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Good Morning Admin,

Thank you for sharing my story on your blog yesterday. I actually took some of the advice I got and I had a discussion with my dad yesterday. I called him and told him to meet me at my place last night. He came around 9pm. I told him I had decided to tell Mom about his infidelity with Aunty Nancy and that I wanted him to have the opportunity to do it himself or I will.

My dad got very angry and started shouting at me. He said I dont know how much he has sacrificed for my mom and us. That he was not the one with fertility issues. That my mom had lived a bad life before marriage. Had so many abortions and in marriage had problems with her womb so she couldnt get pregnant. That he didnt judge her but she deprived him of having his own biological children. He said he didnt plan to sleep with Aunty Nancy but at the time,my mom was more focused on her career than him and he was very lonely.

According to him,he has placed everybody's happiness first before his for many years and that he will not do that anymore. He said if I went ahead to tell mom,he would disinherit me and that there is no way he would let me marry Maya because he raised me as his son and even though I am adopted,he cannot see two siblings marry. We had a very heated argument. I told him to hell with his inheritance

https://livelystones.com.ng/remy-fathers-lies-betrayal-nathan-responds-contd-from-yesterday/

liquidlove2018:
Hello Friends , how do you feel when you discover that the one who raised you as responsible father betrays you or you caught him doing something you never expected??

Maya is the daughter of our Cook,Aunty Nancy. She is almost twenty years old and both of us have been dating for about one year but we have kept the relationship secret for almost one year. When we started dating,Maya told her mother but the mother told her to break the relationship cos she didnt want to loose her job as a cook with my family.

Aunty Nancy has been working as our family cook for more than 20 years. She got pregnant and had a baby when she was our house girl at the time. She was just a teenager. It was rumored that Security man around our neighborhood had gotten her pregnant and refused to acknowledge the pregnancy. My parents helped her and she had a baby girl. I and my sister was just six and three years old at the time. So when her baby was born,Maya was like our baby sister.

When Maya left for Secondary school in boarding school,I was in the UK for my university studies. I returned five years later to meet a fully grown Maya,who was in her final year in University. I fell in love with her. I didnt think anything was wrong with us being together because we are not related by blood. Myself and my sister are adopted children of our parents. But Maya’s mom didnt want the relationship hence we had to keep it secret. I didnt want her to loose her job or respect with my family although I didnt see how that was possible but you know,Africans and superstitions are two peas in a pod. That didnt stop us,we were was hoping that one day we would be able to convince our parents to allow us be together. Maya has been the love of my life and very soon,I intend to let everyone know that.

Three months ago,I had returned home from the office one Saturday evening. I had just moved into my apartment for like six months but I was home sick for home made food. So I drove down to my parents place hoping to get some delicious home cooking. The house looked empty when I came in. The security told me my mom was not home but my dad was. I got into our house and went straight upstairs to greet my dad and there I ran into my dad banging ma.....

http://livelystones.com.ng/my-fathers-lies-betrayal-keeping-me-from-true-love/

My name is Dina. I work with a Multinational in Lagos. When we had an interview for a Senior Manager a year ago, I was. stunned when a young man walked into the interview. As COO,I was part of the interview panel and all I could do was mope at how handsome this candidate called Goke was. When it was time to make the decision,I practically shut down all other options,Goke was my pick and that was it.

Ever since Goke resumed with us,I have been goggling around him. Like he is so handsome it hurts. I quickly got to know him,be friendly with him. I was COO,single but I found out that Goke was five years younger than me with a wife and kid. But I couldn't help how I was always feeling around him. I am a goal-getter,I invited him for lunch two weeks later and told him I liked him. I told him I wanted us to be friends with benefits no strings attached. I was just too attracted and it was making me loose control anytime he was around.

Goke was flattered,asked me to give him time to think about it. He came back to me next day saying it was OK as long as I took care of him in return. That meant,I would gift him financially. I was game!...Goke is literally a Greek god in looks and in bed. I feel so jealous of his wife to the extent that I now ......

https://livelystones.com.ng/helplessly-in-love-with-a-married-man-who-is-my-subordinate/

You can get the rest by revelation or vision. Looool

QueenSuccubus:



I don't know what happened next unless i have to click the link abi?

Dear Admin,

Most people would have easily ask me to divorce my wife of eight years after reading my story but my parents raised us up against the idea that divorce is the way out. My parents have been married for almost 40 years and they have become like a reference point for us,their children and many other married couples in our community.

Before I got married,I was involved with a girl (Joyce) from my town,in Oyo. We dated for two years and the sex was amazing with her. But we didnt end up getting married because,one my parents would not have approved. This lady was a little the free type,not exactly wife material. Secondly,she cheated on me and I was hurt. My parents always encouraged us to go for a God fearing lady for marriage and so,I met Damilola from our church choir and we dated for eight months without intimacy before getting married.

Damilola my wife is the typical church raised girl. She was raised in very strict home. I was her first and she never knew anything about ...


http://livelystones.com.ng/how-i-am-stuck-in-my-sexless-marriage-with-no-chance-of-escape/

The story teller is confused. He married a Church girl who is inexperienced in sex. Who also feels that sex is only for procreation. Now he is not enjoying the marriage . What should he do ?

O

Topestbilly:
Op what's your point exactly.

Dear Admin,

Most people would have easily ask me to divorce my wife of eight years after reading my story but my parents raised us up against the idea that divorce is the way out. My parents have been married for almost 40 years and they have become like a reference point for us,their children and many other married couples in our community.

Before I got married,I was involved with a girl (Joyce) from my town,in Oyo. We dated for two years and the sex was amazing with her. But we didnt end up getting married because,one my parents would not have approved. This lady was a little the free type,not exactly wife material. Secondly,she cheated on me and I was hurt. My parents always encouraged us to go for a God fearing lady for marriage and so,I met Damilola from our church choir and we dated for eight months without intimacy before getting married.

Damilola my wife is the typical church raised girl. She was raised in very strict home. I was her first and she never knew anything about ...



http://livelystones.com.ng/how-i-am-stuck-in-my-sexless-marriage-with-no-chance-of-escape/

Nah em be say ,no body go marry again ohhh.

Straight to the convent to become priest.

Loooool.

FVCKWOMEN:
Quite true but the likelihood of meeting the wrong woman nowadays is almost 98% not with all the rubbish ladies we have parading about

Like someone rightly said

Plan your part well.

Be a wife to him in all ramification.

Trust God for him.

080jbabe:
Dear Lively Stones,

I am an ardent reader of your blog and I must say you are doing great job. Kudos to you.

I have been following the recent posts on men cheating with their PAs and so on and so forth. I am now beginning to think that I should be really worried about my husband. You see,my husband is a Doctor and we have been married for almost a year. Whilst I know that it is his job to save lives and attend to people all the time,I am also worried about the hazards of his job. It would appear that women are always calling him for one thing or the other concerning their health.

It does not even help matters that he is a gynecologist. I mean, he attends to women are pregnant,trying to be pregnant. some call him at odd hours asking silly questions. I know my husband is a kind man. He even jokes about some of the questions his patients ask him. Questions like: how can I achieve orgasm. Like seriously. And my husband is a handsome man too. I know I am not just being paranoid because my hubby though he is honest tells me not to read his text messages because I might see messages that will give me cause for suspicion.

Hmm,one time,I actually did see a message from a patient claiming that she wants him so bad. I replied the message saying.....


http://livelystones.com.ng/protect-husband-preying-hawks/

My dear lady.

Hmmmmm!!!

Very dicey.

You need to apply wisdom.

Lock your door anytime you are with your husband.

ORAGBON:
Jzhane 28/12/2017 Marriage No Comments

Dear Admin,

Please i need your help. Am newly married to a guy i love so much.Our marriage is less than one year.
My husband loves his family but has a lot of respect for his elder brother. In-shut the way he talks about and carry this his matter was a major concern when we were courting. Its as though his elder brother is everything. I thought that was no big deal. So, i didn’t have to worry so much, believing everything will fall into their right places once we get married. But, it like am in a dream world now, as things keep deteriorating right in my eyes.
The major one now that is making me cry out for help, which i cannot no longer tolerate is my husband elder brother’s first visit. He has spent just two days with us, but is fond of always dashing into our matrimonial bed room without knocking, whenever he has just anything to say or ask his brother, not caring if we are naked or even making love. He has done this three times now. I held myself out of respect for my husband the first two times he did it. But on the third time i had to raise my voice after he left the bedroom, so that he could hear me saying that this is our bedroom for God sake and i demand some privacy....Read More

http://livelystones.com.ng/handle-husband-elder-brother-excesses/

Ladies are saying ,fear guys . Guys are saying fear woman.

Who do we fear now ?

Some women get mind shaaaaa.

ORAGBON:
Angela was the love of my life. I met her about 11 years ago,she had just gotten admission to study pharmacy in the University of Nigeria. She came to our compound to tell her friend, a neighbor’s daughter Ifeoma, that she had just gotten admission to study in the higher institution. At that time,I just finished my youth service and just gotten a job with one of the banks.

Angela had come to see her friend Ifeoma that Saturday morning. I sighted her as she struggled to open our gate. I came downstairs to assist her. I asked her who she came to see. After that, Angela and I became friends.

It was not hard to actually fall in love with her. She was a smart,funny and very beautiful girl. In the middle of her first year at school,Angela’s father lost his job as a Security man and it became very difficult to cater for their family,talk less of taking care of Angela’s educational expenses.

At the time,I was very sure I was in love with Angela. I immediately began to take up her educational responsibilities. I assured her parents that they did not have to worry ,I was willing to do all I could to see this beautiful girl through school.

To cut the long story short, five years later,Angela graduated from the university with excellent results. I paid all her school fees,accommodation,clothing,etc throughout her stay in school. Her family and herself were very grateful to me. My family already knew Angela and her family as well. My family referred to her as our wife.

After youth service, Angela came back to Port Harcourt and we started actively looking for a job for her. I had spoken to a few friends who promised to assist.

One Thursday afternoon,I got a phone call from a friend of mine in a big pharmaceutical company that they had an opening for Angela to come and occupy. I was ecstatic. I delayed the news until I got home. I made up my mind to tell Angela on Saturday about her new job as well as propose to her formerly asking her to marry me. All these years,I had made my intentions known to Angela. She kept saying she couldn’t wait to be called Mrs Ude (not my real name please).

Saturday came,I called a few of my friends and planned a surprise engagement for Angela that Saturday in a very posh hotel. I drove to Angela’s house to pick her up for the surprise.

On getting to Angela’s house,there were several cars parked outside the compound,it was obvious that there was a party going on in the compound. As I entered the compound,one of Angela’s relative who knew me cornered me and took me outside. I asked him what was going,I asked him if somebody died or what. He told me that the family was having an engagement party for Angela!

At that point,I thought it was April fool’s day kind of prank. I told him I wanted to see Angela. He advised me not to,to avoid embarrassment. I insisted and went back to the house. Inside their sitting room,I saw Angela dressed up in traditional attire,sitting down on the lap of a young man. When I was sure she had seen me,I turned back and left the compound.

Angela called me later that evening to say that she was sorry but that she had met someone who she decided to marry and go to live with in Germany. I was devastated. I asked her why she did this to me and she had the guts to say thank you for all you did,I will try and repay you for your kindness.

As days went by,information reached me that Angela had been seeing the young man she got engaged to from youth service. They had dated and everyone knew that except me. The young man was going to study in Germany and wanted to engage Angela before leaving. The young man has bought a car for Angela’s father and mother.

All these happened four years ago. I was a very broken man after what Angela did but eventually,I started to pick up the pieces of my life to move forward.

Last week,I received a very long email from Angela. She was asking me to forgive her that she had finally realized that she was very wicked to me after all I had done for her. She said that she found out that the man she got engaged to was a ritualist who charmed her and perhaps wanted to use her for rituals. I was really surprised to hear from her as I thought she had long gotten married to this fellow.

When I inquired,I was told that after the engagement,the fellow left for Germany with the promise that he would send for Angela later on. Four years went by and the man never came back for her. It was discovered from a lady’s facebook pictures that that the man had gotten married to a white lady in Germany and had moved from Germany to America.

My story sounds very unreal,like could this have happened to someone like me in this generation. But sadly it did. People,especially ladies are very greedy. Even after four years,I find it very hard to trust ladies.

Angela’s mom came to my family’s house I was told yesterday to beg. She kept crying and saying that her daughter was charmed. Somehow,I think my mother believes the story a little. She called me this morning to pray about it and consider. She said that God had revealed to her that Angela was my wife. That was why the plan with the other man didn’t work.

Seriously mum?…I cant believe this,can anyone believe the story by Angela and her family that they were all charmed?

Whats your take on this please?



Anonymous,

From Port Harcourt


Source: http://livelystones.com.ng/after-four-years-and-betrayalshe-wants-to-come-back/

True talk.

Most ladies hardly get over their ex ,especially if the guy was such a nice and do give it to them in the oza room. They hardly forget.

Jman06:
Some ladies even hide it such that the guy would not notice. Or for some ladies they might even think that they have gotten over the ex, but once her ex shows any slightest interest she would fall for him.

Hello Lively Stones,

I have a question for your platform readers. I know persons here would say fabricated stories but wait until it happens to you or someone close to you.

The question is: why is that once a man has got no money,their women dont love them anymore? ( not all women but MOST women)

This is the reason I ask the question:

Azubuike and I went to school together. He is a very intelligent,smart and hard working guy. It was no surprise that after school,he got a job at one of our country’s top manufacturing company. Azu grew in less than two years to management level in the company. He married his school sweetheart,Uche. Uche,a pretty lady was the apple of my friend’s eyes. Uche could do no wrong in Azu’s eyes. He would do anything for her. He would go any length,but her anything could buy. That was Azu. He was kind to everyone,very generous in giving to anyone who came to him for help. He rented a twin duplex in magodo and filled the house with such warmth and generosity.

About five years later,Azu was fired from his job. Someone actually framed him for fraud. Yes,he trusted too much as well. Being fired from work made Azu resort to an import and export business with the last N21million naira he had saved up from his job. Unfortunately,his imported good got seized by pirates on the high sea.

Azu became devastated. He didnt have any more money and thing became difficult for him and his family. They had to move into a smaller apartment in Ikorodu. Azu got about N40k and gave it to his wife,Uche to begin a business of selling second hand clothes. Azu also took up a job as a taxi driver with his car. Life was pretty difficult.

Azu was determined to work hard and get back on his feet no matter what it took.no matter the pain or disappointment. What he didn’t bargain for however was that his beloved wife whom he did everything for would turn against him.

It started with the wife whom he did everything for .......... http://livelystones.com.ng/man-contemplates-suicide-as-wife-treats-him-with-so-much-contempt/

Dear Brother, No one is discouraging you.

Its not talking about virgin generally .

Its about village ladies or what we ,may call, unexposed girls that are virgin.

Jman06:
All these false stories to discourage men from marrying virgin girls eh. mtcheeew

Well, Its true word actually.

Most ladies will do fall for their Ex.

Jman06:
Unless that lady never had any strong emotional attachment to the ex in the first place. If she did eh, bro forget it. That guy would always have access to her vjay anytime he wants it. Most ladies have zero reasoning when it comes to matters of the heart, and in this society where immorality is the order of the day, they won't even give a thought to the fact that they are married. All it will take for her to fall is just for the guy to show up and reignite that old passion.

Don't mind them.

Instead if them to appreciate something good ,they are saying rubbish.

Do they know what it cost to run a school talk more a faculty where you will pay lecturers.

After all the lecturers are not teaching for free. They earn salary ,definitely the lecturers have people benefiting from them.

Ppl will just be saying sheets bcoz they have data.

Slurity:
Do you just said Agricultural courses are useless? As an Animal scientists my monthly pay can is 6 digits and I can't remember any of my classmate that is jobless. Wake up and take your drugs

With or without you ,they will still be what they want to be.

Keep your 5kobo to yourself . People that give millions don't complain .

iamJ:
lol see style


allowing a useless course to be taught freely , at least freeze attacks is getting to them, for him to be worried and be making changes tells us everything we need to know, no pastor go see my 5kobo, i will enter ur church, dance and walk one kobo i wouldnt pay

A celibate for many years can be called a virgin now ?

Beke2020:
pls explain. am interested

No married lady should have any intimacy with an ex. An ex is past tense.

Highest you can do with an is to say Hy , Hello ,Finish!!

Anything aside that ,will be trobke.

Jman06:
I tell you. That issue of married ladies still hanging to their exes is the cause of most cases of marital infidelity among women.
That is why it is still better to marry a virgin.

Dear Admin,

I am a young man of thirty two. I deliberately searched for a wife to marry from my village because I fear women from the city here. So when I was ready a year ago,I sent my parents to help me find a wife.

Uru my wife just finished her NCE and everybody know here in the village as a very good and quiet, I was very happy when my parents chose her for me. Even when I was courting her (we courted for like 2 months before our wedding),she used to be very shy and reserved and I was impressed by how homely and godly she was.

Our wedding came and I was very much satisfied when I found out on our wedding night that Uru was a virgin. Because of this,I didnt fear or have any cause to fear or suspect my wife. She moved to join me here in the city but what I am seeing after the marriage is......


http://livelystones.com.ng/my-wife-pretended-to-be-innocent-but-i-am-scared-of-what-she-will-do/

Dear Admin,

I am a 39 year old woman. I got married at the age of 25.My husband of twelve years died three years ago after a very difficult marriage. My marriage was a difficult one cos my husband was abusive,physically and emotionally. I was very unhappy for most of my marriage. I stayed because of my children. My husband died of cancer three years ago.

After his death,men started coming for me. I was still looking very young and attractive. I started to date again after two years of mourning. But the problem I have now is,I dont want to remarry again. I am a christian and I am not sure its okay to be having sex with someone you are not married to.

I met this man in church a few months ago,he is fine,handsome and well to do. He treats me and my kids very well. We have been dating for about six months and he wants to marry me but I dont want to marry anymore. I feel I have been married long enough for a lifetime. But Gbenga wouldnt want to be with me if we were not married. Its not like I am a virgin. Why cant I be with a man without getting married? Is this such a sin that will make someone not go to heaven?

Being married for 12 years was very painful for me and I have decided that marriage is not for me. No matter how nice a man is,he may want to control you and as a wife you must submit. I feel I cannot do that anymore. I have tried . My people think I am crazy,the church thinks ..

http://livelystones.com.ng/single-widowed-i-have-needs-but-marriage-is-not-the-answer/

Greetings to our dear beloved Naira land members,

If you dont get to hear or see what people are going through ,you wont get to understand the extent of heart break people go through. Imagine waiting for a man who put you in a family way and end up being dumped. I do not support men planning to travel to a new place to just leave their newly married wife at home.

Dear Lively Stones ,

I got married traditionally four years ago to Abdul. As soon as we got married,he went to South Africa where his business is. I discovered I was pregnant a month later. At the time,I had to go and live with his parents in Ilorin. Living with inlaws is very difficult,they almost want to run your life.

Abdul kept telling me that he was working on our visa for me and my daughter to come join him but a whole year past and there was nothing. I was really lonely and frustrated. After my daughter clocked one year.Abdul stopped calling home. His parents and I were worried and wondered what had happened.

Rumors began to come in that Abdul was arrested and jailed in South Africa for doing drugs. We couldnt confirm that but we also didnt know how to reach him. At that point,even feeding was becoming tough for us as Abdul wasnt sending in money as before. So I told my inlaws that I needed a job. A friend of mine in Lagos asked me to come so she can get a job for me. So I left my daughter with my inlaws and moved to Lagos.

I got to Lagos two years ago. There was no job. I just had OND,even that couldn't find me a job. I didnt know Lagos was that difficult. But I was determined. I worked as sales girls for about seven months before things picked up. I got an office assistant job later on. Being alone in this city is not easy. I get alot of passes from men but I made up my mind to honor my marriage.

About this time,the rumors that were making rounds was that Abdul was now free from prison but married to a white south African woman. That broke me.My parents were also worried that I was wasting my life. When Kunle,a young man I met from work started coming for me,I kept resisting but not

http://livelystones.com.ng/i-waited-for-him-for-four-years-but-he-took-my-daughter-away/

Greetings to our dear beloved Naira land members,

If you dont get to hear or see what people are going through ,you wont get to understand the extent of heart break people go through. Imagine waiting for a man who put you in a family way and end up being dumped. I do not support men planning to travel to a new place to just leave their newly married wife at home.

Dear Lively Stones ,

I got married traditionally four years ago to Abdul. As soon as we got married,he went to South Africa where his business is. I discovered I was pregnant a month later. At the time,I had to go and live with his parents in Ilorin. Living with inlaws is very difficult,they almost want to run your life.

Abdul kept telling me that he was working on our visa for me and my daughter to come join him but a whole year past and there was nothing. I was really lonely and frustrated. After my daughter clocked one year.Abdul stopped calling home. His parents and I were worried and wondered what had happened.

Rumors began to come in that Abdul was arrested and jailed in South Africa for doing drugs. We couldnt confirm that but we also didnt know how to reach him. At that point,even feeding was becoming tough for us as Abdul wasnt sending in money as before. So I told my inlaws that I needed a job. A friend of mine in Lagos asked me to come so she can get a job for me. So I left my daughter with my inlaws and moved to Lagos.

I got to Lagos two years ago. There was no job. I just had OND,even that couldn't find me a job. I didnt know Lagos was that difficult. But I was determined. I worked as sales girls for about seven months before things picked up. I got an office assistant job later on. Being alone in this city is not easy. I get alot of passes from men but I made up my mind to honor my marriage.

About this time,the rumors that were making rounds was that Abdul was now free from prison but married to a white south African woman. That broke me.My parents were also worried that I was wasting my life. When Kunle,a young man I met from work started coming for me,I kept resisting but not

http://livelystones.com.ng/i-waited-for-him-for-four-years-but-he-took-my-daughter-away/

Please Ma,

How do you mean by your statement " The only way to get rid of temptation is to yield to it"

MissRaine69:
The only way to get rid of temptation is to yield to it.

loooool.

He has to live with it .

Beke2020:
He left city for a local champion. Make im manage her

True word.

She ought to have gone the second time.

marvin906:
even if the story is a lie...is interesting
first of all the the husband is a fool for doing such a thing no matter how much you trust your spouse don't put them in a situation like this..
for the woman she's the lord of fool's..
the first time that such happened I won't blame you buh for not telling your husband and willingly slept with he's friend again make's you the lord of all fool's

There is a saying that first fool ,no be fool but nah second fool be the real fool.

Fine you fell for your husband prey , why sleeping with the man for the second time?

You ought to have told your husband.

preciousluv2018:
Dear Lively Stones ,

I've been reading different stories and people response on your blog. Actually ,there were times I never believed some stories until mine happened . One should never claim to be too smart until he/she survives some circumstances .


I have been working in the banking sector for a while now,a little over six years and its been a very tough job I must confess. The financial targets and pressure that comes with it,is not even a joke. Many times,we are pushed to do un-imaginable things in order to meet these targets. So far,these six years,I have done some things but never have I had to use sex to meet my targets.


Yes,sex. Alot of us use it here to  keep our jobs. I am not even going to get into all that. But I was determined to keep my pants on. I was ready to resign if it ever got to that point. I worked hard,I pitched hard,I did all but not drop my pants.


Early this year,when I received my target for the year,I told my husband that this might be the year that I would resign because there is no way I would bring in the kind of amount I was given as target. My husband and I prayed about it and agreed to do the right thing when the time comes.


Towards the end of January,my husband came back from work and said he ran into a former colleague of his who now works with a big oil firm. They spoke and he agreed to help me meet my targets. I met Hassan in his office days later and we started talking. He helped me set up important meetings with the big wigs of his company. It really looked like I was going to meet my target about five times more. I was so happy.The final meeting with them held and they agreed to sign with my bank. Hassan being the deputy MD said he would need a few more days to look through the documents before finally signing.


A week passed,no word from Hassan. I called him and he asked me to meet him at his hotel in VI. I went to see him and waited for almost four hours. He was in a meeting. He eventually came out and .......


http://livelystones.com.ng/my-husband-set-me-upi-fell-for-it-the-rage-is-eating-me-up/

Dear Admin,

Thank you lively stone for the opportunity to share my concern with you. Feel free to share on your blog and naira land readers. I will be viewing your blog to see the comments.

My fiancee and I have been together for five years. We started dating when she was in her 200 level in school. I was already working. I knew I was in love the first time I met her. She was my younger sister's friend from school and she had come to visit my sister during one ASUU strike. We got talking and she said she was not ready for marriage until after her schooling. I agreed and we dated all through her schooling.

She also said she wold not engage in any sex until after marriage. That really impressed me. Even when she graduated ,she insisted on no sex before marriage. It was hard for me but I liked her alot and I agreed. As a young man,I constantly had ladies flirting with me but I kept myself cos I wanted to respect my fiancee. We got engaged officially after her NYSC and started to plan for our wedding.

Just a few months to our wedding,she got a job offer in a bank in Uyo here but she was to go to Lagos for a one month training and Orientation at the bank's headquarters.

When she returned from the orientation,she came to visit me and because I was so excited and I had missed her,we started making out. Usually,when we make out which involves petting and kissing,when I am getting too far,she is the one who stops me.


http://livelystones.com.ng/my-fiancee-broke-my-heart-first-but-now-she-wont-forgive-me/

But that it's not his issue ohhh.

He is complaining that the lady has insatiable love for sex.
He cant meet up.

oPPOSEE:
lol.
You re lucky to marry tightpussy.
so shut the crap up and learn how to fu c k.



Dunce.

No mind them. There are so many good guys out there.

DeadRat:
Foolish Things Girls Do For Prick... What If The Guy Even Has A Small Prick

He already has a fiance in PH. Except he doesn't want to marry her . I think the guy is enjoying the whole thing.

Honesty007:
Go and pray that the right person to talk to u among the 2 should speak to u on a monday.whatever u sow u shall reap.God is not mocked.ur own is still better.THe 2 girls are not related.God delivered me from 3 blood sisters jostling for my attention.it became a tug of war and shame.i had to beg God for forgiveness cos i became apprehensive when all the love i showed them was misconceived. At one time i became scared to death when their level of envy,jealousy and hatred reached a peak.i began to bind and loose with fasting.i bind lust,envy and jealousy.i finaly prayed that God bring the right one to talk to me.dats how i was free.oh.

Dear Admin,

Thank you lively stone for the opportunity to share my concern with you. Feel free to share on your blog and naira land readers. I will be viewing your blog to see the comments.

My fiancee and I have been together for five years. We started dating when she was in her 200 level in school. I was already working. I knew I was in love the first time I met her. She was my younger sister's friend from school and she had come to visit my sister during one ASUU strike. We got talking and she said she was not ready for marriage until after her schooling. I agreed and we dated all through her schooling.

She also said she wold not engage in any sex until after marriage. That really impressed me. Even when she graduated ,she insisted on no sex before marriage. It was hard for me but I liked her alot and I agreed. As a young man,I constantly had ladies flirting with me but I kept myself cos I wanted to respect my fiancee. We got engaged officially after her NYSC and started to plan for our wedding.

Just a few months to our wedding,she got a job offer in a bank in Uyo here but she was to go to Lagos for a one month training and Orientation at the bank's headquarters.

When she returned from the orientation,she came to visit me and because I was so excited and I had missed her,we started making out. Usually,when we make out which involves petting and kissing,when .......


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Hmmmm. You either keep quiet and remain in marriage or tell him and face the consequences.

Beke2020:
Mike and I have been married for about five years,we have been having issues with our sex life. The issue is,I dont think I am enjoying sex as much as my husband would want me to. Maybe its stress,maybe I just dont like it. But I definitely try to please him as much as I can. But this has been making us fight quite often. He says I am frigid. I am trying but its not just enough for him.

One night,Friday night,we had just finished and he burst out saying he is sick and tired of all this. He threatened to cheat on me if I dont do anything about it. I was so angry and upset,I cried all night. Its not that I dont like sex,is just that I am not enjoying it as much with him. I prefer to cuddle ,I want pre-intimacy. My husband just wants the act and thats it. I find it hard to respond when he is like that. He says I watch too much romantic films,that all that is acting and not real. That hurt me so bad cos I feel like he does not care about my feelings. This has been our regular struggle.

The next day,I wanted to leave the house cos I had cried so much. I couldnt think of where to go to cos I didnt want anyone to know what was going on. I decided to go to the office. It was saturday,not many people will be at work. It will give me opportunity to bury my sadness in my work. So I got ready and went to work.


I got to work that day and met my boss working in his office. I greeted him and went to my desk. I worked for a while,until like noon. My boss came later to chat with me. As we chatted,he noticed I was not my usual bubbly self. He asked what happened. Before I knew it,I burst into tears and told him about my frustrated sex life with my husband. My boss is elderly,in his 50s. He was very kind and tenderly towards me. He then proceeded to give me sex education like I never heard before.

My boss,whom I respect so much taught me so much. He taught me about orgasm,pre-intimacy,we even watched a little porn together as he explained certain details to me. I was surprised he knew so much. While he explained further,he actually started to finger me......



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