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Igbojihadist:
come out make we run am live no be online matter

Am already out there dear,point me the location.

No to defilement.

Justice

you were naive and stupid (stupid) slow at thinking. Your friend friend wanted to see you downstairs at the bar,and suddenly he appeared by his room door and you entered. Though rape is bad.but girls really need to be smarter.

CAPSLOCKED:
EVEN IF SHE WAS WALKING NAKED SHE HAD THE RIGHT TO LIVE HOW SHE WANTS AND NOT GET MOLESTED BY IDĮOTS.

God bless you brother.

pinkbarby:
Khafi spoke like a true Queen and I love how she appreciated tacha .

Mehn these girls are truly big very big...

Big big big.

Classy amazing Queens I stan harder.

We don't see them oo.

We keep moving.

My girls( tacha&Khafi) have gotten bigger and better.

Yea been strong and focus ,see and hear no haters. Forward ever

iCauseTrouble:
Rape is bad and a total no for a real niggar.
Guys should learn how to channel their sexual energies and urges into more productive things.

2face will look up your thread inciting guys to rap .hypocrite

Devil has no free gift

Hoephase:
Of course you won't see the ones being killed in SA. Or the ones that are running amork in the UK. .

Please make una no start this una yeye tribal nonsense.

Come UK here make you see wetin our SW brothers dey do here you go weep for them.

Go check the name of the drug traffickers that are in the UAE and tell me who is dragging first position with the Northerners there if not the SW.

There are bad Nigerians everywhere as well as the good ones.

So this is not the time to bring your ethnic bull shit into this.

What evidence do you have that the guy was guilty of what he was accused of?

Is that not how you guys always accuse every nice looking guy of being a cultism or yahoo yahoo guy until people like you killed 3 innocent young boys in aluu.

You had better stop supporting evil hence it will consume you some day.

The 3 aluu guys were cultist go and check.and also don't forget they were caught with a short gun.Nigerians hustling outside the shores what are they hustling,if not drug,yahoo aka dating scam.the guy you quoted is not far from the truth.

jidxin:
Wow, you lack information, wouldn't it had been better to keep quiet than confirming how shallow your knowledge is. 1. there is no justification for beating up one's parent. 2. Almajiris were not created for lack of money but the parent sent them down to learn Islamic study from all over Africa, I met some and they were from neighbouring countries for Islamic training

You better learn now or you might end up a victim tomorrow. The children of this generation are not smiling.if not you go collect straight up.

A lot of in responsible fathers deserve this.you can't go out and hustle for your family but you can stand an erection.sad

2buffagain:
- They were lovers, but never friends
- had no shared interests
- No shared long term vision besides sex, swag and/or "I want to have children".
- Ignored the red flags.
- More focus on the wedding than on the life that follows (This one is huge for girls)

More huge for men dear, cause the men code is ,men marry down .so I wonder how one can marry down and forget the long run.e.g a working class guy dating a year one student.even mett a polish banker dateing an ssce holder selling at main market.even my neighbour a well groom lawyer almost married a garri seller all in the name of I can control and mould her to what I want,so dear which is more huge hmmm

Helios85447:
at least they are in it for his wallet and he is having his fun driving them like okada on the bed so its a win win ......just live a happy life ooo but that is why pple prefer to do baby mama stuff this generation don spoil no be small

Funny dude,you mean a man at 50 driving them like okada,is a man at 50 not a suppose grand father,haa the joke is on you.another note on baby mamas ,as a man life will humble from 60 without a family.will you still be wearing Nike and chinos trouser charting up the girls and how about your engine room will it still kick as expected. A sad end awaits you.

Gforce2015:
My brother, I agree with you 100%
But what we have in some of this good-for-nothing Naija babes are holes. Holes is the only value they can afford to bring to the table...
To be serious, if relationships are built on " having what you expect from your partner" all these one-day marriages wouldn't be happening...but one partner married the other for benefits....some jobless ladies will do all that they can to marry a rich dude. The question is this; what improvement do they want to bring to that guy:s life other than fucking......

And what improvement was he looking for going for her kind.you attract your kind.

KingSatan:
As a man, a father and a grandfather. I have lived life to an extent and this is my view on this subject.

The previous thread was simple and concise, "Never marry a woman who has no means of income".

But that is the truth!

Gone are the days when people marry "Obiageri's" according to the Igbos.
Back then, things weren't this bad. Considering the family setting in those days, women had no other role than to cook, birth, raise children and clean the house.

So their parents prepare them for marriage, teach them how to cook, satisfy a man and raise children. They also spend alot of time grooming their hairs, taking care of their skin (Some parents send their children to fattening rooms) and waiting to get married.

When we got married, we married to keep them at home and show off to our friends. Only a few of us married because of love. Some of our partners were not our choice but our parents.

So when you marry, your wife and children should always reflect your wealth and networth. Most especially, YOUR WIFE.

I repeat, back then things were not this bad and everyone knew their roles.

But in today's world, so many things have changed.

Women should bring to the table as much as they expect from the man.

Raising children costs alot of money and shouldn't be the responsibility of the man alone.

So many marriages have crashed on the alter of poverty or "One stream of income".

We must learn to tell ourselves the truth always.

Back then, you don't spend so much to raise a child. If he or she wants to go to the community school or follow the white man's way of life, you send them as a punishment. But those humble and loyal sons, follow you to the farm and when they come of age, you give them farmlands and wives if possible. But that's not the case anymore.

Apart from formal education abroad, I also encouraged my children to learn sellable skills. One of my son is a fashion designer and that is what puts food on his table in the UK. His college degree only reflects on his call cards.

I told this to my children (Daughters inclusive) never to marry a man or woman who has no verifiable means of income.

Money is needed to run a home in the 21st century. Alot of money!

We no longer live in mud houses or drink from pots.

As for "Entitlement", I think every couple should have that mentality depending on the context.

The man is entitled to his wife's emotional commitment. She is his wife and this also applies to the man.

I am tired of typing.

To be truthful, i warned my son's against mingling with an average African woman. They simply don't want to know the truth. They hate the truth with Passion and that is why true feminism failed woefully here.

In the Diaspora, most men who want peace of mind avoid African women because of their "Entitlement Mentality" and how exploitative they are.

Many of these women don't work but enjoy proceeds of child support from numerous partners. You think it's a coincidence? No it not. It was deliberate.

They just want to seat at home, get fat, enlarge their butts and walk up and down the street like a pussy cat that resides in Buckingham Palace.

Should I talk about Nigeria, where you meet an average Nigerian lady and realise that;

1. She is a college graduate because a "Man" sponsored her in school (Both of them are no longer together as a couple).

2. She has a roof over her head because a "Man" made that available (She has no intention of marrying him).

3. She uses the best smartphone because a "Man" bought it for her (Just another random man).

4. She has clothes on her body because a "Man" gave her money for shopping (Obviously he is "One of those mugus".

5. She has food on her table because so many men send her money.

This same woman has no other skill but sexual skills. The only thing she can offer is "Sexual Intercourse", "Birthing Children" and "Companionship" but she expects the man to "Mark her birthdays with a brand new Escalade", "Buy her parents a new house and train her younger ones in school". Is that not exploitation?

This same woman hates her mother inlaw because she sees her as her rival. Anyway, women have always hated themselves from time immemorial, don't get moved when you see them shout in solidarity, it's just for a few seconds.

When asked about their contribution in the relationship or Marriage, some will say "I birthed children for him". But that's your natural default woman!

Even if you sleep with a sexually active mad man, you will get pregnant and birth for him.

Some will even say, "I satisfy him sexually. I gave him my body and soul". But that is same thing you did with your numerous ex lovers.

According to Pastor Sam Adeyemi, he said "If a woman does not help her husband financially, then how else does she want to help him".

In this age and time, it takes two adults who have a verifiable means of income to build a healthy family.


Cheers!

Well said and written, I applaud you.but please also echoe it to the male folks, that they should kill the notion that men marry down but should rather marry their social class with this in place the narrative will certainly change.because the parasitic ladies they claim are every where is as a result of men marrying down.l repeat look up your class.

Hezmatosky:
Leaving your marriage is a dent in a woman's life. I have seen a sweet family after many years of marital violence. Think twice bfor leaving

You are sick and damage, guess your growing up was not far fetch from an abusive setting, the one you saw was lucky to stay alive,many are gone.really sad for the woman in your space.

Mindlog:
Some of the reasons are low self-esteem, low self-worth and the thought that they can't earn to take care of self and the children. Socialization has also played a role in some women believing that there is heroism in enduring abusive marriage, many grew up seeing their own mothers hanging on to abusive marriages and most times still got to "outlive" their abusive fathers. "So if my mother survived my father, I can also survive my abusive husband".

Any woman who hangs on to an abusive marriage with the excuse that she is still there because of her children is living in self-denial as she is using the children as a cover up for her fear of leaving "the comfort zone".

A dysfunctional family is a fertile ground to raise children who would have a higher chance of growing up into damaged adults and the sad circle continues.

A broken home is not only where one of the parent is no longer in the daily life of the spouse and the child(ren) between them but also where both parents are under the same roof but toxic is the atmosphere in the home.

You have said it all.thank you

HarunaWest:
I will buy a piggy bank tomorrow mehn..I realized i spend every change that comes my way..

But aboki Don save naaa,they carry their money in their danshiki.

HarunaWest:
Help me ask him ooo..how can man be talking of discolouration on his chest for God sake when no be gay. If na woman now, i for undertand cos they always use the mirror...I cant even remember when last checked my chest for anything, wetin concern Agbero with Overload.

That guy is a clean guy not an aboki,he knows the Worth of having a clean skin,blemish free.an aboki will never understand.

ericsmith:
Lets stop fooling ourselves, those i mentioned qualified as poor men cos dey experienced poverty. my mechanic has two wives, these a guy i help frm time 2 time, @times i ask how he manage, even as a bachelor the amount i spend scares me .... buh they are surviving
The fact is no matter your income there is a woman out there that will accept you. even beggars av wife, every leg has a shoe size just find your size.

Then how come the op is complaining that the ladies are not taking him serious, or does it not done on you that the op has taste for women.may be your class of women are not his.since every leg has a shoe size try and get him an eka-ete maid they always bond well with a mai-guard.

Holumhidey:
You wen wan form revenge, he bestie come Bleep you for free...... Girls get fish brain sha, and the painful thing be say them dey think say them wise.....

Yes revenge is sweeter with some one he knows,there is no fish brain here and also better than stabbing him.

Edusouls:
Chai some women don see bulshit in the name of marriage, na person daughter dey do this thing?

And when they result into stabbing you still blame them.sad

Freeeanijor:
This marriage is not by force, it's better to be single with baby and be happy than to have your hands stained with blood. The government and God Almighty the father of all creation will not have it easy with you.
A lot of women have made peace with men's nature and some of this laid back traditional women are teaching there daughters so that they can have a family with rest of mind even when faced with evidence of cheating by the husband. They have built an abscess of the mind so as to live not just to survive.
If your husband doesn't cheat it's because of his religious molding or plainly a personal choice. All men have the potential of cheating, sometime not even voluntery. It was man that God instructed to procreate implanting in him a reservoir of testetorone that can last him a lifetime.
1 Corinthians 11:8-10 For man did not come from woman, but woman came from man. 9 And what is more, man was not created for the sake of the woman, but woman for the sake of the man. 10 That is why the woman ought to have a sign of authority on her head, because of the angels.

Women are like a careful wrapped and sealed gift (hymen) to be delivered to a celebrant (dick) it's the job of the woman to pray that the promiscuous man don't come her way.

No matter how women kill men on ground of infidelity, it wouldn't scare or stop men from possessing there possession.

So why do men cry a river when women cheat or don't you think what is good for the goose is equally good for the gander.to be honest to you feeling is same.the same urged you have towards the opposite sex is the feeling your woman has too even double.and with this present generation cheating is free for all.

Sparro:
I fear for the next generation of men. All these women are now potential murderers. Killing is now a thing of pride. What happens to other alternatives at your disposal?

Dear men, before you marry, pls, pray and be very alert as to whom you are getting married to. Any clue that connects her to been a murderer should not be taken lightly.

I have two boys. I will make sure I protect them from all these daughters of jezebel.
You kill my son for whatever reason in the world, you and the entire systems that brought you to this world will pay for it.

No wonder men no longer take interest in thus dirty institution of marriage

Please beg your boys to behave ,if not they will certainly get the daggers.girls are not smileing

Randy100:
Thank you. I experience this accusation and it hurt trying to prove to her that I don't cheat. I just love kissing women on the cheek, that doesn't mean I am cheating. Thank you again.

You don't cheat but was ready to bounce on a 19yr old teenager. Men and lies are like 5&6
https://www.nairaland.com/5866625/encounter-highly-intelligent-girl

Charisma01:
Imagine, 355 likes for this devilish comment.
The punishment for sleeping with another mans wife na fast fast.
You will regret it.

Why bother my dear,fast forward a few years from now,they will run back here and open another thread,how life is difficult for them,things are not working out bla bla forgetting their past life.karma is sure for real

PapaNnamdi:
Op, I was once in your shoes,
and I will tell u point blank
a time will come when she will be infuriated by ur presence, that is if u don't dance to her tune,


so I will just say this,
if you don't fucc her, u will loose the job


if u fucc her u may or may not loose the job,



I will advice u fucc her well, and start looking for another job, or saving money for business

When you say fucc her well ,you amuse me what if his size can not carry the task.or do you think every man na man down there