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alisigwe:
Maybe s&x is n of d reasons but it's prbly nt d nly factor,i feel lik am using her even thu we'v nt sexd,still we do a lotta krazy stuffs when we r alone.it's just i found a new gurl @ ma school and told her i am abt to quit d r/s am in,so i really dnt want to cheat on d former dats why am seeking 4 advice on how to end evrtin to enable her open up to admirers around her as well as suitors.

@ALISIGWE, i was just waiting 4 u to say this before i comment, cos i knew it was a new girl in ur life dat brought this topic. ALISIGWE, ALISIGWE, ALISIGWE. How many times have i called u? Listen very well. It is guys like u that deserve to have girls cheat on them. And am serious sayin dat. Because of one girl in ur school, u want to break up with someone u loved. Hey! Say de truth. U loved dat girl before u met this new one dat's making u blind. And what guarantee do u have that de one turning ur head now will stick with u? And which kind of girl wil be waiting for a guy to get rid of another girl for her to take her place? U lookin lik one of dos dat'll come here to open one st.upid thread later. A girl to have had de guts to call up ur father & ask her cousin to help, u think it's every1 dat'll do dat? And 4 her to hav refused sleepin wit u is a guarantee dat she won't sleep wit any other guy-even in ur absence. . . But hey! It's probably pointless tellin u anythin now. Pls if u know u don't luv dat girl anymore, let her go. Stop deceiving her/touching her. She deserves someone dat loves her for real. But don't come back here cryin foul to us concerning de new girl. I for one won't be interested.

Mehn honestly am short of words. I wouldn't have replied if not 4 one thing. @OP, PLS no matter what u do, don't harm yourself or ur wife. Pls. Let de devil not carry his plan to de finish in you losing ur temper & doing wat u might regret. Don't run on emotions now cos it can make someone mad. Apply wisdom. Okay? Only u know how u want to handle ur marriage now. But in all, be careful. God be with u.

First it was 'No blackberry, no party entrance'. Now this. Am i the only one, but i LOATHE that phone. Why all the craze? Sometimes i think there must be a demon behind that thing.

First it was 'No blackberry, no party entrance'. Now this. Am i the only one, but i LOATHE that phone. Why all the craze? Sometimes i think there must be a demon behind that thing.

All these replies & questions & no OP to answer or give feedback. Where is de man hiding/did he ask 4 help & disappear? Come back Mr. Hmm.
@fun-catching blazay, i neva saw where de man asked 4 fun replies. If u can't put yourself in his shoes & be serious for once, then do him de big favour of making yourself scarce. I'm sure he'd appreciate it.

It might have been meant 4 evil, but God has used it to bring u back to reality. Not everyone gets to have a 2nd chance, for some it might be too late. Give glory to Him & learn from it. Thank God 4 ur life.

Only sissies lie to keep a lady. If a lady cannot accept u 4 who u are, then off wit her, there are more important things joo! Enough of all de fakeness. . . It's beta u be ur real self, pass thru some disappointments & later land a most deserving lady, than be a fake a.ss, land ur kind & live de rest of ur life in confusion. Cos u won't understand who u are anymore. De biggest mistake would be in losing a good lady cos she perceived u ain't proud of yourself. My brothers, stop degrading yourself cos of ur fellow human being. U deserve to be accepted EXACTLY as u are. Smh

@OP, I believe u should have gotten enough wise replies from here to help ur friend, or wat exactly do u want to hear? Being so close to people who don't want him around, even though he is their BLOOD is not good @all. If he can't move them, then he should move himself to another location. Rent another house 4 himself in a different place altogether where dey won't go making his life miserable, cos dey definitely won't follow him there. He should also get closer to God now, that's his only defence. Limit his interactions with his 'siblings' cos the heart of man is desperately wicked, u can't see it & definitely don't know what's there. He should be very careful & prayerful. They should know as little as possible about him now especially regarding his wedding & future family. Keep his family away from all de mess. Cos when anyone tries de parent & doesn't get them, they go through de children. He should apply wisdom at this time. If possible get him to read the replies here so he can make the decision 4 himself. I believe he'll find good ideas here on his own.

swiftycool:
@Lola, i trust u my sista, traditional insurance abi! no wonder 190 go forever dey mumu 4 u whereva he goes. Lol

he he he he he! :-D

Lol. @OP, Ok, ok. We don know say u fine 4 face. Dis one nko? . . .''I'M I fine?''.

190:
[color=deeppink]Yes i remeber meeting Christy far back 1999,


She seemed to be the only lady with american accent on fone,

Even my friends grew Jealous of me for having her,

Although she was older than myself with more than 6yrs

But my swag kept her wishing i was the Mr.Rite for her,

On the D-day

Our meeting place was Mr.Biggs, We agreed that we would both wear whites shirts with

a black trouser as i had no fone then,

I decided to wear a yellow shirt and wait,

i sighted her from a-far and goose bumps immediately came all over me,

What i saw can only be explained by someone who died fighting wars during the times of Adolf Hitler

May Gawd 4give me but she had the head of a Transformer and the shape of her mouth is better not explained

I immediately sensed i was in soup, and kept quiet,lower my head and started eating slowly,

she came in and saw another man with his wife wearing the same thing (went to the man and said something)

I took the exit door and never sent her mails anymore despite she sent me tons of more mails~

I waz too young for all that anyway!![/color]

If it's not 190, e no fit be de same as 190. Ha ha ha ha.

The tears still come. .the pain still much. I never knew u personally (wish i did) but feel so much pain like i knew u 4 years. I don't have de appetite to post on other threads lik b4. Whenever i come on here it's in tears. .goin to threads lik dis to seek comfort. Rest in peace dear. Have learnt some good things 4rm u. Though physically gone, u still live on. Love u.

Dnt knw how i slept last nite. Des tears can't seem 2 stop flowing. Pls dis goes out 2 all of us to not see one another as strangers, but as a family. I barely know most of us here but i see nairaland & nairalanders as family. Most of de curses on here can reduce if we could @least get 2 know one another better, either thru contacts/personally. If no one would, i'd like to. . . . Rest in peace Bawo. I pray our God gives ur family de strength 2 bear this. U'll surely be missed on here. Luv u.

Dnt knw how i slept last nite. Des tears can't seem 2 stop flowing. Pls dis goes out 2 all of us to not see one another as strangers, but as a family. I barely know most of us here but i see nairaland & nairalanders as family. Most of de curses on here can reduce if we could @least get 2 know one another better, either thru contacts/personally. If no one would, i'd like to. . . . Rest in peace Bawo. I pray our God gives ur family de strength 2 bear this. U'll surely be missed on here. Luv u.

Dnt knw how i slept last nite. Des tears can't seem 2 stop flowing. Pls dis goes out 2 all of us to not see one another as strangers, but as a family. I barely know most of us here but i see nairaland & nairalanders as family. Most of de curses on here can reduce if we could @least get 2 know one another better, either thru contacts/personally. If no one would, i'd like to. . . . Rest in peace Bawo. I pray our God gives ur family de strength 2 bear this. U'll surely be missed on here. Luv u.

Tears. Sighs. Bawo May ur soul rest in peace. Never knew u personally but luvd u all de same. I pray God gives ur family de fortitude to bear this cos it's heart wrenching. Can't believe we won't be seeing ur posts on here again. Honestly i can't stop des tears. . Rest in peace bro. Rest in perfect peace.

snthesis:
Dating sum1 for d past 3yrs-metinks u r a waste of time

Hello?! The girl is 22 years old, NOT 30. And how old is your own relationship?
@OP, It's really amazing dat such things still happen. I mean 'NICE OFFER' was actually said? Smh. Incredible. All in all, de final decision lies with de young lady. Dis is de time 4 her to reason wit a clear head. I mean, if her dad sees her as ready 4 marriage, then she should definitely think and act like a MATURE lady NOW. Nobody is given de right to interfere wit our destinies, WE make de decisions as human beings, cos nobody will bear de brunt of our mistakes, but ourselves! She can either go wit de 'money bag' offer/stay where her heart is & fight against being sold (cos dat's exactly wat it is) like many ladies have done & re happy wit themselves for being brave. Marriage is a LIFETIME business. So if she allows herself to be 'fixed 4 life', she should also be ready NOT to regret later on. If u're truly in luv wit her & TRULY SERIOUS, then support her. Even if she gets thrown out, be wit her. And hey! try speed up & marry her jare. Get ur peeps in de know.

bashr4:
dear poster ,u dont even have a job and cant take care of yourself talkless of her, abeg let her decide and be happy with her with what ever decision she makes.How are we even sure u wont become a billinare tomorrow and then dump her for other ladies u wil meet and will rush after u. if she were your sister what will u do? Put that energy on getting a job or improving your career so u too can qualify.

Some people never take de time to read well b4 posting. He has a job young man, & bright prospects. . Just wondering, would you love to hear these words from YOUR OWN girlfriend if she found herself in dis situation? Hypocrisy full here.

JUST WONDERING. IS fstranger YOUR FIANCEE's SISTER? And if yes, why de hatred wen she doesn't know u, or u her? Smh

I SUPPORT!! Even if dey re not performing, @least this bill will go a long way in bringing some respect to de anthem which most of us show no regard for. It is our identity.

willyluv:
If he is truely in love with the girl, what is blood covenant? Politicians do it every hour, I did it with my ex' and d rshp lasted 8 yrs. This thin line shdnt barrier your bright future.

I bet he/she must have wanted to leave at one time or de other, but couldn't cos of the 'bondage'. U can never get someone dat truly loves u this way. Whenever de love grows cold/their feelings change toward u & they want to leave instead of living a lie, they cannot cos of some so-called covenant. U end up marrying a person dat does not love u but only pretending to cos of what is between u. Pathetic.

Obo Boco:
Tell your friend if he wants to die quick before the time God ordained for him
he should go and hug a transformer, its a faster way to die than blood covenant with a girl.
not when there is no light, he should make sure that there is PHCN, if he wants it faster, he should do it when rain is falling or better still
pour water on himself and then hug the transformer. mtcheeeew.
7years with no job and so what
is he the first ?? how has he been surviving before now

i think dat's de right advice 4 him. U know de devil has a way of getting people when their defences are down. He will make things difficult 4 dem & then bring 'goodies' their way dat will put them into a lifetime TRAP. And most foolishly fall in.

maingate1:
my ear is still wide open for more advice o

if up til now u don't enough sense to choose wisely, then pls fall into dis very attractive trap. Cos i can see u're not worth advising.

There are many ambitious ladies already in Nigeria. And many more are coming up.

SA Lady:
Seriously where do people get these thoeries?

The spirit rules the physical. Don't be deceived.

MRbrownJAY:
poster
stop putting sour milk in my cornflakes. . . . . . . . . .mindless, uninhibited, passionate and rewarding headbanging se.x with people that you barely know cannot be THAT bad?! lol!

if people took a little bit of my spirit everytime i had se.x with such people you mentioned then i would be spiritless by now, ROTFLMAO!!!!!

Two ways have already been given unto man to choose from: Life & death. But de way of destruction seems to be sweeter to him & he laughs himself to an early grave.

kay177:
Wislet, i dont know you to be a preacher naww, This one is scary and interest killing== So what do you advise us to do or we should ask for forgiveness of sin after having se x== since our good is a good and forgiving God

Forgiveness &Abstinence till u marry. Though some require deliverance. Don't try to make mockery of ur maker by seeking to ask forgiveness while u go on fornicating. Prevention is better than cure. As it is said, a monkey might go on a journey some day & not return.

mamaken:
i've a huge hearth and i LOVE everybody, even those i dont agree with. . . 
didnt u feel my love for u even when u insulted me? 

Nairaland get ready for some wedding bells. Lol.

@Maingate1, I will comment on this topic only this once. You have gotten enough advice dat even a mad man will know which to choose. The fly that fails to hear, follows the dead body to the grave. You allow ur eyes to be blinded now from seeing reality. Very soon the mist will clear & u'd find yourself in a bottomless pit. U want to sell ur sanity for some porridge (wealth). A child that is looking for too many words/physical action to dissuade him from the path of death, usually finds that which he is looking for. . . .

maingate1:
Even after d blood convenant i believe solution can come somehow. Or is d money not important?

I laugh in great pity. I can see u want to learn from Mr Experience. I am writin dis much only out of pity. I'd rather leave u to ur devices. But then it might be too late 4 u. If u love ur life & de smile dat comes to ur lips easily, & de nature u enjoy everyday, listen to the usernames: OXYGENMAYO & KA Y 177

Why does a husband & wife after a while, tend to resemble each other? I saw a recent post by a guy, proudly talking about his conquest of over 750 women. But what Mr man does not know is dat for every girl he slept with, he exchanged something with her & she him. Some of us might have heard & probably discarded as non.sense that IT IS NOT EVERYONE WALKING THE STREETS IN FLESH & BLOOD THAT IS INDEED A HUMAN BEING. This is the last days. The enemy knows that the no 1 weakness of man is SEXUALLY RELATED. We call it 'having fun', 'it is our age', it's a passing phase of enjoyment'. Many men have had the so-called FUN & later got married, only to wish they never got married. Frustrations right, left & centre, Suicides, & de sudden change in character of their once 'angelic' wives. Not mentioning innumerable curses accrued from the anger of their scorned conquests. Men pls note this: Any curse laid on a man by any girl he deceives/scorns all in de name of fun DOES NOT FAIL. Most laugh it off while others don't know they are under one. Sexual intercourse is not 'ordinary' whether we delude ourselves with CON.DOM/not. It is just another product to deceive the conscience of man into a false sense of security. Desist from random sex! Warning. Anyone that takes this as a joke is very free to live his/her life. Like it is said, EXPERIENCE could be ur greatest teacher.