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MAYBE U NEED TO SEE A COUNSELLOR. He/she would help you better. For real. It is their training.

don't wash the undies. if she leaves you because of that, then good riddance. at least she'll know u're a man. if she wanted u to do it for love, she would have asked nicely and maybe tried to coax u, and maybe u would have. but if u still refused, it wouldn't have been a big deal to her. i repeat, don't wash them. if she was joking, at least she'll know u're not the type to be manipulated. but if u do and eventually end up marrying her, don't be surprised to be manipulated even for u to put food in your stomach or sleep in your house.

don't wash the undies. if she leaves you because of that, then good riddance. at least she'll know u're a man. if she wanted u to do it for love, she would have asked nicely and maybe tried to coax u, and maybe u would have. but if u still refused, it wouldn't have been a big deal to her. i repeat, don't wash them. if she was joking, at least she'll know u're not the type to be manipulated. but if u do and eventually end up marrying her, don't be surprised to be manipulated even for u to put food in your stomach.

I CAN MAKE OUT ONE THING FROM ALL THESE ARGUMENTS- IGBO GIRLS ROCK. THEY ARE SIMPLY LOVED AND SOUGHT AFTER. FULL STOP. I know they're very industrious. They don't, after school, sit in de house 'waiting' 4 any sort of man as if that's all life is about-they launch out to make their own money. And meanwhile a handsome young man is at a corner monitoring her and waiting 4 de right moment to make her his. . . To correct an impression, they don't marry late. Majority don't. And even those that marry at 30-32 marry fulfilled. Why would they wen they are every man's dream? I know cos am one. Why don't u get to know about us b4 all des stereotyping? U'd be amazed.

lightwalk:
I love this thread because I've got something I've been looking for for some time now

Care to share wit us dear?

Awwwww why de raised temperature? *fanning off de steam comin out of his head*. Sit down deawie b4 u collapse. U see why i told ya 2 be serious in klas?- it's 'thought' deawie not 'taught'. 4 next time!

Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

lookwonder:
You all get the gist. well, i still want the girl. As i said, she walked out of the relationship not me. I also guess she feel that way, why else would she refuse to pick my call. Am talking of since January, it is almost a year and she has either refused to pick my calls or when she cuts the call for 10 months now. So you can all decipher what i mean when i say "vital info"

so the 'vital info' is to tell her, ''I think u're stil in luv wit me cos u've refused to pick my call for 10 months now''. Lol. Anyway if it's meant 2 be, she'll come back 2 u- though also, u might be wasting ur time.

confrenzy:
But wen will guys learn how 2 exercise self control wen it comes to calling girls. I no know wetin some girls dey feel like, if na only me their phone go rotten.

kai! Ha ha ha ha ha

lookwonder:
You all get the gist. well, i still want the girl. As i said, she walked out of the relationship not me. I also guess she feel that way, why else would she refuse to pick my call. Am talking of since January, it is almost a year and she has either refused to pick my calls or when she cuts the call for 10 months now. So you can all decipher what i mean when i say "vital info"

so the 'vital info' is to tell her, ''I think u're stil in luv wit me cos u've refused to pick my call for 10 months now''. Lol. Anyway if it's meant 2 be, she'll come back 2 u- though also, u might be wasting ur time.

confrenzy:
But wen will guys learn how 2 exercise self control wen it comes to calling girls. I no know wetin some girls dey feel like, if na only me their phone go rotten.

kai! Ha ha ha ha ha

Lol. Nobody wants 2 be abnormal. My reference is toward their mindset dat their ladies should be like 'objects' instead of people with feelings!

Mygoldie:
because fat ladies are like the coolest and sexiest and thin tiny ladies think they are all that,when they are just mere bones bones  bones  (no offecnse to thin ladies tho), Average ladies are da bomb. cos they got it all, 

4 ur community? Just askin in case we hav to inform the FG to effect a state of emergency on hunger 4 ur people! Lol  

Omolola1:
Moi dear, he didnt say average, if i saw clearly he said "BIG, FAT"

lol. Dis gal.

MrsEve:
A man once said this to me when I asked him why do he like fat women,

He said that the reason are because FAT WOMEN USED TO BE SKINNY AND SKINNY WOMEN USED TO BE FAT, then he added that Skinny women are a cheeseburger away from being fat and Fat women are a salad away to becoming skinny.

He also added that THE ONLY DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A FAT WOMAN AND A SKINNY WOMAN IS THE WEIGHT, they both chit the same, comb their hair the same, have children the same way, and both are pretty in their own way.  

I was done.   

Maybe am an exception cos i can't get fat no matter wat i eat.

uniklarus:
Uhn! U must av written such text msg out of jealousy.Why don't u allow the sleeping dog to lie? Jeez !ladies deserve 2 be respected.Even,if u don't see them as sisters,U still dnt av d audacity 2 relegate them 2 such extent.They are our future mothers u knw.If u desire 2 av one 2 settle down with, learn 2 respect ladies.Pls, dnt see them as object of ridicule.

Tell him. Guess he jumped his elementary school's fence & entered de nearest cyber cafe to type this.

190:
[color=deeppink]all these mad men on the loose sef!![/color]

I tire.

biola44:
u're jealous!

simple! I'm guessing he's also the 'kiss & tell' type.[quote author=.banito link=topic=545197.msg7078518#msg7078518 date=1288883364]Guy grow up and enjoy your new relationship instead of killing urself trying to make your ex feel bad.[/quote]he's just tellin her he hasn't gotten over her. So who's havin de last laugh?

@mobo. . . Wer u not de one i bid #0.00 on his head unopposed? No amount of ur negative writings wil make Nigerian ladies stop gettin married. U're simply getting us the men's attention. Lol. Anywher u go to, 9ja women are hot cake. . . . . Meanwhile *gives him chilled water to cool his burning head* take it easy darling. Go check ur blood pressure<wink>

jay bee:
U be winch

Lol!! Maybe. Start running! . . . Igbo girls generally hav pride, & re industrious. [quote author=Ms. Potato link=topic=545625.msg7083758#msg7083758 date=1288957069]LMAO! I hope its a diarrhoea~! [/quote]Ha ha ha ha! He can't see himself now.

hasyak:
really surprise that most of the ladies here are say they dont ask, then i most be in a different 9ja world , cos 80% the ladies i know are always asking, am talking of the workers here and the sad part is i dont have anything with them. then talk of the once that are not working, i dont have words to say about them. but it really bad, by the time you say hi to a lady the next thing is an unnecessary demand.

there are exceptions to every case.

Dun know wat to call dis one. Is de man under a spell or something? Dat woman must really be 'training' her daughter 4 de unfortunate man dat'll meet her. No wonder i don't envy men @ times. Lol.

kennyman20:
Thanx @everyone,i think Tink &High chief comment will be useful 4 me,i will call d wife,sit her down and tell her d implications of wat she is doing,to be forewarned is 2 b forearmed.

The risk here is dat she will now know u know, and might be a potential danger to her and her games. If she's de bad type, she might do somethin nasty 2 u. Just be careful cos a person caught at their game does not recognize friendship/wat u're to them.

opabukun:
@poster, dats gurls' latest strategy 2 hold guyz like u down.
closer 2 u 2avoid others but nut enough 4u 2 yansh am. wact=out or else, u'l b stucked!

seems like u were 'stucked'. Lol

[quote author=Mr~Cork link=topic=545625.msg7083471#msg7083471 date=1288954692]to be honest , Nigerian womens have always been gold diggers back from stone age period,

they love moiney2much (no oofeinse) [/quote]*poos on his head*

jay bee:
I know a girl that will happily give me everything but never collects anything from me even though i've pestered her time and time again
Maybe it's got something to do with culture sha

she igbo aight?

@missy bee. . . Pls ask him o! Why would a GIRLFRIEND be quarrelling wit u over ur own money? Wat would she then do wen she attains WIFE? Burn down ur house or refuse u food?
U men had better wake up and stop being silly. Is she living in de same house wit u, and does she perform de roles of a wife already? If yes, no wonder u have no respect in dat area. . . . Dat's why i admire principled & mature men.

Askin 4 money? Lol. Wen i found and stil find it difficult askin my papa 4 anythin at all. I never ask and i return any given 2 me without my consent- unless it's in form of gifts from relations and close friends. Send me credit if u ain't my bf or family. .and ur account receives it back before u say Jack. No guy can come out & say he gave me dis or dat- am proud of dat. I hav my principles & luv bein independent.

meekas:
@omega: We've had this conversation over and over. I love her so much and besides,she has really helped me at certain point in time. So can u now see why i'm so confused?

@OP, . . If u eventually marry her, don't expect to complain about de same behaviour to her cos she would ask u if u did not know she was already like dat before saying 'I do'. Cos u'll be saying 'I DO' to EVERYTHING about her! Since u've had the talk over and over and nothing changed, u should have realized she might never change. It's left 4 u to ask yourself if u can bear it in de long run- without erupting in anger or blaming anyone (as if u went to ur wedding dog-tied) cos it's bound to happen. But if u can take it, then go ahead, and tell ur family u luv her de way she is. MAKE DE DECISION YOURSELF AND SAVE YOURSELF AND OTHERS ANY FUTURE HEADACHES OR REGRETS. *NOTE*: WHAT U KNOW U CAN TOLERATE BEFORE MARRIAGE, DON'T EXPECT TO BLOW UP ABOUT IT LATER.
Also pls don't hav de mentality of 'he/she helped me' bla bla bla. I don't know why anyone wud feel dis kind of obligation even unto somethin as serious as a LIFE ENGAGEMENT.

Never fancied them wen i was little. Infact de only one dat was bought 4 me then, i don't know wat happened 2 it. . .couldn't find any spare parts. Lmao. How much more now? Duh! We don't roll.

Never fancied them wen i was little. Infact de only one dat was bought 4 me then, i don't know wat happened 2 it. . .couldn't find any spare parts. Lmao. How much more now? Duh! We don't roll.

pikadily:
I will try my best to answer your questions. Well the answer is NO.A woman is not suppose be sexually aware,a spinster is suppose to be a virgin you dont expect a virgin you just marry to start jumping on the bed and dictating styles.Even for women that are older they are not expected to be assertive when it comes to sex.A young girl is expected to be a virgin the day she is given out in marriage not some sex expert!

Are the men not supposed to marry as virgins too? Even after marriage, and having their virginities broken, ur wives are supposed to stil act like nothing happened? Like they don't know wat de word 'man' meant? Like it was a desecration of de land to know wat 'sex' means? Then i guess de man is not supposed to know too. . . . Or if not, then how does/did he get to know about it? Experience?. . . And where has all this pretense led us? Those dat have problems die in silence for fear of being branded 'loose'. If it were a SIN why get married. . .or why would de men marry more dan one lady?

pikadily:
I will try my best to answer your questions. Well the answer is NO.A woman is not suppose be sexually aware,a spinster is suppose to be a virgin you dont expect a virgin you just marry to start jumping on the bed and dictating styles.Even for women that are older they are not expected to be assertive when it comes to sex.A young girl is expected to be a virgin the day she is given out in marriage not some sex expert!

Are the men not supposed to marry as virgins too? Even after marriage, and having their virginities broken, ur wives are supposed to stil act like nothing happened? Like they don't know wat de word 'man' meant? Like it was a desecration of de land to know wat 'sex' means? Then i guess de man is not supposed to know too. . . . Or if not, then how does/did he get to know about it? Experience?. . . And where has all this pretense led us? Those dat have problems die in silence for fear of being branded 'loose'. If it were a SIN why get married. . .or why would de men marry more dan one lady?

I know 4 a fact dat hausa men re like every other guy. I hav one dat said he was a 'hot' guy, and dat no one woman could accommodate him (no oofeinse). Prolly reason dey marry more dan one wife (no oofeinses). Lol

Lol!, If the auction's stil on, i bid 4 MOBO 444 for #0.01. I knw am bidding Unopposed! Ok Mr wer @ thou?  [code][/code]

Lol. Why won't they come here crying like babies that were denied biscuits, when they won't ever learn? Make una dey there dey look girls' pics dey salivate. Na lack of job, abi na case of 'dem get eye but cannot see' wen de same girls dey around dem. My brothers una 2 much. I just pray 4 all of una, make u no 'luv' person wey go turn out 2 be ''she get flesh but no be flesh im be''. Hmm. .Boys. . *slapping dem one by one* SMH