₦airaland Forum

immortalmortal:
Most ladies these days go into marriage for the wrong reason. They rush into marriage either because of pressure or for financial stability. They realise afterwards, that its not all "happy-ever-after". Married Women cheat for so many reasons, Some for fun, some for emotional gratification(mostly with their ex or someone who has captured them emotionally), some cheat for money, most who cheat do so because their husdand cant satisfy dem sexually. If its okay for a man to get what ever satisfaction with another woman, i see no reason why a woman should not do same.

LadyRosa:

I bet you enjoy every bit of it knacking someone's wife .Im not the one to judge as long as it's a mutual affair

But your citations are true with married men's dispositions towards their wives.Lack of love and care tops it all.Many marriages are just too terrible to look at, nothing attractive to make the single get hooked.Little wonder the trend of baby mamaism.I see lots of women who are trying to get out after a kid or two and when they finally do,few years later they are swimming in money they lacked when they were married.

Fresno:
When you tell men that their wives should never have male besties they think we are joking . There is nothing like bestie in any friendship between male and female , 98% of the time besties are usually their fvckbuddies.

It's just so bad that women are very promiscuous this days , I myself have had my fair share of married women, God have mercy on me. I'd still blame the husbands though because when this women narrates what they go through though the narration might be one-sided.

No care, love attention, sexless marriage are some of the things married women go through, their husbands are no where to be found, am talking about well to do women not paupers , but all the same husbands in the house let's love our wives and show them care and attention, if they begin to look outside trust lots of young Guns like me are ever-ready to give them what they want.

LadyRosa:
Well,our traditional society felt marriage is all women needs.Alas,I found out that Nigeria women are evolving and infact in the most drastic way.
I have a former acquittance, a very very intelligent guy who now lives in Canada with his family who confided in me that his boss,a woman fired him because he refused to sleep with her.She is rich,married and influential.

LadyRosa:
Not entirely true.
In my location here in the FCT, many married rich women sleeps around at will.Infact,my former boss used to sleep with one,a politician wife then in the Estate.She comes around at night,do her thing and drive off.We attend same church and she carries herself well like she does no shit.

LadyRosa:
Well,it's no news that there is now a surge in women, married women committing adultery in today's Nigeria.Out of
10 adultery cases on nairaland, more than half has got women as the culprit.Infact, only this week on Frontpage,more than 10 cases from nairalanders has been recorded.

Why now?What went wrong? What could be the reasons for the skyrocketing cases of cheating wives?

Revenge?

Bad xxxx?
Economic limitations and the need to keep up financial independence in gender competitive Nigeria?
Domestic abuse and subjugation?
Religious ingenuity by respected clerics?
Age?
Social media and it's larger than life attributes,a platform where disadvantaged persons can paint a picture perfect life and get away with it?

OR?
Has men become really effeminate?

I now noticed this ugly strain in NL, disgusting yet calls for deep reflection.Our men are becoming more and more loquacious than their female counterpart,they complain too much.This bantle of 'bitterness' associated with Nigeria women as been thrown to the men.Its really disgusting to say the least,I think women are supposed to be the talkatives here and not the men.Omo,the rants are getting worst with the males ñot even giving the women chance to express themselves EVEN on threads that are specifically for the women.I believe that it shows there are more jobless men than women in Nigeria.Loads and lot of verbal assault been hurled and women who have now decided to see nothing wrong in being a baby mama or a LovePeddler.Now,many of them glorifies the word.We can see that with the way a lady exposed her white pant in a birthday photoshoot recently.

So many damaged marriages.Single women and men competing in corporations, having illicit Bleep,going home to sleep like nothing happened , resuming next day competing with each other all over again.I have friends in the island who live like this.The married ones still sleep around,the single ones keep late nights with different guys and in all I noticed they value money more than marriage.As long as the money keeps rolling in,Omo _penis no hard to get,na money be de Koko.
And it is what it is.As long as _vagina ain't free,_penis is and so for the women,it's a win win for them You pay to get mine by cash or otherwise,I get yours any damn time I want.So?

Marriage in general is truly overrated.

It will surely get worst.

beekind:
Thanks everyone for your words of advise, I decide I will inform her albeit diplomatically rather than let my dad do it.
That means it will have to wait till I arrive naija later this month.
We'd both be doing another round of tests together, I won't tell her I did it already to prevent her feeling like this was planned.

Will try to make it as spontaneous as possible and also sound like its standard procedure, just like people have suggested.

Thanks all.

beekind:
The major reason why many of us abroad come back home to marry is that, majority of ladies abroad are old, some of us prefer younger women.
With that advanced age comes a lot of baggage, also you find cultural compatibility is also a huge part of marriage.

This is the reason why Indians and middle easterners abroad have the lowest divorce rate, marriage is deeper than just attraction for a marriage to stand the test of time, its advisable to marry someone with similar cultural values.

I have a few friends who have married here abroad but majority still go back to naija to marry just like me, I guess it all depends on how we see things.

adamusuleiman3:
Pre-installed system apps on Android phones from three popular Chinese vendors, as well as third-party apps, are reportedly transmitting personal user information without notification or consent.

Researchers at universities in the United Kingdom examined the Chinese version of the Android OS distributions run by Xiaomi, Realme and OnePlus headsets, experimenting with a number of devices.

The arXiv paper's authors measured the network traffic generated by handsets when in use, using static and dynamic code analysis techniques to look at the data transmitted by the reinstalled system apps.

"We find that these devices come bundled with a number of third-party applications, some of which are granted dangerous runtime permissions by default without user consent, and transmit traffic containing a broad range of geolocation, user-profile and social relationships [personally identifiable information] to both phone vendors and third-party domains, without notifying the user or offering the choice to opt-out," the research showed.

The packages transmitted to many third-party domains contain privacy-sensitive information related to devices, including GPS coordinates, network-related identifiers, phone numbers, app usage data and call histories. Comparatively, data shared by the Global version of the firmware was found to be mostly limited to device-specific information, which the computer scientists said sheds light on differences in privacy provision enforcement across separate regions.

Notably, the collection does not stop once the device and user leave China, despite the fact that different countries have different privacy laws. Furthermore, data was found to be sent to mobile operators even when they were not providing service.

"This poses serious deanonymization and tracking risks that extend outside China when the user leaves the country, and calls for a more rigorous enforcement of the recently adopted data privacy legislation," the study said. The findings, the authors wrote, highlight the need for tighter privacy curbs to "increase the ordinary people’s trust in technology companies, many of which are partially state-owned."

https://www.foxnews.com/tech/android-phones-china-transmit-personal-info-without-consent-researchers

Raskimonojendor:
You get what you pay for.

beekind:
I am a 38 year old Nigerian American citizen dating a 26 year old Nigeria girl.

I grew up in Nigeria but travelled out to the USA when I was 25 years old, I am a citizen now and doing really well for myself.

I met a beautiful and godly Nigerian girl on facebook and we have been dating for some months now we are now thinking of marriage, she is in Nigeria while I am in the USA.

Some weeks ago my dad asked me to do some tests and send to him, (He is a medical doctor), I did them, turns out to be fertility tests and all was perfect.

I just told him about my fiance and my plans to get married in some months time and he said she has to do fertility test before he can agree to the marriage.

This was very shocking for me as he insisted that it is his position, I haven't told my fiance cos I dont know how to and my fiance is scheduled to pay my parents a visit for the first time in Port Harcourt in 2 weeks time.

My fiance is from Delta but lives in Portharcout as my parents while we are from Port harcourt.

My dad has said if I cannot tell her that he will, what do you guys think ?

Honest advise please and admin kindly push to front page for wider advise.

Thanks.

lhordspy:
Seyi Law Shares Screenshot Of Threat His Wife Received Over Political Affiliation.

Responding to a statement on cyberbullying and attacks by the Obidient group, made by a Twitter user, @Kamariyo

Kama A. Ariyo

https://twitter.com/kamarariy0/status/1654026371918594049?t=JjyrxUDPKxe-sxqsIZNnmw&s=19

Commedian, Seyi Law shared his own experience:

https://twitter.com/seyilaw1/status/1654027194543243268?t=Hu9bzrrG0k0epXVSoLB-Mw&s=19

PUNCH


https://twitter.com/MobilePunch/status/1654070434654986270?t=ign38C9nHP6u9U2MdeQUXA&s=19[/quote]Smh.

saintrow1:
"I have one of my Anambra brothers who has over 20 estates in Lagos alone."


Looooooooooool one of the greatest lie so far this year. This nairaland is something else I swear, 20 estates lool. When the list of estate owners in lagos were released, NO ibo man made the list. Jim ovia was one of the few non yorubas that made the list. 20 estates looooooooooool God have mercy, the rate at which ibo people lie is on another level, even lucifer can never feel comfortable around them.

Lukuluku69:
The Festac side.

You see the Land stretching just after Abule Ado to the fringes of the Trade Fair Complex on the Expressway? Federal Government Land.

The Ado-Soba family are just milking those people who bought Land from them on that axis. The family Land is way inside and not on the Expressway at least not some 100m-200m from the Expressway.

Eriokanmi:
The legit people to buy lands from in Lagos are the ogas at alausa. Many of them bought lands and kept, until they appreciated before reselling. Those lands have original documents, verifiable anywhere because na dem dey allocate and issue documents so, they always ensure they get papers for any land acquired by them. It costs them nothing. They get approvals on a padi-padi basis and mostly on lagos state acquired and developed lands. If you patronise touts or omo oniles, OYO! If you want to buy from someone who wishes to resell, go to Alausa and verify those documents before you rear head, to avoid stories that touch

Franzinni:
Lesson of the story ... Ladies if you are in a relationship with a man and you are using money to keep the man (pamper him) ... I guarantee you, he doesn't love you at all, he is a gigolo who is after your money to use it on younger girls. He is a bitch after comfortable things in life and you are a foolish woman to fall for his looks and not the content of his character.


There are many women who are victim of this predicament... And blind as a bat in the daylight

dappydozzy:
There is something a lot of people including you dont know about blockchain, there are a lot of applications of blockchain in egovernance, apart from crypto, go after knowledge before coming here to say trash. When blockchain experts talk,just keep quiet.I have discovered that a lot of people who claim knowledgeable about blockchain in this country are just mere charlatans.
You are very funny, use blockchain to loot, olodo, digital illiterate, blockchain even checks leakages in government revenues, a lot of benefits, go and do your research on how much Dubai government is investing on blockchain and other global governments. Oga, you need to be lectured, you know nothing about blockchain, you have just shown your fantastic ignorance.

Investorozay:
Clowns your earlier ban no affect us. this one wont
JM dey cash out
Zalmon dey cash out
Blordd dey cashout

Wahala for who dey sleep

nairalandkachy1:
https://twitter.com/toluogunlesi/status/1653769481691299840?t=WpNGXuNcW5cpTm3GlO1D0w&s=19[/quote]Long overdue.

SultanOfAbia:
You see why i no dey invite babes to sleep over for my apartment

Even if you sleep over for my house
i go wipe you oriamo cord every 20 minutes to make sure say you still dey alive

God abeg no bring any babe wey her time don reach to my apartment.

If this girl was sleeping in your apartment and died in her sleep. Na 25 years for jail..
Dem go say you be ritualist..
Make God save us ohhh 🙏🏾🙏🏾

R.i.p to her

haybhi1:
I am single because of lack of capital to start a relationship, high cost of living, unhealthy competition from my fellow bachelors, poor infrastructures, pest and diseases, stds and germs, fear by the other gender, financial attack from neighbourhing bachelors, shortage of lies, lessons from other relationships, especially off Nairaland, sponsors and sugardaddies, high cost of maintenance, tough economy, billing and unavailability.
😁😁😎

SultanOfAbia:
This one na confirm Yahoo State Medical University

Faculty of Romance and Client Bombing

naptu2:
Remember, the two agencies that are in charge of the evacuation are the Ministry of Humanitarian Affairs, Disaster Management and Social Development (which provides funds) and the Ministry of Foreign Affairs (which provides personnel).

naptu2:
See previous thread here: Man Accuses Abike Dabiri Of Abandoning Igbos In Sudan (Video, Photos)

Nigerians in Diaspora Commission @nidcom_gov



https://twitter.com/nidcom_gov/status/1653355087626993666

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Tozba:
An acre of farm land for sale at an affordable price of #4.5 million
Can be used for goat, ram, cow pigry or poultry farming
It is located in a very motorable and residential area
STRUCTURE ON THE LAND
Accommodation for workers
Office
Well Water
Fenced with four(4) couches round.
7 pens, Each of the pens is measuring 30ft by 40ft each, The attachment is 10ft by 12 ft

Reason for property sales: I am relocating permanently
I am the direct owner
Document on land: original land receipt, family deed of Agreement
Location:Shonekan, ifo, ogun state.
Land size:1 acre
Only serious buyer, chat me on my whatsapp Number: 0702 552 8093 or call
Installment is allowed

Samantha124:
I was 14.

Can you believe that she did the same thing when I was doing my first year in varsity??

She paid this other family friend who was doing her third year to keep an eye on me and make sure that I don't get out of line and she would every now and then report back to my mother... Me and the woman became close and I thought maybe it was because she's a family friend, but nope, she was on duty..

I only got to find out about it during the second semester...

Samantha124:
During my junior year in high school my mom hired this other guy who was doing his senior year to walk together with me to school every morning, constantly come to check on me during break time, and to walk me back home after school.

My mom didn't even tell me about the guy until one morning I finished my breakfast and she told that there was someone waiting for me outside.

It was so embarrassing it felt like I had a bodyguard and this guy was not helping matters... During break time he'd come with his friends to the junior class to check on me... My friends would tease me and say that I've got a bodyguard.

Even when he had to stay behind after school to study, he'd make sure to walk me home with his friends and return back to school after making sure that I got home safely.

My home was not even that far from school.

If he couldn't make it to school, he'd ask his friends to fetch me and walk me home after school.

I tried talking to Mom about it and told her that I didn't need the guy keeping an eye on me, but she couldn't take a no for an answer.

Honeybadgerxx:
Second one can still be in Lagos too considering the assurance making sales... Since one is already in surulere, the other can be somewhere on the island, we have numerous club houses and hotels there, Ikeja/Maryland is also a good area for great sales...

But if you insist on having it in other states aside Lagos, then Abj is the only state from the north, Imo, Enugu from the East, Ibadan is the only state in the west aside Lagos that can push sales a bit as most of the south westerners consumes more of beer.
I have been to all the state I mentioned above except Enugu, but I learnt it's also flooded with club houses and hotels, especially the students area.
NB: I'm not saying wine are sold only in club houses alone.

If you decides to go for the Lagos store, I don't mind working for you, I have experience about wines as I had worked in two different top clubs in Lagos.