₦airaland Forum

rockmite:
In totality, the killing of Deborah is condemnable. It is cruel and wicked.

However, let's respect other people cultures and ways of life. It is important.
If you are a southerner who understands Hausa like me, when you listen to the audio released u will realise that the lady actually transgressed and went too far.

They told her to withdraw the abuse on their prophet and apologize, she started saying Holy Ghost Fire, nothing will happen (ba abunde se Gary) and flagrantly refused.
The said lady was an extremist and a provoker.

U can't go to Vatican city and abuse Pope and tell them nothing will happen.
The words "nothing will happen" aggravated d situation.
Some Christians are so insensitive and guilty of this assault.
These guys have red line, avoid it for peaceful co-existence.

Exceed15:
But they can burn churches
How else do u dishonour Jesus you claim to respect... hypocrite

Kazeem47:
NO SANE MUSLIM CAN TALK BAD ABOUT JESUS CHRIST,SO DON'T TALK BAD ABOUT PROPHET MUHAMMAD (S.A.W.).
For those that listened to the voice note of late Deborah,you can clearly hear some of her colleagues(which I believed are of the Christian faith too) warning her in the background about what she was about to post to the group chat.They knew they are in an environment that have different types of Muslims;the Extremists,Those on drugs e.t.c.They knew it won't end well but she still went ahead and post it.In the voice note,there was a point where she talk about Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W.) which I believe no Muslim in his her or her right sense can refer to Jesus Christ like that;even Boko Haram Terrorists don't use to talk Ill about Jesus Christ no matter what.Any Muslim that talk Ill about Jesus Christ has disobeyed God,the Books, Messengers and the Prophets.
If Deborah listened to the warning of her colleagues she would be alive today. Na stubborn fly dey follow dead body enter grave.Had it been she listened to her colleagues warning,all this will not be happening.
BTW,those that beat and burned her are supposed to take her to the appropriate authority and not to take the law into their hands.

einsteine:
She probably bore the boy when she was close to menopause. Such women are likely to give Down's syndrome.

Every fertile man is mathematically guaranteed to have male children. However, the quality of a woman's eggs will decline with age so a man having issues of female only children would need to change women after a while. The younger the better.

That said, there isn't really a good reason for fixating on having male children.

candidladyTemp:
Your friend should be happy he got no male child

Having six blessing is something one should be happy bout. Imagine having six kids all boys. °•°what a curse•••° God forbid I'd sacrifice em to the gods of the land. Even one sef I'd sacrifice him

How can one be praying to have a fruitless tree after having six fruitful beings

Ba lafia for your friend

beautyhd:
Six kids and the first child is only 8 years.

Op, you are a wicked man for subjecting that woman to pregnancy and it’s stress almost every year in the quest of having a male child, no time for her to recuperate from the stress of previous pregnancies.
That wasn’t enough for you and you threatened her not to come home after the fifth girl.

You don’t need an advice, you are simply inhumane because if you get a male child those female children will be left to cater for themselves.

If you like marry 3 more wives join, you will never get a male child.

I believe if she were to be financially independent, she wouldn’t have birthed more than four. Only God knows the insults you must have bee heaping on her for something that is entirely your fault.

Notyourtype:
Hello Guys,

Is it even possible to have up to six kids without having a male child?

I have a friend, who wanted to have only 4 kids. He's now counting six and will count more because he has refused to have a male child.

When the wife gave birth to the fifth child, then my friend was very anxious to having a male child. But as soon as the news got to him that his wife gave birth to another female child, he send a message to his wife at the hospital not to come to his house with the child. He said his wife has a curse on her, that is why she refused to give birth to a male child. We had to beg him before he allowed his wife home.

The issure now is that his wife just gave birth to the sixth child again today, and another female child. He his just very confused right now.

He just told me now that people says the fault his not from her wife but rather on his side. And he want me to help him on what the problem is.

Pls nlanders, what do you think is the problem, and how can he give birth to a male child?

vickydevoka:
Women always Blame me for their problems . Especially black women. I just hate any woman with black skin. Their reasoning towards life sucks

Islandlady:

I can't imagine the pain and agony the parents and siblings are passing through just imagining the gluesome and painful way she died is unbearable!

May the true God give them the fortitude and strength to bare the loss.

PeaceJoyLove:
Any group of people who have moslims in their nation is unfortunate. This is the pure truth.

I tell people to always be careful. It is not worth debating with moslims. Not at all.

Omihanifa:
This one that is known for always telling lies

Nah so she lie the other day say she dey make
5 million everyday from her hair products way she dey sell, even ebuka was shocked when she said it during their reunion

When it became obvious that she was lying she had to twist the story and apologized that she hoped to be making 5 million per day in future for her sales.

onthehill:
Mixed reactions trailed the report that Big Brother Naija star, Erica Nlewedim's outfit to the 2022 African Magic Viewers Choice Award (AMVCA) reportedly costs $794,000, IGBERETV reports.

Erica and other celebrities attended the eight edition of the award event in different stunning outfits.

A fan page of the reality star, sparked reactions with the claims of the outfit rocked by the brand influencer to cost $794,000.



https://twitter.com/ScorpStarr/status/1525566374302474240?s=19

See reactions that followed below.

https://igberetvnews.com/1420025/nigerians-react-ericas-outfit-amvca-reportedly-costs-794000-photos/

Lalasticlala
Mynd44

God1000:
I have signed it

She deserves justice.

I implore all the female nairalanders to sign this petition.

Bmaster:
i am sorry to say this,but deborah died as a result of shenanigans.

How on earth is a 200L student not wise enough to know her limits when dealing with people ?

A true christian respects other people's choice of god while technically letting them know about his God(christ) in the most modest way.that's by the way.

I pray the perpetrators of such heinous act be brought to justice.

skoskosko:

skoskosko:
Really? I never knew. Thanks for sharing. No one has monopoly over insults and violence, you have been running mad, insulting everyone here, and simply because they kept you quiet, you continue to rave mad. Just like the woman in the story until you are tamed.

Omihanifa:
Mumu people

Instead of them to come together and protest against insecurity, banditry, endemic hunger, drug abuse. They are busy carrying Islam on their head

If not that Nigeria is a useless country, how can you kill someone and still have the mind to be protesting everywhere, killing southerners and destroying their businesses

It's the Christians that are even suppose to be doing what they are doing but we get sense Pass them

ibechris:
I can see how painful it is...

People like u can't amount to anything because insulting people u don't know runs in ur family.

I got no surprise here.

Joezinho:
Is it from his heart?

Abokii na abokii.. Mtchewwww

Christianity has had the advantage of being tamed by the Enlightenment..

Today, if you insulted JESUS, printed HIS face on toilet paper, or urinated on a Bible, you would be hated but unharmed.

Take this same attitude to Sokoto, and you would get slaughtered like a pig. And we have to renounce our beliefs on NL before we comment on their mumu threads..

skoskosko:
After going through all you wrote, I understood your frustrations. You have been running amok telling people shatap. I saw you fell right into the category that has done so much albeit unsuccessfully to rationalize her bad behaviors, the bitter women class. Most probably one of the bitter feminists who are here pursuing gender support. I am happy you rightly unknowingly called the wife a LIABILITY/LEECH to the husband that she is. I unfortunately could not find how you managed to equate the husband to Deborah’s killers. So you do not know that domestic violence is not gender based. You clearly don’t know the husband has rights to self defense. In other to prove he is not violent, he has to endure a slap today, tomorrow the monster he failed to tame will graduate from slap to stab in his sleep. Try harder, this attempt was lame.

DeLaRue:
I suspect there's a lot more to it than just the issue of buying rice.

1. I suspect pent up frustration on the part of your wife, probably to do with staying at home doing nothing. She needs to find a job, however small, just to get her out of the house and increase her sense of worth.

2. That your wife slapped you, and you in turn whipped her with cable wire suggests there's is a history of physical altercation between you. The slap should not be viewed in isolation.

3. Any man that hits his wife with a cable wire has a violent streak in him. To flog her so violently with such horrible material is inexcusable. Your wife slapped you, so what? Be so upset as to call the parents, may be even ask for a separation. That's fine. But beat her with cable wire? No responsible man does that.

4. You have money to pay to arrest someone, stay overnight in a hotel and pay for sex, but no money to help your wife plan her life so she too can have a sense of self worth. If a woman is left at home all day, what else will she do other than house work, care for your child, and watch TV. But you are angry she watches TV.

5. No responsible man, however angry he gets with his wife goes to hotel and sleeps with a prostitute, and be so grossly reckless as to do it a 2nd time. Meaning the prostitute was lying their with you in the bed for a while...ewwww. I suspect you have a history of sleeping with people outside your marriage thus undermining the time, energy, love, affection and tolerance that your wife needs and deserves.

Whether you take a 2nd wife (that's up to you) or choose to work at your relationship with your wife, one thing you must understand is, you need to help the woman you choose to spend the rest of your life with, to make a success of her own life outside of being just a wife.

A happy wife will most likely make a happy home for you and your children.

A woman doesn't just wake up one day and slap her husband. Your wife is frustrated. Frustrated by you. That's not to say her behaviour is excusable.

tonididdy:
I stand to be corrected but na SAPA dey cause see finish for marriage.
@OP so on one night you spent at least 30,000 but you couldn't spare yourself all the disrespect and give her the money for the bag of rice besides she's looking out for the good of the family with all that prayer house visits

skoskosko:
what I observed about the ladies in NL.
70% seem very bitter and low on IQ. In their little mind, a woman can never go wrong. They would manipulate any story to suit their gender support mindset. I am happy men are no longer silent and speaking up too. Below are some of their twist to the tale.
To some, the Op is a smooth talker, so the story might not be correct, I don’t know if Seun now pays for stories, to some, if he could afford police, hotel, Olosho, why not just fund her stupidity for peace to reign, to some, the man has no rights to self defense, his woman has rights to provocations and first attacks, he should SIMPLY walk away, to some, it’s another women bashing thread, to some, the Op is immature.

Non of them could muster the decency to call a spade a spade. So long a woman is involved, they must play the victim game, they must show their manipulative tendencies, they must find twists and turns. They had no words for the fighter woman. Imagine the roles are reversed, and it was the woman whose money was being discussed, they will denigrate the man for attempting to question how she spends her money. Non could even speak against her slapping first which qualifies as domestic violence which is not gender based, they are simply rationalizing her actions as prayers for progress. So her bible did not teach her about honors to her husband? These NL women are just unrepentant hypocrites.

ibechris:
Oga,u have done well and I don't think any married man would ever judge u because of one stupid wife of yours.

However,I want to say it categorically clear here that many women have used their foolishness and entitlement mentality to wreck their marriages.

If a bad wife gives u a problem,hmm that is when u will know that prostitutes serve a purpose in our society.

U don't need to marry another woman bros,just ease yourself whenever she comes with her demonic powers.

Get a permanent girl friends that might lead to marriage if the issue becomes too hard to solve.

Good luck to u sir.


But if u must marry another wife,pls marry a working class lady and u will see the difference.

pepperdemzombie:
Old Oyibo grandmas!
Almost 80% of the female actors/celebrities are ether not married or divorcees. Go and check all of them that gathered at Rita's wedding, how many of them are married? Even Chioma Akoptha is divorced secretly. Why is no Igbo man interested in Marrying this foul mouthed whale, Tonto, Linda, Cossy, Ini Edo, Chikwendu, Anita Joseph, Genevieve, Davido's leech etc? Are we missng something?

Boyooosa:
Nkechi's 17th pre-birthday picture emerges online