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Mcslize:
It's your fault. Most of you ladies like forming champion even when you love a guy, always waiting for the guy to be the one to reach out to you. Common checking on a guy you're in a relationship with, you girls can't reach out to the person you claimed you love. How many times do you reach out to him? How many times do you check on him if he is still alive? Do you know what he has been passing through? Are you aware of his worries? Do you call him to find out how life is treating him?

Relationship is two ways directions. It is reciprocal. Don't always sit on the fence waiting for your man to reach out to you before you reach out to him. Don't always wait for your man to reach out to you before finding out how life is treating him. Majority of you girls don't know how to care for a man. We men want to be shown love too.

The only thing that will make a man to stop talking to you is if you are just there contributing nothing to his life. But you want him to keep chasing you, professing unrealistic love to you while sitting right there folding your hands. No text, no call and you expect the man to waste his time with you. No way.

The only thing that will make someone you've spent 5 years with to stop talking to you is because you as a lady is not playing your role. You are not reaching out to him to check on him as often as you should for someone who truly wants to build a future with a man. He sees that you are just there always wanting him to be the one to do all the communications and building of the relationship. Don't blame the gentle man.

He must have found someone else who is doing all that you are not doing for him. What does it take to communicate with your man and always get involved in his life? It takes nothing - absolutely nothing. But you girls will be feeling like Queens of the coast putting all the work of maintaining a relationship on a man without doing nothing.

Do you truly expect such a man to choose you as a partner? What makes men choose women for wives is how supportive they are to men. Men choose women for life partner based on how supportive they can be to them.

In those days we see supportive fiancées and that makes men take such ladies for wives cuz they are supportive and not parasitics. They give good advice to their men and encourage them to attain higher feats in life. If a man do not see you as the supportive type, he will surely not take you seriously.

Brace yourself up and move on my sister. When you see the next man, learn how to fully get involved in his life. It will make make a man see you as the serious type.

Really sound like a frustrated broke guy ,that lost a girl out of brokeness .
Its well with your soul just double your hustle,then may be the next girl will stay.

jflexy:
Says a lady who can't afford ₦100 airtime, whose father is owing ₦50 bicycle ticket fee to the village taskforce.

A broke man shouldn't date, but a broke ass lady can?
Don't go and work, be there waiting for a rich guy to "dash" you money

The truth is a broke guy should forget relationship and concentrate on making money,you no why,no matter how a girl appear loyal and doesn't complain,don't be fool.she has a side kick,she is holding it down with financially. Why frustrate your life,channel all your effort and energy onto your hustle and make it count.let the bitches be.sexual relationship is not for broke guys.word

cybriz82:
Just to use d girl as toothpaste then spit it out...

Hahahah don't be fool she might want to use him and get to davido.

Adrian98:
Techno Pouvoir one for sale 27k

When the new pouvoir 3 is 25k.

SultanOfAbia:
Men are BLESSED

We can Bleep at any age.. No menopause

At 99 yrs We can still pregnant a woman

Fear Men!!!.

Don't be deceived the men are been used. There is no love.

AmazingELixir:
Op try and get the Twitter accounts of the Abia state first lady and the ministry of women affairs Abia state also tag Lindaikeji's account, just paste this your write up there I'm sure they will be very swift in response and the chances of providing the mother and child an apartment is very likely.

That bloody rapist will not go Scot free.i just can't understand why our society is so harsh toward the female gender especially the girl child.

I'm so disturbed in the spirit by that poor little girl's travails even the mother can't defend her child because of poverty.

Please help him do it please.

nrexzy:
Hmmm
If ur not giving them a new accommodation please stay d f##k away from their business... Sometimes life isn't fair allow nature play it's cause..

Are you OK,so because he is not offering accommodation,he should turn a blind eye.do you realize the sexual torture the poor girl is going through,a mere 15yr old.where is your heart?

iammo:




these girls are addicted to pastor totoyinbo, many years after the sexcapade, they still roam around his domain

Imagine my fiancee telling me she went to visit her alleged abuser , it would surely drop my ego

Now i fully understand my rapist friend back in the university... all his victims always come back to him, and he laughs at us that dont get rough with ladies as fools

PS: i see many comments praising ese and i feel like reminding you what happened

*Ese was Fatoyinbos P.A
*They had a seminar in London and went together
*Fatoyinbo invited her to his hotel room
*Ese claimed Fatoyinbo made a move on her telling her he finds her attractive
*Ese also claimed she couldnt resist his advances as she was shocked and froze
*Ese subsequently visited Fatoyinbo and they had henesey and made love on other ocassion
*Few months later, Ese made a post on feeling "manipulated and used sexually" by Fatoyinbo and trended a while

Now lets define sexual expliotation : Sexual exploitation is an act or acts committed through non-consensual abuse or exploitation of another person's sexuality for the purpose of sexual gratification, financial gain, personal benefit or advantage, or any other non-legitimate purpose

key word here non consensual

Rape definition is - unlawful sexual activity and usually sexual intercourse carried
out forcibly or under threat of injury against a person's will

key words threat, force ,


To the guys who support emotional blackmail because a lady shed few tears just remember Adam was a victim and that manipulation earned humanity a big curse, Joseph in the bible was also a victim, same as Akon, Neymar and many unknown guys in prison or with ruined life.. keep supporting this monster of an angry woman and we would all pay dearly.. your sons and brothers are not safe



..

And the moral of your story is what ?

DOMINGOPAPI:
A great product of Unilorin. Better by Far. RIP Prof

.Meanwhile
am a Lawyer and I am 32. From a struggling home. I had a modest growing up and I worked hard to make a 3rd Class Degree at a Federal University, I didn't go to Law school afterward but eventually got called to Bar years after.

My uncle that promised me a placement died Months before I got called to the Nigeria Bar.

Prior to that I have an ACCA Certificate in International Financial Reporting. I have done all I can to get a job but I have been unlucky with that too.

Last year I managed raise over 400,000 to travel to Europe and I was duped.

I worked with few Lawyers here in a sleepy state capital in the South West of the Country and I am living terribly ,maybe worse than a lot of school leavers. All I have to myself is a small office space, my certificates and my strong but failing heart.

I am tired, depressed, frustrated and suicidal. I don't know how to continue living. I am fed up and fast going down the drain.

I need Prayers, Job, encouragement advice and any support and assistance whatsoever.

I am at a very dark position in my life and I am weary and presently secluded from people.

Please Help.

Check my signature for contact. I am also on WhatsApp

Go to mfm you are under a dark covering.

Incandescent:
Love or hate her but you can't deny that this chic is a star

My dear,diamond glitter most in the dark,so no matter the mud they throw,body odour,hoelosho,dumb girl etl.she will still shine.more blessing to you tacha.

computergeek:
Of course my son will not be returning there, and we're in Enugu state.

Haaa east,east is well known for domestic violence dear.guess the guy is an anambra man.the guys with over bloted ego.

sulasa07:
It really shows something is wrong with them or they've turned to Lesbos.Trust me,its either of the aforementioned

And why does it hurts,so much when a woman leaves.taught the significant other is the Alfa male.he should brace up and also move on.or is it about the ego,she left rather than he left.hmmmm

ozueozue:
HEAR YOURSELF SO U CAN NOT SACRIFICE YOUR ALL FOR YOUR KID[s] SPIT ON YOURSELF

Which sacrifice? Boy you will die and go,the children will move on,nothing quantify peace of mind.keep sacrificing you only live once.

donstan18:
They always claim to be better when divorced.

Because truelly they are better.

GrabHisBalls:
Are you Tacha? You clearly sound like her. Calm down! There's no war here. You can't tell me what/what not to say. Look at you defending someone who picks on people 'cause that's her own way of hiding her insecurities.
You can't laugh at me na! Your brain didn't tell you it's auto correct mistake and you had to quote me stating that while you just refuted something you emboldened. To what end was that? Before you correct people, make sure you're faultless. I care less about her fame and that's why I can't follow her likes. You're bitter over someone that has no fùcking idea of your existence. Social media insults are hypothesis and that's why once I sense a moniker to be abusive, I ignore. If someone thinks I am stupid, he/she has to prove it psychological evaluation before I can take such a person seriously. Else, abuse is a waste of time.

That said, we can't all be celebrities or sign endorsement deals. I guess you missed out on that.

I've given you enough attention. Have a nice day.

You sound too bitter of tacha success,calm down life na turn by turn your turn go come.diamond will glitter even in dirt mud.

Hmmmm this life,and this was the same guy that dance in iyanya kurukere video.Niko he should remember iyanya.
And by the way where is iyanya,this life sha.

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Rachele:
only the women in your life and family has the bad luck syndrome.

nairalander pls watch this viviko guy,i be like say as yahoo don they close na visa dis guy wan take make am.olu maintain say na yahozeee how we go call visa vizazeee.this viviko guy na barawo

you guys should allow the guy go,if your brother is not making it does not mean he will not.as their faces are different so are thier problem and lucks.for the girl asking why the guys are leaving.wetin be your own you wan marry.

we deserve worst,we always think we are smart at everything,see what it has cost,every nigerian is seen as a dupe.from top to bottom.all thanks to the big politicians and our dearest yahoo boys down to nigerian home movies.which really projects nigerians as ritualist and 419ers.then our gbogbotigbo brothers trying to survive out side by all means.where any thing goes to make it happen.my dear you dont expect less.

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my brother i tire ooh.china is small,you need to check out what nigerians are doing in ghana,in every crime there is a nigerian.and this is a country we drove the citizens away from our country.now we go back to steal from them,hmmmmm what a shameless country called 9ja

check your senses right when next you want to start a thread.you have no right to tell people how to live their lives.do you no the numbers of 9jas in the uk,for your info 70% are doing very well.if you are not making it out,my brother pls pls come back home.lets those that are ready to rough it out do so ok.dont scare people away why you are still there.i have hear a lot of this crap from you guys in uk always jabbing how tough uk and the entire europe is,but yet you guys are still there.come back home and tell me the story and i will listen better bro.

you guys should all keep your dirty trap shut,thats how you guys cost problem for others with thrash talk,do you no how many nigerians are in china doing businesses,the same restaurant you mention,go to beiljine and you will find lots of nigerians restaurants,which is flourishing very well,owned and run by 9jas.how about india,even vietnam go and see what the igbo brothers are doing there.if you have enough to go and invest or hustle out the cash in the asian region fine and ok.dont condem any one ok.one minute is an igbo man grabing all the contract the next minute an hausa man or a yoruba man,now the chinese,for heaven sake is a free world.provided you are financially capable you can do business any where ok.its a free world,pls post better thread.and let me warn you,when you throw stone in a crowded market be mindful it could hit your very own.

my dear 86666 God bless you for the check up on the scamers,this is the problem with people,most times it amazes me how people can be so guliable and foolish and the level of education they have attended not withstanding.its only desperado that can be fooled in a scam like this. pick your dictionary and check the meaning of scholarship.and why must it be for nigerians alone. thank you.for the scammers you will always be disgrace this way ole.

Now you see why i will always be a rebel,this auditorium is the biggest in the world abi,but if we all take a walk to this man community we not even get clean drinking water not to talk of general bore hole for the community to get water from,how will we ever make up the MDGs,you see why nigeria is the 6th richest and the third poorest nation.flyboumyancy will kill us.VISIONLESS.

my dear,calabar is an ok town no doubt i come from there,most guys are really exagerating.the truth is ,its a place for fun,when your money finish you waka,but to think you can hustle and make it in calabar forget it,cost of living is not different from portharcourt,accomodation is even higher than port harcourt.the people are no much different from ghanians,is just all about haveing fun with your cash.enough groove.and the people are not hustlers they take life one day at a time,and dont really travel far.if you wan groove go get it.but business i cant say.