₦airaland Forum

ubunja:
Men Want sex from women, Women Want a relationship from men.

Come to women for sex and nothing more. That's you fulfilling your masculine role. Let the women ask you for a relationship. Don't seek the relationship yourself. That's not your role. Just as it's not a woman's role to come to you for sex. Sex is your business not hers. When you make relationships your goal, you are operating in your feminine. Which is you trespassing on the woman's prerogatives. Like this guy below which the lady is referring to. Don't be like him...

fidelmarshal199:
They stole coffins, who does that?

scholes0:
Not saying that Iseyin is Not Yoruba. Infact, only very few places could be more Yoruba than Iseyin.
What I am saying is that iseyin is not the name of a Yoruba group. The town belongs to a Yoruba ethnic group called The Onko... or if you like 'Oke-ogun'.... which more people may recognize from this present generation... other places within that nomenclature include; Okeho, Ipapo, ilero, Ofiki, Ago aare, Ijio and more.

SeaTrade:
Was at coldstone,waiting for my pizza and ice cream,
Seated close to me was some pretty woman and her fine daughter,probably 7-9 years old probably.
Then this girl and a guy walked in ,mehn I've never seen these kind of shorts before on someone walking on the streets,beach yeah but not streets.
All her ass was outside and I mean it,her buttcheeks were outside complete sef and was very visible.
She wore a hoody and a face mask,probably why she had that confidence.
Even the 9 year old girl close to me said to her mom,"she doesn't like the way the girl dressed"...
There are levels to this I guess.
Not judging her,just sharing my experience before all these wannabe ekuke feminists try to bite off my head.
Me sef for like climb the girl too ooo,but guy follow am come and ba venza e carry

Mgbadike80:
https://punchng.com/herdsmen-attack-two-kill-prominent-oyo-farmer-aborode/

MrDrey:
This is Dr. Aborode killed by Fulani herdsmen in Igangan that caused Igboho's anger (PHOTOS)



Read details in link below...


https://livetimesng.com/this-is-dr-aborode-killed-by-fulani-herdsmen-in-igangan-that-caused-igbohos-anger-photos/

AfroBeatDiary:
In case you're still angry that Sunday Igboho went ahead to evict the herdsman from his father's land, attached is the picture of the remains of Dr. Aborode. The man lived in USA for many years and only relocated to Nigeria to start farming and has over 400 acres of lands with over 300 indigenes in his payroll. Herdsmen attacked and ate his cashew farm and we went to their Seriki to complain about his loss. He was abducted tied, tortured with hot knifes and killed.

His death put the numbers to 70 abduction which includes the killing of 3 prominent people in the last 2 years. It's almost a year now that Oko Oloyun was killed by this daredevil. I'm not in support of Sunday Igboho's action but we have tolerated he madness of Fulani madmens too much, an average Fulani man has a destructive tendencies because of lack of education.

I've been opportuned to have a discussion with a Fulani man who speaks a little Yoruba and I asked why they destroy crops and allow their herds to feast on people's crop and his answer was simple, he said "they can't differentiate between crop planted and common leaves cow can consume, he further said cow has an instinct to select edible crops and non edible ones, hence their job is to guild them while they eat freely"

Today, Dr Aborode is dead, the vision he has is thereby aborted, those who eke a living from his idea of farming and investment in farming will probably have join the unemployed leaguea and a further loss to our GDP.

No man or ethnic should have such an effontery to kill on rampage without arrest and conviction made.

RIP Dr. Aborode.

aomine:
MY GEEE

ikorodureporta:
source: https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2020/12/03/us/citizenship-quiz.html

LegendHero:
We have always been too accommodating and failed to draw boundaries between Yorubas and outsiders in our zone and that is what led us to the current situation where other tribes trespass within our region and do things that they CAN never accept from non-indigene in their respective zones.

If we are using a region to benchmark accommodation, the only region that fit into that narrative is the SW. That a Northerner can start lecturing the West about accommodation seems like an aberration to me.

Your Fulani herdsmen are killing people and destroying people livelihood and you expect us not to speak up? Are those Yorubas in your respective states not respecting their boundaries? Did the kill the indigenes and intrude their space? How many times have we even heard of Yorubas committing crimes in the news in those states when compared to how non-indigenes commit crimes in the SW?

When we accommodate you and allow you to assimilate into our folds you call us mugu. When we fail to respond in kind when you trespass your boundaries you call us cowards. Now that we are speaking up that you should desist from killing us, you say we are not accommodating.

Just give it a small time. The SW is already using the media to create the necessary awareness about this herdsmen and I know it’s intentional. We are gathering enough evidence so that when what is planned start they won’t say we killed an ant with a sledge hammer.

Verdict: YES, we are not accommodating and we never wish to henceforth!!!

Let’s see how it goes!

Divoc:
https://dailytrust.com/herdsmen-southwest-doesnt-want-to-accommodate-other-tribes-gov-muhammed

ubunja:
and now is as good a time as any for guys to start practicing the game of attraction. I have a feeling many men don't want that future tho. They like women dependent. At least if they practiced the game of Chosen and provided for women who want them. It would be better

ubunja:
Gents, if your red pill can't prepare you for realities such as this pic below, then it's not complete. Because this is the future. Women are coming up and we can't ignore this.

Remember (not that I believe that event will happen) but you're the same ones who like to quote that verse about 7 women getting hold of 1 man telling him they'll provide for themselves but they only need his surname. Are you really ready for that Supposed future of female independence?

See where South Africa is at now.... This is coming to a country near you.

ubunja:
those paid versions are works of plagiarism. Don't promote them please.

Explorerx:
According to one Mr razak who was duped by a warri boy https://www.nairaland.com/4099285/scammers-new-tactics-pic

He made mistake of not catching this scammer quickly by just simply checking the likes on his profile pictures, checking the group and personalities he follows and like in his Facebook page.
imagine Roy Reynold from London liking and following klint the drunk, his real name is Ruth onotafe

Explorerx:
Today I tried to ask for a second chance from my ex and she just made me feel we are not meant for each other. I am really happy because I feel relief a little bit. Maybe this is what all break up needs. If you don’t match you can still be friends

BigDan69:
Lol the name wey u dey cover, her name is funke and u no get sense sha. Lol why bellitle yourself like that, prolly that's why she doesn't see u as a man. Bone her, develop yourself as she advised (which is the truth) then u will see changes. And watch her trying to get close to u for a mingle.

Meanwhile, grow up please, from ur chat I don't think u have something tangible to contribute to her exept sex.

chicoMX:
If you are not ready to get married in the next 1-2 years, I don't see the reason why you should have gf. .

Instead Make you channel all that attention to your life and life goals, you dey hear dey complain say person dey use nose greet you.

Praxis758:
Erratic communication.

She would only reply my message after 2 to 3 days.

I discover she's a student of Steve Harvey's 90 days rule

Poanan:
Hell NO, I cant marry such a person. why lie? Just tell me the way it is so that I know what I am getting myself into.

Guys are found of lying. That was how someone lied that he is a graduate meanwhile, he did not go to school. The wife later found out years into the marriage. she married him cos she thought being a graduate, they could walk through the storm of life together.

It is a very serious offence to lie about status when comes to marriage.

ogbiwa:
https://www.dailystar.co.uk/sport/football/real-madrid-santiago-bernabeu-update-24445288

Jeanwandimi:
First of all, you can not withdraw any amount less than $100 on upwork. You have to accumulate funds till $100 or above. You can know how much you have by going to "Reports then overview". Your "AVAILABLE" is your money. You have to have $100 in your "AVAILABLE" to receive your money. But you need to complete the following first.
Now to the procedure in details.
For this to work, you need to have put a NIGERIAN address as your address.
Go to "SETTINGS" in your profile, then "GET PAID", then go all the way down to "PAYMENT METHODS" and add method.
The first option you would see there is the one recommended for Nigeria. It will be stated as
"DIRECT TO LOCAL BANK (NGN)
$0.99USD PER WITHDRAWAL" which will be deposited to your local bank account in NGN
Then click on "SET UP"
The next thing you would see is "ADD PAYMENT METHOD: DIRECT TO LOCAL BANK" and your bank information will be required.
You will be required to put in your "BANK SWIFT CODE"
Gtbank's SWIFT CODE IS "GTBINGLA"
This is how GTB arrived at such code.
First 4 characters of the swift code is the bank's code which is "GTBI" for gtbank.
Next 2 letters represent the country's code which is NG for Nigeria.
The last 2 characters is the bank's headquarters' location code which is LA for lagos. GTB headquarters is in lagos. So combining it, you have GTBINGLA.
Other bank users can follow the procedure to do theirs.
Then after you have input your swift code, upwork automatically detects the code and displays the address of GTB's headquarters which is 635 AKIN ADESOLA STREET, VICTORIA ISLAND LAGOS, NIGERIA.
Then below that you will input your account number and all your details.
THATS ALL.
PLS VERIFY THAT YOUR INFO IS CORRECT, IF NOT, YOU WONT BE PAID.
It is that easy. The great thing about this method is that you receive your money within minutes of your money reaching $100 or above depending on the withdrawal amount you set. Some set their money to be automatically sent at $100, some set it at $200, some set it at $500 etc. Mine is set to be withdrawn at $100 top up. Why would I wait for $200 or more
Another cool thing about this method is that you are charged $0.99USD per withdrawal. This is extremely cheap trust me.
There are other options such as PayPal, Payoneer etc, but those options are the previous ways to get money go Nigeria and it is usually way more than $0.99USD for the transaction. I am grateful to upwork for adding this new method. Don't pay anybody to receive money from upwork. It is now easy to get money directly to your account.
If you have further questions after that, let me know or send me a mail.

emmaodet:
Money shows you are successful and like other success traits or symbols, it will attract people.
Humans and not women like success.
Everybody likes to associate with success reason while it is more visible with women in relationship.
Humans believe by associating with a successful person or entity, it raises their own values too.
Examples -
Most football fans like associating wih successful clubs like real madrid, Barcelona, Chelsea, man city, man united etc rather than the sheer number of struggling clubs in the world.
Likewise the way we feel when the best student in class or school is our friend. Others will look you with admiration.
How do you feel among your friends when you have a friend come visit you with a ride at your street especially if you are from a poor or rural area? There is this admiration from friends and elderly ones around. Even your parent would be pleased with you.
Humans love success, that's all.
When a successful person associates his/herself to you, it raises your value somehow because it is believed that a successful person is disciplined, focused and values his or her time alot and for such person to take out some time just to be with you of all people means there is something in you he or she sees to associate with you that they are missing or not seeing.
Just imagine you king, church GO, a football icon like okocha etc paying you a visit once a while.

Barselonia:
Finally

blinkz4real:
I will recommend El Amin int'l school. Along David mark road minna. A bit expensive though but has quality.

For good place to stay look for London street in Bosso, Minna. Very Serene environment with water, light n good road network. Thank me later.

pat1612:
https://www.gov.uk/types-of-british-nationality/british-citizenship

seunmsg:
The part in bold is not entirely true. Okemesi-Ekiti and Efon Alaye are Ijesha speaking towns in Ekiti.

Otun Ekiti is also an Igbomina town in Ekiti.

Elliotwaveforec:
Egba - Ogun and Lagos states - Egba lo lede

Oyo/Ibolo - Oyo, Osun, Kwara states and Benin Republic - Oyo a yo 'mole. Lol!

Olukunmi - Delta state

Okun - Kogi

Ikale - Ondo state

Ilaje - Ondo state

Yewa - Ogun state

Igbomina - Osun, Ekiti and Kwara states - Owo ni e je.

Awori - Lagos and Ogun states - Kitigbe, ogbere o.

Owo - Ondo state

Ondo - Ondo state - Ondo Egi, onila meji

Ijesha - Osun and Ekiti states - Oso ma a lo ti nfi gbowo mi; Ijesa osere Omo onile obi......

Itshekiri - Delta state

Akoko - Edo and Ondo states

Ijebu - Lagos and Ogun states - Ijebu nmu garri, won lahun gan o. Lol!

Ekiti - Ekiti and Kwara states - Ekiti kete.

Owu - Ogun, Osun and Kwara states - Owu aji fi egbe sere; Owu lakoda - First born

Ilorin - Kwara state - Ilorin Afonja Enu dun juyo - Alaafin Aole curse needs to be removed fast

Iseyin - Oyo state - Iseyin Oro Omo ebedi moko

Ibariba - Kwara state and Benin Republic.

If you're not mentioned, please indicate.

Supan:
Senator representing Nasarawa West, Abdullahi Adamu, has in an interview with Sunday Sun, warned that no one should complain should the North begin to retaliate the killings and damages suffered by northerners living in the South.
Adamu who was a two-term governor of Nasarawa State, and now a senator under the All Progressives Congress (APC), said Northerners living in the South have suffered injustice, while southerners living in the North enjoy the benefits without being attacked.

He however, added that moves by Southern Governors to ban open grazing without providing alternatives, and also doing nothing about the killings of Northerners in the South, could come at a heavy cost, as Southerners living in the North could end up paying the price.

He said while the governors pretend to be against the breaking of the country, their actions speaks otherwise.

“They (Southern governors) are sounding like a broken record. You know what a broken record does? It cracks," he said while condemning the decision of 17 Southern Governors to ban open grazing.

“I expected them to be more educated people with responsibility of governance. Each of those governors is under an oath for loyalty, for preservation of the sovereignty of this country.

“That means every one of them is duty-bound to stay away from any act or words that have the tendency of being perceived as being separatists.

“I was a governor for eight years. I know what the Governors’ Forum is. I headed it for five years of my right years. Before that, I was chairman of Northern Governors’ Forum. So, the secretariat you see and the bureaucracy I set them up during my time.”

Adamu added, “Before the Asaba Accord, there was a meeting of all the state governors. About 36 of them were there. Less than a week of that meeting, some people came out and claimed Southern Governors Forum. There is nothing wrong with regional bodies.

“But these governors know the constitution and they know that every Nigerian has the right of movement and association. A right to pursue legitimate goals. These governors are saying no cattle or open grazing. What is the alternative? Have they provided any? If Northern governors come together and take a position, what will happen? What right have you to tell Nigerians not to move freely?

“If northern groups say no southern business in the area, how will that end up? There are killings of northerners going on in the South. If the North decides to retaliate, we will call it genocide. What is happening to us? We only know about problems, but not solutions. People are openly calling for a break up of the country.”

The ban was also condemned by the National President of Miyetti Allah Kautal Hore, Abdullahi Bello Bodejo, who insists that herdsmen have the constitutional right to graze anywhere in the country, and made it clear that the only thing that would stop herdsmen from grazing in any part of the country, is lack of grass. Otherwise, they'll continue to graze and nothing would happen.

While speaking on ban on open grazing declared by the Southern governors, he said, "We are going to follow the law and see how to approach some good leaders in the South-East, South-West and the South-South. We will also approach the Inspector General of Police and other security agencies to protect our people.

"It is not about grazing; it is a plan against Fulani people. Some people want to hijack the cattle business from us. Anywhere you go now, you see Fulani grazing cows and you will think they belong to them. No! The cows belong to some people in that area or community.

"If you go to Benue, the state that first promulgated the anti open grazing law, you can see cows grazing; their owners are Tiv people. Even the governor, Samuel Ortom, has so many cows. They want to chase us away and continue with our business.

"What these Southern governors are trying to do, some other African countries tried it, but it didn’t work. So, this one will not be an exception. You can’t just wake up without plan B, and say you have banned open grazing.

"This business has history; we didn’t just wake up and start cow rearing. It is a blessing from God; it is God that blesses us with this business, it is not like farming or palm wine tapping business. This is from the beginning; the only thing is how to transform the business.

"These governors are confused; they are trying to deny Fulani their rights and means of livelihood. Nigeria has only one constitution, which the governors are breaching. We may approach the court to stop them from carrying out their plans.

"The process by which they arrived at their decision was wrong. They were supposed to have invited us because we are part of their various states. If you are a governor, you are a governor for everybody living in that state. Since we live in all the states doing our business, it behooved them to have invited us to the meeting.

"I don’t know who is giving them this evil idea. No state can progress without Fulani being in that state; any state without Fulani is backward and poor. Fulani attract blessing. They don’t have problem, but unfortunately, people attribute kidnapping, robbery and banditry to them. It is not fair.

"They have not seen their people killing police and other security personnel. How many police stations have Fulani burnt? How many policemen have Fulani killed? But they want to tamper with the business God has blessed us with. The governors are very wrong."

When told Southern governors are determined to execute the recent ban, he said, "I say it categorically that this ban on open grazing by the Southern governors will never work. The only thing that can stop us from grazing in any area is if there are no grasses and water in such place. Fulani don’t have borders or boundaries; they don’t need permission to graze their cows from one area to another area.

"There is no law, no constitution prohibiting them from doing so. Fulani are educated and they believe in leadership. They follow the constitution, which permits them internationally to graze anywhere. ECOWAS permits us to graze anywhere, but any person that commits a crime, let the law of the land be visited upon such a person," he added.

https://www.nationalpivot.com/2021/06/just-in-nobody-should-complain-if-north.html?utm_source=&utm_medium=facebook

rigarmortis:
though 99% of girls are either hare brained or fish brained, you don't initiate a conversation with them the same way otherwise they will be put off and you lose your mark, it depends on your intentions and the kind of girl you are talking to.

1. the sharp in and out girl,
these are girls you want to use for a fling, for the time being, or when you girl is not around, or for fun/adventure, there are subtypes.

a. the good bad girl.
this type has a boyfriend, but he is far away and she likes you very much, and wants to fxck you, if the feeling is mutual, indulge her, don't start with the love and getting to know you slash friends convo.....use double meaning suggestive words when you converse with her..........start the good boy thing and you are on a long thing, leave that for her real boyfriend, she is a good bad girl. bad with you, good with him.

b. the runs gyal
someone gives you a runs gyals number and you go into the kinda conversation as written by the OP, RUBBISH.
where can we meet, should be first and what is your name last, the last doesn't even matter cos she is gonna give you a name like cindyrealia or magenta a fake name which you will soon forget.

c. the fill in the gap girl.
she just broke up and wants to have wild fun for revenge/fun purpose, and you are forming nice gentleman discussion?


2. the serious working class "lady"
you are in that mood where you don't want a clingy or needy girl, she works in a bank and single, no time to mingle, you two hook up, I swear she is gonna be the one to ask you where you work!...........its not like she is a gold digger, she just doesn't wanna have to pick the tab and baby sit you all the time.

so yes someone is gonna ask what the other person does......beat her to it sir!.........ask! and when she answers nod and say stuff that is ambiguous, let her empty herself cos she wanna show you she is independent, then tell her as liitle as possible about yourself, make it ambiguous, tell her where you work, but not which office, take her home.

the rest is history.


3. the friendship type gyal.

normal I don't converse with girls I don't intend to fxck, but there comes a time when something pushes you into this kinda group, play along, this is only when you can act a little nice.....but alas!....not to the letter, remember, girls are soon bored with good guys, feel her in alone moments, gauge her , chip in a few words to see her kinda person when you are alone, so you know which category to box her in. Thats her inner category, bring it out.

the drawback with these kinda is like you have a girlfriend without the "privileges"...believe me, naija girls being the fishbrained creatures they are will still want you to do stuff for them, I wont say don't, cos ppl will say am harsh and I wont say do cos that will be creating a new mugu, we have many running around already....just use your brain.

4a. there is a final subset to the friendship type...THE BAIT.

these ones are friends with you, maybe you have !@#$ed them in the past, or just friends, doesn't matter, but they have many girlfriends and girls seems to like her a lot, she is like a leader among them....you know the kinda, popular and flirty and wild sometimes?...with enough female numbers........yes!......a girl that likes her and knows she likes you.....automatically likes you too, if she tells a girl you are generous, work in NNPC etc, it its the gospel truth even when hard FACTS prove otherwise.


5. the sheep

these kind don't talk much, don't party much are mostly loners and introverts, they have a lot going on in their head, they can use their imagination to keep themselves company, and that's what you need to break into, your conversation should be centred around the fact that you know and feel how brilliant she is and no one understands her......BUT YOU.

there are mainly two kinds.

a. the religious sheep.

this kind, due to religion has been turned into the sheep, she follows the book and does things right, if your intentions are wolfy, make them sheepy, find a sheep and use it to cover your intentions, then worm your way into her mind, but remember, don't be totally good, a few flashes of the wild side on a few occasions will do, forget that she is covered from head to toe, everything is possible since 50cent and vivica.

b. the natural sheep

this kind are just naturally quiet...for not seeable reason.........just nature, keep her company, fill in the gap in her life....now don't do much conversation, the key is to get her talking, trust me the quiet ones have things to say too.

one day just act sad, that's all, the nurturing instinct that these kind possess will kick in, pretend you want to be alone now.......she wont allow....she will want to know......and that's when the cookie crumbles.

neky2016:
Nigerian porn king, @KingtBlakhoc, who got popular with his lavish Instagram lifestyle and sharing countless photos and videos from hotel rooms with naked ladies; short, tall, dark, or light skinned – just name it, has revealed how much he pays Nigerian girls for all that.

KingtBlakhoc, who has a website where an interested fan can pay N10,000 a month to watch exclusive pornography clips, leaving fans in the dark on how much he pays ladies who roll with him, has finally revealed how much each girl gets.

In a Snapchat post he made on May 4th, he revealed the breakdown of how his girls earns their cash.
The price ranges from 30k to 300k, depending on what the girl wants to do. However, all includes a nice treat, food and hotel money.

The list he shared reveals that girls who he invites without having sex can get as low as 30k, while girls he has sex with on camera, with there face included earn as much as 300k.


http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/05/nigerian-porn-king-kingtblakhoc-reveals.html