn more than the BSc collecting 100k? FYI, I left an 100k job to continue on my dreams. Didn't stop my lady from believing in me.
And if I may ask how are catering for your Lady, boy don't be deceive she has a side guy picking her bills,only waiting for jungle to mature so that she let go and hang on you fully ,use your brain. Even at a PhD level you still sound dumb.
wrongnumber: If a lady has the number of kids she can take care of why not?
Are single mothers committing suicide cos they have no husbands? Abeg talk another story. Many women are even breadwinners today taking care of the children and even the husband.
Toks made perfect sense with this piece. My mum told me If she looked at my father's behaviour she will not even give birth to me but she did and took care of us successfully and yes she is happy.
Is Linda ikeji, Genevive,iyvone jekede and their likes unhappy? I think ladies arguing this write up are dumb.
Hmmmm another brain dead spotted.so you mean this ladies are not happy because they don't have a man in their life ba,boy what is more important to a woman is her children and not necessary the man ,go and double check.this ladies you mention have children.so they are very OK.and making pileing the mulas.
Toks2008: I honestly don't know what they expect me to start writing...
That a woman should leave her marriage because a man cheats on her? All these relationship experts that preach such are not only evil but clueless and foolish.
Rather than waste my time writing futile sermons on why men must be faithful to their wives I chose to write about how women can be the best they can regardless and they have issues with that...is that not lame?
It will amaze you that many ladies forming Amazons online are actually side dish of one married man who is not even taking good care of them.
You are brain dead,so when a man comes back and infect his wife with HIV she should still remain with him because of the kids,do you even know what you are vomiting from your mouth,how about the ladies he might likely impregnate outside,how does a woman raise the children in that kind of setting.a randy and abusesive father roll in one ,and you think the kids will be OK because their mother ignore their Father right.it is issues like this that make grown children raise hands on their father.with this kind of mind sett a peaceful home is very far from you.and to think you are a man almost 50yrs is a cry for help.
LilMissFavvy: write threads on how men can become better partners, leave women. How experienced are you on marital issues? You know nothing about marriage. All you know is to teach men how to oppress women. Nonsense.
Don't mind him ,this is a man that the wife left him with his only daughter, instead of him to focus on making up with his wife and kid,he is here on women matter,awon eyan 19bc.
pocohantas: Your husband is only being human. Not everyone can handle a mentally ill partner, even though we all hope to have a partner who can do that for us.
Most times I have seen sick married women- they were always shipped back to their parents house for proper care. The ones with elderly kids were moved to their sons house. Nothing new there. How it changed the dynamics of their marriage is what I don't know. However, they never ended their marriages.
Sis, You fall my hand for this your write up.how many women leave their sick husband to his misfortune, please tell me.mean while she developed this illness giving birth to their second child. @op your husband is insensitive and inconsiderate, and it also shows there is no love between you two.follow your heart if your heart says stay then stay and endure but if not then move.God please save women from inconsiderate and loveless union ijn.
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