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Very simply.

The guy is not exactly ready to share his life with u.

Dont waist your time in vain sis.

Don't fall for the reverse psychology. I'm a guy. I know how it works. He hasnt asked u out. Why are u panicking?

(He is not exactly a disrespectful person. He might be very attracted to u. But he may want to eat his cake and still have it )

Bolarge has strong points here

@monisoola


The minor in this case being:
-Your man's seeming non-chalant attitude. Every guy passes through a nonchalant-like phase at some point (though I get this feeling this might be more major than it actually appears)

Something tells me your man has already done a better/more objective analysis of the situation than you have and doesn't exactly see a future. Sorry, but that's how I see it. I may be wrong. This will explain why he's not exactly keen on investing in the relationship the way you are.

Way forward:
Dearie start thinking with your head rather than your heart. Anything above 2 contraindications to a relationship is a red alert. Ignore it to your own peril.
Sit him down and table everything before him matter-of-factly.
Take note of everything he says and use your womanly instincts to read between the lines.
Then act wisely.
Cheers.

But just listen to telltoo's good points too

telltoo:
hi guys
the lady sounds suspiciously like my girlfriend!,,,, the story is practically identical to mine, like in the story, my girl and i are of different religious backgrounds,
like in the story, i 4got her bday and promised to make it up to her blablabla
like in the story , i have been quite stingy of late, however, i have what i regard as a reasonable explanation, if the story is ACTUALLY about me!

1st of all i must say im suprised at the no. of ladies who insist on her dumping me simply because she thinks im stingy!!!!!

i am REALLY busy because like she said im trying to setup a business of my own and as im also tryng to pull tremendous resources 2gether i can no longer afford to take her out 4 dinner and movies for now!!! i really need every penny i have to set up a business bc even tho she and i both have reasonable paying jobs,, i d really love to be a little more finacially secure in a marraige.
YES!!!!! I did momentarily forget her bday!!! I ADMIT IT!!!!!! ok is she going to kill me now? but i calld as soon as i remembered, im not proud about it but im a sort of 1 track minded person.
I havent given her a bday gift simply because I AM OUT OF F, G TOWN!!!!!!
as soon as we get to be 2gether, i ll give her something!!!! yes, even if its chewing gum!!!!

The problem with most ladies is that they think falling in love is all about peaches and cream! when we get married , guess whos going to have to pay the bills

and if youre getting bored because i no longer take you out then, what do u xpect me to do? go find someome who will! i really can't even afford to spend as much money as i do on credit everyday (well nearly everyday) but i do. im putting myself through such tremendous pressure simply because of you and i! the only reason y i don't take you out baby is because i CANT!, the last time we went out to the movies i had to borrow the moni, which i have just paid back!

REmemebr what i gave u last bday?
remember what i gave u 4 xmas?
so if i wasnt stingy back then , isnt it likely that theres a justifiable reason 4 my apparent stinginess now?

Regard to the religious thingy, its strictly between u and i, if we can live with it fine! if not, fine!

I really hope im the person in question on this thread, or else i just wasted an hour i should have spent working
Cheers folks!

My recommendation: This Guys doesnt exactly see a future with u. Talk to him about it then make up ur mind. Use ur head & not your heart this time

Wow! Wahala dey O!

How old is this ur sister?

Try to get her to meet other guys of her age. She needs to get outgoing.

Let her join a social club or something (A club with wholesome activities). She'll surely see someone she likes and a lot of boys that wld approach her.

Keep an eye on her still sha.

Nice work.

I'm even falling in love with the lady already (Hope its not a trace of your babe).

But you should have packed all your works to display in just one post though. That would have made things more tidy.

and saved our precious space in the Graphics section

Its a bit annoying that u have 3 posts, with the 3 of them just displaying your works (without taking the rest of us along)

@Lafem

I pray u find fulfillment and make success when u come.

I'll like to be an associate even if I'm my hands are full at that time.

Nigeria is about to unleash its potentials in Animation

Some Tranquility at last.

God bless the Peace Makers

Na wa o!

Aworee just asked a simple unbiased question (in the "Religion Section")

But got more than he bargained for.

I think we should learn some tolerance

May his soul rest in peace

The Love is Gone like the wind

Swoooooooshhhhhhh!

HAaaaaa!!!!!!

You must be the chosen one

The one the oracle talked about 500 Rains ago

UBA is a pathetic case.

I've pulled out all my money from my two savings Accs with them.

The workers there are overworked, and frustrated

So they pass the aggression to the customers.

What a shame!

You need to see the attitude some of their sleazy female staff display in their Transcorp Hilton Branch in Abuja
(Stupid Touts)

Man!!!!!!!! Lafem

What are u?

An Animation Researcher/Animator/Cartoonist/Producer/Motivator/Everything

You cool man!

I like your drive. You give me morale.

This posts are encouraging. I'm thinking of ideas to work on
a short 5mins 2D clip to address a prevailing ill in Nigeria

I have so much on my hands (other stuff). Its going to take time.

Are u into Animation full time? What do u do?

You've got it man!

Well, I'll say, once u have the imaginative, creative mind,
u can surprise yourself with what u can achieve using basic shapes
and colors in all these 2D SWs.

Pst, A lot of Abstract is actually junk presented in color

Run! Run!! Run!!!

Thats it.

That relationship does not even exist.

It exists only in your mind. (You are On-Your-Own)

Do urself a favor and Find true love and happiness

learn flash 8.0 (2D Graphics )

Summary:
That boy was self-employed and begging was his profession (Has a PHD with years of experience to show).

Try a Hard Disk Recovery Software: Connect the lappy hard disk to a desktop and try detect it using this SW.

I have actually performed a transplant on a laptop hard disk. This was my last option after Freezing and gentle knocks.

Had to change some stuff from another one of the same model/make into the crashed one which had bad R/W Head cause it was making ticking sounds (from the type of sound u can tell what type of mechanical wahala)

Its a delicate operation (RISKY). It worked for abt 7mins so I could get important data out.

Did he win it online??

If its online, has he collected it?

OR they are asking for his credit card number?? That would be some good SCAM

Some beggars build Houses using your money

Some do juju for u using ur money according to what I heard

Be careful while giving alms

Though its good to have empathy for the poor

@topic
wHATS all the f*ck buddy, f*ck buddy

I think the 2 of u are very disillusioned

Thats the only u got involved with this kind of abusive relationship in the 1st place.

Its easy to find a man/lady, but not easy to find a life partner.

Save urself the pain.

Invitation

Are u down?

I think sometimes we just have to think about the other resources God had given us even b4 our degrees.

Where do ur strengths lie? There might been a small job/business out there that might just be the stepping stone u need.

Turn to God with ur whole heart and be diligent. Ur breakthrough would be STRONG eventually

Its a WOMAN'S WORLD at the swimming pool

Enough Free Training for u all

@kerzakov

Word!

@poster
You might want to confront her straight-up with the issue. Ask her whats happening?
Tell her she's still your cousin, but u also have someone in your life now (Does she expect u to remain single 4 life? How long was she going to continue this attitude).

Ask her if u or your girlfriend had wronged her in any way?

@darkmen

Are u many? (your name says "dark men 208".

This thread had long died. Why revive it?

Maybe the silly author is changed now. (Though I feel it was just a fake nollywood tale)

Thats what silly guys say when they feel (stupidly) smart

@Almondjoy

Alright Almond, Enjoy Urself.

Happy Holidays in advance to u too

@almond j.

U seem to like this topic a lot

What's the catch?

Lovely work

Quite good.

What do u draw with? Digital-Pad OR pencil-on-paper?
What SW do u use? Flash? Painter? Photoshop?

Keep it up man