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Give am belle, she will be forced to stay put, at least for close to 9 months.

The problem is you are yet to have kids. When kids starts coming, life for you both will be a whole new ball game.

nandyz:
Bros most ladies are guys ex, but they still maintain their friendship.. Taking myself as an example, most of my ex are very friendly with me,, same as I to them,,, we communicate, we connect, most contract I handle comes from them..
She keep in touch with her ex or communicate with him doesn't make her to cheat on u or there about. All u need to do is to keep ur eyes on her study her, get updates from her and know what so take u for.. Treat her as a woman, one-day u will know her stand n her wing

Most kids here are just trying to sound matured. Why would someone still maintain relationships with ex's after marriage? It doesn't make sense. If you still need friendship and emotional support from your ex's after marriage, why marry at all? There is something called emotional cheating. Cheating does not always have to be sexual


I had a fair number of ex's in my heydays, but as soon as I said I do before God and the law, I deleted all their contacts and blocked them all on social media. I explained to them why I had to do that. One of them even tried to destroy my marriage and called my wife saying all sorts of rubbish. I had to change that line to stop the harassment.

The lady did wrong by engaging in relationship with the ex without the knowledge of her fiancée, and had the audacity to sleep (or be sleeping) at his place.

Bullhari:
please get out of this girl's life. she doesn't deserve a low thinking ijiot.

so you have been strafing all you ex that reached out to you?

I hope your wife or fiancée sleeps over at her ex's room and then you find out months later, and I hope that you thank her for being very matured to show you are not ijiot.

Who is talking about reaching out to ex's? I hope to you reaching out does not mean sleeping in the same room with them?

jewelpeter:
I know its disheartening to you but try to understand that she needed to work so she won't be a liability to you.I had a similar experience but we sorted it out cause my fiance trust that I can't cheat on him worst still my ex.so if she could open up to you just forgive her and try to communicate more to know your kind of woman.it will show maturity on your part.

Understand what exactly? Sleeping in your ex's house without my knowledge or permission?
I do not understand how maturity comes into play here.

majekdom2:
Go back and do your research. Ever heard of MSN @ bolded. Yahoo was a search engine. Google copied yahoo but with a different vision.

Google copied Yahoo? Now where did you get that from? Yahoo at no time dominated the search engine space. Yes others were jostling for space in the search engine space, but no one actually dominated.
Google search dominated right from the start because they had superior technology and filing system.

Now read this;
https://www.searchenginepeople.com/blog/engines-google-killed.html

johnmattew:
this article is so superficial.....no deep research and the writer knowledge of Google is so elementary

My brother i tired o!.

The article was poorly researched and poorly written.

I cannot remember yahoo ever dominating the search engine space. Yahoo primary business was providing free emails, which it dominated. It then also dominated the chat market with yahoo messenger. It was later it veered into other markets like search engine, news, and others.

Google on the other hand started with search engine in mind. Google was known primarily for search engine. They dominated search engine right from the start. In the beginning all their revenue was from search. Adword and adsense was the standard revenue model.
It was from the success of revenue from search that Google ventured and dominated other markets.

It is misinformation to say chrome is included in android OS. It means you do not understand how android works. Android is open source, so it is left for developers and phone companies to include chrome in their phones, Many dont. I had many phones I had to install chrome from playstore. Nowadays, most phone manufacturers include chrome in their applications.

frowland:
I cannot remember OBJ having any medical checkup in Nigeria when he was president. Remind me again who's wife died on medical tourism? There are set of people who will take your message seriously because I don't.
Can Mr. Bruce swear on his corpse that he have never gone for checkups abroad since he became senator?

Hypocrisy is Nigeria's main identity. Did any former Nigerian president undergo ordinary check up in Nigeria, before we even talk of undergoing treatment in Nigeria? Did their Messiah, Jonathan undergo any treatment in Nigeria. Which senator has ever undergone treatment in Nigerian hospitals?

When senator Akpabio was flown abroad after a light accident in Abuja, where was Mr. Common sense and his supporters then?

koboko69:
Jonathan didnt even leave power at "just under 7500Ws.
What is the highest electricity that Nigeria have ever produced in the first place?

I was talking about installed capacity and not generating capacity. Installed capacity is the capacity the power station is designed for. The available capacity is the capacity the power station can generate under uptimal conditions and the generated capacity is the actual power the power stations are generating and capable of distributing.
The highest power Nigeria had ever generated is about 5,200 MWs.

FarahAideed:
Every single one there sir !!!

OK, let's start from the very first onyour list;
The Aba power station was an IPP project. The project was conceived in 2005; it was part of Obasanjo's IPP projects.

The development of Aba IPP was based on a commercial study and technical audit of the Aba Island conducted in 2005 by the project promoter Geometric Power in collaboration with Power Holding Company of Nigeria and sponsored by International Finance Corporation of the World Bank.
http://sparkonline.com.ng/2016/10/530m-geometric-power-aba-ipp-to-switch-on-in-april-2017.html

The project was established and funded by Geometric Power limited, it has little to do with Jonathan. Up till today, the project is not yet completed, it was only phase one that was finished in 2014.

Kewtt:
GEJ represented light...
Buhari is complete darkness

Yes GEJ represented the light of stealing, not corruption.

FarahAideed:
Was it your father that completed them ?

Now, let me give you one challenge, name one power station that your messiah completed and fully operational before he left office.

FarahAideed:
Was it your father that completed them ?

Your father was using candles for light and gramophone for radio before 2010 when Jonathan took power.

FarahAideed:
Name capacity Date
Aba power station 140 MW 2012

Afam 6 Power plant 624 MW 2012

Alaoji Power station 1074 MWs 2012

Calabar Power Station 561 Mws 2014


Egbema Power Station 338 Mws 2012

Geregu Phase 2 434 MWs 2012

Ibom PS 190 Mws 2009

Ihovbor PS 450 Mws 2012

Olorunsogo phase 2 675 Mws 2012


Omoku Phase 2 225 MWs 2012


omotosho phse 2 450 Mws 2012

Sapele 2 Power S 450 Mws 2012

Ibom Power plant 2 191 Mws 2010

Azura Thermal 1500 obj/Gej

Zamfara Power Station 100 mw 2012

You mean to tell us that in the year 2012 alone Jonathan completed 12 power stations and added over 5000Mws of electricity, and over 7000Mws if we add all the power you stated up there as attributed to Jonathan. Since our total installed capacity as of 2015 when Jonathan was leaving was just under 7500MWs, it meant that we were all living in darkness before Jonathan took over in 2010.
You lies make lai Muhammed look like kindergarten.

CAPSLOCKED:
SHE PROBABLY REFUSED TO ABORT BECAUSE OF FAMILY OR RELIGIOUS FAITH AND NOW SHE TOOK THIS WAY OUT BECAUSE SHE COULDN'T RAISE THE CHILD ALONE AFTER ALL THE PEOPLE THAT CONVINCED HER TO KEEP THE CHILD DISAPPEARED.

Stallion93:
Mind u there are many more like her in this Decayed country. Naija 4 life

When we advocate for legalising and regulating abortion, religious hypocrites come for our necks (and soul). This type of cruel murder of newborns is more common that we wish to acknowledge.

You cannot force a woman to keep and care for a baby she definitely does not want.

Originalsly:
Hmmm...suicide?....I heard all sorts of ways people commit suicide....poor people take poison.. or if really broke/afraid of pain....hanging or OD on some drug...or if they prefer a watery death...jump off some bridge into a river/lagoon. But jumping into a well?...to commit suicide?...bodies are dumped in wells. I strongly believe he was murdered....an autopsy is a must.

My brother, I tire o!
How does one commit suicide by jumping into a well. Will he dive head first or he will jump in with his legs?
I doubt he will die if he jumped leg first. He might be injured but be can simply hold onto the walls of the well to prevent himself from drowning, that is assuming the well water level would contain his whole height.

legrande69:
Don’t just politicize everything .. I know this man personally. I hear his voice from my own house. Man was suffering from mental disorder for years.. he hanged on for as long as he could.RIP to him. Think of his wife and three kids.

Had he attempted suicide before? Mental disorder to not translate to suicide.
Can you rule out murder?

Although one cannot rule out accident, but the story of mixing cement with water, drinking it and then jumping into a well that early in the morning is a bit incredulous.

EYITAYOR231:
RIP to this man,he is my church member! He has been in charge of money affair even in my church and no bad record about him, only God knows how it Happens we can't say

I really doubt this man committed suicide, he just doesn't fit the profile. This is why I love the oyinbos, they would carry out thorough investigation and forensics to determine if this was truly a suicide case.

Just that one Facebook post is not enough evidence of suicide. He might be under duress or being threatened to do something against his conscience. He might have been pushed or thrown into the well. He might even have been killed before being thrown into the well. Only good forensic investigation can determine that.

The suspicion of murder is even very strong in that the story of suicide was concluded just a few hours after his death and then a Facebook post not connected to the suicide was then released. Further more we learnt that this is the 3rd senior management staff to die under strange circumstances this year.
Something is really amiss.

Shelumiel:
Voting for an atheist is equivalent to voting for homosexuals, lesbians, cross-dressers, terrorists , sado-masochists and all sorts of perverted persons.

So how many homosexuals, lesbians, cross-dressers, terrorists , sado-masochists, etc do you know.

So the Catholic priests that abused little boys all around the world were atheists?

So the Methodist church, anglican church and other denominations that ordained openly gays priests were atheists?

So ISIS, Boko Haram, al-shabab, nazis etc were atheists?

somehow:
God doesn't have chairmen nor does it have state chairmen or governors. God is the only leader both in heaven and earth and commands everything alone.

Can that be said of your analogy?

Yes! Absolute authoritarian dictatorship. People or angels will always revolt under such conditions.

richidinho:
with just 4 APC members?

Nigeria is finished, we are taken back to 1921

Don't mind them, they are yet to learn from PDP, they need at least one more member before they can attempt to impeach fayose, just like PDP attempted to do with Amaechi. The antidote to that threat is the mace.
Fayose should know that a good wack on the head of any APC house member will abort any impeachment threat.

somehow:
But Buhari is not the chairman of APC nor is he the one directing or controlling the affairs of the party.

Very wrong analogy.

The story was not talking about a party in heaven, but the total inhabitants. It is comparable to the ruler of the total inhabitants of Nigeria, therefore the analogy is very apt.

FarahAideed:
[b]For your information Iam of the factual opinion that is Buhari not used his greed and indiscipline to needlessly oust the govt of Shagari by today Nigeria would have been the beacon of Africa... That coup was the point we lost the plot and Nigeria became the hopeless rot it has become.

I was an avid supporter of Buhari, and I accept he has messed up in a lot of areas, but that does not mean all nigeria's woes started and ends with him.

You must have a personal vendetta against Buhari, else you would not propagate outright lies against him and use that lie as a platform for hatred. It is a historical fact that Buhari was never part of the 1983 coup. That coup was planned and executed by Babangida, Bako, Abacha, and a few others, Buhari was invited from Jos to head the government being the most senior officer at that time.

Now, if you spew so much venom against Buhari for your perceived coup, why not spew the same venom for Ironsi for the January 1966 coup and for destroying our regional system?

Who are my people? You don't even know me yet you have already assigned me a tribe and religion in your bigot filled mind .. You can't change the fact that Fulani cows produce like quality beef and milk that would even be allowed in any store in Europe because of the really poor quality.

Where in my write up did I assign you a tribe and religion? Maybe your hatred for fulani and Buhari is playing tricks on your mind.

This is how Dangote Assumed that the problem was preservation and he set up a 70 million dollar mega plant big enough to produce preservable puree to meet the whole of west Africas need till he released we weren't even producing enough tomatoes in the first place and shut down the plant .

Believe me the problem is not that Nigeria is not producing enough tomatoes, the problem is that of transportation and preservation. Kano, Benue, plateau, kaduna and many middle belt states produces millions of tons of tomatoes. The main problem is transporting these tomatoes to the factory from hundreds if not thousands of miles through our dilapidated transport infrastructure. Even getting the tomatoes from the farms to the markets in the villages is a challenge.

FarahAideed:
I agree with Dangote that Buhair has zero vision and he is the reason Nigeria has since lost the plot to be a beacon in Africa but I disagree with him on the importation of milk on the premise that he is once again wrong to assume that Nigeria has the capacity to on ground to produce milk .. Fulani cows are pathetic milk producers and at that produce really poor milk and cannot even produce enough to meet the milk requirements of one Nigerian state alone...Dangote made the same mistake when he assumed that Nigeria had enough tomatoes to stop the importation of tomato paste into the country and lesson he has since learnt to be false after his 70 million tomatoes plant couldn't get enough tomatoes to even work for a straight week and he shut it down

Buhari only assumed the reins of government about 3 years ago, so if you say that Nigeria had since lost its plot to become a beacon in Africa, how come you are blaming Buhari?

If Fulanis are pathetic milk producers, then what about your people? Is there a handicap that stops you people from rearing cows? I thought you people claim you are better than fulani people.

Nigeria can indeed meet its tomato demand, the problem is lack of adequate technology to grow, preserve, store and transport the tomato. Most of the tomatoes our farmers grow ends up perishing.
Tomato is highly perishable and seasonal. Now, I am told a basket of tomatoes is between 200 to 500 naira. When the season goes, you will not find any tomato in the market.

kingkakaone:
U have turned his innocent comment to religious war already.

What is ur problem? Don't u care for the loss of lives?
Did he support TB Joshua? TB Joshua should be prosecuted and if he's wrong should be jailed, isn't that what u wanna hear?

Na wa for Una self.

With this kind of whack mentality some of u display in this country, one doesn't need to look far to know why Nigeria is not moving forward.

The reason Nigeria can never and I repeat can never progress is because of hypocrisy. When the Synagogue Church episode happened, I shouted loudly that the main man himself should be arrested to explain how he allowed a substandard project to be executed in his church. I got insulted by other Christians telling me that it's the contractor that should be liable for questioning and prosecution and not the owner of the project. In fact Lagos States government went after the contractor without ever questioning T. B. Joshua.

Now a similar scenario has taken place, a substandard truck plying Lagos road has killed dozens of people and damaged scores of cars, and the same people and the same Lagos state government is calling for the arrest of the owner of the truck and not the driver or even the mechanic of the truck. Now you do not need Google to tell you that is hypocrisy.

And someone is accusing me of starting a religious war. In the same vain, the people calling for head of the Mallam that owned the truck is starting an ethnic war.

I wish the war am starting is a class war, because there are different laws for the rich and powerful and another law for the masses. If the truck had belonged to a high and mighty like Dangote, I am certain Lagos States Government or the people on this forum would never think of arresting Dangote to answer for his trucks.

Olanireti:
He should be held accountable.

Why should he be held accountable, was he the one that drove the truck? At least that was the same argument Christian brothers and sisters used to exonerate T. B. Joshua when his unprofessionally designed and built building collapsed and killed more than a hundred people.

If the lagos state government cannot prosecute T.B. Joshua, how come they are desperate to prosecute the owner of the truck?

This was because God was too autocratic, like buhari, he did not give the angels the change to make any input into their own destinies. He just issued commands and expect absolute loyalty. Just like the rAPC, the disgruntled angels had no choice but to decamp.

Amakababe:
It's not secret that most if not all nigerian men are scum. Wicked heartless and stingy.
Yesterday, a guy slapped his alleged lover because she wanted to fry eggs common eggs.
Rubbish!
I just fried 4 and ate them all, yes, I didn't touch your eggs stingy nigerian men.
And PS any man that dares lays his hands on me or any of my close female friends will regret been born nonsense.

Stingy Nigeria men? How? What about Nigerian women are they crippled or invalid? Nigerian women would be forming feminist but require men to buy 4 eggs for them to fry.

So Amaka, if only you fry 4 eggs, how many eggs would you fry for your whole family? Assuming your family consists of you, your husband, 3 children and maybe your sister or other family relation, how much eggs will your fry per breakfast? A whole crate? We are just talking about eggs, what about other ingredients for the breakfast like bread, butter, oil,onions, etc.

And we are only talking of breakfast. How much will you and your family eat for launch and supper?

Lorenzop:
what do you mean when you said she supervised the looting? or that she is incompetent.....you deserve even a slap for insulting a woman of her calibre

She was highly incompetent during the Jonathan administration.

She was the finance minister and coordinating minister for the economy and she had no idea of how much money NNPC was remitting into the Nigerian federation account, she has no idea of how much subsidy she was paying to oil marketers, she was borrowing money to pay salaries, and lots more.

Take Ngozi (Okonjo-Iweala), who worked for me. And who worked competently for me. Because I know Ngozi’s weaknesses, but I know her strong points. Her strong point is technical competence. But Ngozi needs to be led and to be supervised. Now will you comment on Ngozi who worked for me as the same Ngozi who worked for Jonathan? Will you? But it’s the same person. - Olusegun Obasanjo

If Okonjo Iweala becomes President, who will lead her?

She was effectively vice president during the Jonathan administration and she messed up big time.

truthstands01:
Let north Korea test missile again, let's see. US defense budget for 2017 is $700B and $760b for 2018 while that of Russia is $54b. Just pray they don't use it on you otherwise, your second name is sorry. Peace through strength is mighty and don't get Trump provoked, he may not hold his patience for that country. That's s the point.

If trump likes let him spend $700 trillion on defense, that does not guarantee victory in war. Trump cannot win a war with north Korea without the support of China, Russia and especially south Korea. THE US CANNOT WIN THE WAR UNILATERALLY.
The first Korean war was stalemated because China supported and fought on the side of North Korea.

All trump will achieve is a repeat of Vietnam after spending trillions of dollars.

It is a pity trump and his supporters are so ignorant of history.

muzeze77:
Iran is not Iraq. How many countries can he fight at the same time? If he decides to fight Iran, am sure the European countries would not join him on this one. With Russia arming Iran. It will be a long battle. Big military might does not always mean victory. You thought US won the Vietnamese war. Think again

Do not ming ignorant Trumpeters, they think the US can win a war fighting alone in the middle east.

peeps4u:
Maybe you tell us your own version of the agreement signed by Kim. In fact, Trump promise to sanction North Korea should it fail in the agreement.

Please, give me a link to where any agreement was signed in singapore.

Just read the link you pasted. What was sign was a "statement" and not an actual agreement. The signed a joint statement which has no legal or diplomatic backing whatsoever.

This are quotes from the independent article;

The US “committed to provide security guarantees” to North Korea, according to an agreement signed by both leaders in Singapore following decades of hostilities between the two nations.
However, the document did not give a definition of denuclearisation or details of how it would be achieved.


It also also made no mention of the crippling international sanctions imposed on North Korea as it pursued its nuclear weapons programme.