Clout chasing low life Niggaz..Your simping na die..Instead of bowing your head in shame for committing adultery, you Wana become a storyteller ma *as..
BabaIbo: You don't know what you are saying young man.
There is Orlu senatorial zone which covers all LGAs under it.
And there is Orlu LGA on its own. Orsu as a LGA is under Orlu senatorial zone but not under Orlu LGA. That is why it is called Orsu/Orlu/Oru federal constituency.
Note: You can also see Orlu as a city that involves different LGAs. Just like Benin, Ibadan, port Harcourt etc. that have several LGAs inside them.
I am referring to this >> Orlu LGA (Awo Idemili, Amannachi, Amaebu, Umuhu Okabia (Cubana Chief priest's village), etc
naijadrivablog: Enough Is Enough: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From
I have read several misconceptions on social media over the years that all parts of IMO State is expensive to Marry from. Even recently, a lady who is supposedly from IMO State made a viral video of how men from IMO don't marry "them" (ladies from IMO State).
I write this article to clear the air about this generalisation about marriage in IMO State. I am a married man from Imo State and well travelled individual and take it from me when I tell you that NOT ALL parts of IMO State is expensive to marry from. Stop the ignorance and stop peddling lies.
Also, I noticed that most people mistake Bride Price to be the only money paid in traditional marriages, as you can hear one say, "IMO bride price na 1 Million Naira", etc.
Bride price in an Igbo Traditional marriage is the agreed sum (by law, it is N50 but families can state the amount they want) paid by the groom or his family member to the family of the bride. This has both physical and spiritual implications as the authority over the bride is passed to the groom and his family via that sum and other rites performed during traditional marriages. Even if you, in a traditional marriage, kill 100 cows, give your inlaws both gold and diamonds but haven't paid the bride price of a woman, YOU ARE NOT married. Most times, a family may charge, for example, N10,000 but will return a sum from it to the groom, while saying that they are not selling their daughter and other pieces of advice.
Apart from bride price, other items like goat, yams, snuff, kola, garden egg and so on are written on a MARRIAGE LIST usually given to the prospective groom, upon acceptance of marriage proposal and Introduction of both families of the groom and bride.
It is true that some parts are expensive to marry from but this article will focus on the largely unmentioned areas that you can marry from without spending an arm and leg.
I must state here that whatever items any part of the Imo State or any other place in Nigeria require as traditional marriage rites to give out their daughters' hand in marriage is their prerogative.
Below are some of the areas in IMO State where you won't spend an arm and leg to get married (traditionally):
1. Orlu (Ihioma, Umuna etc)
2. Oru West and Oru East (Amagu, Mgbidi, Akata, Ubulu (formerly called, Ubulu Ihejiofor), Nempi etc)
7. Ideato South and Ideator North (Akokwa, Osina, Obodoukwu etc)
8. Even some places in the feared Owerri is cheap, eg. Agwa
I know that some villages/towns in these Local Government areas may be "expensive" to marry from but you can add other areas that you know are cheap to marry from.
This is a new year, find love, go for what you want. IMO ladies hardly abandon their husbands when things are tough (there are exceptions though), most are hardworking, Most are God fearing, they are the most beautiful, they HARDLY marry and remarry or engage in extramarital affairs, they are sociable, they are ambitious and so on.
NOTE: In every 12 Apostles, there must be a Judas so, pray and understudy your prospective wife.
Expensive traditional marriage can be when you spend 600,000 Naira to 1 Million Naira or more TO FULFILL ALL the REQUIREMENTS IN THE MARRIAGE LIST (decoration, band, DJ, Aso Ebi and other things in a traditional marriage event not inclusive)
While an affordable marriage is when you spend 50,000 Naira to 300,000 or less to FULFILL ALL THE REQUIREMENTS in the MARRIAGE LIST (DJ, Aso Ebi, food, etc not inclusive)
If there are areas that I didn't cover, please add.
It's Orsu LGA not Orlu.
All the places you listed under Orlu LGA are all Orsu LGA.
Nwangele marriage rites na die. They will cut your throat. My uncle married from there.
Money2000: Hello NLers... Sometimes ago, I was in dilemma to leave my loyal and faithful girlfriend... Guess what? I finally caught her cheating. She was double dating for 3 months (dating myself and one other guy).
I have dated this babe for 4 years, until I caught her cheating. I was so angry that I ended the relationship. I am in a new relationship anyway, but I can’t seem to find the friendship I had with my ex.
I sometimes feel I go extra miles to impress this new girl (not like she bills me, but I caught her one time receiving money gift from a guy, whom she claims that they are just friends, and that she would stop talking to him) although she appreciates every little thing I do. She has also been supportive.
My ex apologized and beg me to reconcile things with her, but I thought I love this new babe more than her... so I told her to move on. After like 2 months, she has finally moved on oh.
The problem now is that, I am beginning to miss my ex so much, the friendship we had, the mind blowing s*x and some other experience we had together, how we have helped each other grow in life financially (my ex was with me when I was broke and had nothing) P.S: my new gf is kind of boring in bed, her pre-intimacy game and s*x is nothing compared to my ex (I prefer my ex)...
These days, any small thing, I am dreaming of my ex, seeing her in my dream, which makes me very happy... but when I wake up to reality, I become sad because it’s just a dream.
I have taken this my new gf to family, and I’ve also met her family too...
Now, I am in a dilemma if to go beg my ex for reconciliation because I miss her so much... I think I have actually not moved on...
22brains: There's this girl am dating, she's beautiful and has everything a man wants in a woman.
But The problem is "she had a child outside wedlock" and hardly go about without carrying The baby(5yrs old). This makes me feel embarrassed among my peers, knowing am not the legitimate father.
She always gets upset whenever I try to know about the father of her child. All she has told me of him is they broke up.
She also pressures me to marry her that she is tired staying with her mom.
She's 20yrs while am 26. Should I succumb or Jakpa? Please help a brother with some advice.
Make sure you watch the below video, later you thank me with a bottle of Moet.
Skepticus: At the bolded, a girl/woman can be truly "in love" with you, though it is extremely rare to find such but when you do, count yourself extremely lucky. Here, my definition of finding a girl who is truly "in love" is not the nigerian man's "definition" of a woman that is truly in love with him. Most of them (Nigerian guys/boys/men) know NOTHING about females' truest attraction nor leadership in relationship. I'll get to that later.
At the bolded, I saw the whole discussions and drama that happened in relation to the paternity fraud trend on Social Media. What i found very worrying, that escaped the attention of most people on the issue of paternity fraud is that NIGERIA as country was mentioned (the only country in Africa) in ALMOST every documented research done on the issue of paternity fraud worldwide. The ones done in Nigeria put it between 50 - 75 percent of women giving birth to babies who are fathered by men who have no genetic connection to these babies. I saw one TEDx talk research putting it at a conservative 30 percent.
The disturbing point of these researches proves that a high number of Nigerian men (poor, middle-class, rich, old, middle-aged, and young) are mostly SIMPs who are also highly ignorant of the nature of women, and that Nigerian women (from the south to the so-called "prudish" north) are highly promiscuous or a terrible combination of both.
If you are a Nigerian man in the "business of promiscuity" whether as a gigolo, pim.p. player, religious leader (some religious leaders like pastors, imams, and those in secular leadership positions like CEOs use it to great advantages in getting women attracted to them) or just an average "fuûck boy", you'll slay a lot of pûssies (single, about-to-be-married, married, pregnant, divorced etc) easily because of the ignorance of the average Nigerian guy on what women do or are capable of doing.
I remember sharing the link of a Nigerian guy who revealed his escapades with so-called "decent" married women earlier on this thread. There have been many threads on front page of Pastors, Imams, Native doctors sleeping with women of all status and background without the knowledge of their boyfriends, fiances and husbands. I have had some personal experiences in this "promiscuity" too, and like most men who have been in my shoes, they stay off marriage because they see the nonsense that modern women are made of. I don't trust a woman telling me "Good morning ". I'll go outside to confirm of it is truly morning time. Like someone said earlier on this thread, most of those Saturday Marriages are just men saving hoes.
Ubunja in his miseducations and miseducashins, has revealed some of these, but the "moral" posturing (which includes some red-pillers) and blue-pill conditioning of nigerian men is so strong that the underlying message of these miseducations and miseducashins fly over their heads.
Nuttella: *YAWN* go and find something else doing with your time. I rather die than be an atheist, if serving God is mumu to you, then my mumu will never do till I quench, tell that to the demon speaking through you, for you do not know what you are doing.
Lol, I ain't an atheist. I just stated the obvious. Statistics are there, go dig em out.
"If God is to fix everything for us, he wouldn't have given us brian."
I still remain a follower of Yeshua, the son of Elohim.
Lets do the maths. If about 51% of the population are living in extreme poverty, that's about 105M people. Now we currently have 90M poor people making it total of 195M. Mind you, Nigeria population is about 205M. 205M - 195M = 10M.
So we currently have about 10M people who fall under both middle and upper class category.
So all this religious bullshit. See eeh, if I hear that tithe, first fruit and sowing of okra seed works, I will tear you hot slap wey go generate 2HP.
So with all our religious activities, the nation keep sinking into poverty.
You're poor because you elected idiots in power. You're not poor because you're not worship or serving God enough.
You're poor because the people you voted in are looting away your future. Nigeria poverty rate got absolutely nothing to do with serving God. It is man made and it's left for you to hold your leaders accountable. Stop allowing religious leaders to fool you.
Last bullet: If you're making or earning less than 300,000 NGN per month in Nigeria of today, you're poor. Maybe you check your dictionary or the web who a middle class truly is.
yinkus6750: With what we facing right now, we seriously need God, more than ever before. Fasting and prayers is the only way out. Let somebody shout Halleluyaaaaaa
Keep dreaming.
Since 1960
If you believe that fasting and prayer will fix Nigeria, then you don't have the truth in you.
Righteousness2: Not Suprised one bit! Nothing comes as a Suprise in these End times.. Inquity will abound Scriptures Must be Fulfilled..
Genesis 25:5-6 5 Abraham left everything he owned to Isaac. 6 But while he was still living, he gave gifts to the sons of his concubines and sent them away from his son Isaac to the land of the east.
amazing101x: I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.
Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.
Please i need your advise.
If you must marry more than one, NEVER marry two, marry 3 and above.
Don't say I didn't warn you.
Whisper: Two can gang up against you but three won't, meaning there will be a saboteur among them.
BabaIbo: I am a young man in my thirties and she should be in the same range(I didn't ask her about her age because I don't really lay emphasis on age). We are from neighbouring towns.
As my heading reads, recently I met a lady online and we have been communicating well and I noticed she ticked most of the boxes of what I want in a woman.
Prior to now, I told myself I will stay away from anything woman because I just started a business last year and I want it to grow and balance before thinking of any thing women or marriage.
Recently, I noticed I am developing strong feelings for her, strong enough to lead to the alter.
Now the problem is, she is a single mother of two, we don't stay in the same city and the father of those kids seems to live in a neighbouring city to where she lives(although to a good extent the father of those kids is not a problem).
My question is what will you advice me to do in this situation? *Go on and start a relationship with her. *Keep her as a friend, although she may get hooked by another man along the line.
Anybody here who have been in similar situation, should help share their experiences too.
Note: She has never been married. She is working and comfortable, money a problem is not a problem, i.e no unnecessary billing associated with some relationships.
Make sure you watch the below video, later you thank me with a bottle of Moet.
thebosstrevor1: Paternity fraud is low in Nigeria. It almost 0.99%
Most of the people shouting dna test cant even afford one loaf of bread talkless of a dna test.
Truth, the dna discussion has started, some will fall for the trap and add their dna samples to dna bank database while some dna test companies will make cash even when they know that majority test will come out negative
At the end of the day, the noise will not solve anything and the trend will reduce.
People will continue cheating as they like
Nigeria rank 2nd after Jamaica in paternity fraud.
shantti: i duff my cap for all dis nigerian men doing court marriages before doing traditional amd white weddings, una dey try, a woman cannot make me do such
If you want to travel abroad with your family, how will you do it without cert from the government?
A separate source has said that Kanye has become increasingly irritated by the Kardashian family's lifestyle and uncomfortable with where it was all heading.
The source said: "Is completely over the entire family … He wants nothing to do with them."
Kanye has also reportedly labelled Keeping Up With The Kardashians as "unbearable" and is looking to distance himself from them.
Is he just discovering that he married into an olosho family?
It would seem that the main sticking point in the divorce settlement talks is Kim wanting Kanye to hand over their Calalbasas home in California.
They paid $40 million for the property and then a further $20 million renovating it to how they wanted it, with a minimalist pure white design which has been described as "an oasis of purity and light.”
The source said: “Kim is trying to get Kanye to turn over the Calabasas house to her, because that’s where the kids are based and growing up. That is their home.”
Marriage has been a cashout for women. Kanye will learn the hard way. When he's done paying, he will take the red pill and preach the message to all corners of the world.
Oracleforce: I doubt if you can differentiate between heresy and truth teachings....because you are spiritually porous and empty... Common Islamic student/Teacher will sweep you off your feet in a Bible debate competition...
"Sex gets women emotional, and sex before the right time (Premature Sex) gets women emotional BEFORE THE RIGHT TIME. And when a woman gets emotional before the right time, she'll be scoring own goals till infinity." - Ubunja
"Premature Sex is how women get stuck in relationships with broke men, abusive men and unproductive men." - Ubunja
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