₦airaland Forum

Offpoint1:
Maid is gone, oga will likely end up in jail... While madam is free.

Guess who lose? Both MEN!

Always use your head.

If you must eat shxt, don't do it in the kitchen.

Trust me, that boy won't get justice even with Falana as his lawyer. The mob beat him to dead, that is where the argument will start.

That is the most dangerous aspect of sleeping with another man's wife.

For women, there is a tin line between infidelity and losing your marriage or bring disgrace.

I think I read a news where Dangote was advising people to stop buying rollrorce or private jet and invest in productivity.

lilsmart:
I cannot support this initiative because distributing 200,000 naira a mere $150 is not empowerment but a token gesture that fails to address systemic economic challenges, this amount cannot even cover three bags of rice, let alone sustain families with extended dependents, and it offers oinly a temporary fix rather than the permanent solutions expected from such a high level meeting. Instead of short term handouts, I am disappointed that the First Lady did not leverage her influence to create lasting opportunities, such as introducing sustainable job programs or direct export linkages, which would have enabled genuine economic independence and meaningful progress for Persons with Disabilities.

Have you ever thought of the fact that there are limits to what people living with disabilities can do?

Majority of them are petty artesians or traders, with little or absolutely no dependants. 200k is small in this economy but will definitely add little value to what they are currently engage in. If this is doing consistently by government at various level, I think we will have fewer disabilities persons begging for arms on the road side.

AirBere:
The aim should be something more sustainable. Like a long term plan for these people. 200k cannot do much after a month.

200k each to people with disabilities moderately better as majority of them don't have dependents and majorly into petty trades.

osuofia2:
Annie is not better than Natasha, He Tuface is unlucky with women. All the women in his life wants to possess and control him. I feel bad for him, he is too innocent for all the women coming his ways

Because he probably started with love game with them. Women don't try to control a man that don't act as if he is in love with them.

eedimo:
The world will get there someday.
Kudus to the inventors

When it comes to diseases that don't have cure, people only focus on HIV, forgotten that more than 70% of diseases ever known to humans don't have cure according to world pharmaceutical industries and research.

Diabetes, High blood pressure, cancer, arthritis, herpes virus, kidney disease, appetites, jaundice, cicle cell anaemia, etc.

The only sickness that have obvious cure withiout keep buying drugs to maintain according to world pharmaceutical industry is probably malaria.

I will rather vote a Stone than any of ADC, PDP and APC.

Blitzking:
Invest in pi..target 10k to 100k pi and u are made for life in 10years time

The total supply of pi and its pantry capitalization are too small for it to make a significant milestone in few years time.the highest pi can give you in the next 10 years is probably $10.

Wait till second migration take place, you will see price drop below $0.1.

PulaPower:
Bitcoin..

In that 2014, Btc was around $40k or so..

Today, it’s almost $100k or so..

Bitcoin was never $40k in 2014 but less than $10k.

It was around $21k/28k in recent time (2022 - 2023).

Kobojunkie:
For you to rule out the possibility entirely despite not knowing anything about the man except for they spewed by a third-party whose narrative reveals he took is a complete outsider in speaks volumes of your mentality. 🥱🥱🥱

2. Why should I waste my time doing any such when you can easily learn these things by making Google your friend? 🥱🥱

3. You are indeed Nigerian at your core. I merely pointed that out since it is obvious from, again, your mentality. 🥱🥱🥱

I knew you won't be able to answer those questions, you can see the difference between us now, you rely on Google to approach an issue, while I rely on real life situation or practical experience to do the same.

The earlier you understand that Google only bring people posts/opinions for you as answers (which in most cases could be wrong), the better for you. I have personally seen my posts numerous time on Google search, does that made me an expert or best answers to such issues?

If you can't take your time to get practical knowledge/experience from those who are concerned, you have no right to question my practical knowledge because you lack the same and only depends on others through Google( in which their opinions could be right or wrong).

Until you tell me what is wrong in thinking like Nigerian, or why do you believe thinking like Nigerian is bad, you don't have point but to keep wallowing in whatever thinking mentality you believe is right.

Kobojunkie:
1. Well, it turns out that, as grown as you claim to be in whatever stage of your life you are in, you still don't know anything much about kids.

2. I talk a lot to other people... have been doing that for many years on Nairaland, and my posts serve as evidence, and I can clearly tell from all of that you, as grown as you are, have no clue about children.

3. You are definitely yet another one of them close-minded Nigerians who do all that is possible to stay disconnected from the reality of things.

Ok if I could understand you very well, the guy cut off his family probably because of pains or maltreatment he went through during his childhood period?

Ok, If you say kids can abandoned their parents because of the way they treated them, can you highlight example of those bad treatments during childhood that could made someone abandoned their parents?

Lastly, is it a sin to think like a Nigerian when I am indeed a Nigerian?

Kobojunkie:
1. You don't know much about kids, do you? I understand this mentality that a lot of Nigerians have when it comes to judging their own parents.

2. Oh wow! You have never met the man, but you are already sure that his reason for cutting contact is his wife. Way to go! You are a true Nigerian to your core!

I don't just say things withiout having alot of experiences or evidences, I have grown past that stage in my life. You can equally do the same, try to talk to alot of people in this situation and hear the reason they treated their parents badly or abandoned them.

As for the guy in question, cultural change and bad influence usually made people to abandoned their root. He is not the first, and he won't be the last person who will travel abroad and totally forgot their families in Nigeria. He must have been manipulated to believe he is Russian, and has nothing to do with black race.

budaatum:
One thing I've learnt is, siblings can assume they all got the same good treatment, when the truth might be that some are not treated as well as some. And though some may claim someone "was well treated as a kid", they don't know how the kid felt about its treatment.

I say the above to add rationality to the actions of this "kid". It is also possible that the kid's action might be irrational, and that he truly was treated well as a kid and now just does not care about his parent's no more, or it can be that his new location has its on hardships that have caused issues for him so his thinking is bent.

If we don't walk in his shoes we'd never know his journey, basically, and any judgement might be ill informed and hasty, and is definitely a "million dollar question", and "life".

Kids don't use their treatment from the parents to act when they grow up, they only see it as discipline needed to become better person in future. Kids only remember or act when parents neglect or abandoned them and not taking care of their needs when they needed them the most.

This guy is purely manipulated by Rassian wife and culture, and like you had rightly said, his reasons were irrational. His decision to abandoned his people might not be what he wanted but forced to do so by circumstances beyond his power.

simpleseyi:
Southerners including President Tinubu should stop interfering in Northern family affairs

That is why i laugh when I see some people saying these jihadists or terrorists can be easily defeated.

The only solution left now is to decentralise the security architecture. Let there be state police, and when state take up the full responsibility of security within their jurisdictions, they will definitely sit up or see it as a serious threat to their states.

Dtruthspeaker:
What a garbage field. You must be sufaring from erectile not-function for your divck to not stand when you see a woman like the ones seen in gyms.

Also, women rape men by getting the unwilling man or boy to bleep them. That is how they usually get it done.

And this is what I call "consent rape" or "rape by consent".

And this is where you see why men are always afraid of women and must be because, you don't know how she may choose to end this sex inducement game.

As she can end it with you bleeping her and she letting it slide or she may play it the you-raping- her way.

So this is where you see women make you (sex inducement) commit the crime, while they play anyway they want eg sitting looking like they are no where near the scene of the crime exactly like what the friend in this case did or the other one in which f00. ssh men celebrate the score.

Not knowing that it is them who have been played and rather she is the one who did the most scoring.

After seeing something like "consent rape" in your writeup, I have concluded you might not really understand the meaning of subject matter being discussed here.

If I am to go by your claim, it means you can practically have sex with your mum (my apology), female family members or mad women if they play inducement game on you?

Well, you may still be a teenage boy, reason you think a divck must response to every female bodies.

Harddiskng:
There are so many illiterates on Nairaland.

Just look at this comment

How do i start to educate this one now

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/712588k4/

Lolz, if you and your likes are eduucated, you won't be arguing with the law or saying what is practically impossible by nature.

Tell me why you feel a woman can forcefully rape you withiout your full consent instead of embarrassing yourself with derogatory remarks here.

What do some of you know other than reading nonsense assumptions writting by weak men. You're a giver during sex, while women are receiver, your instrument determine the extent of sex, if it doesn't response, then there is no sex. No man get arose under an intensive or dreadful circumstances that is usually accompany by act of rape, that is why women cant be charge for rape, because they are not capable or doing so.

If the law says women can't forcefully rape a man, I wonder what kind of experience you had that is more quality or qualified than the law itself or those sages that wrote it. And if you are that intelligent or literate as you claim, you won't argue with the law.

TechBaron:
Na person wey no get pikin this one go dey vex.

I have never visited a new born baby empty handed.. And as much as I love giving, there are plenty of times that I had to use my last card in buying diapers and clothes...

If these rules would stop me from visiting... I'll gladly pocket my money and enjoy my day with my own children.

Better still, use the money in buying Hollandia for my kids. We'll be watching "Baby Shark" or "Paw Patrol" while sipping the yoghurt.

Simple!

No dey stress yourself, people post rubbish to trend these days. People live fantasy life on Internet, don't be surprise the person that posted it and all those supporting her can't do that in real life.

Women don't rape and can't rape. Penis works with your psychology than physical touch, no amount of bodily touch can arose you if your feelings are not connected. You can put it to test, if your mind is not on sex or under a very sad situation, a naked sexy girl can sit on your naked divck and still not move you a bit.

Only a delude person will think a woman can rape a man withoout his consent, reason the law don't recognise such.

The chances that an hard working serious woman will succeed in life is almost 100%, while that of a man is 50/50.

Salewa97:
The president is making sense.

Those mercenaries, their loyalty is to money not to any country

But they will do their job effectively than Nigerian army. The war against insurgency won't stop as long as we keep trusting our highly compromises solders.

Their sponsors and supporters only want one thing for them as always confirmed by Gumi, "Financial induced amnesty like Niger Delta militants". They will eventually push Tinubu to do this, except he borrow himself brain and bring capable mercenaries to clear out these terrorists at once.

The number of VIP in this country cannot less than 100,000 people, and some have 2 or 3 police men attached to them. We are talking about 100,000 or more policemen who are guiding just 100,000 citizens, making over 200m others vulnerable to social vices and criminality.

This figure doesn't suggest anything, people only conduct DNA test on children they have strong feelings might not be theirs. So, it is completely logical for 98% of such test to be negative.

You probably bought a spoit meat, abattoirs rarely open on Sunday, so whatever the meat you buy on Sunday morning to afternoon is Saturday or Friday meat.

Next time, don't buy meat that is not looking bright/sharp.

We4all:
Abegi! Why not relocate the people to a different vicinity or ask them to leave the bandits enclaves? The bandits are in war with Nigerians and in times of war, the government ensure that citizens receive maximum protection.

But come to think of it, why are the locals living with these bandits knowing full well who they are? This proves that these people are not ready to be liberated.

They are just giving unnecessary excuses, what happens if they mobilize the civilians and farmers among them and go after the rest.

Tinubu is only playing national politic with this war against terrorists up north. He doesn't want to offend terrorists apologists of leaders that can mobilize votes for him in 2027.

No Nigeria president can order massive clearing out of these criminals in Northern forest withiout considering these factors. The best and only solution is "state policing " let each state handle security within their domain. The issue of insecurity aided by Northern leaders should not be national problem or what we spend most of our resources on. It is only North that can apply appropriate solution to its problem, let the likes of Hamed Gumi team up with governors over there and provide a solution in their own way.

Every right thinking person knows this, infact, majority of those going to the religions places to pray and fasting also knows this.

One thing you don't know about religions or prayers is that, they gives peace, hopes and consolations in the faces of uncertainty and hopelessness.

Withiout religion and prayers, humans would've lost hope and value in nature and humanity. Prayer is not only peculiar to Africans, people pray in Europe, America and other developed countries in the world too. The only difference are the subjects of the prayers.

I think winning the AFCON is better than going to the world cup.

The glory is more appreciated and well documented in history than just a qualification for world cup.

NOETHNICITY:
Here’s a refined, clearer version while keeping your tone and message intact:

You people can be funny sometimes.

Many years ago, my best friend and I applied for a federal government job. When it was time for the screening, interviews, and tests, he refused to go because he believed it was impossible to get an FG job without connections. I did everything I could to convince him to at least make an effort before drawing conclusions. He even promised to show up—but he never did.

Ironically, he had a better chance than I did, with his BSc and his brilliance.

Lo and behold, I got the job, and he has remained jobless to this day.

So please, stop discouraging people from trying things that could lead to positive outcomes.

Let him write an anonymous letter describing the location and the people involved.

If you’d like it more formal, more persuasive, or more concise, I can adjust it!

Ok.

NOETHNICITY:
@Op, follow this advice. I know a very wise advice when I see one. You can also report discreetly on Twitter. You can create a fake account just for that purpose.

You had never face a brutal reality in Nigeria, reason you are talking like this. Who tell you police don't know them or has never arrested them before?

Dont be surprise that it is the same police ( my apology to Good ones among them) that will expose your identity to them and even give them tip to deal with you. And let assume you did that anonymously, they won't act on it, except it is highly notorious joint that have been reported before or the boys commited another crime.

He made a mistake by starting what he couldn't afford to finish. He behaved like a rich guy to them, reason they keep asking him for money. If he had refuse or give them just #100 at first time, they would've tag him idiot and let him be for good. Now, the only escape route for him is to relocate, otherwise, they will soon invite him to join them because they had seen him as a financial backer.