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True love

Congrats. You met a decent girl and not the one you send a request to in the morning and by afternoon she's telling you of her family problems and asking of urgent 2k.
I think if we had more decent girls, many men will be encouraged to get married

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
I know what you mean about the keeping of men but in my opinions , both genders are responsible for keeping each other , if one person is slipping the other one should also reach out , but most times I only hear , news , tips , advice , etc on subjects concerned with women keeping men when it should be a unisex discussion , and because of the idea that it is the woman's fault if anything happens , if he leaves , if he cheats , no matter how successful she is in her other life , many women are trying to keep irreparable relationships , and if they can't face their men directly they start to transfer aggression on other people ( e.g sidechicks aka homewreckers)

Well, you're right, it applies to both sexes. However, I'm focused on women because women suffer the most from a broken marriage, especially in Africa.
Women seem to be less likely to move on. Moreover, many wise women have salvaged marriages where the husband was the one with the problem. Women are generally 'home builders'.

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
I personally feel like it's not possible to keep a full grown man unless he's already a kept man , that's why you have to watch out for the red flags before marriage , the signs are always there but most of us women are blind , all you're hearing is " he wants to marry me , what will our children look like , so ppl will start calling me Mrs Robinson? wow , I have done it " it's coz of how they make marriage look like a Bleep*ng crown especially in Africa , you can be useless but as far as you're married , you've made it

Marry someone who is already what you want , changing a full grown human being is almost impossible , let love not blind you into marrying dustbin

Well, people don't know why they want to get married. People should blame their spouses and not the person the partner is cheating with.
If you married a shitty person, your cross.

That lady was really bitter, blaming side chics. I'm a man by the way and I know that some women don't know how to 'keep' their man.

Mrscarter:
Hope d wife beat her cheap ass. I really dislike homewreckers. Theyre cheap dirty hoeees who dont realize theyre only wanted for their bodies and are pretty much prostitutes cos theyre giving their bodies in return for materialistic things. Youre nothing but cum collectors. Once the man screws you he dnt want you until his lust clouds his brain again. Would u prefer a man to love you or just use you for ur body then go bk to the woman he loves. All these kinda women deserve beating and to be shamed in public. If i were that woman id be ashamed cos being wanted just for ur body is no achievement in life. Youll just keep on getting used by all kindsa men who once they cum return to their family while your left on your lonesome with your material items ur pussy brought you and a dirty stretched out smelling pussy

All u homewrecking husband snatchers out there just know some day youll have a husband of your own AND most likely, your very own side chick too. hopefully one that will send herpes into your bed. And thats what you call karma.

NEVER DO INTO OTHERS WHAT U DONT LIKE DONE TO YOU!!!!

Women sit on their own whilst men chase them. Learn how to keep your man. It's more than giving him just food and sex.

You weren't smart. You could have recorded your conversations. Na so e easy to sack, especially if you're hardworking?
This is 'Chevron', not Okoro and Sons. Let's pretend we believe the story.

Beg, beg, beg. Nigeria is not the poorest country in the world.

It happens to all young kids. Hustling to make a girl happy.
Real men hustle to have a great and comfy life.

People mistake being reserved for being snobbish and arrogant. Ironically, I'm quite humble, even if I have to say it myself.

They talk too much these days. Enjoy your engagement and subsequent marriage in peace.
Always running to social media is a sign that people are battling with issues.

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Proudpolygamist:
Lame writing skills that had you hyperventing from the very first page of this thread to the 10th like a jobless slowpoke.
I don't engage people with low IQ and I won't educate you for free. Make out time to study and stop being a nuisance in public space
Now, take your puerile fingerling IQ outta here and get some education
Dullard

Stop arguing főôl. Own up, you thought a story building and a bungalow are the same thing. I just corrected you, you should be grateful for learning something new.
I don't understand this new generation of kids. People like you end up perishing with your ignorance. An aspiring writer must be willing to learn or else you'll fail and then blame it on your useless village people as usual.
Your writing skills is mediocre as it is, don't add ignorance to it. Mumu.

You don't need to cook up stories to advise people. Outright lies are a turn off.
We get it, girls should be responsible.

Proudpolygamist:
Dummy extraordinary!!! Keep exhibiting madness with your alternates in my thread

You foolishness knows no bounds. Probably just finished waec. Why not ask people to give an opinion of your lame writing skills? Óde.

Proudpolygamist:
A quick Google search would have saved you the embarrassment

Don't further make a fool of yourself son. All these are a figment of your imagination.

Proudpolygamist:
found her in her bedroom upstairs. She sat in the bed looking morose and jumped up fearfully when she saw us.
I pointed to her and told the men to escort her out of my house. Before she could say pim, one of the policeman a corporal, clamped handcuffs on her hand and told her to be cooperative as to follow them to the station. She protested very loudly and struggled to free herself, but it was too late, my mind was already made up. She ended up in tears making strong appeals to me but I kept a stony face. The policemen dragged my wife into the waiting van.

One of them came to me and asked to take her things along with her. I was shocked, because I bought everything in the house with my money. The sergeant kept his mouth shut when he saw the look on my face.
I gave him an address and asked him to drop my former wife in that address where her father lives.
Then I locked up the bungalow I bought for my 1st wife and joined my second wife in the estate.

What a story. Upstairs amd bungalow? That's how you spot liars.

No number on your profile.

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diogo23:
You're the foolish one here, please keep mouth shut

Another beggar. National association of nairaland beggars. Well done o.

Ayobiggie59:
Bros u need to change ur notion that everybody that ask for help here is lying. Im a kind that doesn't joke with my health, immediately I noticed this chest pain, I've been to a teaching hospital with little i have and that's what I summarized in this thread.

D result of my test is in one of my previous thread and how everything went was given in detail there.

What I put in this the thread is my life problem and it's something im scared of, like im really scared right now and d internet is not even helping when I typed my symptoms to check.

What you need is a solution, not a pity party. Bring result of your diagnosis and I will open the floor, not for drugs but for proper diagnosis by a consultant.
Why we're doubtful? Too many crooks have passed through here. We've heard even more pathetic sob stories.

Ayobiggie59:
Pls dont quarell cos of my issue pls.....Im going through a lot already.. I'm just scared and need help

Go and see a doctor. No sympathy here. Bring a bill and we'll go from there.

Blunttruth:
You are a dimwit. I don't engage with dimwits.

Get a job.

Blunttruth:
U are the foolish one. Go back read and comprehend. Olodo

Come out straight and beg for money instead of all this. This tactics is stale, opening multiple accounts to defend your begging. Mumu.
TBH, getting a job is much easier than all this things you're doing, not to talk of more dignifying.

Blunttruth:
Dear poster, I understand you perfectly, you have run out of money. Is there a way you can go with your test results to a doctor, either here on nairaland or if you can go to a reputable pharmacist with your result, let them prescribe something then you can come back with pictorial evidence, people will help
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You're a fool, not the OP. What stress? A man thinks he is sick and he comes online to ask for price of a drug, not the price of visiting a consultant?
You're very foolish indeed. You people will never change.

You will probably get help if you come out straight. Right now, you're just beating around the bush. Tell people you need money. The price of the drug isn't that difficult to Google.

The OP is asking for trouble.

Humans are a continuous disappointment, especially my countrymen. I have learned that the best way to help people is to dash them money. Loaning or investing in their business is usually a waste.

I have invested severally in people's businesses and then they default. Not one was able to fully honor the agreement. Loan is even worse, they never pay back and the irony is that they want to come back for more. We can even see the way they treat loan apps in this country.

The bottom line is to just give and don't expect anything back. Unfortunately, that will usually lead to just given little handouts and nothing major.

There is a time and place for everything