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[quote author=Jokerman post=85009404]You be Ode. So I see my wife chatting with one man, so I shouldn't get to know because it's friendly??

I bought new SIM cards for my wife
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Wife or maid?

habebe1:
People keep bashing OP, insecure bla bla bla... But the question is a genuine one. Serious messed up shit is happening out there. So what if he is insecure? Prevention is better than cure.

To answer your question OP. There is no guarantee and no wife friendly jobs. It all depends on the individual. My advice, have a life outside of marriage and don't let your happiness depend on fidelity of your wife. Human beings are messed up. You won't be the first or last a woman cheats on if it happens. It's not the end of the world.

I like your home truth,but sad a lot of men will not agree with you.adult will always go for what ever they want inrespective of gender.

cerpvad:
I don't support hundred percent that a woman should do corporate job, especially if she will be earning more than her husband. The consequences are multifaceted. It is either she loses respect for her husband or she blackmails him that he is irresponsible whenever he is broke and could not meet up with financial responsibility. She can also start cheating on the husband in that situation

Did she tie your hands and legs,not to step up your game as a man.
Imagine stopping a woman from working,hmmmm this one pass gadafi and libia.oga search your village for your soul mate it will work,but not the city.

lonelydora:
Congratulations Uriel, but also remember that "The beauty of a woman is her husband"

I guess the women that were sent to their early grave via domestic violent ,went with the beauty

mikeywise:
why will a man knock a grown up woman repeatedly on the head? Run for your life now that you can.

Na him Pickin bros

vickydankal:
I believe you. I think the husband is not honoured adequately. It is like a tank. Not just respect but honour. Make him your king. In my village the best way to control a man (Husband) is to allow him to be the man, honour him, respect, and submit to him totally. Then he will unconsciously hand over the kingdom to you. Check between Vasti and Queen Esther in the bible. Honour was what dethroned one and enthroned the other. Have ever heard 'His wife is controlling him' this is one of the keys to do that.

You mean ego massage,for this melinia .

GrabHisBalls:
You need to rephrase the emboldened to 'whenever you guys have disagreements which subsequent leads to a quarrel'.

Firstly, your marriage has lasted a decade so you should know your husband more than anyone. If you really need a solution, then you should look inward to see if there are things you do or say to him that he finds disrespecting. There lies one of your solutions.

Secondly, you're obviously bitter your husband didn't call your family when you lost your dad. Have you found out from him why he didn't? Did your family offend him in any way? And even if he was offended, nothing justifies not sharing his condolence at that time. Regardless, you have to forgive him in order to have a peaceful marriage since he's your husband.

Lastly, you don't have to be scared if you've been in your best behavior or get angry when it's demanded. Your kids are actually seeing everything and know quite a lot if you're thinking they don't. When your husband is in his best mood, you should have a talk with him to resolve these underlying issues before they'll escalate to something irreconcilable.

You are a bigger joker yourself,a father Inlaw died and no regard was shown,please where are you from.she should find out what please.I pray such doesn't come your way.things we read this days,I tire walai

imiski:
If you were a guy or have male friends you would delete this rubbish.

She will do no such thing.are you supporting the man for hiting his wife,let him too test a slap from a fellow man and let see how it feels.he is lucky the wife is soft ,some women will retaliate back and he will then show that real man power(nonsense) at the end of the fight one person will go down,and it could be him don't doubt.stupid egoistic monkeys every where.

MhannyEra:
Nigerian actress Angela Okorie, who was recently attacked by hired assassins on the highway, as several bullets were fired at her vehicle totally destroying it, by God's grace she survived that attack with severe injuries, and was rushed to the hospital.
She has returned today being Sunday, to give all thanks to God for saving her life, as she shares a post of an X-ray showing several bullets that was fired into her head but didn't penetrate.


She wrote, “Undiluted grace will never stop to exist in my home,
10 bullets was removed from my head and 2 bullets close to my eyes,
God alone deserves all the glory and honor
You are God all by your self,
I am a child of Grace
Thank you lord
Nothing in this world will ever make me ungrateful for all you’ve done in my life
And family,
The assasins kept on shooting for 30 minutes, No help from anywhere,
No human came for our rescue
Only God came for our Rescue
#epaindem
#protectmelord

Come on live now and worship with us, immediately after the live I will be receiving calls to speak to few people, because I might not be able to speak with everybody, God is in control”.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B6FkU5_lrws/

https://www.newsbroadcast.com.ng/2019/12/10-bullets-removed-from-my-head-2.html

They pellets not bullets,bullet for don rip your skull.in all we thank God.

SmellingAnus:
Relationship is actually not for struggling guys... Being a side guy or toto warmer is the best position a struggling guy should occupy... Lol... If not you will wake up one day and your babe I s gone with another man....

In Naija apart from the very few faithful relationship which is rare to find; we have two other types of relationship a guy can get into..

1. Main guy with her but she have other side guys...

2. Side guy with her but she have other side guys and a main guy...

God bless you for this bitter truth,which most guys will never accept.you shall no the truth and the truth shall sett you free.

inspirator1:
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Woman you are married and by now you should know there are limits to shenanigans. Like someone said you are "lucky" some men will assume worst is going on. You just gave him a levarage against you. Please don't listen to anyone that says its not wrong (what you did), cause the won't be there to tell you that is wrong to be sent packing (when the matter degenerates to the worst). Madam find way to restitute, this is not time for fault finding in him o.

Send parking as in how.can't she afford her own creep.

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angelEmade:
uhmmm too razz

Just because he told him the bitter truth.

WeedSeller:
Hello everyone
This happened not too long. I was on my bed when I started receiving debit alerts which started
with #100#400#800#1100 till it got to 6k and I noticed it was coming from flutterwave eti osa. ATM has been quickly blocked tho but Money aside I really want to know if anyone has experience this. What the hell is flutterwave eti osa fraud ?

I have not made any transaction for few days now so I legit don't know how this came about.

They just debited me of 6k when I don't even use my ATM.

izzou:
That's one fact about life almost everyone doesn't understand

People have their choices and priorities in life.

She wanted a career, not marriage. And she's happy about it. Everyone has their own definition and version of happiness

So no need to remind her about menopause. She wasn't interested from the beginning

God bless you

donstan18:
You can deceive people with photo effect, but can't deceive menopause.

No let jealousy kill you brother,you way pack children full house,how far for life.gorrilad with coins

Zombiekiller010:
Take her back, be using her to pass time steady steady, don't give her what you can't afford to loose, don't take her serious and don't complain on anything she is doing wrongly,
Raise another relationship with a lady and make sure that relationship end up in marriage, dump you ex few weeks to when you're about to settle down , break up with her .Moving into marriage with a loyal lady is how you can pay her back, she will be heartbroken while you laugh last

And who is the loyal lady,the one he got when (food Don Don for fire) truth is that it is difficult for a broke guy to keep a relationship and expect loyalty from his partner,make this money and all will fall in place, he is now in abuja abi abuja chic go soon show,is about the money because the money brings comfort which every woman crave for there is no loyalty.
@op enjoy your new status food Don Don,abuja slay queens over to you guys.
Who no like better thing ?
Bolanle like better thing.

Mykelhendriz:
Nice one yobo choosing well

Not him but his money,don't forget AdaEze was once a beauty queen,with a breathing account you will also choose well.

lalasticlala:
Marvin Records boss, Don Jazzy, turned 37 today and he is celebrating it in style by unveiling the new Marvin headquarters.

Don Jazzy shared video and photos of the new Marvin headquarters/offices with this write up:




https://www.instagram.com/p/B5UuNjIn3Cn/

Watch the video below

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WNtNTbYAtRU

With this pix dude is in his fortis

popsy2:
women, anything just to please us.

Taaaaa who be you na your money.

SouthSouth1914:
My girlfriend caught me recently. She says she can’t breakup.., she says she is still in the relationship! But I don’t want to date myself..

Thank god you.

Sunrise258:
What nonsense. See how he was deformed for ordinarily cheating on his wife? One thing women don't know is men naturally like variety. If your husband is not cheating on you, then he has so many struggle eating him up. Man will naturally cheat, even many pastors.

My dear,not just men women like variety more naturally,if you haven't caught her doesn't mean she is not cheating,every one just need to adopt tolerance and where you can't you move.
Who no like better thing
Bolanle like better thing.

VicSanTROUBLE:
When you're rich, the kind of friends you've will be in the same level with you.....

chai even Emoney comment ...
kcee - even tell em say PROBLEM

Prettymike

Thank you for this comment ,you see when you tell broke guys to concentrate hustle and make money,they become paranoid,come down on their generation with causes,but the bitter truth is only a broke guy will hang around a broke guy not to mention the females.money is it my bro.make the money and they will come,forget about people been fake or not ,just enjoy the moment life is too short.
You either make money or die trying.

chihes:
My sister, I think the only reason why he insists you do the house chores is because he doesn't want you to start rubbing shoulder with him as the head of the family. He understands your job very well and he knows your king of work as you said needs a house assistance. But he still wants you controlled on house things, not for any other reason, but there this kind of feeling in a man when they say you should stop and you stopped. He's no longer working for now, he stays at home always, yet he refused to assist at home...my dear, that is men for you(though only one out of 100 may be different). He doesn't hate you, or enjoys you taking care of all the responsibilities, but its their nature. After all, didn't he allow the house helps before he lost his job. The only solution to this is to keep talking to him about your stress lovingly. Tell him he's still your head no matter what. When he sees your attitude towards him is still submissive and humble, he will allow you have your way. You can never force a man to bend...lie lie, it's against their nature, the best way to get a man by your side is showing him plenty care and submission. Mind you, you are not a fool when you still show him care and love despite you are the one providing, but that is the only way you can make a man do what you want. Above all, keep praying.

Ori e yi lorun e.

Now am sorry for saying this.
Have you come across a phrase alpha male,you think the op been humble and submissive will soften him.hmmmm story for the gods,she will only end up bloating is ego and doubling is dominance and arrogance, @op ignore the above please it work in 19bc and not this 21st century.I repeat ori e yi lorun e.and finally am sorry no offence.