₦airaland Forum

Fabrice07:
Dem for do small dogfight 😌

E go sweet to watch ooo🤪🤪🤪🤪

enlightenment !!!!
There's no God fearing man on earth again,all men are looking for money ..

Who woman help?

This shows how useless, greedy, selfish and dubious ladies are....
You never see anything yet...

Jewessgratitud3:
In my place, the kins men and the father's elder brother have the final say. My dad was the last born and at the age of 60 Dem no born am well to say no to his immediate elder brother and kinsmen when my elder sisters had their marriage. With abeg self, Dem no gree. When the in-laws saw that my dad was helpless they had to comply.

I even thought it's because he didn't grow up in the village with them and lived all his life in Lagos they treated him like that but he himself confirmed that it was omelala.

Am speechless 😶😶😶

maticar:
the man wants many visitors but he wasnt ready to foot the bills to entertain his own visitors.
na from son-in-law pocket e wan use entertain village people, nonsense man


my father never did such to my sisters

Doing that is very bad .

Jewessgratitud3:
As them no answer the lady nkor? Make she tear herself apart. She tried doing all that but you know some greedy kinsmen. Most times it's not even the father, the kinsmen will be inside fueling it and saying they won't do anything if their demands are not met. They did it to my elder sister now. Because her husband is the peaceful type and he respects my father a lot. So he just said, ogor, relax . I'll do anything they ask and he did everything. Nothing remain. Even my dead mothers portion, he paid it in full. Me I follow collect inside my mom's share..

So, it boils down to being fully prepared. Everything done cost now, na marriage no go cost?

You are correct but as a father you have to make your stand firm , no one has upper hand in your family..

Jewessgratitud3:
*From a concerned lady*👇‼️

My husband is not the same man I fell in love with.

My husband changed totally after wedding day, in fact, it started on the wedding night and its giving me a lot of concern.

It's not that he is not talking to me or we are fighting, but he is not the cheerful happy person anymore.

After months of trying to get what the problem is, he finally opened up to me and I don't know what my fault is, I think he is overreacting.

My husband works in an insurance company and he is just a junior staff, he earns 150k per month, so he is not doing that bad.

When we wanted to get married, my dad wrote the wedding list and everything he would bring, when he saw them, he fumed that they were too much and they should reduce it but my dad insisted that he won't collect it twice, I also told him if he really loves me, he would provide them, he could get help from his family too, it is called bride price and other things, and it is once.

We had little issue then but he later resolved it.

He brought everything they asked for.

During the wedding, my parents told him to buy a cow, rent a hall and decorate it then they'll take care of other things. He said he didn't have money for a big hall and he would prefer a field ground but my dad insisted that rain could disrupt things and he has many people coming.

That almost cause issues too, I had to support him with 50k to get the hall because I know who my dad is, he won't back out.

I didn't know how he did it, he took the hall and designed it, he bought cow too.

His family brought food and everything went fine and that was it.

I don't know what was keeping him moody until he spoke up.

He said I couldn't fight for him, I was there supporting my parents and watch them extorting him, did I even know he had to collect loan to pay for those things?

I got angry because he used the word 'extorting'.

He was the one that wanted to have my hand in marriage and if he cherish me, he should do all they wanted since he is not paying twice.

After I said this, he stopped talking in the house, he comes home, eat and go to bed.

I tried talking to him but he would listen but not talk, he is cold to himself and prefer his privacy.

Have I said something wrong?

I don't like whats happening. My marriage is too young to be going through all these.

I am tired, I don't know what to do.

Advise this lady

I can't still get the reason why parents will love to impress the outsiders while their house are dripping blood.. having many visitors means nothing if your son in-law can't afford to rent a hall ..Anuty you could have talked with your parents to take things easy ,is marriage not that they are salling you to the man and with all the up and downs you only supported him with 50k ? Marriage is not something a mam should be in a hurry to get in , telling him if he loves you he should pay everything once doesn't makes sense to me he loves you before even asking for your hand in marriage.....is a painful something but don't worry all will be fine he will come around when his dick gets up ...

Hotwest:

Office of the first son

Look at how those fools are handling guns as if they are on hunting in the forest...which European countries well civilized once president's son can be playing toys on the road and securities personels be running after him ? All happens in Nigeria the most corrupt and disgusting country.
This picture really speaks alot about this family, exactly as his father is moving around on free fuels while poor Nigerians are running around,is a pitty ..
Exactly as his father is smiling while other Nigerians are crying here and there just as his son moving on roller skates while idiots are running after him ,is a pitty..

God pls let me not be a savant to my oppressor or my enemies!!!!


When will our eye open that we may see afar ?

tobyjacky:
An opportunity my father did not give me

Don't say this ,is not nice at all ..if your Dad couldn't give you this you have no idea of how he struggled in his youth .. you that is complaining how prepare are you to meet handle opportunity that might come your way now ? If your destiny helper meets you now and asked if you have international passport am not too sure you have it ... Sorry to interfere on your post but I feel I should come in .

I can't blame my dad because of my condition now rather I put myself through all the opportunity am seeing...

Pls your location, I will love to taste this it's looks yummy 😋😋

Edipet:
Till date I don't still understand why person go leave him village/ lhouse go dey hustle for another Man village, then use the money just to pay house rent bill, buy food. Pay NEPA bill,pay high transport, Maybe hire experience olosho, at the end he might die without achieving anything part from paying those bills. Whereas in his village, there is free accommodation, cheap food, fresh food, farmland to plant of the things, cheap NEPA bill, cheap transportation and cheap girls .
Human never know wetin them want. We over labour ourselves unnecessarily. And animals will be laughing at us.
How can we be earning salary just for bills and House and food.

I think this person is an incomplete human being or might be under the influence of alcohol or wed .... Ode !!!

You that always abuse a freedom of speech by writing rubbish nko ?

Lesbians how far una market go sale die 🤪🤪🤪...

Promotion of lesbiansm!!


One day i will just disguise myself as a lady go and bleed 😀😀😀😀

Hear what this one is emitting from his mouth, he the can't even fixed his family problems just find his way on public place and shites all over his body....
I thought seeing this man in a movie he is sensible,I was thinking he would made through his family palava little did I know he is keeping sinking day by day ...pls someone should help me tell this chicken brain that a man who is incapacitated of solving his family problems has no right to come up on public space ..

Lies spread faster than truth!!!

Nigeria is bleeding blood not water ,
Nigeria is breeding war not peace
Nigeria is blinking instead on linking
Nigerians are wailing instead of welling
Nigerians are surviving instead of living
Nigeria dripping out instead of leading
Nigerians are eating bread with tears running down on their chicks ...

All eye should be on God because our judiciaries are stink and disgusting ..

I personally I don't believed and I can't never be in a relationship with I will not bleep...

The best is to report the issue to your husband the earlier the better!!

He doesn't have a girlfriend?

How sure are you that you're not menstruating?

Bicycle even expensive now ....

After my death if there's opportunity to born again God pls I still want to be a man ...

See this clown he can't even settled his family problems

Na small thing to deal with...
Bloodline season

Bravo !!!

Death is living next to life !!
Tears is a junior sister to Joy!!

Too bad 😭😭😭

You have no decision to make on behalf of your sister, it's your sister will stand for herself by decided not to be in the marriage or to be in the marriage...

I thought they had rescued the man so like play like play the man died 😲...
No frustration can make me to take my own life , God will not permit that to happen!!

That guy too smart , he is a legend 👏

If the guy knows how to bleep very well and have small money for maintaining she will enjoy last last ..

AdiNike:
PLEASE YOUR ADVICE IS NEEDED.

I have experienced outbreaks of this kind the third time in the space of 5months. At first, it was like 3 appearing on my penis cap, the next day after a rough sex but i don't even know when it burst open and dried up because they were smaller in size compared to the outbreak in the picture and then later, a single one pops out twice which i burst open myself and they dried up leaving a tiny scar.

I thought it was all over until this recent outbreak. It doesn't itch or cause any pain and most times, I don't even remember it till i have to urinate.

I had unprotected sex 2 days before the last outbreak and noticed i urinated a reddish color urine and i used antibiotics and did not feel it again until the outbreak showed up.

NB: I haven't met the last person i had the unprotected sex with when i first experienced the first outbreak and both times were unprotected sex.

Could this be Herpes?

If this is Herpes, what are the medications I can start using?

I just got married and my Wife is pregnant.

Firstly , stay clear from your wife till you get treated .
See a doctor!!

[quote author=Dexy4yah post=124995102]I dated this lady for few years... doing our courtship we had unprotected sex.
I later relocated to another state because of my studies....that's how the relationship died.

She later got married

After about 13years of not hearing from eachother....one day my phone rang and behold she was the one...she called to tell me a secret...she said her first child is mine and not her husband's.
That doing our courtship she took in, she tried to abort it but it didn't work out for her, she didn't tell me about it because she knew that i was not ready to father a child at that time.

It was at that moment that she met this guy who is now her husband...the guy hasten everything and got married to her...she made him believe that the pregnancy is his own whereas that's was not the true...the boy is 8years old now.
She said her conscience has been disturbing her that's why she opened up to me.

I told her never to let the husband know about it and let the child be the husband's own....let her just forget everything about me being the father of the child so that her marriage won't crumble.
She has a loving husband and she is blessed with three kids aside the boy.


But she made one comment that when the boy reach 22years she will tell him who his real father is....she insisted. But am against it, i told her not to try it because if she end up telling the boy about it there is every possibility that the husband will end up knowing about it and i wonder how he is going to react towards it.

(Women can keep secret sha)
Please i hope i did the right thing??






Why women are like this ?
Now ,how will her husband feels when he understands he is not the biological father to that boy ?
The earlier the better, go and father your child before it gets out of control.