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MrBrownJay1:
by their reply, thou shall know them!!!!
sista, just because you have the same failed mindset as the lost babe mentioned in this thread, shouldnt be a reason to attack me for telling you the truth. the bitter truth is that, if you really believe that all women are like this dirty olosho, then YOU must be one of them babes handing your toto over daily to any man with money.

REPENT child before you kill that poor toto.

No dear you are the one not braceing reality.I still repeat the truth is bitter try and manage it.

MrBrownJay1:
no man in his right mind would want to jeopardize a biz he built for years, by messing around with women he employs.

For your mind oooh

NextD18:
Pete Edochie my mentor A.k.a Slayer of Nigerian iddiotic feminist!

His advice "Don't kneel to propose to any woman" remains the way forward!

Happy Birthday Odogwu nwoke!

Aka jide akpu, egwu atuo ofe

I wish you long life and prosperous days ahead!

May you keep advising the youth of these days on what is needed and obtainable in a family.

Sad change is in evitable ,and change is here to stay.if you can not brace up with the change ,you have no business existing.

MrBrownJay1:
25 dudes punishing the toto on a monthly basis.... kai she just has enough days off for her period, and back to work again. that poor coochie will be dead in no time. this olosho job is not easy as many want to make it seem.

Because she came out real,the one you call a girlfriend, are you truely sure she is not doing x2 of this on code.the truth is bitter manage it.

careytommy37:
Only that babe in white make sense

None of the men make sense.too many papa mmadu with pregnancy.

Jestin:
No cute babe in the background....only evening newspaper and old layers. Don’t quote me pls coz i am hiding from uncle Coronavirus

Same oooh,no correct dude in the background only pregnant men ,all them papa shangoes with sexual drug enhancers third leg. Were are the bearded men them,chistle trim body in fitted senators outfit.too many papa mmadu in the background. I tire

Dottore:
This is Chris Rock in 2012.

Did you accompany J.Lopez the day she went under the knife?

What has home training got to do with pointing out the obvious truth about Nigerian ladies. If you are proud of your looks then post your picture with age let's start with that. Are you also wondering why Nigerian grandfathers both rich and poor still prefer to get married to girls in their 20s.
Worn out ladies usually cry foul, they think men are distorted and warped and all that but fresh girls don't.

And when they marry young girls in their 20s the start gulping sex enhancing pills to keep the third leg alert and die of cadiarh arrest right.last last the worn out ladies will bring in succour when the young girls finish work.

safarigirl:
giving birth to four children is NOT an excuse to lose shape. You people should stop encouraging this narrative, it is similar to the false narrative that all men cheat.

Heidi Klum has 5 children and she remains slender as ever, Josh Chambers' wife has five, she dey as she dey. Beyonce has three, still in shape. Ufuoma has two, still has a banging body. Chioma has at least three, still looks good. Busola Dakolo has three, and her body Is still great.

It is not the children that has the woman in that shape, it is lack of exercise and dieting, poor feeding habit, and/or genetics. Childbirth does not make you fat and shapeless. Now, you can say she is like that because she has no time to herself (but she clearly has time to know who is giving her husband anal, and how to track the person), or you can say she lacks the motivation to be in shape as well.

But, you see, the issue here is, her husband likes to have anal sex and she doesn't. The sidechick looks NOTHING like her, when a man cheats on your stark opposite, it is a cause for concern, because then, you either married a man that has no spec, or you married a man that was never really attracted to you.

Either way, neither of the women covered themselves in glory in this instance, and it is worse for the wife. The sidechick will possibly get a husband despite her transgressions, after chopping the hisband's money, but the wife will fight many more side chicks, assuming her husband doesn't leave her.

Your accession is very lame,so many factors can make a woman loose shape, now what if the husband says no maid in the house,and she is the only one careing for four kids,can she really have time for work out.do you no how kids can ware you out.
What if the man does not provide adequately .
Looking at the woman in the picture does she look like someone into if anything developmental to her life.
Never be hasty to judge,rather pray for a man that will love and respect you.he will never bring you disrespect or put you in a hurting situation..

kunletexs:
Am speechless for this writeup. Why?

1. If a lady could write objectively then there are still good hopes
2. For their daughter to know the standing order of how the sharing would go down implies that they don tay for that price.

Thanks for adding the writeup to my mental things to do in marriage.

By the way, op, you be single. Make we start something now

You are also part of the problem.re -read the article again.the op is a male with a female moniker. Or you wanna fling a man.

pocohantas:
The perfect definition actually. Cheating husband, no funds... very submissive/supportive wife.

Happy birthday to her. We need more women like her in the society.

Nne ,eke adim no money ,yet you are cheating and misbehaving. Hmmmm God really bless you with a good woman.if not sorry would have change your surname followed by enough STDs from both ends.even as she is suffering with you,you are still adding more pains.and if this is what it takes to be a virtouse woman,please parcel it well and keep it in your portmanto.and beside your wife has low self esteem.happy birthday woman.

Funny this was my Nysc camp,that year.

englishmart:
Raped you, like forcefully ate his own food? That's untenable in the court of law

Reading is really a case for a black man.
Try and comprehend what she wrote,then put your sister in her shoes,then you can finally reply all the best. .

healthserve:
Elder remove the apology you were accurate. Don't dilute the truth i beg you. This is a wicked heartlesss soul here

Nothing like a wicked heartless soul.you don't force people to love and be attracted to another,it has to come from the inside.men love been fooled.a lot of men really need to come woke in relationships,just because a girl steps in and do your laundry doesn't mean she loves you.you need to look deeper.

SocialJustice:
Weakling trying to sound strong and informed. The woman doesn't have to be silent and unseen but she must know her place. She is not created equal with the man and the man must also know his office. The man abdicating his office and making himself equal to the woman is the worst thing to have happened to humanity.

Good thing there are some of us left who know what thde man is and what the woman is.

And where is the place of a woman? by been coward,Sad you just have to deal with the truth.the modern day women is too empowered to be in your league.but the good news is ,if grandmum is still existing in the village she can arange you a nice /homely girl from the village but be rest assured that one day she will be woke by her environment and also get empowered with or without you and become the mordern day woman.is just the sad truth

SocialJustice:
Lol, please go visit twitter and see how pathetic and weak men have become.

How have they become weak and pathetic ? It is what this generation has brought forth , sad you cant turn back the hands of time to our mothers time.where women were seen and not heard. Note our mothers were not empowered.the melinia women are more woke,empowered, opinionated and enlighten,so it is difficult to dominate and control.and this is what you call weak and pathetic, the only thing that is constant is change and more change is coming.

BRATISLAVA:
To be polite, cradle snatching. Why are you scared of women your age? They aren't as naïve? That age gap has its flaws. It means that when the woman is born, the man is already a teenager. Imagine him dating a new born baby. What do they really have in common if not list on his part? To have a gross old man pampering them? What even makes you think young women are attracted to older men, if not that the older men pursue them like their lives depend on it because they lust after their bodies?

Thank you dear1 ,I must say this man toks2008 is a phidophile.and he has a daughter not even up to 7yrs.now if I may ask ? Can he allow a man 17yrs older than his daughter date his daughter and he will be comfortable with the union. Why dish out what you cant take.such a hotie and dramatic fellow.

Toks2008:
Without thinking twice I knew this came from a lady and most likely a lame one with no brain...the type that can never be taken serious by any sane man.

How unfortunate is that guy that will think he has a reasonable lady not knowing you are a sorry case.

If you use just the little brain you have to follow my comment you will realize that you just made a fool of yourself.

If you quote me again I will give you some words that will make you see sniper as fruit juice. Arindin.

Do you now see how lost you are,you even mentioned how your own strayed and yet you are adviceing him to go get it.the one you got did she stay with you.just read what you just vomited.always bitter at every mention ,no wonder she left.sad for any female in your space.phidophile

Orpe7:
I am 36yrs and 9 yrs older than my wife
Those that answer your Q

And was your wife 19yrs when you both got married.does that answer your IQ.

Toks2008:
Don't you know that one the reasons young ladies cry of heartbreak is because they get involved with men too young to know what they really want?

Yes in some cases it is not about age but the truth is that age gap is a great factor.

A lady can be older than her man don't get me wrong and love is not about age but understanding and connection but nevertheless it is better for a young girl in her adult teens or early 20s to be with a man that is at least 8 or 10years older..
Why?

1. In most cases, the guy will adore her like a kid sis and will cope with her nastiness compared to a younger guy who is just about her age.

2. By the time the lady is in her mid 20s the guy is probably ready to take her home if she proves to be a good lady.

3. A 30 year old guy dating a 20 or 22year old lady will likely be stable enough financially, psychologically...to support the lady.

4. Ladies love to be pampered and they can get that easily from a guy who is quite older and not their peers that are probably still as childish as them.

5. Guys naturally get the kick when they know a girl is very younger than them and this spark will continue for a long time at least I am a testimony to this...

I can go on and on listing the benefits and guess what; the reason why ladies fall for married men easily is because married men are so mature mentally and they sure know how to take care of a woman and unfortunately ladies are wired to love a man that takes good care of them regardless of his marital status but the good thing is that girls experience same care from men who are considerably older than them.

My advise to adult teenage girls and those in their 20s is that they meticulously choose a guy who is at least 7 to 10years older or even more if they truly want to enjoy bliss.

This is my personal opinion and I think lalasticlala should consider this for front page so that young ladies can benefit from this no holds barr expose.
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You know all this and yet your marriage failed.@op let that teenager go and go for a lady in your social class.there are ladies of 25yrs that also doing well in there careers and business not a teenager that is just cracking out of her shell and how are you sure is love and not infatuation/fantasies.

dominique:
So basically, the only parent that should be making sacrifices for the kids is the mother. So what exactly should the father be responsible for apart from the finances? Even the financial responsibility sef is being shared by the mother these days. You call yourselves the head of the family yet it's your wives' efforts holding your family together. Once the wife is fed up, packs and leave, most of them become a mess. See the one taking little kids to a lewd hotel of all places. He's now concocting stories about how his wife left him to gain sympathy since we cannot hear the wife's side of the story. Women hardly leave because their husbands suddenly got broke, they leave after they've been frustrated by their broke husbands.

Puting up with a broke guy is the worst thing that can happen to any woman,his frustration is on you,toxic character,aggression,drunkenness need I mention more.hear the woman side make you fear fear.

Daddy rest on,you came and you showed up.rest on

back2sender:
My prayer for you is that you will always be jumping from one man's bed to another in the name of an advocate for happiness in marriage, Oya say Amen!
All this oloshoism Animashaun

Funny you,the husband quickly got married after their separation,monks like you saw nothing wrong about it,but immediately the woman found love and a new man all in one,here you are vomiting .thank God for the melinia women ,they are wiser , stronger and growing in strength,and this a lot of you chauvinist can't stand.congrats fathia much love and peace to you.

APCNig:
Girlfriends are just there to put spice into your sex life, nothing more. Just fucck for some months and move on to the next victim. Despite the fact that adultery is bad, very very bad, but the reality of life is that men get bored of their wives and want to spice up their sex drive once in a while, that is what side chick are there for. Never ever marry a side chick. If you do the mistake of marrying her, after few years, you will get tired of her and look for another girl to spice up your sexual appeal. A side chick should remain a side chick until you are do ne with her and move to the next.

Sad same with women ,they also get bored with one particular D...K ,but the money and the Comfort keeps them glued.they also want to spice up their sex life once in a while.thats why when the money finish they jappa ,moveing on to spice up their sex life and get the good life.so never be fooled that is only a man that get bored,it swings both ways

Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend who I really love so much, we were friends before I started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring, love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.

I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me. I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed up of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.

Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her?

Hmmmm dear op,do you really have what it takes to keep and be with a beautiful woman,truthfully 80% of beautiful women are slay queens and they are not down to earth cause of too much attention from opposite sex.are you handsome and rich.why do men always look for unrest when God bless has already bless them with rest.hook up badoo lots of pretty/beautiful woman but note in the long run you will no how far and how well.

Celebrities don't learn,one moment you are spending big and blowing up projects,doing big things and the next moment you broke and hideing.this same dude rented a whole cinema hall to watch a movie and now look at him today. Everyone have there season make effective use of your season,can he now compete with naira Marley and co.really sad

OgbanjeProphet:
Oga if you know wetin good for you, just let that woman enjoy her marriage. You are the only one that can save her.

After my girl married, she would call, chat and text me. But I discovered that each time we talked or chat, she would complain about her marriage, young marriage for that matter. She used to like me and I like her above every woman I have met so far, even till now.

In order to save her and her marriage, I started blocking her numbers and her social media accounts. At first she was stubborn. She would call with another numbers or create new accounts just to get in contact with me.

So one day she asked me why I had suddenly hated her so much. My reply was that I never liked her in the first place and that she irritated me very much. And that was the last time I heard from her.

It pains me that I could send to her such hurtful text, but I did it to save her marriage.

The last time I asked after her from her younger ones, I was told she was doing very well in her marriage.

Because I love her with all my heart, I got to save her marriage.

So guy, save that young woman too.

Which marriage are you saving,if there was a marriage in the first place she wouldn't be charting with you .sad she will still go hunting for comfort else where. Stop deceiving your self.

MedicH:
The ultimate guide to parenting is when a mom and dad allows an 8 year old to sleep in same bed with them listen to yourself. Even it's very risky for the 7 months child because either of them can turn and compress a limb or arm and it's an accident that can deform that child. What happens to keeping the older in a separate room and the baby in a crib in the same room. A lot of women today are stupid and selfish but even u saying this nonsense if you dare tow this woman's path and frustrate your husband to go find side chick, you will start a war with the side chick in public without shame and u will lose that war a thousand times over then your life would be made desolate.

Hmmmm dude you are really low IQ wise I must say,so the end point of every marital issues in a home is the man getting a side chic,I laugh,and fighting a side chic without shame,hmmmm ,you are nuts,come forth with something more reasonable and leave side chic matter cause if we want to go there,marriage go crash,even as( an after 3) if you know,I get over 10hits a day from men like you.so who will a man play down with a side chic.I repeat let men tone down on their selfishness so that they can enjoy their marriage.

bukatyne:
You have no inkling about what marriage is.

By the time the husband grows cold and gets used to surviving the marriage emotionally without her, I hope she marries those kids.

If she not behaving like Alpha & Omega over those kids, she would actually get her husband to be more participatory if it is an issue.

Anty read the op naration again and again,if he wanted to participate in the parenting he would have done that.he his more concern about his third leg.and if he was participating in the parenting there would have been room for sex.a lot of guys really need to tone down on their selfishness in marriage ,cause the institution comes with a lot of sacrifice.

WowSweetGuy:
see peruzzi ma junior student for cdss ikeja don turn big boy

Then try and hook him up,make you for no come carry last for life.