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Romance / Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by Xinox: 8:30pm On Aug 22, 2020
Zzor you ba lol
Romance / Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by Xinox: 8:28pm On Aug 22, 2020
Zzor:
Xinox,and I thought you were a virgin and inexperienced ooo, so you can even carry load bigger than you,never trust all this young men we have around these days lol .Not a good thing to lead someone on,its always heartbreaking,defined your stands and cut your boundaries before its too late.
shocked Dear haba na. I can explain the forum behind not here before these angry youths will eat us on this tread lol
Romance / Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by Xinox: 8:14pm On Aug 22, 2020
gangstarmonk:
Op! Op!! Op!!!

Do not let them use you at all. They're hard to be with. Tougher than Nigerian girls I must confess.

If you must be used, don't remain in the same condition you are now. They are stubborn, full of themselves and verbally brutal.

I date Keisha for 2 years, she lived in ATL, already had 2 @ 28 when I met her. She did 3 jobs. She was very smart and as soon as I opened up on my Nationality, she tripled her "wisdom". I was ready for all the drama before we even got started.
I didn't ask her for no favour. She was just patiently waiting for me to act like the Nigerians she's met on social media and those she's heard of. I didn't fall for that. I fell in love with her unconsciously, damn! she use me catch cruise.

They love to play the victim card and make you feel like a liability esp. If...

The matter plenty pass Rotimi and China.

Thank God I came out of it alive and better than I was. I don't fvck with connects. She Enjoyed the relationship more but I didn't lose either. You know. I still do deals with her cousins and friends I met through her.

Pray Too. I helps.
Thanks man. This what I need. Genuine advise with experience

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Romance / Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by Xinox: 8:09pm On Aug 22, 2020
Kvng6464:
Meet her then u can also spend lyk two or more weeks together
Hmmm
Romance / My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by Xinox: 5:59pm On Aug 22, 2020
My experience is such a painful one! 4years ago, I met Tiffany, 36 and started dating. She was honest and open. Unfortunately, we lost contact for a year. In May, 2017 I desperately traced her and cought up with her but guess what? A lot happened within one year - meaning she was already pregnant for a cool headed man in Georgia. It was a sad day for me as she could see tears dropping on my eyes. Don't get me wrong, she was a friend and sister. She now promised me her friend who was by and large at the verge of graduating as amedical doctor from University of Standford. We never met each other physically but we chart often. She is crazy in love but I have my reservations. She older than me by 16 crazy years and very fat! Sometimes I am scared charting her up cos the affection is not there. She even asked me why I have never asked her for money like other guys. I calmly told her my instinct will not allow me... Remember I was broke and jobless. Early this month we had a quarrel when she dare insult my country! I told her Americans are worst than Nigerians and I am proudly a Nigerian so she should excuse me and I blocked her. We made up few weeks ago and this time this lady wants to meet me.... Kindly advise me. Honestly is not money, I don't have feelings for her and I cannot just take her money.
CC: Lalasticlala My44, all moderators

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Romance / Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by Xinox: 10:06am On Aug 22, 2020
Zzor:
At 37 and you are still like this,you are even the one looking for her trouble because she didn't hide her wayward lifestyle from you but as a lover boy,you ignored,so enjoy your relationship and go ahead with your marriage plans and stop complaining,you weren't sleepwalking when you agreed to still date her after she opened up to you.
Good morning zzor. U always speak my mind
Family / Re: Age 25 With 1 Million Naira & Living With My Parents: Buy Land Or Pack Out? by Xinox: 10:56pm On Aug 20, 2020
Zzor:
pack out and start facing your life like a man should,make use of the money wisely ,remember to spend on your fiancee too and don't be a stingy boyfriend lol. God bless you with more money,be a good boy and don't follow all this yeye Nairaland redpillers
Hey zzor...
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: What Is Your Most Embarassing Moment While Job Hunting. by Xinox: 12:36am On Aug 14, 2020
Nuttella:
I finished my NYSC as a fresh babe, I had high hopes, there was this highly influential man on my Facebook that had promised to collect my CV after my NYSC, immediately I finished my NYSC, I talked with him, he said thankGod you are done, it's not easy, then I asked him if I could send my CV to him now that I'm done since he said I should do so when I'm done, this man kept my message on read, I still chatted him up again and again, he still kept my message on read. I bet he was especting punna before he gives me the slot, but this baby girl wasn't gonna part with it. wink

Men will shame you!
my dear your experience is a good example for people not to depend on man. It happened to me severally.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Please Help, I Have Lost Much Money Trying To Earn Money Online. by Xinox: 4:47pm On Aug 12, 2020
tripplephi:


Your only PROBLEM in all this is........................... YOU HAD NO MENTOR.

Any mentor would tell you that
BLOGGING takes years before it can give tangible results.
FOREX at its best can only be a small side hustle....NEVER A MAJOR SOURCE and to mitigate the stress of forex you have to do PAMM.
FREELANCING only profits you if you do it as ARBITRAGE... and on at least 6 top platforms...
WEBDESIGN is not profiting because it is now a common skill unless you upgrade to FLIPPING DOMAINS and PARKING your domains then paying influencers to market them for you....



In all these, am only trying to show you that you got burnt because your knowledge about these things were not VAST ENOUGH because you were not trained by someone who was really EARNING from them consistently. So I suggest you get a mentor and watch how they will all turn to profitable streams of income.

NOTE OF ADVICE:
Consider Real Estate & Agrotech.... it is very profitable... even for webdesigners, many naija agrotech do not have websites or even a media manager... it is still a new niche in Nigeria.
Also learn how to do ADMOB and make endless income without depending on clients...
please what is ADMOB??
Politics / Re: Rabiu Musa: Malami As Champion Of Nigeria’s Justice System by Xinox: 8:27am On Aug 12, 2020
I can see this guy is looking for Money. False praises that keep us backward in the hands of few for many years. If you want, write from the skies
Career / Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by Xinox: 2:48am On Aug 11, 2020
Zzor:
Stand your ground and quit if he insists,God will not leave without a better offer.These men and their randiness everywhere
Do what Zzor ask you and wait for 3 days thank her later

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Celebrities / Re: Mary Timms: "Not All Slim Girls Have Flat Backside" by Xinox: 9:31pm On Aug 09, 2020
pretydiva:
If this rubbish post enter front page ehnn. What I will do would be left u imagined
my dear, it seems the admin like things like this rubbish
Health / Re: Ladies, How Many Sanitary Pads Do You Use Per Cycle? by Xinox: 5:10pm On Aug 08, 2020
I am speechless! The trade specially mentioned LADIES. I was surprised the first 5 comments are from guys. Nigerian youths how far?. Don't quote me cos I enter to see whether my girl friend answer the question correctly cry
Romance / Re: A Lady I Was Toasting Insulted Me Because Of My Height by Xinox: 2:08am On Aug 08, 2020
grin
Zzor:
you are short for a man,sorry ooo Mr shorty

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Politics / Re: DHQ: Nothing New About US Intel On Al-qaeda Infiltrating North-west by Xinox: 8:26pm On Aug 06, 2020
Queenlovely:
Irespect you a lot but I disagree on this!
did you know that antivirus companies create virus to drive deman for their products

war is good business, every country and their millitary are war mongers.

in business if you can provide solution to some wahala, you will make money.


Boko Haram is a product of our military.

na me talk am

even the dreaded Corona virus are all format.

why can't Boko Haram attack Lagos or even portharcourt, because borno is their play ground
and Lagos is for investing their profits
Politics / Re: Buhari Extends Eased Lockdown By 4 Weeks by Xinox: 7:52pm On Aug 06, 2020
Abraham Lincoln's first political statement in 1832 emphasized education been aware of his educational deficiencies. He said, " education is is the most important subject we as a people can be engaged in".
Adams Smith, one of the greatest philosophers of all time on provision of education in "Theory of moral scientists" put it clear that learning of "wisdom" and ' moral scientists' is for a better society. I won't insult my leaders out of frustration. The president is armed with people who lack true education. BUT don't give up on Nigeria cos this country is God's.
Family / Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by Xinox: 7:20pm On Aug 06, 2020
YoungandDepress:
My story is quite a sad and long one.
I wish I could write it all out. My life has been a terrible mess.
Where did it go wrong for me, I have no idea.

I am writing with so much emotion, my heart is full and heavy.
Life is bitter.

I am a 23 years old guy.
My life all started to go in the negative direction when I gained admission at age 16.
A 16 years old boy in the university, so much freedom and exposure.
I messed up my life, I became addicted to bet9ja virtual gambling I lost focus, Gambling killed me, I started failing exams, at the end I dropped out without my parents Knowing, but the truth came out when I was supposed to graduate, I could not hide it anymore. I told them the truth, my parents forgave me like the prodigal son.

They still believed in me especially my mom, she keeps reminding me of how intelligent I used to be.

Well I'm not here to talk about my past life but here to talk about how it is still affecting me today.

Ever since I started university all over again, I have been miserable and frustrated. Nothing has been working in my favour. I'm currently now in 200level hoping to graduate before 25.
All my mates I started with have done their NYSC.

I'm still stuck in the same stage.
I have no idea what I am doing with my life. I'm young, broke and depressed. I get irritated over little things. I feel disgust at how I uselessed my youthful life. How gambling destroyed me.

By the grace of whichever god exists, I am no longer addicted to gambling. I have quit the addiction for almost a year now but nothing changed, I still feel miserable. I hate having people around me even my family members including my mom.

I have no true friends. Nobody checks on me, nobody calls me.

At this age, I can't boast of having 500 naira in my account.
I'm broke and miserable.

I have started hating God and question my belief in God. I hate Sunday's. I hate hearing about God, I don't blame God for my troubles but I'm angry at the fact that despite my parents being dedicated Christians, things are not working well in my family.
My elder ones are graduates, but no solid job yet.

Only my eldest brother who is doing quite well now and I thank God for his life but we don't talk. I can't remember the last time I called him on phone. They don't hate me, I hate myself.
I have disappointed them a lot.


I just lost the last #1000 I had in my life today and I cried. The money fell out my pocket when I went to get something.

At 23 years, I have no idea what I will do with my future.
I still live with my parents and I have never rented an apartment of my own even in school.

What is wrong with me, why am I miserable?

I have no good clothes. My clothes are all worn out.
I have nothing doing, i live off my parents.

Since schools were shut down, I have been at home doing nothing.
Completely broke, damaged and miserable.

Can my life be any better. What do I do. I am depressed.
I keep asking myself these questions but there
Seem to be no answer.



I am happy stories like this can make headlines than showing how BBN are acting porn. I also thank God I opened d story. Listen up, you are not a waste! From this moment u can turn things around. Be urself and believe God exit. Draw close to Him and make up ur mind. Call ur elder brother and tell him you are now a change person. You can do anything with ur two hards and never compare yourself with anyone. " All fingers are not equal" those that were Mr Buhari's mates are not Nigerian President. I will challenge you, alot of people at 40 still have this challenge. Now you know so is the key!

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Romance / Re: My Boss's Wife Keep Asking Me For Sex. by Xinox: 4:46pm On Aug 06, 2020
Zzor:
Good thing you did,God will bless you with a good work soon
And God heard...

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Romance / Re: My Boss's Wife Keep Asking Me For Sex. by Xinox: 4:41pm On Aug 06, 2020
For those that stood by me and encouraged me, my loyalty paid off. Thank you all

Lalasticlala!

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Nairaland / General / Re: I Was Lucky I Didn’t Know A Snake Was Above My Head by Xinox: 12:29pm On Aug 06, 2020
emillysmigael:
I am glad you and your brother were unhurt
True
! That snake is a dangerous one

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Politics / Re: Buhari Leading A Protest During Goodluck Jonathan's Government (Throwback Photo) by Xinox: 9:37pm On Aug 05, 2020
WonderManly:
With all this am seeing now. Is like...
I see no difference between the two. Just that one is � and another ☂️
Romance / Re: My Boss's Wife Keep Asking Me For Sex. by Xinox: 2:12pm On Aug 04, 2020
DonroxyII:
with Free problem oooo ..... This is how many people enter one chance and how dafuq is sex a free food grin .... U mean like Free JollovRice with Assorted meat ... Ur brain dey pain you aswear !

safe yourself some avoidable problems in life and concentrate on what will bring eternal growth and development to you and your generations to come ... Shikom ...
Hmm
Crime / Re: Nigeria’s Out-Of-Control Policemen: How They Steal, Torture And Kill At Will by Xinox: 12:03pm On Aug 04, 2020
dre11:



SOURCE
powerful write up
Romance / Re: My Boss's Wife Keep Asking Me For Sex. by Xinox: 2:16pm On Aug 01, 2020
mentored:



Good you resigned

God will expose her one day.


Be safe
Thank you very much for this
Romance / Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Xinox: 11:56pm On Jul 31, 2020
donstan18:
If you are a Guy reading this, please pay attention.



You see this?



You see this?


And this?


And this too....

You see those 4 parts I highlighted? They should be the reason why you should never expect much from GIRLFRIENDS, they are just hoes parading as Girlfriends.

The earlier you understand this the better for you. Thanks!!
l love this babe hahaha
Education / Re: Scholarship And Admission: Is This Real??? by Xinox: 7:49pm On Jul 31, 2020
[quote author=Xinox post=92310873]NET ACADEMY, DubaiI gave me this admission after an online interview and had a webinar with them on zoom but am scared... Attached is my conditional admission letter & Visa processing fees Please fox, is this real??
Cc: admin

Education / Scholarship And Admission: Is This Real??? by Xinox: 7:21pm On Jul 31, 2020
NEST ACADEMY, DubaiI gave me this admission after an online interview and had a webinar with them on zoom but am scared... Attached is my conditional admission letter & Visa processing fees Please fox, is this real??
Cc: admin

Romance / Re: My Boss's Wife Keep Asking Me For Sex. by Xinox: 2:46pm On Jul 31, 2020
GalPissetzky:
bro if you do this for me i will never forget you for life
Np
Romance / Re: My Boss's Wife Keep Asking Me For Sex. by Xinox: 1:02pm On Jul 31, 2020
GalPissetzky:
HOW CAN PEOPLE BE THIS STUPID. Bleep craze commot for her head and get more cash. idiotpt
I can direct you to the house. Op you have d**k too
Romance / Re: Resurfaced: I Don't Love Him But This Is Happening, Advice Needed. by Xinox: 9:32pm On Jul 30, 2020
Chinkos99:

Hmmm
chinkos
Romance / Re: My Boss's Wife Keep Asking Me For Sex. by Xinox: 12:23am On Jul 30, 2020
Zenithpeak:


If you want to ascertain how developed someone's IQ is, just judge them by their post. They hate to read and if they do; it's always the first paragraph without full grasp of the content hence a waste of time quoting them back.

haha

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