₦airaland Forum

spiralwedge:
You're right.

The problem is Paul and Jude. This recent outburst shows to me a lot of immaturity and pain. I can only imagine the worse that we don't even know about.

If she congratulates both of you, wahala, only her husband, wahala, none at all, wahala. If i were in that woman's shoes, I'd do the same.... Cut off ties with troublesome immature family members, but wish them well.

I do same in my own family life already.

See me, see trouble o. I never see where simple happy birthday dey cause world war 3. If the person you consider yourself enemy greeting you good morning everyday. You either grudgingly answer good morning in return or you ignore. Which one be anger again?

Openbusiness:
I don't give a damn if we are twins, triplets, quadruplets or hundreduplets, but if that's how you will be addressing my wife, then we go scatter everything. I now understand why Peter said he can't tolerate them disrespemcting his wife. This Paul guy na idiot, so disrespecting your brother's wife openly to this extent is supposed to make you feel BIG or what? Peter doesn't disrespect your wife, why should you be disrespecting his? If you can be saying this type of insults in public, then only God knows the kind of insults you will saying to her face, and then you expect your brother to be cool with that and support you? Na craze dey warri u. Peter's sin was simply because they don't like the woman he married. Did he marry her because of them or because of himself? Na una sabi oh.

Imagine Paul come dey yap Peter's wife age on social media just because she wished him happy birthday. Now tell me who dey behave like small pikin?

benalvino2:
Dead people voting, people living outside voting. No voter id and no requirement for matching signatures. If that is not blatant to you I don't know what is.

Canada don't use mail ballot, dey don't even use machines. They count it the old fashion way and everyone can be there to witness it. America has turned to Nigeria thanks to Obama and his dems

Nairaland and twitter are not the courts and they cannot change the results. Tell Rudy Gulianni to present his evidence in court or better still present the evidence in court for him, since it seems you have more proof than the whole Trump campaign and legal team.
Your diatribe on nairaland is getting irritating.

NwaAmaikpe:





The vilest and cruelest of all serpents are the most subtle.

Don't worry Rudy
We see through her schemes and social media sainthood but we are comforted from that every evil has an expiry date; one day the veil will fade and the other Pea in your pod will know that women are not worth creating enmity over.

All these vitriol because Lola wished both twin happy birthday on Instagram instead of only one twin - peter, her husband.
This shows Lola is far more matured than Paul Oloye. If wishing happy birthday can be so evil, why not revenge by wishing Lola happy birthday on Instagram on her own birthday too.

Why does he go through pains of anger every year over the same thing. Lola should continue torturing him by wishing him happy birthday same time next year.

Bluebyrd:
Al Gore didn't concede, he went to court to challenge the election results. He eventually conceded on December 12 a month after the elections. Trump has a right to use every legal options to get justice.

Al Gore did not concede because the dispute was a few hundred votes in one state - Florida, where the incumbent governor was the blood brother of his opponent. So, it's logical to demand a total recount and not a recount in democratic stronghold.

In case of Trump, we are talking of at least 4 states with margins of over 10,000 in the state with the least margin. How do Trump hope to upturn over 60,000 votes in Pennsylvania?

Al Gore never alleged rigging, but Trump and his goons has been screaming rigged and stolen elections on twitter without presenting a shred of evidence in court. He is just pumping up the emotions of his worshippers.

chrisj2:
You should have listened to the submission from the army guy at the panel. The organisers of the |Protest themselves knows that things were getting out of hand... The original protest was going to be dealt with (?). They now moved on to bad governance - not ideal! Some protesters might just be singing and waving flags but others were destroying things and causing havoc for other folks in Lagos especially, Police men were being killed, organised criminals and thugs were using the protest as cover... Etc etc

The most important reason why the army were called is because the original protest was against the Police so they cannot call the Police and after imposing a curfew, people still went out days before and beyond curfew time. No country in the world will allow protesters to destroy things and other people's livelihood.

Stopp telling us that all protesters are University graduates just singing and asking for whatever - it was a heady mix of people and even nice people do bad things when in bad company and when emotions carry them too far

You saw all these at the Lekki toll gate before the shootings? There was looting and riots in Oshodi, the army did not come with live bullets to shoot people. Surulere was a war zone with looters looting every shop in Bode Thomas, army was not called in. It was in Lekki toll gate where youths were having a carnival waving Nigerian flags that the army were called to massacre people.

SmartyPants:
Going off all available evidence, the army did not shoot anyone but there is a high chance that police did.

Then you did not watch the CNN report this morning. Maybe you use startimes and not DSTV. Go to CNN site to watch the full report of how they traced the bullets recovered to the Nigerian army and even videos of soldiers shooting straight at protesters.

chrisj2:
Fake News can also include some truth... No one is now saying nothing happened at Lekki or the Army was not at Lekki and that there was no shooting at Lekki... But we need more evidence and facts - no grainy videos that does not even link together. If Soldiers were firing indiscriminately, how come there was very few stampede right in front of the soldiers and who will be so calm to be filming soldiers hooting real bullets anyhow...

Actually, CNN should also have acknowledge that flash bangs and blanks were fired - it is obvious because people are not falling down as the shooting was going on.

There were most likely live bullets involved but there were also blanks (they use them for training and are likely to have more than the ordinary Police (rather than riot police).

Just because CNN did not like Trump does not mean they will not defend their own country if they do unjust things to other countries. They embed themselves with aggressors and film a one-sided war and they will not do what they are doing to the Nigerian government if they were the ones killing innocents, blacks, browns in foreign lands. Enough is the bigging up of CNN!

Watch the report and stop making assumptions and conjures.

SmartyPants:
1. DJ Switch said they were shot at directly
2. Dj Switch said the soldier said they were ordered to do so - ostensibly, to kill of course
3. Yet you say in between rounds of shooting at people to kill them, they suddenly became so docile as to allow these people approach them, and even have a nice amicable chat

Are you using your own head?
So they were ordered to kill the protesters, but in between killings, the protesters

So what is your point exactly?

All those involved in murdering Nigerian youths protesting peacefully and waving the green white green flag must pay for their sins. They sinned not only against Nigerians youth, but against the very symbol of Nigeria and humanity.

Everyone of them involved, be it the president, chief of Army Staff, brigade commanders and actual soldiers who carried out the illegal order would be held to account.

Luckily Nigeria ratified the Rome Statute on 27 September 2001, and so we are subject to the ICC. After the immunity of this government expires, all those involved must be taken before ICC in Hague.

My mum started crying after watching the CNN report this morning, especially the part where a boy that was shot and while still lying on the floor in pains said if he doesn't live till the next morning, that he died fighting for Nigeria.

Nigerians and friends of nigerians with British passports can sign the petition below to ask the British government to sanction all government officials and their families involved in the lekki massacre/murders.
https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/554150

Please let's not relent until justice is done to the murdered youths and their families

inspayard:
Exactly, I know his blind love for Nengi won't let him get his facts right. It's absurd comparing a whole nobel laureate with some TV reality star.

By what qualifications was she given a novel prize? Was it based on first class? Since you guys make it seems as the only think that matters in life is degrees and class of degrees, what class of degree did Malala have that qualified her for the Nobel price?

Miyachi:
Are you serious?

This was a girl that was shot because she chose to go to school and get an education, that is why she is the UN ambassador for Girl Child Education. She wasn't some meat on BBN.

Learn to have points before arguing.

Because the girl was shot because she chose to go to school made her more qualified for UN ambassador for girl child than a first class graduate? Don't Pakistan have girls that are first class graduates that are more qualified?

You can still use the same logic for Nengi. A girl that lost both parents while still young, but still went ahead and graduated from university and made a success of her life. Should she not also be a role model for the girl child?
You moral crusaders are only concerned about her shaking yansh and breast in BBN house. Mind you she slept with no one.

Acidosis:
Question is why should that particular girl get the appointment? Is she the only first class degree holder in the whole of the state?

What about the other first class degree holders?

What about first class degree holders with Masters

What about double first class degree holders?

What about first class degree holders with Ph.D?

What about first class degree holders from foreign universities?

What about first class degree holders from federal Universities?

What about...bla bla bla. You Nigerians and stereotypes are like five and six.

If the governor had appointed someone from a private uni, the entire thread would be filled with all sorts of nonsense and useless stereotypes.

If we are to go by the most academically qualified, then the girl in that picture is certainly NOT qualified.

Trust me, I am for anything that glorifies the Nigerian youth. My opinions won't change if the governor had appointed a 15 year old SSCE holder, as far as his reasons are valid.

Don't mind them. Ask them how many degrees Malala Yousafzai that is the ambassador for girl child education have?

lahizak:
Wow! If thats what role model means to u, then okay.

I am the role model for my daughter. The way I live my life provides the moral direction of my children, no other person can or should do that.

lahizak:
She is appointed as a girl child role model. You sincerely telling me that u prefer Nenji to be ur daughter role model than d first class law girl?

Interestingly yes. Because my 6 years old recognises Nengi and would always listen to whatever Nengi want to say. First class girl on the other hand, she has no idea. Even the first class would not make sense to her. If that one talk how many girls will listen?

lahizak:
Say whatever u want, it doesn't change the fact that it is morally wrong. U seriously telling me u will prefer Nenji as a role model for ur child over the clearly well dressed and brilliant first class graduate? Come on? What u saying? I like Nenji and I am happy for her and I enjoyed watching her but I pray my daughter grow up to be like that brilliant first class girl than Nenji.

And what do you know about the "brilliant first class girl"? You know next to nothing about her except the claim that she graduated with first class. You her faults and weaknesses and you pray your daughter be like her?
Nengi on the other hand you know, because she lived her life on our screens for 3 months. I don't quarrel with you for not liking her lifestyle, but to compare her to a complete unknown person is preposterous.

Miyachi:
Pitiful.
The job title is Special Adviser on Girl Child Development.

Yes the first class "moral girl" has qualities worthy of emulation. It would have empowered the girl child to know that if she just works hard enough she would be celebrated. That she doesn't have to slut around on TV to "make it".

Tell me what the BBN star has to offer as a role model.

Are you insinuating Nengi did not work hard to get to where she is?
This is a girl that graduated from a first class federal university.
This is a girl that run her own shoe business.
This is a girl that made it to the big brother house among tens of thousands(if not hundreds of thousands ) other contestants, and made it to the final day.

Now, let's compare with the achievements of the first class girl.
Can you also list qualities she posses that you know is worthy of emulation?

In marketing there is something known as brand value. Nengi with her experience and fame has far more brand value than the first class girl. This is Because brings more brand visibility and attention to the product or cause you want to promote. That's why footballers are not paid the same wage. A player with higher brand value gets paid more than a player with lower value even though the latter might be a better player.

That's the way the law of demand and supply works.

If you put Nengi in one room and first class girl in another room giving the same talk, no one would go and listen to the first class girl.

joseph1832:
what did she graduate with? A first class?

Shebi you said Nengi's academic qualification is 3 months in big brother house? So why are you asking what she graduated with? Do someone who only spent 3 months in a house doing absolutely nothing but being wayward graduate?

Miyachi:
And the graduate slept her way through university and law school.

And the Special Adviser role is now a political position.

People like you are the problem with Nigeria, dimwits everywhere.

Imagine. The governor hired a person with a degree in mass communication from university of Portharcourt for a job that has to do with promoting the girl child, and some moral hypocrites are up in arms, because they prefer a moral girl with a first class degree in law from Niger Delta University. (abeg, where that one dey?

How that makes any sense is beyond me.

joseph1832:
This is exactly what I'm talking about. I mean what nonsense. Someone who spent 3 months in a house doing absolutely nothing but being wayward, is given precedence over someone who spent 4 years in a citadel of education.

What a country!!!!.

And who tell you say Nengi no spend 4 years in a citadel of education? Abi University of Portharcourt no be citadel of education again?

CastedAyo:
Charly Boy Condemns Appointment Of BBNaija's Nengi Over First-Class Graduate By Gov Diri

Musician and activist Charly Boy has kicked against the appointment of 2020 Big Brother Naija housemate Nengi as senior special adviser (SSA) by Bayelsa State Governor Duoye Diri, Igbere TV reports.

The 70-year-old expressed his displeasure in an Instagram post on Tuesday, describing the appointment as misplaced priority.

According to Charly Boy, the reality TV star was appointed while a lady who reportedly graduated with a first-class degree in law from the Niger Delta University was neglected.



https://www.instagram.com/p/CHrSOQ5Jjf5/?igshid=fjquev6tmxvs

Nengi was appointed SSA on girl child development by Governor Diri on November 6.

The University of Portharcourt graduate was also named the face of Bayelsa State.

Igbere TV reports that her fellow Big Brother Naija housemate Trikytee was also appointed as SSA.

Charly Boy is a television presenter, publisher and producer.

Charlie bone that thing. I know you very well, you when like small yellow babes those days.
Talk true if you want hire personal assistant between Nengi and first class graduate, which one will you hire. That first class graduate no try at all in the presentation department.

Anyway, na third class and school drop outs dey hire all the first class in the world. First class no mean say you go achieve pass person wey no go school.

AfroKnight:
Someone said “fathers don suffer”. Thats life o.

Na mother get pikin. It’s like fathers are just ATM.

Make una try dey show love for fathers abeg. It’s not always easy to deny yourself the extra nice things you always dreamed of, just so you can make your children happy.



I need to draw up a plan for my kids. They must love me more than their mama.

That would be very difficult when you leave home at 6 in the morning and come back home at 9 in the evening exhausted and flagged out, while the mother is home with them cooking for them and watching telemundo and cartoon network with them most times. There is more tendency to develop emotional attachment to mothers than working fathers.

merbenko:
Father's done suffer for this life, if our children hammer small na to called and blessed their mother's, isoryte

That's why I say men are the exploited and abused gender. A man work to his bone to providing money from ante natal to birth, from pampers to teething drugs, from nursery school to university. But, when it's time to show appreciation to the parents, it's “If it is for my mom, it is for everybody; it’s for my dad too. My dad is married to my mom. After all, they are living together.” Meaning the father becomes a squatter or tenant to the mom.

Sometimes, it's tempting for a man to use his hard earned cash to shayo, treat himself to good things of life and travel the world, instead of sacrificing for children who will say "it's for everybody, after all they are living together" when it's time to show appreciation to parents.

globalresource:
Learn to respect people's belief

You have yours. They have theirs. And respect that. Don't call people name

How can someone respect a belief that is dangerous to society? A belief that teaches coveting things that belongs to others. A belief that teaches that you should gain from the loss of others.

This is the belief that makes Christians morally reprehensible today. You cannot loose your money or material thing in the house of a christian without him justifying the money or thing as a gift from God.

In my life, I was taught by my parents never to covet other people's properties and monies and that's the exact moral I teach my children. If my 6 years old find N50 on the floor, she would bring it to me or the mother to look for the owner.

That's what we need to start teaching our children and not to see any error or opportunity as God's blessings.

mrugly:
So what you are simply saying is that yam was scarce in the olden days? As in mortal was scarce in the olden days? People don't rear chicken in those days? You mean it was the white men who brought vegetables to Africa?

For your information, this food you believe say na big food na like eba for side(Osun,Ekiti, Ondo)

You are just being mischievous. I was questioning about the chicken and not pounded or vegetables.
How many people rear chicken in the 50s and then eat that reared chicken on regular basis.

You must be a millennium pikin. Ask your grandfather and grandmothers about life in the 50s and 60s.
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delkuf:
So you say God cheat. Well for me, God can't be question. He does his things the way he want. And am ok with that

Your God promotes, condone and encourage cheating, scamming, dishonesty and 419 as a means of blessing his children?

honest1480:
That's based on your own human reasoning. Ways of God can never be your own way. Stop castigating every men of God about everything

So you mean to tell me your God works in crooked and dishonest ways against natural justice?

crowther15:
I dont know why we always fail to read through what is being posted, they asked the lady are you sure, she said yes. Even though after eating the food the girl came back and there was nothing they could do again. They have eaten the food before she came back and is different from what you are insinuating up there.

Even though the story get as e be, chicken, vegetable and pounded yam in 1956? How many people cook with meat in 1956 even in the cities, not to talk of cooking vegetable soup with chicken in the village. Even as late as 70s people eat rice and chicken once a year.

Anyway, even if the story is true and you mistakenly eat someone else's food, won't it be morally right to find out whole actually own the food and promise to refund it when you can.

arcOluwasanmi:
Faithful God!
...I've never seen the righteous forsaken nor his seed begging for bread...

80% of bornagain Christians beg for not just bread but for yam, Indomie noodles, garri and even money on a daily basis.

delkuf:
That is why God says he will have mercy on who he will have mercy on

But why give someone else's mercy to another person? Is that not cheating or fraud. He could simply manufacture manna from heaven and no one else is hurt.

DarkWritings:
you better claim it before they give what belongs to you to someone else who already said Amen lolz

You want to claim what belongs to someone else? Does that sound right to you?