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It is no longer a new thing that most men & women in our society today don't care for or value the word LOVE. It's almost the easiest thing to come out of our mouths whenever we see any pretty girl or cute/rich guy. Men gist of their conquests with girls & even try to outdo one another in the number of girls they take to bed. . . Unfortunately what most people don't know/fail to comprehend is that for every person, whether man/woman you sleep with, an exchange takes place. Exchange in the form of blood/spirits. Why do you think occultic men sleep with girls? Fun? Definitely not. They do so cos they know wat happens when they do. What most try to accomplish now is exchanging their lives with their victim's. At the point when maybe thru accident/whatever, they're on de point of drifting, they exchange their lives with that of dia victims. Resulting in de unexplainable death of someone somewhere else, which would be labelled 'natural causes'. U can believe it/u throw it in de ocean. The Fact still remains.

simpleseyi:
Dear Poster,

For everyone that has said you should have done something more that you did, you have rebuked them all. I LOVE YOUR COURAGE
I don't know why ladies love being admired, but have you wonder why average looking women get married in good time and remained married almost forever BUT the so called beautiful women hardly find husband and those that find get divorced in short time. BEAUTY KILLS

My fiance is VERY VERY VERY BEAUTIFUL. Even my parents and grandparents talks every time about her beauty. Many people have asked me if I will be able to maintain her but you know what, i selected her from my many beautiful girlfriends.

Several times, many guys have toasted her beside me, she looks bigger than I do and resembles me, so they always think that I am her younger brother. She responds to her toasters very well while I just smile. When they finally ask for her phone number she just says " Please meet my husband, we did family introduction this year 2010, we shall go to registry in January 2011, traditional wedding will take place by end of January while church wedding is February. You are invited". The guys always look surprise and ask me if it is really true. If we have time, we show the guys our introduction pictures on my fiance's phone. Some of these toasters have become my friends BUT not my fiance's friend. I DON'T PLAY WITH MY WIFE. My fiance and I always laugh over this. These toasters embarrasses my fiance, she does not like the attention anymore but I don't complain. BUT NOT ALL MEN CAN TAKE THIS

Men can share anything they have with anyone, their cars, houses, shoes e.t.c BUT NOT THEIR WIVES. That is why in Africa when a married woman commits adultery, she is divorced, even her own parents will be ashamed of her. But when a married man commits adultery even the in-laws will advice the the wife who is their own daughter to forgive and forget.

Learn how to keep yourself away from men looking for ladies to Zap. I was a player. I had more that 1500 girlfriends and Zap more than halve of them, that is approximately 750. You don't have to believe but I have no reason to lie here. Men love to Zap beautiful ladies BUT not to marry them. If you keep yourself for yourself you will not regret it.

If you still love this guy, sit him down, explain situation of things to him and keep yourself for yourself. You can avoid men if you really wants to.

GOODLUCK

I hope girls re seeing & learning from this. Ladies if a guy professes LOVE to you, don't compromise. Tell him to go meet ur family if he is indeed serious. Devils lik dis shouldn't be allowed near his fellow guys' sisters. Mr man, u're probably feeling on top of de world talking about ur conquests. But remember u just exchanged blood wit over 750 women,and probably got dat much curses. A pity about men is dat they think they're safe cos dey're men, & it's only de girl dat bears de brunt of things like dat. Guy u just exchanged spirit with each & every girl u may have slept with. Or u think everyone walking on de streets is indeed a human being? Things like dis manifest wen u think u're safe & marry. I only pray ur wife & family don't partake of ur nonsense. U better go for deliverance. Simple advice. U can take it/throw it in de ocean.

simpleseyi:
Dear Poster,

For everyone that has said you should have done something more that you did, you have rebuked them all. I LOVE YOUR COURAGE
I don't know why ladies love being admired, but have you wonder why average looking women get married in good time and remained married almost forever BUT the so called beautiful women hardly find husband and those that find get divorced in short time. BEAUTY KILLS

My fiance is VERY VERY VERY BEAUTIFUL. Even my parents and grandparents talks every time about her beauty. Many people have asked me if I will be able to maintain her but you know what, i selected her from my many beautiful girlfriends.

Several times, many guys have toasted her beside me, she looks bigger than I do and resembles me, so they always think that I am her younger brother. She responds to her toasters very well while I just smile. When they finally ask for her phone number she just says " Please meet my husband, we did family introduction this year 2010, we shall go to registry in January 2011, traditional wedding will take place by end of January while church wedding is February. You are invited". The guys always look surprise and ask me if it is really true. If we have time, we show the guys our introduction pictures on my fiance's phone. Some of these toasters have become my friends BUT not my fiance's friend. I DON'T PLAY WITH MY WIFE. My fiance and I always laugh over this. These toasters embarrasses my fiance, she does not like the attention anymore but I don't complain. BUT NOT ALL MEN CAN TAKE THIS

Men can share anything they have with anyone, their cars, houses, shoes e.t.c BUT NOT THEIR WIVES. That is why in Africa when a married woman commits adultery, she is divorced, even her own parents will be ashamed of her. But when a married man commits adultery even the in-laws will advice the the wife who is their own daughter to forgive and forget.

Learn how to keep yourself away from men looking for ladies to Zap. I was a player. I had more that 1500 girlfriends and Zap more than halve of them, that is approximately 750. You don't have to believe but I have no reason to lie here. Men love to Zap beautiful ladies BUT not to marry them. If you keep yourself for yourself you will not regret it.

If you still love this guy, sit him down, explain situation of things to him and keep yourself for yourself. You can avoid men if you really wants to.

GOODLUCK

I hope girls re seeing & learning from this. Ladies if a guy professes LOVE to you, don't compromise. Tell him to go meet ur family if he is indeed serious. Devils lik dis shouldn't be allowed near his fellow guys' sisters. Mr man, u're probably feeling on top of de world talking about ur conquests. But remember u just exchanged blood wit over 750 women,and probably got dat much curses. A pity about men is dat they think they're safe cos dey're men, & it's only de girl dat bears de brunt of things like dat. Guy u just exchanged spirit with each & every girl u may have slept with. Or u think everyone walking on de streets is indeed a human being? Things like dis manifest wen u think u're safe & marry. I only pray ur wife & family don't partake of ur nonsense. U better go for deliverance. Simple advice. U can take it/throw it in de ocean.

stranger:
OP:
Please shine your eyes.
If he is Ibo, run away from him.
If he is Igbo, please run fast, away from him ofcourse
If he is Ibibio, again run like a mad woman. You have to be mad to stay with an Ibo man, very crazy people.
Ibo men always sacrifice foreign women for money using African magic
By culture, they are bound to marry their own, but they court foreigners so as to use them for money eventually.

How do I know? I am Ibo, but to confuse people, I call myself Igbo. I know my people. And that is how we 've been brought up; that is, to kill foreigners!

I CAN SEE U DON'T WANT TO TALK/BEHAVE LIKE A HUMAN BEING. BUT IF U WANT TO PLAY UR ANTICS, STOP CALLING DE NAME 'IGBO'. U ARE NOT ONE(u aren't Nigerian) & U'RE JEALOUS OF THEM COS PROBABLY THOSE AROUND YOU ARE MORE SUCCESSFUL THAN YOU. THEY ARE STRONG & HARDWORKING PEOPLE, LIVE WITH IT. I KNOW U WISH U WERE ONE OF THEM, BUT I DON'T THINK U'D QUALIFY COS U'RE OBVIOUSLY A MAD MAN. HELLO! THEY WILL CONTINUE TO BE COS THEY DON'T HAVE TIME TO WASTE ONLINE TALKING CRAP UNLIKE A DIMWIT LIKE YOU. YOU CAN ONLY AFFORD TO SPEW IDIOCY COS OF THE ANONYMITY OFFERED YOU.

likeme:
@nene1,
Which side of Gambia are you?

By their questions u shall know them. Dis one don dey look 4 wife. Lol

likeme:
@nene1,
Which side of Gambia are you?

By their questions u shall know them. Dis one don dey look 4 wife. Lol

superboi:
[b]I Can't believe you guys haven't figured out this is the same character as MOBO444 in female costume.[/b]LOL

oh i did figure. Called on mobo too to come pay his wife's bride price, and de guy ran wit both feet barely touching de ground. Ha ha ha ha!

Canisma:
I ve heard it before but i ignored it, thinking that its one of those fairy tales. But now that it has dawned on me, I sure can confirm it. They are called scorpios. My birthday is november 4th, so im one of them. If u are born within this month range, then u are like me- a love-addict. We need sex almost everyday. The urge is forever fierce. If your lover is born in this month range too, then u ve got to go buy some aphrodisiac. Do you know any body born in this month range ? Or is it you. Nairalanders over to you.

Not applicable to everyone.

rekebel:
Is better that our men will answer if they really have brains as they are claiming

I think Mobo should come & answer dis. Lmao

HAS THE OP GONE UNDERGROUND? Come & giv us de latest naa.

EFCC1:
there you go again .
what would obama coming to nigeria bring?
is it free & fair election?
is it peace?
is it economic transformation?
will it raise standard of living?
what has he done for the country he went to?
is he bigger than God? cause God is here
so what?

[color=#990000][/color] I said CASE CLOSED!

Panthera9:
Well, I am from West Africa, and looking for a job right now. So he is willing to move with me wherever I am.
Because my dad doesn't want me to go to Naija, so he is willing to follow me. And yes he is Igbo.

Is our country dis much bastardized? A wife is supposed to settle down wit her husband, not de husband following his wife anywhere she goes!! Lady, ur husband must luv u to be willing to concede to that, but deep down he might not be too happy wit it, or u. Igbo men have pride. Are u trying to tel us dat if u set foot in Nigeria everyone will be targeting u/what?? Girl, If u really love dat ur man u better humble yourself & be rationale. His family won't applaud u, & u can bet u won't live 'outside' for long. WTF? What has happened to some africans? Too much western influence?

Panthera9:
Well, I am from West Africa, and looking for a job right now. So he is willing to move with me wherever I am.
Because my dad doesn't want me to go to Naija, so he is willing to follow me. And yes he is Igbo.

Is our country dis much bastardized? A wife is supposed to settle down wit her husband, not de husband following his wife anywhere she goes!! Lady, ur husband must luv u to be willing to concede to that, but deep down he might not be too happy wit it, or u. Igbo men have pride. Are u trying to tel us dat if u set foot in Nigeria everyone will be targeting u/what?? Girl, If u really love dat ur man u better humble yourself & be rationale. His family won't applaud u, & u can bet u won't live 'outside' for long. WTF? What has happened to some africans? Too much western influence?

Panthera9:
Well, I am from West Africa, and looking for a job right now. So he is willing to move with me wherever I am.
Because my dad doesn't want me to go to Naija, so he is willing to follow me. And yes he is Igbo.

Is our country dis much bastardized? A wife is supposed to settle down wit her husband, not de husband following his wife anywhere she goes!! Lady, ur husband must luv u to be willing to concede to that, but deep down he might not be too happy wit it, or u. Igbo men have pride. Are u trying to tel us dat if u set foot in Nigeria everyone will be targeting u/what?? Girl, If u really love dat ur man u better humble yourself & be rationale. His family won't applaud u, & u can bet u won't live 'outside' for long. WTF?

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=555970.msg7204390#msg7204390 date=1290551946]Take it easy Madam . . . This guy knows their ppl more than u do . . .rihgt?[/quote]knows her husband more than her probably? Or knows the people she associates with everyday more than her? Talking like one of dem tribalists.

stranger:
Dump him. Nigerians are shady people. Is he Ibo?

If he is Ibo, pls run away from him.

BTW, I am Ibo, and I know how bad we are. We are the 'baddest ethnic group' in the world.

u must be very s.tupid. Even a kid reasons better than u. I don't think u're a Nigerian 'stranger'. An Igbo will know it is 'Igbo' not 'Ibo' dunce. @OP, I'd advice u not listen to all de negatives being said. Nigerian society-like every other society-has its fair share of good & bad. NO SOCIETY in de world has it all. . . U know ur man better than ur father. If u're certain he's de man u wanna spend ur life with, then it's ur duty to keep talking to ur father. Don't throw away de love of a good man because of some misconceptions. And if u care to know, Igbo men make wonderful husbands. I can tell u dat.

*FORMALLY CLOSES THREAD* . . . OP HAS GOTTEN ENOUGH OF WAT SHE WANTED- ATTENTION. DON'T GIVE HER ANY MORE![color=#990000][/color][b][/b]

vivaladiva:
dats y i always say nip it in the bud----b4 e germinate-----if i cant take it frm a man frm another country----den i aint takin it frm a naija man

u sud ave reported him straight

pls y do naija pips have beef for british nigerians, dats her identity----

Nobody has any 'beef' wit British born 9jas. Wrong generalization again . She just lacks wisdom in de proper use of words-and is unrepentant to boot. Marry ur well behaved white men i say. . . . We aren't sayin it's a good thing hearing some of des stories, it's an ear sore, but wat  we don't buy is de sweeping generalizations. In EVERY society, there will always  be some bad apples.

MOBO444:
~@ Poster you a witch.

mobo na ur wife be dat o! Lol

MOBO444:
I know you did never say a nice word to a Black brother, just go.

mobo ur wife is seriously waiting 4 u on another thread. U beta go pay her bride price.

CILondon:
And therein lies the difference between Nigerians and the rest of the world.
Nigerians find what he did to me (grabbing my throat) funny - but all other nationalities find it shocking
There is something wrong with you people of Nigeria - your standards of decency are abysmally low. No wonder Obama won't set foot in that country!

point of correction gal. Don't say DAT country. It is YOUR country. And who in de world told u an eclipse will take place in 9ja if 'your' president decides 2 visit? <talk of inferiority complex>. Talk lik a grown up my friend. De last thing on anyone's mind is such visits. Der re better issues @stake. . . . And u wonder why ur post makes some laugh? Maybe u should visit yaba left first, wen u come out, u re-read ur post yourself. . . Dis ur thinkin-wit-de-anu.s thread had beta be a 'catchin fun' idea, cos if NOT, u might need to write to ur esteemed president to check u in quickly @ de equivalent of yaba left over there. *mobo u beta get in here, ur wifey awaits* smh

@OP, WE HAV HEARD O! ! ! ! Thank u. Or do we follow it up wit a round of applause?. . *clapping* lol. I have already shown u ya husband in de person of Mr Mobo444. He holds a PhD in 9ja women bashing- same as u 4 de men. So i guess u won't hav to worry about compatibility. . . . Mobo has suddenly vanished. Hope he ain't running 4rm paying his much dreaded bride price. LMAO

*calling* mobo444 u better get in here & meet ur wife. Lmao. . . But since u'd probably hate each oda anyways, i suggest one of u stay up in de moon & de other on ground as u conduct de wedding. Wish y all de best! Ha ha ha ha. *Fuji house of commotion*

As always, mobo444, de man 4rm Niger, de non Nigerian HAS GONE MAD. Pls enter ur cage.

Lol. I sure say no be only my mind wey dey do clock work here. Be lik say our bros don dey do small runs. Maybe na im personal gal 4 dis way wey dey ring am. Sharp man don dey plan on how im go grab wetin im take enter run. Later im go bring over im gal. Kai!

@OP, Hope u're a strong christian. If so, nothin dem fit do 2 u wit those pictures. . . Na by force 2 marry person pikin? U need to get some spine man! Learn to stand ur ground & assert ur authority! U're de one spending all those money, yet u have no respect whatsoever. If u like, mumu yaself go marry de girl. U go find out later say 'like moda, lik d'.

@OP, LOL. Wetin dey happen now naa? Come tel us. . Or u're fixing weddin date?

excoba101:
Are you sure? Nor go change mouth for another thread ooO.

And who is this? Do u know me/i you? Notice me.

excoba101:
He has no intention leaving that chick(en), he probably wants NLders to treating his girl so that she can change.

MY THOUGHTS EXACTLY. @OP, why in de world would u be scared of her mum? Is she ur mother-in-law? Even if she is. Dat's why i like men wit spine, not jelly fishes. Smh

El Guapo:
My man u get airtime naa

Lmao

@chiteny, i daresay u don't read very well. I never said YOU wer unserious. And pls forgive me for throwing my pearls @swine (figuratively speaking). Just one of dem posters who come on here askin 4 help, & wen u're given, re not appreciative & talk opposite. Rub.bish

@post, unfortunately science & de true world tend to be opposites. De fact dat a 'professor' came up wit such findings doesn't make it true. Unless u're one of those dat swallow anythin dey see hook, line & sinker. . . Anyone can have more than 1 soulmate? Dat means more dan 1 person could be ur husband/wife? U might as well have up to a million husbands/wives in de whole world. Don't u think that contradicts de Bible statement, 'A man shall leave his father & mother, & cleave to his WIFE? I didn't see plural there. My dear even ur 'common' reasoning (which isn't so common des days anyway) will groan @dat. Don't confuse 'soulmate' with 'compatibility'. That it LOOKS/BEHAVES LIKE doesn't mean it is EXACTLY. . . . . Secondly, couples are supposed to 'complement' each other- i.e add up to a whole. Which means, where one is lacking,the other helps build him/her up. So u definitely can't say they must be alike/have same character. DON'T GET CONFUSED BY SOME OF THESE PHILOSOPHERS/PROFESSORS. U have your own brain given to u to think too.