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Laalasticla:
Oga na u go do yourself......
I didn't request for the child..
The uncle brought her here..
Infact, I'm purposely using her as a maid so he can return her but he no green return her because he knows she will return to worse conditions...
So yea, I have free maid serving me.
Do your WRSE

Nothing is guarantee in life, not even your children are safe from this situation if nature brings it to you and your husband ( I forbid this for your family). So whatever the position or situation you found yourself, try as much as possible to be kind to humanity.

Children are like a powerful weapon in the hands of a mighty warrior, if you are to offend anyone in life, please don't do it to children, for they know absolute nothing about their sin or responsible for it. This is reason developed countries don't joke with the lives of their children. They are the future, and if you want a good future for the society you must train a child irrespective of their relationship to you. People visited and donate to orphanage, they brings homeless children from the streets and give them lives, but you could not at least be kind to a child under your care just because he is not your child.

Let me tell you this, that child you abhors so much can be the one to give or take lives tomorrow. Mr. A refuse to train a child under him and send him away, he became homeless and joined a bad gang that happened to be hire assassin. Mr. A children are well brough up, educated and rich but unfortunately got robbed by unless boy Mr. A sent to the street and lost their lives in the attack.

The above short story is the reason you need to take care of children under you (if you have the capacity), not only because of them or their future but because of future of your children and that of society at large.

Kobojunkie:
With the poverty rate now at over 85% when only 20 years ago, it was still hovering at about 60%, you would still want us to believe that the outcome for those living in abject poverty in Nigeria remains rosy, abi? Make una continue! 🥱🥱

I understand your point, but sincerely, no one can accurately predict the future, I have seen countless families like that. If the mother is sensible enough, she will see them through. This might look impossible to some of us in this present Nigeria but I will still say if their mother is sensible and work smartly, they will be fine.

If quite a lot of married women whose irresponsible husbands are still alive took care of their children and train them well, there is no excuse for this one except she is lazy and senseless. A fairly use bike can still go for around 400k/500k, let her use this money to start local newly harvests farm produce supply from the Bush narket, she will make alot of profits per trip.

Kobojunkie:
The man chose to get himself a wife and have 5 kids at that. Who else did you expect to have to work hard to ensure those children of his are raised and catered for? 🥱🥱🥱🥱

2. The man is gone and that family is likely not to survive at all as there aren't really a surplus of rich men out there looking to take on 5kids that belong to someone else. His own relatives might not even want to take in any of those kids without some sort of price. The most likely outcome is all 5 may end miserable for the rest of their lives -- tied up to the stone that is poverty all thanks to their father's decisions in life. 🙄🙄🙄

So why are you trying to make it seem it is the man that lost out in all of this and not the children he has and now cannot raise or nurture?

You are wrong by your prediction about them, the outcome of future cannot always be predetermined by the present circumstances.

The chances they will make it or miserable is still 50/50. Alot of things happened along the journey of life that change some people lives for good. If his wife can judiciously use the money realised from the sales of his Bike by venturing into profitable business, they will live ok.

Sonnobax15:
. "Where would the wife start from?". That's the question everyone has been asking..

I pray God gives her the strength to carry on...

That is a very sad situation, God almight will see them through, reason I always advise people to have less children they can cater for. Men has no business with poverty if not for family settings.

Please try to talk to his wife, either they will give his Okada to someone that will bring money for them daily or sell it to start a business. Advise her to start taking the money to Bush Markets and bring foodstuffs to the city to supply. She can do this with the help of her older children.

This girl is way smarter than people taking her serious

KingWarri:
How many women are into; carpentry, welding, electrician, military, civil engineering, architecture, marine engineering, heavy-duty machine operator, truck driving, transportation, photography, music producers etc compare to men

Those are still under construction and transportation sectors I mentioned in my previous post. Even at that, women are the ones chose to take up all the soft jobs like advertisements, soliciting, and administrative management of these sectors

Once the new taxation policy start by next year, I expect the government to make all Federal University a tuition free.

zuby4real10:
Most of the them are white collar jobs. What are the percentage of labour force can these jobs employ?

Not only white collar jobs o, except you are talking about construction workers or commercial drivers. They also also the majority in higher institutions, the quality of young men is downgrading these days due to their focus on quick money and girls.

Women everywhere you go these days.

Those randy ceo and directors doesn't help the matter at all.

Sophier:
Thanks for your input, sir. They’re an average family, but personally I’m not a fan of giving money as a gift unless it’s tied to something, like contributing to an event. I’d rather go with a tangible gift, and I don’t mind stretching my budget a bit if the 25k feels too small.

You can gift them 25kg bag of rice, vegetables oil and a dozen of red apple. You can get all these with 40k budget.

Dogalmighty17:
This guy reasons like a woman. Men hardly visit each other. We know the bars where we meet and then everyone goes home. I have guys that we've been tight for years but we hardly visit each other but some how, we see just about everyday. Occasionally, we might visit one of our paddy's house to smoke a blunt but that's about it.

How lazy and jobless are you that you are visiting friends all the time?

Perhaps those he was accusing sees him as distraction, because I wonder how a full grown man will be complaining bitterly about people not visiting him as if his house is a theatre.

You better stop this attitude if you love yourself, this days that majority of people are fake.

In the traditional African culture, you are under obligation to do the right thing by actively participate in the burial of your in-law irrespective of the relationship with your partner, especially if children are involves.

Only immature or inexperience people will advise you to stay off. Besides, if he was the one that have been taking care of your kids since divorce withiout your input, I will advise you to financially contribute as well.

If they are not rich and the only money you have for them is 25k, please give the cash to them.

If I were him, I won't even bother to respond to that because every sensible person knows it was edited photos.

You rarely see a sitting president meeting with Trump in that lonely oval office, let alone a presidential candidate in a country he once regarded as sithole. Obi and Oluomo too are very far in everything to have taking picture together.

Jennyclay:
Did she put a gun in your head before you married her??

You men should understand that your wife and children are your full responsibilities. If you are not capable of taking care of your home 100% then allow her find a man that's capable to take care of her.it’s as simple as ABC

Marriage is not for poor and broke men.

Who tell you a man cannot marry as rich and become broke in marriage due to the piling up responsibilities he highlighted up there. You can't know a rich man until he has alot of responsibilities like an average man in Nigeria and still stayed rich.

ariesbull:
even if he was crying akara consistently this 38 yrs here in Nigeria he would have used it to
Build house
Marry
Train kids in school
Watch the kids graduate and marry


Japa will useless many people especially Europe... Many are like this ! What about the Yoruba man that was killed by a youth in USA just earlier this year at the age of 73

He was driving Uber at 73 yrs ,no wife, no family ...he was still hutsling in USA at 73 yrs plus ....


It's such a shame

Yes, that is why it is good to go their legality.

People that have work/resident permit don't face this kind of issue. They work, make money and come back home to build family or build it over there.

crestedaguiyi:
You will not see an American or Briton celebrate this kind of thing.

The most painful part of this story is the fact that he wasted active part of his life in chasing citizenship in a foreign land.

There were still many opportunities in Nigeria 38 years ago, who knows he might have make it big in his father land. Though he acted smartly now, because at his age, it is much more better for him to remain in UK and enjoy all the benefits from their government.

Collecting more tax is one, using the fund realise from it to better the lives of Nigerians is another.

If we can't see the impact of money generated from fuel subsidy removal, I wonder why anyone should believe the government on the reason to increase taxes.

They will just be giving thievery state governors more money and use the rest to pay poor Nigerians that are not exists.

oluwaseyi0:
On what basis did Salah deserve it? Just because he's African or cause he lost champion league on round of 16?

Sarah was more impactful on the pitch last season than this guy, and if we are to judge solely by individual performance, he deserve it more than Dembele.

Football award to individual players in nonsense to me, it is a game of 11 players, no player should deserve any honour than one another. Or batter still, the award should base on best player in different position on the pitch( best goalkeeper, Defender, Midfielder and striker).

Unlimited money.

You need nothing else in this contemporary world but money.

Also if I can speak any language, I will be able to tour the world at ease with my affluence.

seanwilliam:
I think the only way hodling for long can be profitable like before is to wait for bear market, I mean during the extreme alts menstruation 🩸, when btc dumps beyond expectation. I’ll start bidding again at 30k per btc 😁.




Please can you expatiate the emboldened ?

Bear or bull Market is now a mere illusion, market dynamism has changed, we might not have direct bear or bull market again. For instance, Bitcoin was around 26k about 18 months ago, and it is now over 100k, while 95% alts went down 500% during the same period. That already negates the concept of bear/bull market, and if we are to clarify this, it is good to say Bitcoin has been on bull run since late 2023, while alts were on brutal bear market since that time till now.

It was probably a result of market manipulation by big players. Unlike before that people invested in different coins, these players are only focus on Bitcoin and few major coins. Since their fund can practically shake the market, all they do now is to LONG and inject money to pump bitcoin, then SHORT and pull off their money to crash it. The reason bitcoin and few major alts keep moving steadily is because of their dominance of the market. People are wise now, except LONG and SHORT feature are remove, whales and other institutions won't see a need to keep their investments in crypto market as assets but trading,asset because they can make profit either ways.

As for the bolded, I meant top 50 coins, which include BTC , BNB,SOL, TON, LTC, ETH, XRP, etc, solid meme coins like PEPE, FLOSKI, DOGE, BOME, SHIB and NOT are also good to consider. The big players that influence the market do have confidence in these coins, and you can equally benefit from this, instead of investing your hard earned money in fake coins listed all over the exchanges.

kallsy:
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Damn, what an insult, what do you know about crypto? i once had a group where I teach people how to trade and drop trading signal for them. More than 150 Nairalanders were even members. I am so surprise you feel you can teach someone with 10 years cryptocurrency experience how to do things.

If I tell you something,, it left for you to wait and see how it manifest rather than replying me.

jayce232:
This market seem not to respond to anything anymore. Even with the rate cut, the market didn't experience any temporary bullish move

A real bull run won't happen again in crypto market, know this and have peace. You cant have big institutions and whiles that long and short market and expecting a real bull run, that is the big difference between then and now.

Crypto is better off as trading tools like forex now. It is not something you keep any longer, just make a short gain and wait to buy low again.

If you really love your money, trade only top 50 stable and meme coins. The rest can bankrupt you for ever even though they perform excellently well initially.

nairalanda1:
Like you didn't read what i said

His kids being in private university is the result of neglect of public university

Plus most lecturers kids don't attend the same university their parents teach in, and their parents still do a good job regardless

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For example, let us say we have a lecturer who teaches at FUTO Owerri, and his daughter wants to read pharmacy. As far as I know FUTO does not offer pharmacy. So, she has to go to a different university.

If you say his kids in private schools was a results of negligence of public university, does that also stop lecturers from making personal research that will add meaningful impact in the system? Does it stop them from evolving, rather than teaching obsolete 19th century western myth/curriculum? Besides, is it all his children that are not doing any course offered by the university he works in?

It is a simple logic that you are cunningly trying to defend. You can't impact good knowledge in your students and say your children should not be part of it . This is the kind of shame we stupidly accept as a way of life in Nigeria.

nairalanda1:
Yes, because when ASUU went on strike to get improvement in public unis, government kept telling them over the years, no money...

What do you expect?

And many of you think ASUU also goes on strike just for salary. Not so.

And how do you expect someone whose his children are not in where he works wholeheartedly teach his students? Is it even proper for a whole professor not to trust where he works?

If he indeed put all his children in private university and keep blaming for poor salary, it means he is living above his income. Every damn person in Nigeria is poorly paid, we are just managing ourselves ni.

This sowore guy is a kid in adult body, he is obviously doing this for a particular cause or purpose.

Because Wike granted interview about how some leaders wouldn't sue him, he now quickly rushed to his social media to call him the same name. So that all of us can see how daring he is, so childish and irritating.

motymop:
i dont think so..the cash will still have to come from an account that mean you will still be tracked.

I trust Nigerians, people will simply stop depositing money into bank accounts.

Kylekent59:
A northern president will use same tactics to install someone from the North in Lagos.

The door has been opened, and we all shall pass through it!

Understand the message rather than trying to argue or mention me.

Please stop this postulation, it can never ever happen in Lagos. Lagos politicians are the most sophisticated in Nigeria. I trust them 100%, situation can never get to that level before the waring parties reason together and put everything in order.

If Rivers event were to happened in Lagos or SW states, stake holders, Obas and elders statemen would've called them to order instead of taking side to fight one another. The reality is that, if you don't put your house in order, the strangers will invade and rule over your land.

Northernblood8:
She will divorce him soon after and take half of his property. This is not an achievement but a loss

Lolz, does he look like someone that can share his property with anyone.

Have you ever seen a Nigerian man living in Nigeria shared his properties with his wife after divorce?

This Yellow card has been in existence for so long but greed and lack of transparency will never allow them to grow or become popular among Nigeria crypto investors.

When major exchanges were banned in Nigeria, i tried this app, only to lose about 14k (a whopping 14%) out of 100k in the causes of buying and withdrawing. This is criminality, and I won't recommend the app to anyone. If you want to buy crypto, just use exchanges P2P and send it down to your wallet.

Nigeria and Africa need this the most. Since we can't successfully rule ourselves, why can't we have programmed robots to do the job for equity and progress.

Why is this a news, it was still the same front seats. I don't see any issue or disrespect in this.