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Skateboard:
Nigerian men are amongst the sexiest men in the world, wonderfully created by the Creator and blessed in all departments. The average Nigerian man is well built, chiselled body like that of Kratos, blessed with the biggest Phallus in the world and always ready to put in the work when called to the other room.

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As you might have known by now, the population ratio of women to men in the world is higher hence the battle for women to secure a man to marry is an uphill task especially in the Nigerian economy that is not favourable. Even though many men are willing to marry, most do not have the financial capability to see through this monumental task. On the other hand, Nigerian men are randy and most prefer sleeping with so many women instead of settling down with one. As a woman or lady, what are the signs a Nigerian man wants to marry you? This is a tough question, to be honest, but there are always strong indications.

He Respects You: Respect is key. As a lady, if you are in a relationship with any guy and he doesn’t respect you, he can never marry you. If he doesn’t respect you, he has no regard for you and you are just like the average girl to him.

Love comes with respect, a man that truly loves you will respect you. This a big sign if any man is going to get married to you.

He is Concerned About Your Growth and Development: There are men that just want sex every time in a relationship, they never demand from you anything else, they don’t care about your goals or aspirations as long as you satisfy them in the other room, it’s hard to see this type of relationship heading anywhere except the man is just a low-life person.

One of the key signs a Nigerian man wants to marry is he getting worried about your growth and development.

Introduces You to His Family: There is a saying – Family is all. Family has gone beyond those that are birthed by the same bloodline, someone who has been there for you all your life is equally a family.
A man introducing you to his family means he likes so much and his probably thinking long term for the both of you. This doesn’t guarantee 100% certainty of getting married to him but it’s a very big sign.

He Plans His Life with You: This is a no brainer, if any guy is getting married to a lady, he will have to plan his life with the lady included in it. Talks like how his job affects both of you, if he moves apartment, he wants to travel, talk of moving elsewhere and many more sensitive plans are obvious signs a Nigerian man wants to marry you.

So, ladies, if your intending husband to be in your mind does not share his goals and plans with you, just know he is using you to pass away the time temporarily.

He Misses You and Is Concerned about Your Well Being: A marriage without love will eventually hit the rocks. If a man is truly in love with you as a lady, he will be willing to marry you. When he truly loves you, he misses you and is concerned about your wellbeing wherever you are.

My sister, if a Nigerian man is going to get married to you, you will know from this explanation.

He’s Always There for You: If anything happens to you, he is not himself. Whenever you need him, he makes the effort to be there and he at least follows up with you if he couldn’t be there.

One of the biggest signs a Nigerian man that wants to marry you is he putting you first and making sure you navigate problems together.

He Talks About Marriage-Related Issues: There are lots of players and time-wasting Nigerian men, men like this do not care about any marriage talk, they always shun you when you bring this matter up. If a man sees his future with you, he talks about marriage issues and sometimes he lets slip by saying he is actually going to get married to you.

He Has No Problem Meeting Your Family: As a lady, you love a guy so much and you want him to meet your family, if your man is always dodging this request, he sees no point in doing it coz he doesn’t see a future with you. He’s only with you for his selfish gains and sexual pleasure.

No matter how busy your man is, if he loves you and is willing to marry you, he will create the time to know your family if you request such from him.

He Reassures You of His Love: See, relationships are not always smooth and plain-sailing, there will always be ups and downs. If a man constantly reassures you of his love in difficult times, he sees the future with you.

We all need reassurances, one of the biggest signs a Nigerian man wants to marry you is him always reminding you how he loves you.

He Apologizes and Wants to Settle Differences: When your man picks up on trivial issues and gets angry at all times without trying to apologize or settle differences, he is surely wasting your time.

A man who loves you and wants to be with you will always want to settle differences and see both of you happy, it’s just simple as that.

Wrapping Up: Getting married is a big decision and requires commitment from both the man and the woman. Nothing is always cast in stone and the points listed here are strong signs a Nigerian man wants to marry you. At the end of the day, the signs are always there for you to see. As a lady, do not be blinded when the signs are obvious.


Source: https://punchyinfo.com/signs-a-nigerian-man-wants-to-marry-you/

NaijaSlate:
As men, there are things we all want but will never say. Maybe it would make things easier for women if we told them exactly what we want but maybe it would make things worse too. Maybe our women won’t take it so well. You just never know. Or maybe we assume that they should be knowing whatever we want since we tend to feel we are the less-complicated gender.
Here are things every man wants from his woman but will never say:


1. Men want to be treated as ‘the man’.

A portion of today’s women feel that they are equal to or above their men. This is usually a misguided attitude that leads to break-ups. All men want to date or marry women who treat them as the authoritative figure. It doesn’t matter if you earn more or went to Havard yet your man went to a local college. Treat him as ‘the man’ and he will love you always.


2. Sexiness that he can show off to his friends.

Every man wants a woman that he can show off to his friends; a woman he can walk with on the road and feel proud. If you are a woman who doesn’t put in any effort in her appearance, you are planting the seeds of infidelity in your man’s heart.


3. Space…a lot of it.

We love you ladies but we don’t want to be with you all the time. Stay away for a while and make us miss you. Suffocating your man with your constant presence will make him resent you. Giving people their space is good as it keeps both your identities separate.


4. To be pampered.

Though guys try to put on a macho image and love babying their sweethearts, it’s not like they don’t love to be pampered themselves! A surprise gift, a relaxing massage, a loving gesture are all welcome and much appreciated.


5. Being open while communicating.

We don’t want our women to be beating around the bush by dropping ‘hints.’ We don’t want to have to ask them if they are mad or not. If a couple can’t talk about things freely, then doomsday cometh sooner than you think. It’s better to say things straight to the face and get it over with than go through a long process.

Ladies take note. Although some guys might deny this, they know in their hearts that it is true.

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SmartyPants:
Hello gentlemen and ladies!

Women in the workplace are kinda funny. My male subordinates are very respectful and quiet but the female ones are too chummy and when you have to reprimand them they get emotional. Right now there is this one that is squeezing her face cauz I was a bit harsh on her yesterday. So me too I’m squeezing my face at her for today, but I’ll make sure I play with her tomorrow. *sigh* so tedious. Lol.

Anyway I’m taking a break off work to share some observations with you. Over and over, I have heard people, particularly guys, say, all Nigerian girls want is money but in my experience and from observation, this is not quite true. The more accurate assertion is, some Nigerian girls from a certain background prioritize money, and to be fair that is not inherently a bad thing: everyone is entitled to want what they want, and you don’t need to resent them just because you don’t have what they want.

The key is, find the person who fits your philosophy and status in life, and I’m going to help you do that by pointing out to you how you might identify what different classes of girls are more interested in.

NB: I am going to be making some generalizations here so you may probably know one or two girls who do not fit the mold: that doesn’t mean my general observations are untrue.

To start with, traditionally, all of society can be divided into two broad categories further broken down into 6 narrow classes:

The have-nots

1. Lower-lower class: the poorest of the poor living in extreme deprivation

Lower-lower class girls are usually very materialistic in their selection because they see a man as a hero coming to sweep them out of a life of misery. If you are not prepared to spend, avoid these ones. However, if you are prepared to spend you will find that she will genuinely love you and work hard to keep your home. As a broke guy, this type of girl may easily fall for your personality, but have it at the back of your mind that she may easily cheat on you for money.

What she really wants: A happy, comfortable life

2. Upper-lower class: not deprived of life’s basics but not enjoying any special comforts

Girls in this class have grown up watching their parents struggle to provide things for them. They are also materialistic but they also tend to appreciate the value of hard work, as often they’ve often had to join their parents to work at the shop, farm, etc. These girls are the ones who study very hard at school, and are career oriented. You can expect a girl in this class to work hard to take care of her own needs, but she also won’t settle for a man who is not more well-off than she is.

What she really wants: material comfort

3. Lower-middle class: getting by with some comfort but no luxury

This class of girl is just there. She is not particularly motivated by money since she may have often spent a lot more time around people in the lower class, and may be used to them looking up to her. She belongs to the highest class of the have-nots, and does not have that sense of deprivation. These are girls who easily fall for dreamers, and will happily tell you “money isn’t everything”.

What she really wants: a happy family

The haves

4. Upper-middle class: comfortable with a few luxuries

Upper middle class girls, unlike lower middle class girls, tend to spend a lot of time around richer friends and tend to feel deprived even though they actually live comfortably. They resent not being able to join in the conversation when their friends are talking about all the different places they visited, and may secretly resent their father’s for not being richer. These girls, surprisingly are the most materialistic of all, and when guys complain that girls are only interested in money, it is usually because they are chasing upper middle class ladies.

What she really wants: to undo the trauma of deprivation

5. Lower-upper class: luxurious life with some limitations

These girls are rich and they aren’t looking for a man to give them money, however it may appear that they are materialistic on the surface. This is because a lot of girls in this class tend to be bitchy and competitive, they want a man to show off, and are easily attracted to status symbols. To be with a girl like this, you must be either the cutest, richest, most popular, most notorious… etc. some of these girls actually pay for dates and shopping outings with their boyfriends, but pretend to others like “bae” paid for it all.

What she really wants: Status

6. Upper-upper class: absolute luxury
These girls tend to live in a fantasy world, and they really believe in true love, however they only date superstars and fellow members of the elite. They are not materialistic but they hardly date broke guys simply because they hardly mingle with “commoners”, and mommy probably would have a fit if she brings a broke guy home.

What she really wants: Romance and fantasy

NB: people move between classes so don’t evaluate a girl by the class she is in today, evaluate her by the class her family was in during her formative years. The attitude she picked up then will likely stay with her for life.

SmartyPants:
Very strong team but Oliseh is Delta and Oliha
Is Edo. You should have added Chidi Odiah.

According to another poster, the Okocha brothers are Delta too

geadom5:
Imaging what this world in turning into, what's the essence of such pictures,
some will snap pre-wedding picture while some pre-birthday pictures.. . All for what!!??
Still waiting to see Pre-Death pictures....

Viicfuntop:
I have never seen an Ondo Muslim . In my hometown, there is no mosque. I have literally not seen a mosque in my state. So even if what scares you could probably happen, it can’t happen in Ondo and Ekiti

lola024:
Underwear can say a lot about a woman. It’s something that men are obsessed with, to the point that, a mere glimpse of a thong waistband causes us to go into shock. On the surface we find them sexy, revealing. They 're able to see who a woman actually is—or maybe some guys are just plain Hot. However, the way guys think of it is that underwear is a look into the soul of a woman. It’s a chance to express who they are and how they are feeling that day. Are Guys feeling sexy? Tired? Safe? Risky? It’s almost as if no matter what happens during the day, good or bad, it’s okay because no one has any clue as to how guys are really feeling.

So go wild, we say. Explore your adventurous and kinky sides and slip on a pair that suits your mood but be forewarned that as long as there are women wearing underwear there will be men wondering just what kind lies beneath the jeans. Then again, GUYS do feel women find that part enticing. Here are Guys personal favorites.

1. Thongs
The classic jaw dropper in grade school. While the banality of class and education was occurring before their a young man’s very eyes, their attention was elsewhere, never truly at what was going on near the chalkboard. They were glued down to the desk in front, should they have been lucky enough to be sitting behind a girl. And even beyond high school we feel that most men get a sense of nostalgia when God grants them a peek of a thong. Now there’s something to pray about on Sundays. So why do we love them? Isn’t it obvious? The thong has the perfect shape for enticing us guys, leaving a little to the imagination but a lot to the visual.

2. Boyshorts
Named for the similar looks of men’s boxer briefs or trunks, the boyshort is an incredibly seductive look. Playful, sexy, and comfortable—from what I’m told. Girls love wearing them and guys love seeing them. It’s almost as if the girls are saying they’re good enough to play with the boys but still can be sexy. Just because they’re covered doesn’t necessarily mean that can’t wow you in the bedroom. Keep ‘em coming, we say!

3. G-Strings
If thongs are jaw droppers then G-strings will cause most men to faint. With the one piece of lace covering the Promised Land, men’s eyes and privates tend to go wild with fantasy. The thong leaves a little to the imagination, but the g-string shows you what you’re getting… with a little bit of work involved.

4. No Panties
No teasing necessary, she’s a no-nonsense girl. Or I haven’t done a wash yet and have no clean clothes. Either way it’s okay by us ladies. Anyway, by the time you’ve noticed us noticing we’ve already taken a pretty good mental snapshot. The appeal of the no panty look is the supposed friskiness behind it. We think that if we see a girl wearing nothing beneath her jeans it should lead to a good time later on. Now, whether of not this is true might depend on the situation. But either way we thank you!

5. Granny Panties
Good God! There is only one word in the English language that can describe granny panties… S-E-X-Y! We love them, seriously. That thick, thick layer of cloth covering the entire posterior–and occasionally parts of the upper thigh–is causing us all to shutter in arousal as these words are being typed! It’s remarkable that someone was able to craft this wickedly erotic piece of undergarment without experiences one, two… maybe three climaxes. The granny panty screams, “Come and get it boys. I’m a tasty dish of immense sexual pleasure and I hope to crush you all with the awesome power of these cotton drawers.”

(Pictures are posted according to the number}
Only 4 pictures are allowed.....so I will leave the "No Panties Picture" You all know what no panties is.....you have seen it.....and if you haven't, send me an email.....lolzz

Which one is your favorite guys? I know nairalanders will always say the truth.....


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Smellymouth:
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EBMedia:
Sophia Momodu, the mother of singer Davido's first child, Imade, took to her Instagram handle to celebrate her 34th birthday today June 9, IgbereTV reports.

Sharing stunning photos of herself, the mum of one wrote;


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NaijaCoverBlog:
Update From . COM

A Ghanaian makeup artist who goes by the Instagram handle( hbelegance) has shared these before and after photos of her 75-year-old client, Reports.

What Do You Have To Say?

See Photos As Obtained By Below:

Source: BLOG

mhisbliss:
The media often glamorize women with big boobs, just a picture from them and the Internet go gaga, many people drool over large boobs, and many find it sexy, but they're downsides associated having big boobs, even though they seem to enjoy the attention, they are suffering in silence, below are few downsides of having big boobs.


Pains which radiates throughout the neck, back, shoulders and sometimes it radiates to the head and cause headache

Inability to exercise
Women with large boobs find it hard to exercise without wearing a sport bra, even with a sport bra, thier boobs manage to pop out at intervals, and the exercise would be a herculean task due to the weight and mass of the boobs pulling them down.

Serious health risks and threat to life
Enlarged breasts are as a result of macromastia, which is life threatening, and several other skin diseases which result from The constant rubbing of skin against skin which can create painful rashes and yeast infections. Skin stretching to accommodate the heavy mass of the breast also cause stretch marks.

you cant sleep on your stomach
Sleeping on your stomach which happens to be one of the most comfortable sleeping positions is not for you, as your boobs will feel like its about to explode.

They're certain kind of clothes you cant wear
Like tight shirts or button down shirts, your boobs will pop out if you move too much in it, and it'll be so embarrassing, strapless dresses like bridesmaid dresses, and backless dresses, blazers

there's always a limit to what you can do
You can't run, or jump and cant use cross body bags as it'll partition your boobs in a very ridiculous manner

bra problems
Finding the right size of bra is a major problem and even if you do, it wont fit and your size is not common

You attract unnecessary attention
People will always stare at your boobs wherever you're especially in fitted dress or bathing suits, and the attention will be so uncomfortable and overwhelming, much concentration will be on the boobs, and people often asks what size of bra you use.

You look sexual in anything you wear, even decent dresses and you cant help it
This is self explanatory

plaindealer:
They keep telling us that ports outside Lagos are neglected and not functional, but huge ships are sailing in and out of Eastern ports, even shippers shipping cocoa from the SW are taking advantage of Eastern ports.


I'd love to see shippers from other parts of Nigeria to start looking beyond Lagos ports

History555:
Southerners are a very strange set of people. You wail and shout fulani herdsmen are destroying your farmlands with their cows. You wail and shout that they are killing your people. Yet you go back to purchase the same cows destroying your farmlands to make merriment. What utter stupidity

plaindealer:
This is like when people go to the market yo throw stones, you end up killing your own family members.

Very sad.

plaindealer:
God Bless The Great State Of Lagos...

Israeljones:
this is an eye opener tho
Uwazuruike said, “I was the one who discovered Nnamdi Kanu in 2009, 10 years after I had started MASSOB when I travelled to London. I gave the money to establish Radio Biafra, rented a house for him and bought him a car because he was jobless and into Yahoo-Yahoo. He was not in school and had no degree.

eherbal:
Gibson Achonu, Owerri

http://punchng.com/kanu-ipob-supporters-fraudsters-says-uwazuruike/

gwng:
Usually clients ask us a lot of questions before installing trackers in their vehicles. Sometimes they ARE NOT ASKING THE RIGHT QUESTIONS. Here are some questions you should ask before installing a tracker in your car:


1. How effective is the tracker (what is the margin for error)?

2. Can I stop my car remotely with this tracker (via sms or online or both)?

3. Is their an online platform (website/app) where I can monitor the car from?

4. Does the online platform offer real time tracking?

5. What other features does the tracker have (geo-fencing, mileage report, overspeed alert, Low battery Alert etc.)

6. Will I need to pay yearly fees to use your online platform (website/app)

7. Does the tracker have a backup battery?

Contact us on 08060675824 for details or read https://mymoto.com.ng/why-you-should-install-the-mymoto-security-tracker/ to know more reasons why your car needs a tracker...

Opinionated:
By Nkem Ndem

Before you join me in psycho-analyzing the issue of a man’s “beauty” being subject to the weight of his pocket, let’s get one thing straight: Money is sexy as hell. Yes, I said so. A while ago, if someone made the same statement and I heard it, I would look at them with disdain, while thinking to myself: “what a shallow somebody” …and naturally, I would roll my eyes… very heavily too.

But, yeah…I see the light now.

Believe it or not, having money is a game changer for anyone: man or woman. But I guess for men, it’s a more dramatic change. No? Have you ever seen the throw back pictures of some Nigerian celebrities who are kind of sex symbols now? Tu face? Flavour? They looked dried up, hungry and excruciatingly unpleasant to the eyes… compared to the way they look now. What is the difference between then and now? Did their facial features change? Did they take some magical pill that made them look hotter than they used to? No. they didn’t. Their “beauty” came with the money they acquired when they “blew”! I mean…except for maybe Bobrisky who went on to bleach and now wears fabulous weaves and wigs, most of these celebrities did not really do anything extra to their looks. They just became handsome and sexy because they gained wealth.

Agreed, there are some who even with the wealth, they still look ugly AF…they know it, we know it… but nobody ever mentions it. In fact, they are used as yardsticks for “handsomeness” and “being dapper”. Why? They have the money!

Yesterday, a close friend asked: “Nkem, be honest, would you rather an ugly man with an annual income of 500 million Naira or a handsome man who is unemployed or undecided at his career path?” It was a tricky one, so I asked further questions for clarification: “when you say ugly, do you mean repulsive or just not good-looking?” “hmmm…not good-looking” he said. “Hmmnnn…and both are the same age?” I continued, and he says “Yes, both 32”. With the extra questions answered, I did not hesitate. I straightaway said: “I’d go for the Ugly one.”. My friend (clearly shocked since I’m a huge champion of equal love for “struggling” men) yelled: “Liar! Even if he looks like ‘a certain president Nigeria once had’?” and I said: “YES! What do you mean? That dude is super intelligent and sexy! Have you read any of his books?” Of course, that was me trying to be funny, but my “yes” was a certain yes.

Before you judge me any further (because I know you are already doing that), let me walk you through my thought process and how it was easy to pick the ugly rich man. The way I see it, being wealthy or having a huge income is a product of extreme hard work, huge efforts, and sacrifices made in the past by themselves or their families. The man who makes the annual income of 500 million Naira is rich not just because he has money, he is rich because he did something in the past to grow, to maintain money. He has was intelligent, focused, purposeful and tenacious. The handsome man, on the other hand, what did he do to earn his looks? What effort did he put in? Genetics? Proper grooming? Is that it?

Again, “handsomeness” is a depreciating value while wealth is appreciating value. Looks and unnecessary charm in a man will give butterflies, sweet heartburn and all that goofy nonsense that makes life seem enjoyable…but that handsomeness fades with time and circumstances…and along with it the heady feelings and emotions. That is a certainty.

A man who has successfully earned a considerable amount of money is likely to be more financially smart and plan futuristically. His value usually will appreciate with time, and even if he fails or experiences difficulties at some point, there is the high probability that he has what it takes to rise back up again. Considering these remote implication makes it easy to see pick the ugly man.

Basically, the amount of money a man has kind of determines how valuable and how “handsome” he appears. Even Jay Z, who is generally considered ugly, said in Family Feud, one of the songs on 4.44, his new album: “Ain’t no such thing as an ugly billionaire, I’m cute.” Perhaps he was being petty, but he hit the nail on the head. Do you think Beyonce, the epitome of beauty, would have married him and stuck with him despite the lies and cheating, should he have been the regular boy from across the streets? Do you think she would have thought him handsome enough to combine her genes with and birth children? If you asked her now, she would say to you that he is the most handsome man in the world. Why? His financial worth is handsome, ergo, he is handsome.

Don’t get me wrong, this in no way means I no longer have an unabashed soft spot for beautiful people, I still do. But at the same time, I also have a deep respect for financial stability and economic vigor. Like I always say, women (feminist or not) are naturally wired to seek a man who is capable of protecting and taking care of them financially…even when they can take care of themselves already. It is innate, they would prefer a person with whom they can have a secure future with, ugly or not. A man stops being ugly to any woman the moment he is able to make something for himself and can offer her an above-average future.

We need to stop being pretentious about things like this and look past the erroneous idea that a woman who picks an ugly man with money is shallow, does not see him for more than his worth and is only managing him for his money.

Source: http://www.opinions.ng/nkem-says-every-rich-man-handsome-not/

engrflames:
The #1 Reason Women Can't Stand Certain Guys... And How To Make A Great Woman Feel ADDICTED To Being With YOU

There's just no way around it... If you listen to women talk about men, you'll often hear them use the word "annoying" t describe certain men and certain things that some men do.
Now, as you can probably guess, it's not usually a good thing when a woman uses this particular word to describe a guy...And, as you can also probably guess, when a woman uses this particular word, it's not usually about guys who she isattracted to (although this isn't always true). Now, it's taken me a few years of paying attention to really get a handle on what women are talking about when they say, "He's annoying" or "It's so annoying when he does that." And guess what I discovered was the #1 reason that women say that a guy is annoying and they can't stand being around him... The Answer... It's A Man's WUSSY Behavior. But let's get much more specific. Here they are - the list of Wussy behaviors that annoy a woman the most and make her want to run for the hills: 

-Calling her too often telling her that you have "feelings" for her too early 

-Giving away your power to her and making her the boss 

-Always asking a woman what she wants instead of leading

-Acting submissive and weak

-Accepting her demands, bossy-ness, and manipulative
requests 

-Being her doormat and putting your own needs aside 

"What?" you say. "How could this be?" you might be thinking. How is it possible that demonstrating your
affection for a woman by calling her, telling her how you
feel, letting her make the decisions, and putting her first
could be considered annoying, of all things? Well guess
what? It is. Women, and especially the most attractive and desirable women, usually consider the above things to be very annoying. 
Well, here's the big realization that I had... I Realized That I Had Everything All Wrong! Instead of thinking to myself that I was a nice, sensitive guy that needed to become a little stronger, what I really needed was to become a strong guy who could also act sensitive on occasion. The difference seems almost like word-play, but it's not. Not at all. You see, when a woman says that she wants a "strong guy who's also sensitive," that's what she means. She wants a guy who's strong. The sensitive part is far more optional than the strong part. This is why women often date jerks and guys who are emotionally unavailable, and don't date us "nice guys" who would do anything for them. Remember... ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE. Women do not sit down and make a list of the qualities that a particular guy has, then think it over it for a few days, then decide whether or not to feel ATTRACTION. No way. It happens in an instant, and it happens for all kinds of "illogical" reasons... reasons that even the woman who is feeling it can't usually describe. So What's The Answer Here?I want you to raise your right hand, and repeat after me: I will stop being a Wussy around women... I will stop being a Wussy around women... I will stop being a Wussy around women... Stop doing things that say "I'm a Wussy," because those are the very things that women find annoying. And START doing the things that you're learning here... Lean back Act Cocky & Funny around women Bust on them and give them a hard time Lead the way, don't follow Now, another one of the problems that a lot of guys run into is putting together different personality traits that don't seem to go together. Women say that they want guys who are funny... but also strong. Many of the things women say they want seem like they conflict with each other. What's a guy to do? Well, the FIRST thing a guy should do is learn what works. Not what sounds like it might work. Not what should work. And not what is supposed to work. 
Learning What REALLY Works: 3 Major Lessons I personally spent several years trying to figure out what works. Why did it take me so long? Because, as it turns out, I started out with a HUGE disadvantage. And I'm not talking about a disadvantage like a big nose (which I have). I'm talking about a disadvantage like BAD PROGRAMMING. I had a "map" in my mind... of how I thought I should behave around women... and it turned out to be the wrong map. The most frustrating part was that when I did the things that should work, they made women UN-interested. It was as if the world wasn't working right. I would be sweet and nice, and a woman would not want to talk to me. I would call often and share my feelings with her, and she would fall for the rude jerk who could care less about treating her well. The magic breakthrough came only after I started making friends with and watching guys who were very successful with women... then putting what I knew about psychology and behavior together with the NEW stuff I was learning "in the field." What I discovered was literally shocking to me. I can remember slapping myself on the forehead, shaking my noggin, and laughing to myself... as I watched some of my new friends who were good with women... doing things that just plain shouldn't work... but that did work. When it comes to succeeding with women, here are three of the BIGGEST lessons I learned: 

Lesson #1: Body Language is FAR more important than WORD language. In fact, you can have the smoothest "pick up lines" in the world... but if you don't understand Body Language, the woman you're talking to can't feel attraction for you.
Here's another one: 

Lesson #2: Doing "nice" things for a woman doesn't make her any more likely to feel attraction for you. In fact, most of these things backfire... and wind up pushing her AWAY. In other words, you have to "get" that the answer here is to realize that many of the things you do when you're around women that you feel attracted to, are considered annoying by those women. You must understand that you sometimes have to do things that seem to be "inconsiderate" in order to give a woman what she really wants (which is a man who is in control of himself, the situation, and often her). 
Here's a third lesson I learned: 

Lesson #3: Even though "jerks" and "bad boys" don't treat women well, it doesn't mean that women don't feel attraction for them. In fact, women often report feeling incredibly attracted to these kinds of men... so powerfully, in fact, that they can't control these feelings... As I was learning these interesting and counter intuitive lessons, I also began documenting the specific things that the guys who were "naturals" with women did... in order to attract women.
One of my biggest realizations was that literally any guy can attract women... if he just understands how attraction works. And any guy can use the secrets that jerks and bad boys have discovered and used... WITHOUT being abusive or mean. In fact,if you leave out the meanness or abuse, a woman will be far more likely to stay around.

dainformant:
The prestigious University of Limerick has been shut down as all other schools in Ireland. The students are being taught online by the lecturers. The assignments, tests, exams and even project are being done online. The university has been shut down till summer as the school has offered its premises in the fight against coronavirus. The access to the campus has been cut off as can be seen below.

XhosaNostra:
A security guard or a male nurse. There's something girly about the title "male nurse".

Lionessza:
I personally wouldn't go for any guy who doesn't have a formal job ( both civil servants and private sector are welcome) or doesn't own a formal business ( I don't play around with hustlers).

plaindealer:
The SW should start doing like ipob terrorists and unknown gunmen terrorists by killing innocent SW citizens, burn down police station and government institutions, burn down businesses and critical economic infrastructures just because of Hausa Fulani?

This is why they asked if Igbos go to a special school where they teach them to be stupid or are they born stupid?

You people don't think, paranoia, tribalism, bigotry and emotions speaks for you.


https://www.igbounioncanada.com/opinions/do-igbos-go-to-a-school-where-they-teach-them-to-be-stupid-or-are-they-born-stupid.html

Paranoia and delusions lead to terrible things and consequences.

WorldRichest:
A 38-year old woman has sought the dissolution of her 12- year old marriage before Ejigbo Customary Court in Lagos State, southwest Nigeria over complaints that her husband was demanding too much sex from her which could lead to her death.

The embattled wife, Mrs. Bose Bello, is seeking for the dissolution of the marriage and compensation of N1.5 million to move on with her life.

P.M.NEWS learnt that the marriage between the couple crashed after the husband, Kayode threw Bose out of their matrimonial home in Egbe, Lagos and brought in his mistress because the wife could not cope with his alleged insatiable sexual demands.

Bose admitted in court that her husband, Kayode, has high libido and was always demanding for sex which she could no longer cope with.

The mother of two children alleged that when she complained to her husband that he “might sex her to death” with the way he was always demanding for sex, Kayode threw her out of their matrimonial home over flimsy excuses and brought in his lover identified as Kate Ugwu, whom he is now living with as his wife.

The mother of two children said the problem started when her husband started complaining that she was not satisfying his sexual demands despite her patience and endurance to always satisfy him because she knew he likes having sex a lot.

She said she was always afraid to go home and preferred to stay in her shop but her husband will come for her and force her to return home.

Bose claimed that anytime she returns home her husband will not allow her to rest before demanding for sex.

She claimed that her husband later threatened to bring his mistress to their home and he did so. She alleged that at a point her husband was making love to both of them in their matrimonial home.

Bose said when she complained, he threw her out of their matrimonial home and locked her shop, claiming that in the process all the food items she was selling expired and she was left with nothing to start her business again.

The embattled wife told the court that when her husband first threw her out of the house, their families brought them together to settle the matter.

Bose alleged that when she returned home, her husband continued to threaten her whenever she protested that he was demanding too much sex from her.

“Every minute he returned from work, he will be talking about sex, sex, sex! and I cannot not cope with it. When I complained, he threatened me and asked me to leave the house.”

She said she was tired of the relationship because of the maltreatment and does not love him any longer and wanted to quit the marriage.

She also asked the court to compel him to pay her N1.5 million so that she would start a new life. In response, Kayode denied the allegations but admitted that he asked her to leave because of her behaviour.

He told the court that no man can tolerate what she did to him, claiming that she called him a ritualist and told him that he wanted to kill her as he did to his first wife.

Kayode told the court that he married Bose after his first wife who had two children for him died. He claimed that he started having problem with Bose when she told him that she wanted to cook separate food for his late wife’s children.

He said hhe had to send her away because of the safety of those children. He admitted that he has a lover whom he married after Bose left, claiming that his new wife gives him peace and rest of mind.

Kayode also said he is no longer interested in the marriage with Bose and told her to go in peace. On the issue of compensation, he said he was not ready to do that.

The court adjourned the matter till 27 January for judgment.

SOURCE: https://www.pmnewsnigeria.com/2014/01/15/my-husband-wants-to-kill-me-with-sex/

AdolfHitlerxXx:
Before Tobi Ibitoye arrived in Romania from Nigeria as a 15-year-old, it had never occurred to him he - and his skin colour - might stand out in some way.

A few days in Bucharest were all it took to make him realise just how wrong he was.

"It can be very unnerving to have people stare at you like some spectacle," Ibitoye told the BBC.

All eyes on me


"I had never heard of Romania prior, but read about the country when we got news of my dad's posting".

Eight years later, things could not be more different: backed by scores of Romanian fans, the musician has just signed his first record deal.

Now the stares are from people trying to work out if he really is the Tobi Ibitoye who shot to fame, coming third on The Voice of Romania talent show in 2015.

Singer Tobi Ibitoye went from being the odd black teenager everybody stared at to a pop star


Nothing had prepared Ibitoye for what he encountered when he arrived in 2009. His father had just got a job with the Nigerian embassy, and the entire family relocated.

But Romania only has a very small African community, as most of those leaving the continent tend to head to Western European countries - generally to those with a colonial link.

It is estimated that over 90% of Nigerians living in Romania are university students, many of whom have come to study medicine, computer engineering or maritime engineering.

So, an older generation of Romanians is not used to the concept of diversity, according to Ana Craciun, of Equality Community Development Association, a campaign group based in the second-largest city, Iasi.

"They are attached to the strong Romanian traditions and want things to be as they were," she said.

At first, Ibitoye had to get used to being visibly different.

"If you walk the streets of Iasi or any other small city in Romania as a black person, you are bound to get a stare. It ranges from curiosity to astonishment, depending on how you react," he said.

Is Romania changing?


But the generation who grew up after the Communist Party was toppled in 1989 lives in an internet age and as part of the European Union, so attitudes are becoming more tolerant, analysts say.

Ibitoye's success is not an isolated case, as another Nigerian went a step further last month by coming second place at the Voice of Romania.

Attitudes are changing but less so in rural communities

Meriam Jane Nduibusi went to Romania from Italy, where she lives, with the sole purpose of getting on the show.

She shared her experience in what she described as an incredible journey.

"People cross the road to meet me, they would hug me and tell me they love me," she told the BBC.

Although she did not win, Nduibusi said she received a lot of love from the Romanian public, with people walking across to her in public and saying: "We want you to win."

Mayaya, who is partly of Congolese descent, then found more success when she got a part in a Romanian TV show, which at the time was unprecedented.

'It's not racism'

But does Ibitoye think people were voting for him precisely because he was different - the "token black guy" syndrome - or because of his talent?

"I would say a bit of both; it's interwoven and not mutually exclusive.

"I was just riding the wave of support because it was overwhelming and the more I progressed, the more I realised that what I actually deemed as a hobby was actually a talent and I think they saw that too."


Most Nigerians in Romania are students

Cosmin Vieriu, a Romanian who lives in Bucharest and works for the UN's cultural organisation Unesco, says attitudes are changing, but not so much in rural communities.

"It's not racism, but people don't have much contact with the outsiders. They're like families in these communities, so they're closed."

But not everyone agrees that Romania is opening up, or becoming more diverse as the stories of thriving Nigerians seem to suggest.

"The biggest diversity is represented only by Hungarians and Roma communities. Anything else is really low," says Andreaa Tudorache of Attitude Reality Transformation, a Bucharest-based group.

She says the experiences of a few Nigerians does not necessarily reflect Romanian society at large.

But if Ibitoye is to be believed, it might not be too long before you find Jollof rice and pounded yam on sale alongside the more traditional tripe soup and cabbage rolls on the streets of Bucharest.

http://www.bbc.com/news/world-africa-42439405

Rissamenti:
Twitter Desperate To Appease Abuja, As Buhari Ban Bites

Twitter staff desperately searching for Nnamdi Kanu's posts to delete.
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Twitter has gone ALL OUT to make amends with Abuja, over the recent standoff between the US social media giant and the Nigerian Presidency, led by His Excellency, President Muhammadu Buhari, GCFR.

Only yesterday they expressed their ''deep concern'' over the ban placed on them by Africa's biggest economy and largest internet ecosystem.

Then yesterday they followed that up with desperate attempts to remove all threatening and offensive posts by Biafran secessionist warlord, Nnamdi Kanu, from their platform.

As if this was not enough, Twitter went on to REMOVE its longstanding 'Support EndSars'' badge on its moniker.

All this fence mending within barely 24 hours of The Nigerian govt announcing the ban of the popular US platform.

This case highlights the validity of the ONE NIGERIA proposition.

The power of this country will be dissipated if it breaks up into these little tribal republics of your small-minded, visionless dreams.

No other African or black nation would be left to stand up to these ...foreigners.

We'd all become Sierra Leone replicas. Ignored and bullied by the rest of the world.

God forbid the breakup of this African Colossus.

Richdad50:
…I was overfed and had change of heart— hired assassin

By Evelyn Usman



It is not uncommon to find the elderly persons being paraded for various crimes at the Lagos State Police Command headquarters, Ikeja. But in this case, Mrs Gladys Osaigbovo-Omon (60), was not a guest at the command over any criminal matter.

Her case could best be described as the proverbial cat with nine lives as she narrowly escaped being assassinated at her residence in Benin-City, the Edo State Capital, a fortnight ago.
Clad in a buba and wrapper and a pair of red slippers, she sat on a chair with both hands clasped together as she kept shaking her legs slowly.

At a point, she glanced at the two suspected assassins close to her, shook her head in disbelief before lifting it up to the sky and muttered, Osalobua uwese( meaning ‘God, thank you’, in Benin dialect).

When approached, she was too stunned to narrate what brought her from Benin city. All she could mutter in pidgin English was that the stab of a loved one could be so painful when compared to that of a stranger.

As you read this piece, two suspected assassins hired to eliminate the sexagenarian have been arrested by the Police in Lagos while efforts were still on to arrest the alleged mastermind, an Europe Based Nigerian woman.

Surprisingly, the alleged mastermind turned out to be her younger sister while one of the suspected assassins was discovered to be her nephew.

Human trafficking goes awry

The crux of the matter was a case of human trafficking gone awry. Crime Guard gathered that 60-year-old Gladys, being the eldest of her siblings, assisted them in her own little way. One of her siblings, Augusta Osaigbovo, according to her, lived with her for 13 years until she left for Europe.

At a time, Gladys said she begged Augusta, to take one of her daughters, Mercy Omon, overseas, for better life, an offer that was granted.

However, on arriving the United Kingdom, Mercy contacted her family back in Nigeria to inform them that her aunty, Augusta, was a leader of a prostitution ring and had recruited her into prostitution in London.

Strained relationship

But she claimed to have refused to bow to pressures from her aunty to go into prostitution, an action that led to a strained relationship between them.

Along the line, Crime Guard gathered that Mercy was arrested by Police authorities in the UK, for possessing fake documents which were allegedly facilitated by her aunty. She managed to wriggle her way out of trouble after disclosing that her aunty, Augusta, brought her to London with job promises, only to turn out to be something else. Her confession led to Augusta’s subsequent arrest and was thereafter jailed.


•Osaro and Lucky (Osaro Okonoboh ( l) and Luck Oboh )
Assassination move

According to the Commissioner of Police, Lagos State Police Command, Imohimi Edgal, who paraded the suspected assassins, “When Augusta Osaigbovo finished her jail term, she complained to her sister Gladys, that her daughter, Mercy, whom she brought from the village to help, had ruined her. Believing that her sister was supporting her daughter, she decided to hire the services of assassins to eliminate Gladys

Betrayal

The first person allegedly contacted by Augusta, was her nephew, Osaro Okonoboh (44), whom the sexagenarian kept glancing at, in shock.

In an interview with Osaro, a commercial bus driver who resides in Lagos, he admitted to have been contacted by Augusta to snuff life out of his aunty, Gladys.

He said “ Aunty Gladys is my mother’s eldest sister. Aunty Augusta who stays abroad, my mother and aunty Gladys were born of the same mother. She (Augusta ) called me on phone that she would want me to help her kill aunty Gladys. When I asked why, she said aunty Gladys was the one behind what Mercy did to her abroad. I told her I did not know of any assassin but that I would look for one.

“I contacted Lucky Oboh, who is also a driver, here in Lagos. He also said he would look for someone. He came back and said he had found someone, Igbinedion Ogbevon who demanded N1 million for the job. When I called Augusta to inform her, I told her that the proposed assassin asked for N4.5 million”.

Journey to Benin City

Osaro then gave the job of eliminating Mrs Gladys Osaigbovo- Omon to Igbinedion Ogbevon and Lucky Oboh. But Ogbevon, who also hails from Edo state, insisted on visiting the target’s home, in order to know where she lived and also to study the terrain.

Crime Guard gathered that on July 17, 2018 Osaro, Gladys’ nephew took the suspected hired assassin, Ogbevon on a visit to Gladys’ home in Benin City.

An elated Gladys was said to have welcomed the visitors with a sumptuous meal and drinks, unaware that she was entertaining her assailants.

Miracle food

By the time her visitors announced their departure, she had brought another meal for them and insisted they must eat before hitting the road back to Lagos.

That singular display of kindness and generosity saved Gladys’ life as it endeared her supposed killer’s heart towards her.

In an interview with Crime Guard, Ogbevon, narrated how he changed his mind and turned around to spill the beans that led to the arrest of Osaro and Lucky.

He said: “On our way back after the visit, I asked Osaro why he wanted his aunty killed. He said that was what he was contracted to do. But in my mind I decided I was not going to do it because of the woman’s kindness, although I didn’t tell Osaro I was opting out. You needed to have seen the way the woman welcomed us and took pains to prepare food for us as if she had been expecting us. I was really overfed.

When I got home, I was troubled and had to open up to my uncle, who advised that I should first go back to the woman and tell her of the plan to kill her and thereafter report to the police. I then went with my uncle to visit mummy ( Gladys) to tell her about the plan by Augusta and Osaro to eliminate her. From there, we informed the Police who advised I played along, until I was given part payment of N490,000. I had to play along so that they would not contact another person”.

At this point, the sexagenarian exclaimed, ‘Osalobua’! ( My God!). Speaking in Pidgin English, she said “when they told me, I could not believe that my own family members would want me dead. I don't know why my sister who stayed with me for 13 years wanted to do this to me. Had she succeeded nobody would have attributed it to her. Perhaps, she would have attended my burial. But I thank God, she did not succeed.

I thank the Police and every other person that God used to spare my life. My thanks also go to our father, the Oba of Benin who placed a curse on anyone who is tarnishing the image of the ancient city outside the country”.

Yomzzyblog:
Popular Nigerian Blogger, LInda Ikeji who welcomed a son, Jayce few days ago has finally revealed why she bought a Bentley Mulsanne worth 120 Million for herself and her son to be crusing around town and she further went ahead to say she is going to buy a private jet very soon as she gives credit to God.

She wrote:

'When I announced in May that I was expecting a baby, I said I was going to buy a Bentley Mulsanne for me and my prince to be cruising around town in. Did y’all think I was joking? Lol. Gosh, if I tried to, I wouldn’t be able to explain what being a mum means to me. I’m in a different zone now! Hehe .

My mum has been shaking her head since I got the car. Lol. She said to me and my dad; do you know how many houses in Owerri you could have bought with that money? I was like; what the heck do I need houses in Owerri for, I have a house in Lagos. Lol.
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Anyway I just wanted to share in this joy and also pray for everyone out there calling on God for their breakthrough and blessings. Please don’t give up on yourself and don’t give up on God. Things might look bleak now but trust in your journey and keep fighting. If anyone had told me when I turned 30 in 2010 and I was in bed crying and feeling hopeless, that 8 years later, I would be able to afford my house or this car, I never would have believed it. I dreamed but I didn’t dream that big…but that’s where God steps in and takes over.
I think the best prayer anyone looking for a breakthrough should say when talking to God is; Dear God use me as point of reference; use me to show the world that you are God. Let people be like; ‘the God of…’, whatever your name is…bless me too!’. And let me tell you, when God chooses you, the blessings are endless. May God keep on blessing and elevating you. I truly hope all your prayers are answered and soon. .

Meanwhile, something huge is coming on LITV. It’s too soon for me to talk about it but it’s something that will change and impact a lot of lives and I can’t wait. All I will say now is; if you have ideas or scripts for reality shows, TV shows, movies and TV series, hold on to them, soon LITV might be able to collaborate with you and fund your projects. We will have so much money to create content that the possibilities will be limitless. I’ve dropped Jayce now, let me nurture him small and come and face business…lol. .

Finally, to all the men who think women can’t create wealth, keep watching this space…and be very patient. Next is a private jet! ���. Hugs everyone!'

Gists via: http://www.yomzzyblog.com/2018/09/next-is-private-jet-linda-ikeji-reveals-why-she-bought-bentley.html

Anuoluwapo3054:
@OP, am a proud graduate of history and International Studies and I can tell that the problems Nigeria is facing today is because we don't have know our history. Our view or rather conceptions about this course is distorted and that is why we are in a sorry state today because we don't learn from the past. Everything we are today has it origin in history (the early man), the technologies we are enjoying today stemmed from history.... Virtually every professional courses today has it's origin in history. Take a look at our past leaders... Like Odumegwu Ojukwu,he was an Historian and many others.... It is only in Nigeria we don't take this course serious, and that's why bad and corrupt leaders will continue to rule us... Now let's go to the international scene... You can not see a citizen of America who doesn't know the history of their land because it is inculcated on them from elementary stage. Until we go back to our history as a nation, we won't get things done because history is the study of the past and the past is being applied to correct the future... So please remove history from that list.