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Any bloody coup carry out this period could signify the end of Nigeria. The coup plotters should be very careful and not start what they can't afford to finish.

Nigeria is no longer in early 90's, military government can't control Nigeria ever again.

effixxyguy1:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm seeking advice on a sensitive issue.

After the first round of intimacy with my wife, I often lose interest in going for a second round.

I'm 31, and we've been trying for a child, but I'm worried this might be affecting our chances. Is this normal? Are there any underlying issues I should be concerned about? Should I consult a doctor or a relationship counselor? I'd appreciate any guidance or suggestions.

You need proper understanding of how sex works or lead to pregnancy. As someone looking for a child, you should not even be having sex all the time. You need a proper build up of sperms and make sure your wife is on or around her ovulation period before you have sex.

Besides, one round of sex with your wife is OK except you are a one minute man. If you have good sex, non of you will remember another round, both of you will just slept off and wake up the next day.

Wetin person want tell newbies wey we Don promise bull run this October bayi

Joke apart, this market fit turn experts to liar or empty skull in the eyes of newbies.

mikeapollo:
That is a stupid, dubious rule calculated to favour some countries
How do you deduct from second placed teams the points they scored against the weakest teams in the group, but you allow the same points for the teams that topped the groups? Why not treat all the teams equally?
That is super corruption and big disgrace to African football/

The rule is rule, learn to deal with that and stop being ruled by emotion. CAF can't remove any team points withiout a clearly stated rule.

Some people deserve to live but die, some deserve to die but live and prosper, life is dynamic, brutal and sometimes domineering. During the war, the innocent and righteous die for the sins of others, not because they deserve to die but because they are unfortunate to be in the war zone. The same traore should not have been president today withiout taking advantage of others.

themanderon:
Look at the comments above. That is how the average Nigerian reasons. You rejoice because it favors Nigeria today. What if it's against u tomorrow? The man is demanding explanation and that's what a right thinking person would do.

What useless explanation again, it was stated clearly before taking action, so what else he is expecting CAF to say.

The guy is just looking for attention.

CAF stated their reason for taking such action, yet some people are still asking questions.

A rule is a rule, and it has nothing to do with emotion. What about South Africa that FIFA removed 3 points and 3 goals from despite the fact that Lesotho did not summit any complaint.

It all depends on your relationship with her, if you are very close, at least, after 2 or 3 years into marriage, she should have ask her as a close friend.

Though she went too far by blocking you.

ariesbull:
Genes mutate and the genes we have today have mutated about 200 yrs now.... The mad man can eat food from the trash bin but a same man if he does it ...he would die

Your ancestors died of mostly sickness they didn't know ... And sciences have made us know that ...

My dear... Agbo is bad It must be regulated

Herbs are not medicine but recipe like the food we eat or supplements. It works wonder in hilling process and give good result in treatment of underline illness. Only an ignorant think Herbs are medicine, while they are actually not. Natural are not harmful, they are like food you eat, the body take vital nutrients from them and pass the rest as weste. The worst a natural Herbs can do to you is "allergic reaction" which can be subdued after a while like any orthodox medicine or normal food.

Majority of Herbs these hawkers are carrying around has been compromised by mixing them with chemicals to give quick result, which place heavy pressure on body organs and subsequently resulted to damage.

I think the most difficult point of this play off for the super eagle is winner the Africa ticket.

They will surely be seeded, and only need to play a match against unseeded inferior team from other continent. Bolivia and Nigeria are likely going to be seeded if we qualified.

achorladey:
They will deduct points each team gets from the particular team that is lowest in their respective group.

For example Nigeria end with 17 points but 2 points was removed from 17 points because Nigeria only get 2 points from the lowest team in Nigeria group Zimbabwe.

So others that are having 22 points, 19 points, those teams got 6 points from the lowest team in their group therefore a team that has 19 points after removing 6 points they go back to 13 points. Nigeria own 15 points is higher.

South Africa draw with Zimbabwe might be a calculated move. If they had won that match, 6 point would've been deducted from them, and they would have dropped below qualification line.

Match fixing is real in football.

Namaster:
"I’m not even extremely driven myself, but I know I want to achieve greatness."

I stopped reading this DRIVEL at this point.

The author is trying to VILIFY her husband for the same thing she's GUILTY of!

She's complaining that an EMPLOYED man goes to bed at 9 PM at night.

9PM!

MADNESS!

Her pains was the fact that he didn't allow her to be carefree with opposite sex she called friends.

I was initially thought the man is jobless, until I read more of her unnecessary ranting. I wonder what drive or ambition she could not pursue alone withiout the input of the so called friends.

Any married woman that is still talking about social circle is not yet mature or ready for marriage.

I have never seen a government since inception of 4th Republic that ASUU don't go on prolong strike.

Could it be that this union bodies are being greedy or the government is not doing the right thing for them.

As usual, the big players repeated the same format. Just buy more and more and LONG, talk about rate or tariff, then SHORT and pull out to crash the price again.

This one is so terrible.

Discountsempai:
Nigeria is not qualifying...unless South Africa loses to Zimbabwe and Rwanda...not going to happen, and we win our next two matches, especially Benin at home

Benin right now is being coached by Rohr, who when he was our coach beat the current coach...when he was the Mali gaffer...at the last nations cup.

And we won't get top second place runners up...Gabon and Madagascar have taken two of the spots...and we have several teams ahead of us.

We should have beaten Zim at home, and South Africa last time. We did not. If we had, I would be singing a different tune.

Let them win their remaining two matches first, eagle are notorious in dissapointing everyone when they are needed the most, don't be surprise they might be even be struggling to beat Lesotho tomorrow.

If we defeat Lesotho and Benin by wide margins, and Rwanda equally beat Benin by few goals, we might have a chance because, Rwanda too will be a serious contender going into final match. Who knows they may beat South African against all odd.

The lion is meditating, thinking about it future.

CommentatorPro:
Nigeria is a country blessed with talent, resources, and resilience — yet it continues to struggle under the weight of bad leadership, corruption, and poor governance. From unreliable electricity to the rising cost of living, it sometimes feels like every sector is crying out for help.

Now imagine this: you suddenly become the President of Nigeria — but only for one week. You have full control to make key decisions, sign executive orders, and implement reforms. No bureaucracy, no political godfathers — just seven days to make a difference.

What would you fix first?

Would you focus on the economy, to bring down the price of food and fuel?
Would you tackle security, ensuring that citizens can travel freely without fear of bandits or kidnappers?
Or maybe you’d go straight to education, reviving schools, paying teachers well, and making universities work again?

Some Nigerians say they would start by cutting government salaries and reducing the cost of governance. Others believe the first step should be arresting corrupt politicians and recovering looted funds. A few even argue that constitutional reform is the only real solution to Nigeria’s endless cycle of problems.

Whatever your opinion, one thing is clear — most Nigerians know exactly what they want fixed; they just haven’t had the power to do it.

So, let’s hear from you
If you had just one week as Nigeria’s President, with total authority to act, what’s the first thing you’d change and why?

My one and only mission will be to call for referendum and divide the country into 6 geo-political zone under a weak federal government that is comprises of 12 representatives (2 each) from the 6 geopolitical zones. Each zone with full autonomy and total control of her resources. An offshore oil exploration in Atlantic ocean will be share by all, while each political zone pay taxes to federal government to maintain national security, foreign missions, aviation and national sport commission. A new constitution of each zone shall be determine and write entirely by the masses, political leaders, traditions rulers, professionals, activists, journalists and elder statemen of of each zone.

Non of the zone shall mingle or intervened in the affairs of others, while federal government will have absolutely no power to dictate or control their affairs, except declaration of state of emergency incase of civil unrest within these zones. Each zone Shall comprises of people with the same background, ideology, tradition and history. In the event or places where at least 90% of inhabitants of a zone do not have these in common, another zone shall be created entirely to achieve this aims and objectives

Political power at the regional level shall cease to be in the hands of political leaders but politcal institutions under the supervision of traditional rulers or chiefs, whose only duty will be to convey their people's or community needs to these institutions. A week or two continuous protest withing a zone shall warrant a state of emergency that will requires sacking and prosecution of entire hierarchy of the institution members involved.

How can someone purposefully brought poisoning foods into someone house withiout thinking of being caught or suspected after the person eat it and die?

Wicked people don't go straightforward like that, they do it codedly when no one could suspect or think about them. It could be the person they sent to feed the dog that actually did it or someone else that don't like or want the person that brought the food.

10thTenthMan:
But she is correct.

If a man does not care, then he does not bother you.

This is a fact.

The question can then be, ''What type of man goes out, comes back and sees his house in a mess with a wife at home and does not care''?

Show me that man, and I will show you a low value man without discipline. A man without a strong, respectable network of friends. A man without shame. A man without order in his life. A man who does not demand accountability because he himself lacks it. A man she will call a whimp and she will eventually cheat on with someone who demands accountability from her.

As per a man bickering with women, she is also correct.

A sensible man creates boundaries and enforces them, and never renegotiates them. Calling out a boundary MUST NOT INVOLVE Shouting and quarrelling. Don’t get into arguments with her, especially with logic and facts. Tell her once and enforce it. Remove time, remove resources, remove protection, remove provision, remove validation. No reaction/overreaction IS YOUR TRUE WEAPON. But how do you do these things when you do not have value way above her. If you can be easily replaced, then all you have is your self resect. Keep that intact and walk away from a woman who does not respect your boundaries. You are a man and easily manipulated to lose emotional control with someone you are to lead? Don't bring yourself down to that level. Why should I waste energy speaking with logic to a brain and mind run by emotions? Choose your words wisely. Not too much talk. Don’t argue like a child.

So, you didn't see the contradiction in the 'fish brain' writeup right?

Lolz, a man with "I no care attitude" will enter kitchen and cook for his wife? Just go and ask those women that their husbands don't care and see how lonely and sorrowful they are.

richiemcgold:
Number 1 if I am in a party or in a get together

Number 2 if I am eating out in an eatery/restaurant

Number 5 if I am in my house

It means you are living a fake life, why pretend to be who you are not.

If we can beat Lesotho and Benin with 2 or 3 unreplied goals, we can still qualify or have chance of playing in playoff.

Benin and South Africa cant easily win against Rwanda that also have good chance of qualification for the world cup.

erad:
Osun is not one... There's Ijesha and Igbona and some others I can't remember at the moment. They are yoruba but a different dialect.

Lumping them up under 'yoruba' is oversimplification.

They speak the same Yoruba language but different dialect, which can be understand by every Yoruba speaker.

740 million naira is a huge amount of money. I don't think Dangote use such expensive cars.

Wordson:
PSG eventually won?!! Chai! This is bad news for all UCL teams oooo..
Without dembele , Kvaratskelia, Marquinhos and Doué.
There is serious need for concern oo.. just give them the UCL Cup. because who be Madrid, Liverpool,Bayern,inter, Arsenal wey no go collect from dem?

They can't beat Arsenal, Bayern, and Madrid so easily again.

MrDoGood:
The government should better start regulating the prices rental prices. Even Agbor that's a village (if not for okowa), is also calling huge sum for rental. Tell me which company/work dey for Agbor?

Look at Benin City, apart from hotels and bar, which company or big office dey for Benin City? How many people dey work for NPDC? What's even the minimum wage? 😔

Government don't need to regulate anything, all they need to do is to build low cost pent houses for people. If not that those we called governors are stupid, 30 billion naira per annum invested in low cost mini flats would've totally solved housing problems in our urban areas within 20 years.

A 30 billion naira will build portable 6000 pieces of 1 bedroom apartment, Imaging adding 6000 houses together for 20 years, that gives us 120,000 houses. A 120k low cost houses within a state will significantly influence the cost of rent in that state.

The reality is that, Nigeria government at all level has absolutely no regard for the people they are rulling.

franchasng:
Don't blame the landlords (house owners) in Nigeria, blame the tax master President that foisted himself on Nigerians because of Buhari's inefficiency


To build a single storey building in Nigeria today requires a minimum of 110million Naira, this does not include cost of buying land.

Now tell me how you want a house owner to recover his investment if after using such exorbitant amount to erect an upstairs and he collects say 800,000 naira per year as rent? It may take him 50 years or more to recover the money he used to build the house?


Nigerians should direct their anger towards the zero performing owomida government of Tinubu.

Landlord also have his own living cost to bear, and the only way he can recoup is through his house for rent

Don't let anyone or what you read online deceive you, building materials are not that outrageously expensive as they made you believe, visit market by yourself.

Someone should check if this Oyedele is normal or just trying to be funny.

Zionmdde:
God of miracles

Win Lesotho win Benin
Pray the SA loses to Zimbabwe with at least 2 goals
Then boom we.are in world cup


But trust Nigeria to blow the chances away

The group might be decide by last matches, Rwanda on 11 points like us can also qualify for WC if they can beat Benin and South Africa. Rwanda is a good team, there is no way Benin will beat them in their home soil, especially now that they are just 3 points behind the leaders.. They can equally cause upset in South Africa because they have something at stake.