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freedomfro:
A real woman will not judge you and accept you no matter what, so if you feel the need to lie to keep the relationship alive, you dont need to be together.

Thank u. For a long moment there i thought i had stumbled on a forum other than the one i know. That Coming from a guy- the world stil has hope.

190:
[size=4pt][color=#FF4500]some people found their so called BF's here on NL and are here saying

there arent any Responsible BF's on NL, what does that make their BF!![/color] [/size]

*pounds him into the ground 4 making noise wen he clearly supported Ikedonn*

*pounds him on the head and walks off*

Abi na gay about to get married? Ha! !

*kicking Mr cork with my pointed heel and watchin him land in his home country- - afghanistan* . . . . So long!! <waving>

*checks my toilet* No tissue. . . . .>>> 190!!!. . . Wer's dat sneaking boy?! Lol

Plutarch:
I v observed dat many ladies dont know d mentality of an average man. U can from responses of guy on this thread v a clue if u wise enuff.
Most guyz think its not d best even those dat v done n r doing it.
U ladies care/dream about a 1daful relationship/marriage which is good,but in trying 2 v it u make fatal mistakes. Guys fool around but seem to b more careful when it matter most.

GBAM!!!
That's de reason i listen to guys in-between lines! They always come out with the truth. . . . . Ok. .per chance the quest for 'commitment' doesn't work out, would the lady go to live with another man looking 4 the same 'commitment?'. Unless i'm mistaken or am part of the stone age (lol), but i don't think a prospective husband would be happy knowing his wife did that with- not 1, 2 or even 3 guys. Lol.

Why does Dokpesi think he was chosen by IBB? Perhaps to gain some credibility, and garner some support to himself through de man because he knows Nigerians don't want to see him. But unfortunately for him,Nigerians are not stupid. And Dokpesi has only succeeded in ruining his reputation and dragging his name in the mud. So unfortunate if he cannot see that the man is only using him. . . . If not, whatever in the world would make IBB go for Dokpesi instead of someone closer to himself? Cos he knew the man would jump at any invitation to come out for such position. . .From a media station's chairman to vice presidency? Is that how it works? 9ja May God help us.

mobo my brother no allow me bring out my koboko o!

Cha cha cha Igbo kwenu! Rienu. . . Nuonu. . . Muonu. . . Zuonu. . . Nurianu o! !

IF U GUYS LIKE U CAN ARGUE FROM SUN UP TO SUN DOWN, SAY IGBO's LIVE FAR APART, DEY EAT PEOPLE. Whatever that insane statement means- THE FACT REMAINS THAT YORUBA MEN LOVE MARRYING IGBO WOMEN. Simple. I FOR ONE KNOW HOW MANY WILL GO ONE MILE IF I SO MUCH AS GIV DEM AN INCH. Lol.

[color=#990000][/color] Then i daresay Igbo men are worth having.

HOW DID THIS SILLY POST MAKE ITS WAY TO THE FRONT PAGE?? MISLEADING A LOT OF PEOPLE WITHOUT ANYTHING CONCRETE BEING SAID? The moderators should remove this from the front page. I thought this was a site for sane thinking people?? WHATEVER HAPPENED TO OBJECTIVITY AND CLARITY BEFORE POSTINGS? This post is plain dumb. NIGERIANS, STOP RUNNING YOUR MOUTHS IN JEALOUSY AND HATRED AGAINST THIS MAN. HE IS THERE ENJOYING HIS LIFE WHILE SOME OF YOU POSTERS ARE HERE GIVING THEMSELVES SELF-INFLICTED HEADACHES AND HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE. MORE POWER TO YOUR ELBOWS! Pathetic. [/color][color=#990000]

I don't know wat y'all are yelling for. I personally don't like guys that would shout back at a girl or touch her when she's expressing her anger. That is not necessary to show that you're a man. There are guys that will keep quiet, probably leave the room for you- but their silence would make you wish they would shout on you! Their strength is in their action. They would never lay hands on you as a girlfriend/wife or shout back, but their silence would make u wish they should just shout back, do anything else other than that! You won't even know when you'd go apologizing and wish u'd bitten your tongue instead. Lol! Those are the real men.
Though some girls (and guys too) need/deserve to be shouted on- those harrassing you or ur girl. U don't need to be too tolerant or silent toward them.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Thank goodness my husband approached me coz i'm guilty of not being approachable [/color]

LOL

@steeze. . . It was ok until the tail end of the write up. Why should the men see it as NOT their fault if they succumb to any Stacy, Linda and kate that goes for them behind their 'friend's' back? THAT is promoting the worst kind of moral loss and irresponsibility and is a direct go ahead to the men to accept whoever runs after them regardless if they are married or not! So YOU give us the break here. And hey, just answer: will it be ok if your girlfriend does that?

a very pathetic, unintelligent post from the pit of hell

@OP- Take heart. Bt u have to tread carefully my brother. Women can play mind games & can play men for fools at times. I for one don't talk dirty wit any guy as a single lady, how much more when am engaged- any guy that tries that I'll kick out the door. Wat nonsense. Yes, know that some women can go the extent of even meeting the guy at his choice of location 'with the intent of giving him a piece of their mind' if he was the type that disturbed them night and day. But in your case, i don't know which way she might be going since u probably dnt 'disturb' her, and she mails & calls u?? Just try and find out if she's falling into temptation with this 'sweet guy' while at the same time still sincerely in love with you, ok? You can use the suggestions above, but use another-trusted- person (in case she comes). Then see wat she says/how far she'd go. Wish u well dear.

@OP. . .I have these words 4 u: You're a one in a million guy. Hold unto your principles. Never allow anyone talk you down or try to make you feel inferior. U're a rare gem, and i hope u find a lady deserving of you. I wish every guy will be like you. KEEP IT UP MAN!

@OP. . .I have these words 4 u: You're a one in a million guy. Hold unto your principles. Never allow anyone talk you down or try to make you feel inferior. U're a rare gem, and i hope u find a lady deserving of you. I wish every guy will be like you. KEEP IT UP MAN!

Lady, pls move on with your life. If he could go cold and end both your relationship (not once), date someone close to/same age with his daughter, re-establish your relationship when he's still not sure of himself/wat he really wants, takes the girl back after deleting her from his friend list, can't seem to talk on an adult level with u, needs his mum to make up his mind or fix both your relationship for u guys- - then i daresay he must be GROSSLY IMMATURE. U need to quit this pity party and ask yourself wat u really want from life, THE ROLE MODELS U WANT TO KEEP AROUND YOUR SON, and whether u're still a little girl. . . U're no more one of the giggling girls who're still test-driving one relationship after another to find their perfect man. U have been married before and have a child to boot! Be the WOMAN you should be (MATURED), and take the bull of your life by the horns!! If you would apply the brakes for a while and ask yourself wat or how your life should be, you would realize you deserve to have joy the rest of your life, and not recriminations. Still ur decision to make- no one will make it for you.

Lady, pls move on with your life. If he could go cold and end both your relationship (not once), date someone close to/same age with his daughter, re-establish your relationship when he's still not sure of himself/wat he really wants, takes the girl back after deleting her from his friend list, can't seem to talk on an adult level with u, needs his mum to make up his mind or fix both your relationship for u guys- - then i daresay he must be GROSSLY IMMATURE. U need to quit this pity party and ask yourself wat u really want from life, THE ROLE MODELS U WANT TO KEEP AROUND YOUR SON, and whether u're still a little girl. . . U're no more one of the giggling girls who're still test-driving one relationship after another to find their perfect man. U have been married before and have a child to boot! Be the WOMAN you should be (MATURED), and take the bull of your life by the horns!! If you would apply the brakes for a while and ask yourself wat or how your life should be, you would realize you deserve to have joy the rest of your life, and not recriminations. Still ur decision to make- no one will make it for you.

*checks thread author* >>>takes leave>

Hey guys, I couldn't find a more suitable section to post this topic other than here. The question is: WHAT IS HAPPENING TO THE FAMILY CALLED AFRICA? Why is there so much hatred amongst us. I happened to visit- for the first time anyway- a Ghanaian site, to find out how their forums are, their life, recent happenings, culture, etc, Only to stumble on this particular topic which was treated with much passion! What has happened all of a sudden? The United Africa I used to know is now a mere illusion? What is really the problem Why so much hate talk? Almost anywhere you turn it's there. Big Brother Africa is no exception!! I thought it's supposed to bridge the gap. Instead it seems to be worsening the situation! Honestly Africans, I don't know where we are heading to. Let's not give foreigners the space to wreak havoc amongst us, while we KNOWINGLY turn the other cheek. May God help our occasional childish ways! Just check out this link, http://m.topix.com/forum/world/ghana/TIENMCTS49H5Q9Q6A

Mobo, stop insulting the black woman. U are creating a bad impression in the minds of those that log on to this forum- foreigners alike. It's becoming downright ridiculous and makes no sense whatsoever. I'm sure u're a black. RESPECT YOUR PEOPLE.

@kokoye . . That's gud advice. But hey! But hope de second part ain't directed at me. I ain't married. Lol.

He he he he he he he he he he he he he he. LNGWM.
@mobo. . Sleeping wit other women is not the solution, u know naw. It's sin! My bro, tel me u love us women. . Cos i don't believe u don't! *brings out my Ak47 in case he denies*

Why do i have the feeling this thread is for mobo444. *runs out of the warpath*pheew!
190 pls giv him some of your anwuru<igbo> he definitely needs it. He he he!

@daylae. . Ha! For that kin person one month no go do to pack out. Na indefinite leave extension the man go do. Our brothers marry good wives o! Or else. . . . .<Lips sealed>

@saintneo. . I quite agree. But it's still not fair!
@googles. . LOL. They always do. Some of them will even sneak into the house, and at your approach, put up a front. He he he he. Meeeeeeeeen!

Love is Mobo learning to respect us women! And Mr cork liking dark skinned ladies. I have answered right! He he he

LMAO!!!! @omega25. . .hey! U're a guy for that matter? Lol! I guess u're one unbiased guy. .unlike our famous Mr cork! Haha. I don laugh sotee,
@queeneve. .abi o! Hey! But, wat if dat one come backfire