₦airaland Forum

loswhite:
lol there is no law against single men sleeping with married women. If you guys cannot leave single girls to single guys then forget it. After destroying single guy’s relationship lol you want your wives to be safe… karma is real

It is obvious you don't know the meaning of marriage. Do you even know you can go to jail if you fail to fulfil the marriage vows under law should your partner sue you? Do you know it is against the law to purposefully sleep with a married woman under the roof of her husband? Do you know you can go to jail if she suppirted her husband and testify in court that you lure her against her will?

Married men don't destroy single guys relationship, it were the single guys that don't have what it takes to be what these women wants. Single girls will never leave single guys for married men if the said single guys has what it takes to be good partners. It is not always about money but maturity and experience of these married men. So, if a married man snatch your girl, just know the girl is not meant for you and move on. The one that is meant for you won't leave no matter the circumstances.

No one say sleeping around is good for married men but nature frown at it on the side of women. The same nature that bless women with favour or soft landing in the society is the same nature that bless men with favour to sleep with multiple women withiout being castigated by the same society. You can't fight the nature because it is what it is.

Socially and economically - Yoruba and Igbo have been living and doing business together with love and harmony from time immemorial, forget about aggressive nature of Obidients online, majority of them don't exhibit the same behaviour offline.

Politically - I don't think Yoruba and Igbo can peacefully work together. Both blocs has proved to demonstrates absolute different political ideologies and approaches right from inception.

Maysdevices:
Which nature?

The nature of of underdeveloped countries

Why are you men so wicked to your fellow men?

Women are less than men everywhere yet some of you want to still marry the wives of other men

Some of you will have five wives and still be stealing the girlfriends of young men

What sort of useless greed is that? Prostitutes don finish?

For causing his fellow men misery, such a man’s end is hell, no doubt

Have you wondered why beautiful and good women as so scarce for young responsible men?

It is because the blood drinker elite class will not let the common man rest

Small group of men controlling the prettiest women in the country and some of you are bold enough to applaud it

I will say it again, as long as nature and modern law permits men to marry many wives, there is nothing anyone can do about it.

Don't blame the rich or elites for taking all the beautiful women, women are mostly attracted to wealth and power, hence their upper hands. Besides, beautiful women are not scarce, it is just that majority of men are broke to marry them.

loswhite:
Please married men stay away from singles girls… allow them to stay with their boyfriend.

Single girls are still very free with no marriage vows. Besides, men are different, as they're permitted by nature or law to marry many wives.

He made another video where he said he is not forcing himself to play for Nigeria, that super eagle is not him papa house. I think the guy has already ban himself.

Datedoboy:
Did you read my post where I blamed Osimhen for the manner he went about it? I didn't blame Osimhen for calling him out but blamed the manner he did it.

All these stories of let's respect elders don't come to Nigerians mouth when politicians are dealing with them.
So let me ask you, if an Elder rapes your sister, will you keep quiet because he is an Elder? If you cannot be truthful in your answer to this question then i won't answer you again. If I'm the one, and an Elder does something that shatters my soul, i will put him in his place.

It's all these respect your Elder statements (even when the Elder is wrong) that makes Africa look poor even when we are rich because the so called Elders look down on the youths who drive development.

Firstly, there is a big difference between a public figure(politicians) and the masses to a situation between a boss and subordinate in the public sectors. As much as we called it "public sector", the relationship between top official and their bosses is still paramount and vital part of code of conduct in public departments. Go to any public sectors to find out yourself. Finidi is Osimhen boss, likely every senior officials in glass house. You can criticise but not in the manner in which he carried it out. I am glad you also testified to that.

And to answer your questions, If an elderly person rape my sister, I won't abuse or beat him, I would rather alow my elderly family members to do that or approach appropriate authority should no one is available. It is not in our culture as a Yoruba to insults elders even if we all know they were wrong.

chimuanya24:
Heard most of the single guys in Lagos, like going after married ladies. They forget that same thing would be done to them when they eventually get married too.

Commiting adultery, na tit for tat.

Karma is real

Though, sleeping with married women is a grave journey any man would ever embark on but life doesn't work that way, that you slept with someone wife does not mean they will sleep with yours when you get married.

The danger of sleeping with someone wife is quite outweighs the benefit. You could lose your life or face life time embarrassment in the process. Some men have no mercy, they could terminate you when they discover you are sleeping with their wives. Please stay away from people's wives.

Wakatumbit:
My wife gave birth and her mom has been staying with us for the past 3 months, we have dedicated our baby already and my wife has even learnt to bath the baby and do things by herself when it comes to the baby.

I don't have an issue with the mom staying with us but ever since she came my wife's siblings has been coming to the house, her elder brother and sister and sometimes they stay up to a week.

With the two of them that makes us five in the house and feeding five people in this economy is not easy. I just looked at my bank statement this evening and in the last 2 weeks I've spent over 250k on expenses, from feeding to fuel, to baby food. If it's just me and my wife we won't be spending that much.


I'm thinking of telling my wife to tell her brother and sister to go leaving only they mom and they shouldn't be coming at all, they can visit but they shouldn't stay.

My family doesn't come around a lot and when they do visit, they don't even stay the night.

But I don't want to make it look like I'm a bad person, so how do I chase them away codedly

This is a simple thing to do, women are selfish by nature and always want comfortable life, so you just have to start from your wife, who is not likely to compromise her comfort over anything else.

Tell your wife something happened that eat up or drain your finance and start dropping little that would only feed 2 persons, tell her to feed baby with breast milk alone, that you can't afford baby food again. In less than one week, your wife will communicate with her people and force them to leave withiout your input.

Note: you must sounds genuine and place yourself on sad mood. May God give us all enough wealth and space that wont compell us to be looking for a way to chase anyone out.

Only an arrogant non charlatan fellow would see what Osimhen did as normal. I watched both video, and I don't see any reason a sensible person should reacts so irrationally like Osimhen did in that video.

As bad as they treated Ronaldo at Man U, he only granted coordinated interview after sometime to express his grievance. As a professional footballer with a lot of fans base, you don't just throw a random video on social media abusing and coursing everyone like Agbero.

Just look at how he repeatedly called Finidi as if he was talking to his mate. Has finidi or anyone in NFF ever done 5% of what Napoli fans and management has done to him? Did he ever come on live video to talk about it, let alone abusing them? Africa and black race will remain at the bottom ladder of the world as long as Africans doesn't respect and honour themselves.

MrProlific95:
National anthem cannot unite Nigeria.

Tinubu pattern of appointment of only Yoruba's to man almost every key government position is a threat to national coexistence.

You cannot be preaching Unity with your lips and your action's are so divisive.

Mr President halt this nepotism, it is shattering the tinest patriotic zeal left in only but a handful of Nigerians.

You are destroying the country with this appointment of almo3t 80% Yoruba's into appointive positions.

Won't you be happy if this country is divided?

godwinngbede:
says who? Both the off shore and onshore revenues belong to the Niger Delta. You can argue that if you want. Every region must control its resources. Anything short of that is not regionalism

You can't take possession of off shore oil that is situated along river Niger coast. All land along these axis belong to the federal government and not individuals or states.

Let stop all this our oil mentality if we truly want this regionalism to work.

Afrobasic:
I hope every region would be allowed to manage their own resources?

Oil wealth of this zoo belongs to the people of the Niger delta. No more sharing with these parasites.

Off shore oil generated revenue should be share among the geo- political zones as long as we are still called federation Republic of Nigeria.

NwaNimo1:
Shrink govt?

Can't see senators approving.

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Nobody can stop it, they are dealing with most intelligent and power politician in Nigeria. I trust him to throw it on referendum if they do nonsense.

I once told some people that Tinubu has only one mission, and the mission is to return the country to regionalism. He is the only politician alive that can do it. I will be the happiest person on earth if that is done.

Kobicove:
These stupid white people are always coming up with new ways to sack people from their jobs

And people withiout foresight will see it as a good thing. See them castigating their country as if driverless taxi will add value to humanity.

Humans need jobs to make a good living and not robots. Aside the ones that will make works less tedious, more faster or stressless, any invention that render people jobless is not good for any society.

franchasofficia:
So you are one of those zombified Batstards that actually believed that fake conjoined voice record was real even after the clergyman debunked it?


Na wa oh, most of you are naturally slow not to know that it was fake.

Papa Oyedepo is one of the clergymen I hold in high esteem in Nigeria. The man has tried in directing Nigerians on how to hold their leaders accountable but seems Nigerians and Nigeria are both irredeemable which he must have realized.


Besides that, some of Papa's close sons and daughters I know personally are working with Tinubu and common sense dictates that he takes some rest while observing and counseling those his sons and daughters working with Tinubu to do what is right in the eyes of God even though they might not heed.


Lastly, Papa Oyedepo and Daddy Adeboye are like son and father, and Oyedepo indirectly endorsed Tinubu because of Tinubu's wife, Remi who happens to be a Deaconess in RCCG, and I know Adeboye endorsed Tinubu thinking Remi his wife would play huge role in directing his policies to the right path. The both clergies are speechless and have decided to be silent as a sign of disbelief that these ones they thought would perform are also failing. They are still in shock, and you cannot also take away the tribal sentiment which is normal for most black Africans

I won't insult you back because I know your kind talking carelessly on social media withiout wisdom or comprehensive skill.

Read my post again, I didn't say the audio is true or false, I was only referring to the incident. Secondly, not him or Peter Obi has ever denied or sue anyone about it, and that gives us impression that something like could actually happened between them.

Cultivate an habit of being civil in public, not everyone on Nairaland is your mate.

And lastly, don't ever quote me again.

So, you want him to talk again after the leak video between him and Peter Obi on supposedly religion war?

If I were him too, I will keep my hands fold and be watching until another election.

chatinent:
I remember a certain time a married woman wanted to visit me and she suggested a hotel. Now the thing is that she was as free as a bird and had no ulterior motives or intentions. In fact, she wanted somewhere confidential so that many eyes wouldn't see her discussing with a male figure since she felt that some people around there might know her husband.


But she forgot the main thing...a hotel? I reminded her that while she was trying to save her marriage, she was also on the verge of losing it because if she is caught in a hotel with a man, she'll run out of explanations even though she's innocent. Like I mean no excuses can defeat the big question of "what is you and a man doing in a hotel?"


E come bi like her brain no really go that side.

But she corrected her mistake immediately and sincerely apologized after I reminded her. And trust me, she has no ulterior motives. I didn't either. She's a very sincere and upright person so I was sure she's not what you think.


Update: All y'all saying she had ulterior motives or that I was naive are wrong. I strongly stand with what I said. This is someone I've done business gigs with over the years and never was the relationship sexual. And that's because boundaries were built. It was the over trust that made her forget what ought not be heard or done.

I recline to my seat as I keep reading all y'all negative thoughts you feel must happen to a man and a woman meeting forgetting that everyone cannot be you.

Abeg go and sit down, you self reason like a kid. A full grown woman want something confidential with you and suggested you meet at hotel, and you are still here displaying your lack of wisdom? You remind her indeed.

If I be moderator, I for Don ban you for 2 years.

FreeStuffsNG:
Smh. You are not beholden to a girl who is your friend, especially platonic, what he is implying made no distinction between altar- bound relationships and even platonic relationships and if you are wise and starts with the end in mind, you will know relationships that will likely made a wife out of your special relationship with a girl. To that special girl, you will at some point in time be her 'parent' likewise she to you.

BTW, you don't need to understand for now. Serious relationships take commitments and sacrifice and those two are the essential ingredients in parenting so anyone telling you that you will not make exceptions for that special one is not being realistic. Love , when you really fall in love, will make you trusting and vulnerable. If you're not then you are not in love. Maybe you are suggesting that he tells his son to never fall in love with a girl niyen.

There is nothing like love, it all about personal interest and choice. However, there is great sense in your write up. Except we are deceiving ourselves, only a stupid desperate lady will marry someone who she can not rely on, and the best way to know this by the women during courtship is by seeing you showing little commitment like a married person does.

MartinCorridon:


All these "records" mean zilch.

At age 20, it's doubtful she can make any concrete contributions to the parliament.

25 years old, few years after first degree, maybe, but still not advisable.

30 - 40 years old is what i believe is the appropriate age for a youthful representative... tertiary education completed + some life experiences + young age (fresh perspectives)

PS : I can see my post is hard for some to understand. I'm still in support for youth but with some conditions.

If you still don't understand, use Google Translate into your local language OR read about Valentine Strasser, a 21 year old who became Head of State in Sierra Leone.


NOTE : my posts require a minimum level of intelligence. Please don't feel bad if you don't understand them, just accept the limitations of your IQ

Just ignore them, your post is meant for intelligent people and not those kids that criticise everything irrationally.

What kind of experience does a 20 years old girl who ought to be taking advise from her parents has to contribute to issue affecting a whole country.

Nigerians get mind o.

RAM for 750k, who the hell place such price on a ram.

trafficpools:
yes they charge about 4% when buying at the market rate, but if you had set buying limit a little lower than the market rate, you would have bypass that charges!!! Very sorry about that, it can be frustrating.

Never thought of that, i am so used to Binance that all other exchanges looks like a mere wallpaper in my eyes. Will never ever have anything to do with them again.

FashionCapital:
By usdt from bybit p2p, convert to bnb and send to Binance( if na your exchange) ..then convert to Btc

Thank you boss!

Robnectar:
Oh lah lah

I dey tell you
.

Now I know why people don't talk about LUNO as exchange platform.

I was looking for where to quickly buy bitcoin with naira yesterday when market was seriously down, na so I sey make I try Luno o.

Firstly, this unfortunate platform removed almost 3k out of 100k deposited to my wallet. They removed another 5k when I bought Bitcoin and when I was about to transfer it, I was told to wait for a hopping 24 hours.

24 hours reach when I received another shock, they only supporting Bitcoin chain on transfer network. I said OK, let me just manage it, but instead received another short of network charges, which is more than more than amount I wanted to send.

I use vex want to withdraw my naira only to face another charges of about 2k. In total, I lost 10k out of 100k to this useless platform. I have deleted their app, and I will never use them again forever.

My question is that, who the hell is using that kind of exchange or platform in Nigeria?

Abeg if you know a legit platform to buy bitcoin, please message me through Nairaland PM option or quote me with your mail.

If you say state government should be eradicate, some people would keep defending them.

State is just a waste of resources, let directed this fund to 774 local governments for meaningful development.

Mariangeles:
Separate bedrooms in marriage is nonsense!
Couples who have separate bedrooms will hardly be able to resolve issues in their marriage (quickly).
Whoever wants a separate bedroom in marriage is selfish and simply not ready for marriage.

Hmmmm, are you married?

A couple can stay in the same room before the arrival of children, but the moment those little damsels comes, they should have a separate room because the children under 4 years old tend to sleep in the same bed with their mums.

tunjijones:
Any party you go... Your chances are very low to win the presidency in 2027. He go hard.

The only combination that I am sure can grab a win from Tinubu and APC in 2027 is Atiku and obi. The 2019 combination. Atiku as the president and obi as the vice. Which I don't see ever happening.

Anything other dan this is a win for Tinubu. Even if Atiku does not contest in 2027, and it's just Tinubu and Obi alone, Tinubu will still win him.

Another combination is obi and kwankwanso. If obi can make this work, then he might have a chance.

I hate to say this but no merger is likely to work against this incumbent in 2027. North is the major determinant here, it is 100% certain they won't vote for another Southerner who may want to spend 8 years that will subsequently keep them off power they cherish so much for good 12 years. If Atiku is pair with Obi as you suggested, alot of educated Obidients would see this as insult and stain on their integrity and won't support the ticket, they would rather vote for
Tinubu( especially if he made some necessary correction soon) or stay at home on election day. Yorubas, South South and Middle belt won't vote Atiku as president.

DeLaRue:
What is the point of Mr Obi issuing irrelevant and meaningless statements.

Must you comment on everything and anything

He is totally right on this, read again, Obi didn't say CBN should not revoke heritage bank licence, he was only telling the CBN and federal government to ensure all customers of the bank are paid immediately withiout delay.

See, whenever cbn revoke a bank licence, it transfer thr control to NDIC, and you know how they normally do. Some people at the top will just sit on their money and delay payment for years. Some won't even see their money forever. We have seen such cases many times before.

KnowAll:
There was little or no development in any town outside Ibadan in those days. Look at my state Ondo state, when Miniko became Governor, he changed Ondo town to Ondo City by dualising the main roads entrying the city, notice this is not the capital. Because of that singular action real estate, businesses and hotels have open up in all those areas where the road was built.

Borrowing from Mimiko’s example, the next Government did the something in Owo town now Owo City, and I am sure the current Governor would do his own bit in Okutipupa in Ondo south. Basically those developments have pushed the state forward tremendously.


But if we are in still enmeshed in that hargemony called western state, I doubt if the level of development we experience today can be matched by one super emperor sitting in Ibadan.

Ok, since you don't understand the meaning of progression and continue to blindly comparing two different societies, I can't help but to stop arguing with you.

KnowAll:
You would now have a regional emperor instead of state emperor. How many housing estates did Awolowo built in Iwo, Ondo, oyo, Ijebu-ode, ede,Ilesha. Yet he took ondo’s cocoa money to build a skyscraper called cocoa house in Ibadan. States can work together to build inter state roads. Oyo and Oshun state are doing it at the moment. The road from Ibadan to Iwo is handled up to d Oyo state border by oyo state whilst Oshun state has taken it over from the border of oyo state to osogbo.

I don't think you understand my post at all, because you are still repeating the same fault I pointed out in your previous posts. I was surprise as bold as you are to start this kind topic, you don't put into consideration an element of progression. When new state are created, where do the new administration develop first? The same logic should be apply to short life regionalism practice in the first Republic.

Let me analyse this in a lay man understanding. Nigeria was more or less an agrarian state those period, the main occupation of majority is farming, which made rural areas their preferred choices to live. We had very few educated people doing white kola jobs back them compare to now.

Nigeria was still a newly independent state, where premiers were trying to develop cities starting from regional executive base. You don't expect them to start developing every town or village at the same time. Aside that, majority were illiterates, who are mostly farmers or low level artisans. Development is process, if former western region could develop Ibadan within that short period, Imagine how many cities would've been developed to high end standard today.

KnowAll:
We cannot go back to regionalism because as we had in the 60’s the region gets d money in which case western region. When we had western region only Ibadan was developed but today, oshogbo, Akure, Abeokuta, Ado Rkiti and not limited to state capitals, cities like Ondo, owo, life, Kanu ode, Ogbomosho, oyo and iseyin are well developed.

Lolz, why are you comparing the period of early civilization to this jet age. We were still very much agrarian society then. Our major occupation is farming, which made alot of people to prefer living in villages.

Society is dynamic and not static, development is a gradual process, you don't expect old western region to suddenly convert every small towns and villages into modern city within a short period of its existence. If the same system were still in progression today, I can bet it we would have had more great modern cites than what we have now.

When talking about politics or system of government, you don't limit your assessment or make a conclusion on a particular situation, you analyse and review its potential and possible progression if given time.

KnowAll:
They cannot. 774 that is too much. Having 50 states would make sense.

Creating more states in a presidential system of government is a recipe to waste of resources. Have you ever consider the cost of running administration of a state, which amount to billions of naira every months?

State is a complex arrangment with alot of idle institutions under it that gulps alot of resources. State offer no value to its masses than payment of salary and over inflated projects and egos by governors.

Now let talk about Regionalism, It offer people with same ideology, value, culture and tradition and history to determine what work best for them. Regional government tend to have more focus because it is base on identity and struggle to be better than other nations. Patriotism level is usually high under Regionalism than state. More qualify people are usually consider to lead than in a state system.

Base on the above, it is much more better to eradicate states for Regionalism OR just Federal government and 774 local governments.