₦airaland Forum

King125007:
Well I see people getting happy and supporting the decision

The govt should regulate them, and not go with this bad decision again

Only if dy know how many youths are working with this companies, they can even work remotely.. EASYBUY and SOKO LOAN employ close to 10000 youths.. Pleas you can verify this

Easybuy/palm credit (field agent and office agents)

Sokoloan (office agent)

So many of them out dere


Nigeria business climate warrant their mode of operation, the average Nigerian don't want to pay debt as at wen due nd we don't have good data base to track debtors, in the developed countries dy do, that whybdybare able to use credit card billing effectively

Have you ever wonder why the banks make you Sweat and submit all kind of papers nd guarantors before even giving you a loan of 100k?? Yeah.. Dts d reason

You sound like you work for one of them.

So the method of recovery whereby they harass borrowers by sending bulk SMS to their contacts is OK by you? Is that ethical and professional?

They have factored in the risk of eventual default into their crazy interest rates, so if anyone beats them to their game, too bad.

I support the FG's decision.

LZAA:
Lemme explain mr "terms and conditions "
Those companies don't have lending licences or known physical addresses-crime number 1
That's like the US military operating on Nigerian soil and calling itself Nigerian
You get the gist?
It's illegal
That alone is enough ground to shut it down
Also better get rid of this agbero mindset aka onigbese mindset
No lending company worth it's salt operates that way
Infact the only people known to operate that way are...chinese triads

95% of these loan sharks are run by the Chinese. They only use Nigerians for recovery via phone calls.

Have you ever thought of it that no Nigerian can run his or her business that way; the risk and mode of operation is not Nigerian.

@OP will not kill us with laff o

anonimi:
Calling the same Thiefnuibu who is responsible for the wretched situation of 20 million Lagosians through looting instead of LASG and the 20 LGAs employing workers and paying them good salaries and pensions when they retire so all government responsibilities are fully discharged with civility & zeal as it was the case up to 1983 when Jakande was removed by the useless military dictator the bullionaire Emiloka made president in 2015

I was dazed the first time I read Jakande's achievements; all in just 4 years? And these morons will spend 8 years with such much funds, yet be giving silly excuses for their abysmally poor performance.

The rally in Osun State was more than this, yet they lost; they should keep deceiving themselves.

This man's desperation calls for concern. Is it by force to rule Nigeria? I am very sure many of those supporting him either do so for selfish reasons because they directly benefit from him or they are kids that were just born yesterday. If the PDP has 'wasted' 16 years of your life and the APC is currently adding another 8 years to it, totalling 24 years, then you will never support both the PDP and APC. This is not currently a matter of religion, tribe or bad-blood, we just want to try something new. I am not Igbo, I just want Nigeria to be fixed. A man cannot be part of the problem and still expect him to be part of the solution.

I remain OBIdient.

Blackout across Nigeria would have been a good selling point for the opposition against the APC, that's why the wicked morons were swift to take action.

DaddyFabooluz:
What is freedom of speech?
How about your natural culture and traditions?
Everybody just have sentiment over any news they hear. Why didn't they show her exact tweets and what lead to the sentence.
So freedom of speech means you can condemn your tradition and people because you have tasted the useless western world that keeps creating problem everywhere.

Sometimes you people should settle down and think before talking.

It is you who obviously didn't think before writing this (no insults), the fanatic in you hastily responded without careful thought, it is people like you that stoned and burnt Deborah to death. Can you please relocate to Zamfara? Your service is urgently required there.

This Saudi Prince is taking things too far; seems Him, Buhari and Abacha have the same blood running in their veins. That was how Jamal Khashoggi just 'disappeared'.

daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

As a *HOE, you should know better; shut your mouth, close your legs and live with the guilt. An HOElosho shouldn't be asking this kind of question.

[quote author=wwwihy post=115796065]God Bless Gov Sanwo-Olu
God Bless Incoming President Bola Tinubu
God Bless President Buhari
God Bless Lagos State
God Bless Yorubaland
God Bless Federal Republic of Nigeria[/quote]God Bless the Federal Republic of Nigeria.

I want to believe you did not purposely make a a *HOE a housewife, and if truly you didn't, what are you still waiting for? You know where she belongs- The STREETS; push her there immediately.

Be strong bro, time would heal your pains, and don't forget to run a DNA test on that child.

[quote author= post=115745959]I followed Kenya electioneering campaign from the start. This Ruto is just the replica of Peter Obi.He had loggerheads with the president and decamped from the ruling party to a less popular party.The youth took it upon themselves,campaigned vigorously online and offline. They called him online president too.Today he has emerged against the notorious cabals and against all odds.

Congrats dear Ruto- The Obi of Kenya

Congrats to Kenyan youths

Here in Nigeria,on Obi's mandate we shall all stand...

The doubting camps should doubt no more. Africa must be liberated from old cabals and crooks..

It's P-O-ssible!
We moove!![/quote]Let us all do the ground work, we believe and would achieve.

What's this nonsense doing on front page?

Brendababy:
My Cousin Brother is 3 years older than me. We grew up being used to seeing each other naked. When we hit our teens and puberty we began to do stuff. We would masturbate together when our parents go out for certain activities, then that moved on to doing it to each other. Next step was we began giving each other MouthAction. Then of course the big step of anal sex. We probably started anal when we were 14/15 years old. Everything became a regular thing with us, even in to our late teens we still did stuff with each other. his is married now and whenever i see him i feel terrible.

He's the one that disflowered me, and this guy despited being married still wants to bleep me

I fear my boyfriend might find out, i don't want to end up like this

Please forgive yourself and move on dear. Don't you ever make the mistake of telling your boyfriend, he'd dump like sh!t. And how will he find out? Only if you tell him, I don't think your cousin will be so callous and dumb to reveal you guys' dirty secret to him or anyone for that matter.

We all sometimes make mistakes in life under different circumstances. I can relate with you because I almost had the same experience, and in retrospect, I thank God it never happened, but then, I am not a saint, I have also made grave mistakes, but I dusted up myself and moved on in life.

I purposely responded to your post, just so you know other people go through stuffs as well.

Best wishes.

If Benzema doesn't clear all the available awards this year, then fraud has entered.

TheGidRedpiller:
THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A MALE AND FEMALE BESTFRIENDS!!

Dear Lord, please give me the strength to talk about this topic over and over again!
Simpism has so eaten into the root of the modern day men that they would rather keep their heads inside the ground that consider the actual facts!

The only thing that will beat this logic is if the girlfriend or male bestie in question is gay/lesb!an, if this is not the case, then understand that you are an idi0t for believing that the guy your supposed girlfriend introduces to you is really just her "Friend"!!

Imagine a chicken trying to convince you that a full grown fox is just a friend.
Your girlfriend has a pvvssy, and that guy has a D!CK! Unless he is her blood brother from THE SAME MOTHER, understand that those two s£xual poles are attracting each other!

Before you starting nodding your head like an idi0t, understand that these 3 things are very unescapable; That Guy WILL, or Is CURRENTLY, or have ALREADY FVVCKED YOUR BIITTCH!!

Still Typing...

Stop typing nonsense and grow up. Every guy is not like you who cannot control his emotions and d!ck.

Twinanna:
My fiance is about to move abroad. We've dated for 4 years and I really love him and I'm also very sure he loves me. I really want him to succeed, but a part of me is really scared of him going. He has promised that after a year he'll come back, but I've heard stories where people tend to go abroad and move on with life... I'm really scared and have been crying a lot lately...I'm 23 and I don't socialize much. He's practically my closest friend. I'm really torn and need advice

Hi Dear,

Truth is, there are higher chances of the relationship breaking up, but there's still the possibility of you guys being together.

All hope is not lost, I have a cousin who professed love to his secondary school girlfriend and vice-versa when she was travelling to the UK. She came back about 12 years after to get married to him despite all oppositions by members of her family in the UK, and guess what, she was still a virgin. Today, they are happily married.

So, please keep hope alive but prepare for the worst.

Let me add this, if he decides to not travel because of you and you find a "better" man, fact is, you will dump his sorry assss over time and he'd regret his decision almost for the rest of his life, so let him move on and watch how things pan out.

Best wishes.

NwaMamaIwota:
the youths are coming

they have no manifestos to campaign with apart from their usual old tribalism and tribal card tactics.

But we'll remind them that tribalism won't bring back dollars to at least 400
tribalism won't bring back fuel to 95 naira
tribalism won't send our undergraduates back to school.
tribalism won't fix our security.
tribalism won't develop our economy.

since suffering knows no tribe or religion, since we're suffering together irrespective of our tribe and religion, it's also fair if we get it right together by sending thieves and those who thinks they can rape Nigeria TURN by TURN.
Enough is Enough!!!

2023 will be the youths vs the criminals
it won't be business as usual.

Well said.

Tinubu is a problem to his own solution.

Sheuns:
Why is it so difficult to just accept that the people voted you out? These politicians and “die-there” attitudes. Is it a must to govern?

I tire o....

Theo51:
I mean ignorance on my part made me believe I can't get any scholarship with 2.2 not until I realized not quite long ago that is possible but then have already started an MSc.

Oh, now I understand.

You mean there are scholarships for 2.2, I am surprised.

Theo51:
Ignorance! I realize that not quite long. All along I have always believed that the better scholarships are for those with 2.1 and first class so opt for Msc locally to upgrade and Japa with a scholarship to reduce financial burden na my target. Even if nobi full scholarship.

What exactly is your point?

HustlingHustler:
Hi guys,
I am currently running my masters degree here in Nigeria with few months to finish before the ASUU strike came.
I have plan to use the certificate to boost my Japa plan initially. I have also invested alot of time and resources into the study.
With each day passing, I am getting really tired of Nigeria and I feel my time is been wasted.
I don't know if I should just start applying to schools abroad to start afresh or wait to finish this course in Nigeria.

Run the application for the foreign one, it usually takes a while. If it comes through before ASUU strike is over, then go for it, but if it doesn't, then finish the one in Nigeria and still go for the foreign one.

Best wishes.

See his cold face. Stupid murderer.

The lady is a potential victim of Ritualists called Yahoo! boys. Let her continue to laugh, na her grave she dey laugh go so. HOElosho.

lilkech:
Chai you make me remember those days for primary school when our papa been dey give us small-small money to take dey buy snacks for breaking period that time if you have money will be walking and your pocket will be bulging and jingling making coin noises and sagging your knicker down lol

kokoro 50 kobo for 10 pieces

offio 20 kobo for one tie

ice water 10 kobo normal nylon

okin biscuit 5 kobo

ice cream 50 kobo for one nylon (has many color varieties with same taste )

tandi gurana this one na strictly popsi been dey buy am give us for house on special occasions

ginger ale my favorite soft drink

What of during Christmas?

amusement park I love coming here and will spend all my coins driving those bumper cars

water parks oh those days at the park were the best I swear

bar beach back then from the place you enter till you walk through the white sand and reach the water will be as far as almost 1 kilometer. These days from the road you can fling stone into the beach water, so sad. It’s like climate change of an issue is a very serious one sha

I pity these generation of kids technology has dulled their senses. No more social activities. No social games. Even to fly kite or make carbide gun with wood, broom handle rubber and matches. Even common catcher or police & thief dem no dey play again for our primary schools. We will just keep on churning out lazy kids.

Ahhh, memories are a gift

Memories are gifts indeed. Many kids of today only know social media and very rude on Nairaland.

H0711:
I got married two months ago. I am 7 months pregnant my husband didn't tell me he had a child from his previous relationship and the child has a disability celebral palsy. Her mother came to dropped her off in my house saying she has done enough and she's tired it is now hubby turn to take care of her.

The child can't do anything for herself she can't sit, talk, walk and she does toilet in her clothes. I can't do it anymore I love children because I have taken care of my own nieces and nephews before I would have taken care of her if she was normal but taking care of a child in this question is hard and if her own mother has had enough she abandoned her and why would I kill myself taking care of her in my condition.

I want to divorce and go back to my village I have told him i am leaving next month. He is pleading with me not to leave him that he will take the child somewhere else but the place is not free he has to be paying like 200k monthly for them to take care of the child and he doesn't even have that amount of money because he is not financial stable.

I will stick to my decision but I want to know what will other people do in my situation.

This is a very complex situation, but think about it. What if:

- God forbid, like someone said, you give birth and your child has the same condition? You mentioned you'd love him with all your heart.

- You leave your husband, and again, God forbid, that child passes on and your husband becomes single and childless, would you go back to him?

I think the best solution is to take the child to a home of professionals where she'd get proper care and of course, that would come at a huge cost, but you said your husband can neither afford it nor get a nanny to help take care of her.

So what do you do? Either leave the marriage or take care of the child? You have to take a tough decision and stand by it. Remember, it's your life and you must take full responsibility for it.

By the way, your husband hiding such a fundamental information from you shows how selfish and fraudulent he can be. You need to be careful of that kind of a human being.

This is so heartbreaking May God grant her eternal rest.

OkCornel:
Dividend of APC

A vote for APC and Tinubu, is a vote to extend your suffering by another 8 years.

Tinubu is a harbinger of evil. As far back as 2003, Tinubu knew Buhari was capable of dragging Nigeria into this mess. (Screenshot 1)

But guess what, Tinubu still repackaged Buhari as an incorruptible saint through media propaganda and false promises in 2014. (Screenshot 2)

See how Nigerians are suffering today (Screenshot 3 & 4)

Tinubu can whitewash the devil provided he gets what he wants.

Tinubu threw Nigerians under the bus for his selfish ambition.

A vote for Tinubu and APC that dragged Nigeria into this mess, is as good as a man thanking armed robbers for gang r*ping his wife and killing his children.

Be warned.

You were warned about Buhari in 2014, una no hear.

You are now warned about Tinubu in 2022, if una like, no hear.

That’ll be 16 years of your life gone (add 16 wasteful years of PDP too)…making 32 years with nothing tangible to show for it as a people and nation.

This is serious.